Sounds more like a Pro to me
[QUOTE=fscott; 1254297]Gentlemen,
To expand a bit on my previous post, I've done all the usual things, tin-eyed the photos, googled her cell, and other posted suggestions to see if she might be a moonlighting provider, and it has all turned up nothing. I just can't believe this HYB picked me because of my eloquence. If so, I'm going to do a lot more talking!
I wait eagerly for your weigh-ins.
Scott[/QUOTE]Of course it wouldn't take much for an astute young lady to have a "cool phone", that using a different number than her regular enterprise. Sort of like a gent having a hobby phone, but in her case it would be for her ametuer engagements. So the phone number going nowhere means nothing to me.
As advised, I would be cautious about mentioning anything of sexual nature and finance in the same sentence. And certainly not in writing. Just be cautious when you meet her, treat it like you would any other situation of just meeting a provider, and proceed with kid golves until you are satisfied that she is legit. Then pound that puss like you mean it. And of course let the rest of us know how it all goes. Cheers and multi-O's.
HYB out of the blue report
Gentlemen,
Taking into account the opinions, counsel and collective wisdom of the SDs who responded, little Scottie and I decided to go ahead and meet with the HYB, but to proceed with a greater degree of caution. The general consensus that I was dealing with a pro was incorrect, I believe, but somewhat closer to the truth than my fantasy, which was of fantastic amateur pussy just falling into my lap, so to speak.
After several more emails back and forth, including an astounding to-do list of what was awaiting me when we met (the girl is a creative writing major in college) , I asked if she would get us a room and I would reimburse her in addition to the agreed-upon sugar. This she readily did, and told me she lived with her parents, which if true, I took to be a good sign. I also asked that we meet outside of a near-by Starbucks, so I could do to her what a previous SB did to me, which was a visual drive-by. Pictures are one thing, but they can be old, manipulated, and rarely tell the entire tale.
Having satisfied myself that she was, indeed, hot and a true spinner, I parked and walked up to meet her. Scottie and I were both in a high state of excitement, and I was thinking about that to-do list with a great deal of anticipation, hoping I would make it all the way to the end without spraining something.
The mood was pretty much shattered when I got close and she opened her mouth to say Hello. I have a real thing for good teeth, and hers were a wreck. Not 'meth teeth', mind you, but seriously askew, though they were white enough. Scottie immediately ducked his head and hid, but I was less fortunate, and had to talk to for a bit until I could make my escape.
As we talked, I noticed the perfect little boobs under her tank top, a very nice, tight ass beneath her skirt, and the fact that she could not have been more than 5 feet tall. Scottie began to stir, and we both reassessed the situation. When the words 'I'm sorry, I'm just not feeling it' came out of my mouth, we were both a little surprised, as was she. She then countered with, 'Well, can I just give you a blow job? ' which seemed reasonable seeing as I had driven almost an hour to get there.
We went to the room she had booked, and after we got naked, she proceeded to give me one of the best bjs I've had in a long time. All mouth and tongue, no cheating with her hands, and total CIMWS. Her body was ultra-fine as well, and I seriously thought of abandoning my principles and pounding that wet pussy for all I was worth, but I just couldn't get past the teeth! Those of you out there who share this particular phobia with me will understand; those who don't, a little slack, please. I can't help it, but there it is.
The reason I think that she was on her way to being a pro, but not quite there yet, is that she is clearly a major pot head, and was high at 9 in the morning when we met. My guess is that she is doing this to fund her habit, among other things, and has made peace with herself by blaming the weed. Just a guess, but accurate I think.
In other news, I am currently courting two other HYBs, one of which will be mine as soon as I can clear some time. The other is hooked, but is still circling the net, not yet ready to be landed. Monday I meet up with a third baby that had been ready to be bedded, but a family emergency took her out of town. God I love this hobby!
As promised, I will post next about my interesting new twist on the SD / SB thing that has yielded surprisingly good results, but I want to thank all who weighed in on this one. I would do her again in a heart beat if it weren't for those teeth! Ugh!
Keep up the good work, gentlemen,
Scott
A new and successful twist on the SD / SB pursuit
Gentlemen,
As promised, I am sharing a surprisingly successful new approach to finding and fucking SBs that I hit upon by accident, but have used to my advantage more than once.
A few months ago I had to be out of town overnight for work. On a whim, the day before I left I contacted a number of babies in that city who had recently posted their profile or recently been on line. My text was extremely polite and apologetic, beginning with the line 'I may be way off base with this but. ' and explaining that I was an experienced SD from my home city and that I was going to be in her town overnight and wondered if she might like to have drinks. No mention of sugar, fucking, nothing like that at all, and finishing with an apology if I had offended her.
