Sexual Addiction Reports

I am intrigued by Snake27's observations and I have some questions and comments if you don't mind. Snake is right on with the opening statement "I think we have to be careful to equate sex addiction with drug addiction. " I liken this addiction to sex more in line with an addiction to gambling or even running and sports participation. The emotional high you get from the result of sexual contact can be like winning a wager on a close game or even the adrenaline rush from completing a marathon. You just can't wait to do it again. All of this is a product of the mind with no interactivity with a substance. Placing a wager on a game while in progress and 10 - 20 minutes later the long field goal or one handed catch that covers the wager leads the mind to become euphoric over the outcome. It's much like the same feeling of euphoria maybe a few minutes to an hour or so after orgasm at the hand of a beautiful woman. It can last for days and make you want to return for more. This all happens without the need for a drug of some form to make it so.

When Snake states "there is some hope to control it, the same way you control any behavior. " and "that there are two halves (to the mind)" equating to two people or in reality two personalities that can "talk the other out of doing certain things" it hits the mark with myself. I also have arguments with myself often about what is the best course of action.

What I question is what defines a form of sex addiction? Snake has moved through the available scenarios of sexual contact in his hobbying and has been enjoying a "sugar baby". But I believe that Snakes progress from one sexual encounter to another is because he, like the gambler wagering again and again, wants or needs to return for more. It's all sex addiction no matter how it is satisfied. I am much the same way as I have to have the euphoric feeling fulfilled over and over. I can't help myself but do control the addiction to an extent because my other personality helps with that control. I am addicted to getting that feeling and I used to get it often at home so there was no need to look outside the marriage.

Things changed within the relationship but my need didn't. So I went outside the marriage eventually, became guilty after the first encounter, confessed openly, and to my surprise am allowed to continue. It sounds like, based on Snakes statement that "My family (mainly my wife) will grant me a fun budget", that he also has permission to indulge within reason. Are my summations correct? If so do any of you and your partners have an agreement in order for you to partake in this hobby? If you feel the need to not answer or comment to any of this I understand.

I have been thinking of this addiction and how it applies to me for quite a while. Does it really control me to where I can't function responsibly? I have even gone to the extent to take several online tests to see how addicted I really am. The results advise I get professional counseling for this "Problem". That prompts another question I ask myself. Why would I want to be convinced that I have a problem with something so pleasurable in my life and have somebody try to convince me that I am a bad person and have to change? I see no upside to this. I might have maybe fifteen or so years left of being able to enjoy the feelings I get from sexual satisfaction. So there you have it, I have a addiction to sex. So what? I'm not going to do anything about it but enjoy having sex anyway I can without feeling guilty about it. I admit I'm addicted to sex.

[QUOTE=USABarry;3831269]What I question is what defines a form of sex addiction? [/QUOTE]If you have a question he has the answer.

[URL]https://www.amazon.com/Out-Shadows-Understanding-Sexual-Addiction/dp/1568386214[/URL]

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I have been thinking of this addiction and how it applies to me for quite a while. Does it really control me to where I can't function responsibly? I have even gone to the extent to take several online tests to see how addicted I really am. The results advise I get professional counseling for this "Problem". That prompts another question I ask myself. Why would I want to be convinced that I have a problem with something so pleasurable in my life and have somebody try to convince me that I am a bad person and have to change? I see no upside to this. I might have maybe fifteen or so years left of being able to enjoy the feelings I get from sexual satisfaction. So there you have it, I have a addiction to sex. So what? I'm not going to do anything about it but enjoy having sex anyway I can without feeling guilty about it. I admit I'm addicted to sex.[/QUOTE]

Hey. You're a sex addict and you admit it but you think you're smarter than the disease and as long as you're not hurting anybody or yourself you're going to do it for as long as you live. You know what? You may very well do exactly that. So go do it.

What's your point in coming here? To be honest, I don't want to hear about people like you that can have their cake and eat it too. In fact I don't like people like you! It's seems not fair to me that you can do this as much and as often as you do and not suffer any consequences but I can't. So if you don't mind would you just go away and not come back to this topic. You don't want help. You just want to brag. Go brag somewhere else.

Buh-bye.

So how exactly IS a willingly, knowingly, and VOLUNTARILY engaged in BEHAVIOR, somehow a "disease"? Please explain HOW you "catch it" involuntarily! Pleaser learn to take responsibility for YOUR OWN ACTIONS! No one has a gun to your head. Not even a sex drive. It's time to grow up now!

[QUOTE=HeadFirst;3836862]Hey. You're a sex addict and you admit it but you think you're smarter than the disease and as long as you're not hurting anybody or yourself you're going to do it for as long as you live. You know what? You may very well do exactly that. So go do it.

