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Thanks to Hondaguy I contacted Chele. She is new, she has boundaries, she has cell phone coverage issues. I get it. But there is a difference between issues and excuses. Chele is all excuses. This is the same shit I went through with Niki a few months back. My question is who trained who to be such a crappy provider.

Perhaps the real underlying message here is that all these girls cost you $200. Either you pay it upfront as part of the direct cost of the date, or you pay it wasted time, gas, trouble, drama, risk, skills, etc. Who ever said 'there is no such thing as a free lunch' should also have said 'there is no such thing as low cost pussy'. If you want clean sheets, someone has to paid to clean them.

The joys of the hobby are also its miseries.

And by the way, Chele I am neither your darlin nor your sweetness. And if it's not perfectly clear by now. Do not call me, do not text me, do not PM me. You have already wasted too much of my time. You are dead to me.

[QUOTE=HoBeau;2148411]Thanks to Hondaguy I contacted Chele. She is new, she has boundaries, she has cell phone coverage issues. I get it. But there is a difference between issues and excuses. Chele is all excuses. This is the same shit I went through with Niki a few months back. My question is who trained who to be such a crappy provider.

Perhaps the real underlying message here is that all these girls cost you $200. Either you pay it upfront as part of the direct cost of the date, or you pay it wasted time, gas, trouble, drama, risk, skills, etc. Who ever said 'there is no such thing as a free lunch' should also have said 'there is no such thing as low cost pussy'. If you want clean sheets, someone has to paid to clean them.

The joys of the hobby are also its miseries.

And by the way, Chele I am neither your darlin nor your sweetness. And if it's not perfectly clear by now. Do not call me, do not text me, do not PM me. You have already wasted too much of my time. You are dead to me.[/QUOTE]First it was PMs came through sideways, problems with cell phone coverage, deaths in family and family health issues, fire burned down old house, tell me what you would like in an email and no response to date, I have boundaries BUT we might be able to negotiate some extras. I know she is a favorite of some but to me she is a fucking train wreck when it comes to service and timely responses. Too many quality ladies to be messing around with that. HB your choice of Jenna was excellent Have seen her multiple times and she is a wonderful lady and a very quality provider. You can't go wrong with Jenna. Chele I would avoid like the plague. PT.

Thanks to Hondaguy for the digits, I contacted Chele yesterday. There was a delay in response due to a family visit. She replied and we set something up for today. Easy to find incall, sparse but clean. She had clean sheets and topcover on the bed. We chatted a bit about the forum while undressing. She has limits, but so does everyone else (Greek, CIM, BB). I go into every visit with an understanding of what to expect and I'm usually not disappointed. She is a pretty girl, brown hair, 5'6"-5'8", nice body. We enjoyed DFK, FIV and a great HJ finish with coconut oil which felt fantastic. She cleaned me up nicely and I would recommend and repeat.

Just a few personal comments. I don't have a dog in this fight.

If you want good phone service, pay for it, get a Verizon phone. You get what you pay for. If it is the center of your business, how can you afford to do otherwise.

If you are overloaded with responses, don't cast such a broad net. Pick a few to respond to, follow through with them, cultivate a relationship, and take care of them. They will in turn take care of you. You can't take care of everyone, trying so will just magnify the problem you have created for yourself.

You are in a service oriented business by your choice. Delivering that service is all that matters. If you cannot, it is your problem. Suck it up, fix it, and get on with life or get out of the business.

IF you want to start to improve your reputation and if you are able to follow through on your commitments, PM me. I will report fairly on your service, good, bad, or otherwise. If you are not prepared to deliver good service (within your comfort zone, what ever it is) do not contact me.

Good luck!

Just one NiceGuy.

BTW, why are you posting comments about Dayton in the St. Louis forum?

