Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[QUOTE=BoyWonder9;7156184]We were sexting each other this afternoon she has car issues (old one died) but does not have $ for a new one and she just started a new job is borrowing a car they want back. She politely asked me if I would make her car payment $450/ month in exchange for meeting 2-3 times a month. Obviously I'm not going to commit to anything like that and politely told her I would not do that and why. . Now I wonder if she will go to the party as my date with no $ exchanged. It was fun and expensive while it lasted.[/QUOTE]Why are you even entertaining her asks?

Don't, for a second, think that this chick likes you. She clearly only wants the green.

I went back a few posts ago and saw that you took her shopping too? What in the Christ is up with that?!

[QUOTE=GlenBenton;7156370]Why are you even entertaining her asks?

Don't, for a second, think that this chick likes you. She clearly only wants the green.

I went back a few posts ago and saw that you took her shopping too? What in the Christ is up with that?![/QUOTE]Pay her the $450 after 4 meets. Period! She either goes for that or you move on and she gets nothing. Take charge my man!

[QUOTE=GlenBenton;7156365]Can you post a link?[/QUOTE]Not finding too many young black in Middletown LOL.

[QUOTE=TopGun9;7157033]Not finding too many young black in Middletown LOL.[/QUOTE]I smell bullshit.

[QUOTE=Tommy13;6936935]We fuck on a semi regular basis.

350 ppm.

Always on time and well groomed.

Not on birth control.

No Greek.

Otherwise she is generally decent in bed. Not very kinky. She's never bailed or tried anything shady with me.

I like her, but more because if I am looking for someone to hook up she is generally available and reliable, but I'm not all that into her. She is really nice though, a good person overall.[/QUOTE]Was she from the Bay Area about 32? Blonde hair blue eyes. Talking to this girl named ClassyFan wanted to see if it's the same girl she seems a bit off mentally.

[QUOTE=JHawkThe1;7157619]Was she from the Bay Area about 32? Blonde hair blue eyes. Talking to this girl named ClassyFan wanted to see if it's the same girl she seems a bit off mentally.[/QUOTE]It's always easier if you post a link but no it is not the same person. Poo.

[QUOTE=BoyWonder9;7156184]We were sexting each other this afternoon she has car issues (old one died) but does not have $ for a new one and she just started a new job is borrowing a car they want back. She politely asked me if I would make her car payment $450/ month in exchange for meeting 2-3 times a month. Obviously I'm not going to commit to anything like that and politely told her I would not do that and why. . Now I wonder if she will go to the party as my date with no $ exchanged. It was fun and expensive while it lasted.[/QUOTE]Thanks for your responses. She's OK with me not paying the car so we are still talking and going to the party.

No I am not sharing her contact info until I am done with her and she agrees.

It was right before Christmas and after we fucked I took her shopping for her kids. I think that made her feel less like a hoe and she probably wanted to establish that type of relationship. I hated going shopping won't do that again.

Good advice to set a fixed # of dates then pay on the last date.

No more $ for her until after the party then I will lay out what I want if I want. I want to fuck her once no charge before the party then whatever happens at the party. If that goes well then I will decide what our arrangement is.

[QUOTE=BoyWonder9;7158042]Thanks for your responses. She's OK with me not paying the car so we are still talking and going to the party.

No I am not sharing her contact info until I am done with her and she agrees.

It was right before Christmas and after we fucked I took her shopping for her kids. I think that made her feel less like a hoe and she probably wanted to establish that type of relationship. I hated going shopping won't do that again.

Good advice to set a fixed # of dates then pay on the last date.

No more $ for her until after the party then I will lay out what I want if I want. I want to fuck her once no charge before the party then whatever happens at the party. If that goes well then I will decide what our arrangement is.[/QUOTE]Dude. No-one asked for her contact info; we asked for a link. You posted this on the seeking arrangement / sugar forum. We all assume you met her on a website.

Sheesh.

Honestly, I feel bad for you. You're getting played and you don't even know it.

Have fun.

Anyone got info on this one? Willing to pay to hear any stories lmk.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2c2ca388-cba6-455f-ba84-0f2af1684275[/URL]

[QUOTE=GlenBenton;7158689]Dude. No-one asked for her contact info; we asked for a link. You posted this on the seeking arrangement / sugar forum. We all assume you met her on a website.

Sheesh.

Honestly, I feel bad for you. You're getting played and you don't even know it.

Have fun.[/QUOTE]I did meet her on SA but I'm not a member anymore so I can't send a link I don't remember her handle either.

I have been getting PM's asking me for her #. That's why I said that.

I'm new to SA and obviously can be a push-over and made some bad decisions with her. First was not nailing down our arrangement from the get-go. Since I have made an investment I have to get my money's worth through the party. After that then I will be in a position to discuss our future arrangement if I want that. I have other things in the works but these things take time to develop.

There was a girl I met on here awhile back and it was weird she sent nudes etc talked dirty asked for payment amount etc I agreed. She came to the hotel, I ate her out then she started sucking the D and she got thirsty for water and drank water and then said she had to go when I told her to ride it LOL. Didn't pay her nothing but fuck it.

[QUOTE=XxMarkXx;6743922]I had a few dates with her. She is amazing. Great comms, great personality, great times hanging out with her.

I am getting out of the game for a while and had to put things on hold with her. Wanted to share that she is one of the good ones there. Look her up and treat her nicely. No, can't share her info, you need to earn that from her.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4c788fb0-8161-4393-9b04-28de880ac2e5[/URL][/QUOTE]Is this member still active link isn't working.

[QUOTE=JHawkThe1;7159910]Is this member still active link isn't working.[/QUOTE]Link works, you've been blocked.

[QUOTE=JHawkThe1;7159910]Is this member still active link isn't working.[/QUOTE]Its working. She was last active a week ago.

How many of us are banging Classy Fan? Poo.