What's your point in coming here? To be honest, I don't want to hear about people like you that can have their cake and eat it too. In fact I don't like people like you! It's seems not fair to me that you can do this as much and as often as you do and not suffer any consequences but I can't. So if you don't mind would you just go away and not come back to this topic. You don't want help. You just want to brag. Go brag somewhere else.

Buh-bye.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Atheistically;3852640]So how exactly IS a willingly, knowingly, and VOLUNTARILY engaged in BEHAVIOR, somehow a "disease"? Please explain HOW you "catch it" involuntarily! Pleaser learn to take responsibility for YOUR OWN ACTIONS! No one has a gun to your head. Not even a sex drive. It's time to grow up now![/QUOTE]The resource I offered was written by the absolute acknowledged leader in the field who holds a PHd in counselor education and has an award named after him for people doing outstanding work in the field of sexual addiction. He says it's a disease.

You on the other hand are some blowhard asshole on the internet who thinks he knows something. Instead what you do is mistake belief for opinion and opinion for fact.

I'm going with what's behind door number 1.

You on the other hand may not post in this thread anymore because you don't know what the fuck you are talking about and are just here to pick a fight.

A2.

Seriously, don't post in here again.

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I told you not to do this. You are a special kind of stupid aren't you?

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[QUOTE=RicoTheGmMan;3865785]You are so right 98% of these girls are addicts in one form or another it just is how good or bad they take care of you, nicole is a good girl at what she does, I stick with her she is my go to girl. I will be waiting for the post from W62 in the ripoff section when he gets a real bad one and there is plenty out there. Besides I take lightly with someone that has 2 posts anyway.[/QUOTE]Any of us involved in these activities are addicts as well.

After 20+ years of multi-state mongering I've decided to quit while I'm still healthy. I've busted more than a fair share of awesome nuts and had a great time doing it. I've met some great girls who have let me live out every sexual fantasy that I could imagine (At a price LOL). But I'm older now, and I realize that for me buying sex is an addiction for me just as much as drugs are the girls addiction. This game we play is dangerous but we play anyway. I don't know about the rest of you but I have a wife and kids a home and a great job making 200 K / yr. I can't tell you how many times I've been pulled over just by an officer recognizing a girl in my car as we passed or how many times I had to physically remove a violently upset that I didn't want a date girl from my car before the cops came. Most of all I have caught everything except herpes and HIV from these girls and thank god I never passed anything to my wife. The last couple of times including very recently I have caught gonorrhea from BBBJ. I had symptoms and like I always did I went and got tested anonymously thru a website I use. Only the test came back negative but the very mild symptoms persisted and I went to a urgentcare and was diagnosed. I had to take meds and take a shot and the doctor told me there is an untreatable strain going around so thank god I was cured. Who wants gonorrhea forever? Not me! But after my last infection and the fact that I see so many girls that I don't even know who infected me but I do know that I had to infect a couple of my regs and I had to tell them so they could get treatment which wasnt easy. One girl told me that she wasnt upset because "its all part of the game". And that made me think to how much I value my own life. I've thrown my dick on the crap table on many a night whether having BBFS BBBJ or CFS with a BBj finish. I think to all the times a girl told me that it was ok if I didn't use a condom. I'm a lucky mF to be walking around still healthy so I'm quitting before my luck runs out because the way these girls are moving out there i know its just a matter of time b4 i catch HIV. So good luck to you gents. Be smart and stay safe. Don't mean to be preachy just wanted to share a bit of my story.

[QUOTE=MrSwagg;3873097]After 20+ years of multi-state mongering I've decided to quit while I'm still healthy. I've busted more than a fair share of awesome nuts and had a great time doing it. I've met some great girls who have let me live out every sexual fantasy that I could imagine (At a price LOL). But I'm older now, and I realize that for me buying sex is an addiction for me just as much as drugs are the girls addiction. This game we play is dangerous but we play anyway. I don't know about the rest of you but I have a wife and kids a home and a great job making 200 K / yr. I can't tell you how many times I've been pulled over just by an officer recognizing a girl in my car as we passed or how many times I had to physically remove a violently upset that I didn't want a date girl from my car before the cops came. Most of all I have caught everything except herpes and HIV from these girls and thank god I never passed anything to my wife. The last couple of times including very recently I have caught gonorrhea from BBBJ. I had symptoms and like I always did I went and got tested anonymously thru a website I use. Only the test came back negative but the very mild symptoms persisted and I went to a urgentcare and was diagnosed. I had to take meds and take a shot and the doctor told me there is an untreatable strain going around so thank god I was cured. Who wants gonorrhea forever? Not me! But after my last infection and the fact that I see so many girls that I don't even know who infected me but I do know that I had to infect a couple of my regs and I had to tell them so they could get treatment which wasnt easy. One girl told me that she wasnt upset because "its all part of the game". And that made me think to how much I value my own life. I've thrown my dick on the crap table on many a night whether having BBFS BBBJ or CFS with a BBj finish. I think to all the times a girl told me that it was ok if I didn't use a condom. I'm a lucky mF to be walking around still healthy so I'm quitting before my luck runs out because the way these girls are moving out there i know its just a matter of time b4 i catch HIV. So good luck to you gents. Be smart and stay safe. Don't mean to be preachy just wanted to share a bit of my story.[/QUOTE]Good job, sex addiction is no joke and hope you stay strong, I am extremely careful who I play bare with but it is combination of luck and paranoia that kept me safe so far but this game is dangerous.

