General Reports

I have a pet peeve and I want to get it off my chest. I have no problem sharing the contact info. Please do not ask me questions that the utr can answer directly. I am not going on the date with you as the 3rd wheel. Guys are asking what she does and does not do. That can be answered by the provider herself. When you find a regular ad on BP craigs directly it is no different. You have to ask direct questions. People ask me questions that have nothing to do with the providerMy best friends ask me questions and sometimes I fall into it also. Once I have the number nothing else needs to be said

Guy and Ladies, sorry I have to do this but I needed to get this off my chest!

This is a list of shit providers (and hobbyist) should maintain or do before seeing a client (or provider if it pertains to you)!

I understand that this chick is banging 20 dudes a day but don't let me know that, let me feel like you haven't seen a client in a couple hours!

When you find out how long I want to see you, put your phone on mute, it ain't like you going to have another john during our session, they can call back.

Always smell fresh (wash your kitty and mouth) just in case your next client wants to DATY or kiss your sensual lips, not a good thing to think in the back of our minds that we kissing the next dudes dick in some kinda way (listerine does wonders)!

Make it your business to look sexy or appealing to your client, don't have your hair in a wrap or rollers, put on some sexy shoes, nice tight jeans, maybe sexy underwear or what ever, set the mood boo.

Don't be rushing, do what you got to do to get him off, make us feel like you don't have any other appointments, let the next client wait a couple minutes don't push us out the door, we paid good money to have your time so respect that!

Provide good services, everything doesn't have to be GFE but unless its a quickie give your client a good time, make them want to repeat and tell there friends (that's good business for you)!

Keep your appointments, I know some dudes flake and don't show but be professional, your going to get your money regardless if its him or somebody else.

Don't advertise one thing and change if up once the client comes thru, that's bad business more like bait and switch, honor what you said you would do, you don't want your rep to be tarnished over some misunderstanding.

Last but not least, keep a tidy environment, nobody wants to come and see dirty draws or dishes, rat shit, roaches, clothes all over the floors, disregarded condoms, broken toilets, cum stains on sheets etc etc, get your shit correct, you might be a h*e but be a clean one, LOL!

We pay good money for some good ass fun and a great experience (all aren't great but we make the best of it) but we let these providers, SW's, incall / outcall girls get away with alot and complain about it, like the MTA sez "if you see something, say something" don't let your member dictate whats going to pop off, hold your ground (and your money) and let these girls know your hard earned money its worth a good deal to you!

I might have missed some points, so if you have anything to add do so cause I'm just writing off the top of my head, forgot my notes at home.

As always, Happy Hunting and Be Safe.

Blac X

[QUOTE=Blac X Dymond; 1138760]Guy and Ladies, sorry I have to do this but I needed to get this off my chest!

This is a list of shit providers (and hobbyist) should maintain or do before seeing a client (or provider if it pertains to you)!

I understand that this chick is banging 20 dudes a day but don't let me know that, let me feel like you haven't seen a client in a couple hours!

When you find out how long I want to see you, put your phone on mute, it ain't like you going to have another john during our session, they can call back.

Always smell fresh (wash your kitty and mouth) just in case your next client wants to DATY or kiss your sensual lips, not a good thing to think in the back of our minds that we kissing the next dudes dick in some kinda way (listerine does wonders)!

Make it your business to look sexy or appealing to your client, don't have your hair in a wrap or rollers, put on some sexy shoes, nice tight jeans, maybe sexy underwear or what ever, set the mood boo.

Don't be rushing, do what you got to do to get him off, make us feel like you don't have any other appointments, let the next client wait a couple minutes don't push us out the door, we paid good money to have your time so respect that!

Provide good services, everything doesn't have to be GFE but unless its a quickie give your client a good time, make them want to repeat and tell there friends (that's good business for you)!

Keep your appointments, I know some dudes flake and don't show but be professional, your going to get your money regardless if its him or somebody else.