I have visited Chele and I had a great time. I experienced no drama and really heard none of the BS usually associated with the ladies. She does have a limited menu but she makes no excuses for that nor does she need to. Her rates are remarkably reasonable and I will definitely see her again. Unlike Tonbug, however, I do not care for her massage oil as I felt rather slippery for quite a while. I will supply her some massage lotion for my next visit, if she will use it. I definitely will be returning to see her. Thanks Hondaguy for the contact, she is exactly as you promised. As always.

We mostly accepet that ladies have their boundaries their right to do so. Some good suggestions have been made on here for her and if she follows them she should be fine NO ONE I know likes to be told they only do massage with a HE then start to negotiate for more possibilities. Then we read that they in fact DO MORE than they told you. Ladies need to be up front especially when they know they are dealing with identifiable posters on USASG. Too many ladies playing the upcharge let's negotiate game which no one likes and is a big turn off. I am happy for the men who got an extended menu but there are so many ladies in this it is nice to know going in what is available so one can decide whether to travel and partake or pass and continue looking. COMMUNICATION is critical whether a massage or other. I wish the lady good luck but I am too old to play guessing games about service. A matter of time and dollars. Just be honest and go from there and COMMUNICATE. PT.

I agree that it is always nice to know ahead of time what may or may not be on the menu before we seek adventure. However, it seems perfectly reasonable to me, for a sp to make that choice on an individual basis without saying so publicly. I have been told by almost every provider I've seen about guys that are nasty and / or rude that they would have never agreed to see at all, much less have intimate sexual contact with, had they known in advance. The only way for them to avoid finding themselves in an uncomfortable spot if they're turned off by the prospective client, is to advertise limits and make exceptions for those they deem worthy of extended play. Most are respectful of the clients feelings and don't wish to tell them face to face that they smell bad or they're so crass or huge or so out of shape that they can't tell that they smell or haven't cleaned their own ass for days. This is also true of guys seeking unknown sp's. The best way to find out is to rtff and check via pm, with respected members that may know, and ask if the sp has potential for additional services, beyond those posted publicly, with a YMMV qualifier. I'm no Adonis, but I am in reasonable shape, and am rarely refused extended favors beyond those publicly stated, when I arrive, if I'm clean and respectful of their ideas of limitations. I (and am certain there are many others) have been asked to please not tell anyone everything we did, and please please don't post about it. To gain trust and to be trusted, one must sometimes limit what goes through the grapevine, unless you are 100% confident with whom you're communicating with. I don't always get everything I like, but I do usually like everything I get, incuding Chele.

[QUOTE=PuntangMan;2151866]We mostly accepet that ladies have their boundaries their right to do so. Some good suggestions have been made on here for her and if she follows them she should be fine NO ONE I know likes to be told they only do massage with a HE then start to negotiate for more possibilities. Then we read that they in fact DO MORE than they told you. Ladies need to be up front especially when they know they are dealing with identifiable posters on USASG. Too many ladies playing the upcharge let's negotiate game which no one likes and is a big turn off. I am happy for the men who got an extended menu but there are so many ladies in this it is nice to know going in what is available so one can decide whether to travel and partake or pass and continue looking. COMMUNICATION is critical whether a massage or other. I wish the lady good luck but I am too old to play guessing games about service. A matter of time and dollars. Just be honest and go from there and COMMUNICATE. PT.[/QUOTE]

Met Chele last week and enjoyed the time spent with her. We seemed to click and menu seemed to open up as she became comfortable with me.