[QUOTE=MrSwagg;3873097]After 20+ years of multi-state mongering I've decided to quit while I'm still healthy. I've busted more than a fair share of awesome nuts and had a great time doing it. I've met some great girls who have let me live out every sexual fantasy that I could imagine (At a price LOL). But I'm older now, and I realize that for me buying sex is an addiction for me just as much as drugs are the girls addiction. This game we play is dangerous but we play anyway. I don't know about the rest of you but I have a wife and kids a home and a great job making 200 K / yr. I can't tell you how many times I've been pulled over just by an officer recognizing a girl in my car as we passed or how many times I had to physically remove a violently upset that I didn't want a date girl from my car before the cops came. Most of all I have caught everything except herpes and HIV from these girls and thank god I never passed anything to my wife. The last couple of times including very recently I have caught gonorrhea from BBBJ. I had symptoms and like I always did I went and got tested anonymously thru a website I use. Only the test came back negative but the very mild symptoms persisted and I went to a urgentcare and was diagnosed. I had to take meds and take a shot and the doctor told me there is an untreatable strain going around so thank god I was cured. Who wants gonorrhea forever? Not me! But after my last infection and the fact that I see so many girls that I don't even know who infected me but I do know that I had to infect a couple of my regs and I had to tell them so they could get treatment which wasnt easy. One girl told me that she wasnt upset because "its all part of the game". And that made me think to how much I value my own life. I've thrown my dick on the crap table on many a night whether having BBFS BBBJ or CFS with a BBj finish. I think to all the times a girl told me that it was ok if I didn't use a condom. I'm a lucky mF to be walking around still healthy so I'm quitting before my luck runs out because the way these girls are moving out there i know its just a matter of time b4 i catch HIV. So good luck to you gents. Be smart and stay safe. Don't mean to be preachy just wanted to share a bit of my story.[/QUOTE]Kudos to you Bro for taking a step in the right direction. I stopped SW business and occationally visit AMP's in passaic which are much safer and clean. Eventually will stop them as well.

[QUOTE=DudeNJ;3873270]Good job, sex addiction is no joke and hope you stay strong, I am extremely careful who I play bare with but it is combination of luck and paranoia that kept me safe so far but this game is dangerous.[/QUOTE]Its not sex addiction if you go out on your nights off looking for pussy.

About a week ago, I saw a girl I never had before, Samantha. She did a very good job for $20. She said she was out there about a year. A cute 23 year old.

[QUOTE=Sugarbandit;3885850]Its not sex addiction if you go out on your nights off looking for pussy..[/QUOTE]Um, yeah, it is if you're doing it regularly.

One of the most recognized symptoms of sexual addiction is repeatedly and regularly going out looking for, and hiring, prostitutes. So, we're *all* probably sex addicts.

[QUOTE=MrFrench;3886090]Um, yeah, it is if you're doing it regularly.

One of the most recognized symptoms of sexual addiction is repeatedly and regularly going out looking for, and hiring, prostitutes. So, we're *all* probably sex addicts.[/QUOTE]So guys that go to bars every week and get laid are sex addicts?

After I was with Samantha, I spotted Kat, a really cute one, but she wanted $30 and I now realize they all will come down to $20.

I didn't see Laura and Sandy walked by fast.

Hallo, ik ben op zoek naar vrouwen voor sex. Ik ben al lid op verschillende sites zoals [URL]https://www.gratissexafspreken.nl[/URL]. Hebben jullie nog andere tips?

I had another B'Day last week and it reminded me of the promise I made to myself a while ago to stop paying for pussy.

At the height (or is it the lowest) of this addiction I was going 5-7 X a week, every week, for years. I could so I did. Then some things changed but I also recognized that what I was doing was harmful (to me) so I decided to stop it. But I soon realized what a hold it had on me. Many visits with a psychiatrist and a psychologist didn't work and I came to the conclusion that I'd rather be spending this cash on pussy than doctors.

As with my other addictions I learned that tapering works best for me. So I've been doing that and after 2 years it's gotten me to the point of 2-4 visits / rewards a month. I've not gotten this monkey completely off my back but it seems to be working and I consider it progress.

Curbing my Appetite (For Destruction) has allowed me to consider getting into a healthy meaningful relationship again. But the other side of that coin has me fantasizing about buying an AMP. It should be a no-brainer but it's not (yet), so.