Another one bites the dust
[QUOTE=BenjaminSkully; 1382958]Encounter Halo last week 6am on the R eating some breakfast from the coney. Made a mistake parking where she chose because I am not too familiar with that area yet. Quoted 25 and she provided the cover. I figured okay use the cover she's just got to work harder. After a min she starts just giving an HJ and I request her to pull it off. She removed it then she went another 30 sec and she asked for FS upgrade which I declined. B* started complaining saying I need to help her out and its not her problem I can't get off. I told her this is the second time you screwed me over. She said "when" and I went on to describe the time before. She claimed she don't remember (of course). She then told me pull up and follow her to the house up the street where she'll take care of me. RIIIGHT! She's staying at a White house on Hollywood but she is not on my DNPU list. I know I made mistakes but I figured not being a threat and she didn't appear to be on any type of drugs things would be good. Obviously with her you MUST play by the rules provided here.
Now my question is do I need to get aggressive with these SWs if they start pulling some crap like this or what? It's only been an issue with this one. I try to not let the crap bother me bcuz I am a hothead and I am looking for drama-free encounters. I'm very chill and relaxed when conversing with them. I always provide donation upfront even tho it's recommended (rules) not to until after its complete. I tried twice holding off until after but they wouldn't budge until I donated so each time I ended up dropping them off.[/QUOTE]I have wondered the same thing when faced with bullshit in the field. Would it be better if I treated her like a prick (which I'm not, usually)? Are SW's like dogs, sensing fear and responding best to strength? Speaking for myself, I just don't want to be that guy. The small amount of pocket money I sometimes lose to this hobby is just not that big of a deal for me. I will suffer more emotional and psychological stress from taking aggressive action than I ever will from being occasionally 'played' by a desparate, homeless drug addict.
Having said that, I also want to point out that these women are PEOPLE living in unbearable situations. I am physically stronger than them (mostly because I got away from drugs years ago) , financially much more fortunate, and I get to drive away from the hood when we're done. I think I am taking quite enough advantage of this difference in our relative cirumstances, thank you. I have few illusions about my ability to really help them, but at the same time I have no need to own them. There are enough pleasant providers on the market who really will suck my cock for a few bucks that I can usually find what I'm after.