[QUOTE=PuntangMan;2151866]We mostly accepet that ladies have their boundaries their right to do so. Some good suggestions have been made on here for her and if she follows them she should be fine NO ONE I know likes to be told they only do massage with a HE then start to negotiate for more possibilities. Then we read that they in fact DO MORE than they told you. Ladies need to be up front especially when they know they are dealing with identifiable posters on USASG. Too many ladies playing the upcharge let's negotiate game which no one likes and is a big turn off. I am happy for the men who got an extended menu but there are so many ladies in this it is nice to know going in what is available so one can decide whether to travel and partake or pass and continue looking. COMMUNICATION is critical whether a massage or other. I wish the lady good luck but I am too old to play guessing games about service. A matter of time and dollars. Just be honest and go from there and COMMUNICATE. PT.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Pictraders69;2151953]I agree that it is always nice to know ahead of time what may or may not be on the menu before we seek adventure. However, it seems perfectly reasonable to me, for a sp to make that choice on an individual basis without saying so publicly. I have been told by almost every provider I've seen about guys that are nasty and / or rude that they would have never agreed to see at all, much less have intimate sexual contact with, had they known in advance. The only way for them to avoid finding themselves in an uncomfortable spot if they're turned off by the prospective client, is to advertise limits and make exceptions for those they deem worthy of extended play. Most are respectful of the clients feelings and don't wish to tell them face to face that they smell bad or they're so crass or huge or so out of shape that they can't tell that they smell or haven't cleaned their own ass for days. This is also true of guys seeking unknown sp's. The best way to find out is to rtff and check via pm, with respected members that may know, and ask if the sp has potential for additional services, beyond those posted publicly, with a YMMV qualifier. I'm no Adonis, but I am in reasonable shape, and am rarely refused extended favors beyond those publicly stated, when I arrive, if I'm clean and respectful of their ideas of limitations. I (and am certain there are many others) have been asked to please not tell anyone everything we did, and please please don't post about it. To gain trust and to be trusted, one must sometimes limit what goes through the grapevine, unless you are 100% confident with whom you're communicating with. I don't always get everything I like, but I do usually like everything I get, incuding Chele.[/QUOTE]What I have no respect or patience with are women who say I only do this then when you indicate interest start with and for more negotiations I might do this We don't like women who upsell and change the playing field If the lady doesn't like what she sees when it arrives she can say no. The man then has the choice of staying with the original menu or walking away with no donation. That's how it works for me For someone else it may be different and that is their choice. So be it.

Lots has been said already about Chele, both good and not so good. Well, I jumped on the train today and met her at her safe incall. She never said a word about the donation, not one word. We hugged and kissed a little upon meeting at the door. She was freshly showered and has a reserved shyness about her. I treated her like a lady and she responded very nicely including a really good finger in my ass with the slippery stuff on it. Man, I liked that shit. (figure of speech) She played with the balls like a child with a new toy. She jacked on me while we layed and talked getting to know each other. She has a pretty nice set of tits for your pleasure too. I have nothing bad at all to say to a nice lady who needs more honorable seniors to join her party. I found out, as in most cases, if you treat them like a gentle flower they will reciprocate in kind. If you want her digits and are a trusted member you know the drill.

It just keeps getting better with Chele. I had another great time and will repeat.

Had a great massage from Chele. Great hand skills, nice body, friendlier to the touch than most masseuse' and wanted to be sure I left happy. I will be repeating soon. Incall is on edge of town south of 35 near the VA hosp, but area was neat, quiet and seems safe. She is still looking for a few more clients, and said she may consider other regs from here, w references or vouches. At least she did with me. Stay safe.

[QUOTE=TonBug;2157175]It just keeps getting better with Chele. I had another great time and will repeat.[/QUOTE]

After an extended time away (family reasons). She's in a notel north of town and expects to have a residential incall soon. She's been advertising on CL lately, but hopes to have some word of mouth referrals. I enjoyed BBBJ, DT and CFS mish. Reasonably priced and she aims to please. Mid 30's, thick, shaved and clean. Hit me up for digits.

I visited her Wednesday afternoon and had a great time. She is smaller than her pictures with be's to see's and location is easy to get to. Her next door neighbor stood outside when I pulled up and that was a little unnerving. She is still a little nervous but nice to talk to and the massage was so good I left a tip. I think that in time more will be on the menu. Definitely will repeat. Oh, and not a smoker or on anything so that is a plus.