My thinking was at best I would have drinks and some laughs with a hot baby as a pleasant end to my work day, and at worst I would get no reply and end up watching porn on the tv in my room as usual. Surprisingly, I got several responses, but only one that came in on time for me to act upon. We exchanged a few emails when I arrived, and agreed to meet in the hotel bar for drinks. Again, that was all that was discussed. When this HYB arrived, she was gorgeous! Even when I had a 30' waist and all my own hair I would never have had the balls to approach someone like her. At one point when she got up to go to the bathroom the waiter who had been serving us came over and exclaimed over how hot she was and asked if I would give her his telephone number! I think he thought we were co-workers or something. Needless to say, I threw that scrap of paper right out!
After some really enjoyable conversation and some drinks, I remembered a line that Lit used once, and stood up, told her my room number, and said I'the be really honored if she would like to come up with me. She stood up immediately and there followed about 3 hours of the hottest fucking I had had up to that point.
Now if the story ended there, I'the be happy, but it continues! Two weeks later, I got an email from her, saying she was going to be in my town for her work, and wondered if we could get together for an hour or two. Shit yes! We are now in contact every two weeks, and she is game for fucking whenever and wherever we can make it happen.
Now, if the story ended here, I'the still be happy as well, but it continues! Of the three other babies who responded to my contact, but too late for me to do anything about, two have been fucked successfully so far. One, a totally hot MILF who bears an uncanny resemblance to Cheryl Crowe, but 5'2' tall, and the other a HYB who has family in my home town she can come and visit when I call her for more pussy.
I have used this stratagem again, in a different city, with identical results. An HYB to fuck at the end of the day, and several other contacts who are ready to go the next time I hit town. Now here's why I think it works: I am extremely, and I mean extremely polite and apologetic in my text, make sure to mention that I am an experienced SD, and only suggest meeting for drinks and / or dinner, nothing more. Once contacted in the positive, I do hint that if something else were to happen, I'the be ok with it, but that is the exact language I use. Nothing salacious or lewd. I truly believe that the fact that I am from out of town represents the epitome of an nsa, safe and secret situation, and for some of these girls that is a huge turn on. They know they will never see me again unless they want to. Also, I believe that meeting just for drinks from a contact on a SD / SB site puts in their heads the notion that it could lead to something more if they want, and that thought just sits in the back of their minds, growing increasingly attractive as the drinks are consumed.
I offer this to you all in the hopes that you will fine tune it to your particular situations and personalities, and that you will use it to get more pussy. I can promise you that it works. I have two more trips planned for early fall to different cities, and have babies lined up for drinks in both of them. I have actually thought of creating a second profile from another city and using the same wheeze (P. G. Wodehouse fans will recognize this term) to fish for babies in my own town. Ah, the many facets of this pursuit!
Lastly, a thanks to Spitfire for backing me up on the whole teeth thing. I don't have a hand or nail thing, but I can see what you mean, and am now a little worried that I will subconsciously add that to my list of phobias! Nando, I'the be happy to share digits with you, as I would sincerely like to know how she is as a fuck, but I am 1500 miles from you. That's a long way to go to get laid!
Keep up the good work, gentlemen.
Scott
Scott's new and successful twist on the SD / SB pursuit
This is exactly what I have been preaching. Scott put her in a position she can start down the path and withdraw at any point without fear of discovery or entanglement. He gave her a free choice where she was safe and secure. Scott's approach was non-judgmental. She was not treated as though she would turn a trick. She was so comfortable with Scott she turned a trick without thinking about it. It happened because she wanted it to happen; this was not what she had been fearing. Scott didn't, in other words, try to push on a string.
But Scott's follow-up message hinted it would be okay if something else happened. This is where he and I depart. This raised the idea she might turn a trick. Any expectation on a girl, even couched left-handed as he did, is pressure and pressure is bad. They found each other on a SD site. Scott pointed out he is an experienced SD. Scott drew a picture ("okay if something else happened") that served no purpose on the upside but carried the risk of the downside that it could backfire because she might have spent months / years getting to this point. Pressure is not good. Reality is not good.
Like the time I was sitting down with a new car salesman to sign the contract. He laid the keys by the contract and the pen. But he was smiling too much. Everything was okay until then.
Scott's clarification and mine
We're not meeting a girl at a health club. We're meeting her under P4P circumstances where we each out ourselves to the other at the get-go. The big picture is clear. The details are less clear. In this situation I have no risk-aversion. Borrowing a page from the recent political debate over the budget, I don't let the perfect get in the way of the good. I leave well enough alone. I am confident enough with the big picture that the less said about the details the better. So get together and see what happens. I prefer that to broken promises, or keeping a promise myself I regret making. Give things a chance to fall into place naturally without effort. That will find the brass ring on the Merry-Go-Round if it is there rather than chase it away because negotiating like a couple of Pennsylvania lawyers on P4P is abhorrent to a woman's nature, it endangers her self-respect and that is where I become risk-averse. I don't push on a string.
I see the above as Scott's approach with my own twist. Scott is the closest guy to me I have encountered here.
I see negotiation by the guy as the other side of the Golden Pussy Syndrome because it uses money as power over a woman or attempts to. Of course it is inherent power, but it doesn't have to be used this way. Money aka P4P is the enemy. The less said the better.