Don't advertise one thing and change if up once the client comes thru, that's bad business more like bait and switch, honor what you said you would do, you don't want your rep to be tarnished over some misunderstanding.

Last but not least, keep a tidy environment, nobody wants to come and see dirty draws or dishes, rat shit, roaches, clothes all over the floors, disregarded condoms, broken toilets, cum stains on sheets etc etc, get your shit correct, you might be a h*e but be a clean one, LOL!

We pay good money for some good ass fun and a great experience (all aren't great but we make the best of it) but we let these providers, SW's, incall / outcall girls get away with alot and complain about it, like the MTA sez "if you see something, say something" don't let your member dictate whats going to pop off, hold your ground (and your money) and let these girls know your hard earned money its worth a good deal to you!

I might have missed some points, so if you have anything to add do so cause I'm just writing off the top of my head, forgot my notes at home.

As always, Happy Hunting and Be Safe.

Blac X[/QUOTE]I second your comments. You hit on all of the things that I want form a provider. Thanks for stepping up. Now I hope that some providers could read this and shape up.

Very good fellows. But lets flip the coin and hear about the complaints from the providers about hobbyists. Good providers are usually on point but here are their complaints.

Keeping the appointment. If you have a legitimate excuse let the provider know. Calling and being a no show is a loss of money.

This is a business and money is time. Treat this just like a regular commitment. Do not waste their time.

Have a plan be if they are not available.

If they don't answer try again.

On the other time of the coin if they have a good attitude on the phone proceed. If they seem distracted and out of it move on. Pictures mean nothing so keep that in mind unless they are utrs. Utrs take real pictures because they are real and not fake.

More on a the provider check list.

1. When we call you and tell you we will be there in an hour to pick you ladies up you shouldn't have us waiting outside for a half an hour or more. We gave you an hour to get ready and theres no excuse for that. Also if I wait fifteen minutes outside for you and you are not out I'm out. See ya. Your loss not mine. After all we are giving you money and saving you a cab or taxi ride. So you get to keep all of the money we give you.

2. This one here is my favorite. If you pay for the hour or the half and you cumm say in ten minutes the girls want to get up and leave. We are not paying by the nut we are paying by the time. So if we pay for a half or an hour we should get that amount of time and more fun. LOL.

3. If the ladies have somewhere to go please don't make an appoinment and rush us out so you can go out with your friends.

Its a two way street and yes some guys have done the same shit to the girls but this isn't tit for tat it should be a fair exchange.

When you have a utr that is looking for friends send the name number and who sent you that way their is no confusion

I guess people will never change. Everybody Plays games with each other in this hobby and in life. No one seems to speak the truth no more cause they don't want to hurt someones feelings. Please everybody keep it real. Be blunt

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Damn it must have been one of the incurable ones.

I was wondering how you guys deal with the apathy present from other members who sponge but don't participate.

I have been posting, typically in Albany forums since 2003 and rarely had any issues. But lately I have been getting a ton of PM's asking stupid questions that are easily solved by RTFF. Then when I take the time to respond with good advice or info, I get no response back. No report of good or bad luck, no PM thanks for the info. Nothing, nada, zilch.

Although it may sound like it, I am really NOT looking for a "thank you". I am looking for others to report on their experience, good or bad. And I get nothing. Frankly, I'm getting tired of reading my own reports. LOL. Sometimes I feel as though I am single handedly supporting the whole Albany Scene (I know thats not the case. But still).

Just wondering what those of you with 500+posts and 1000+ posts think. I don't want to help those who don't want to at least try to help the group. But I don't want to go UTR and just PM senior members I know with the 411.

Thanks for reading. End of rant.

Peace.

PK

I feel the same way you do and the more info you give the more they come at you. Another problem is people taking the info and never using it and collecting like they are baseball cards. Then six months later they hit you again wanting to know if the provider (s) are still active. I talk to some of these girls and they say nobody ever calls and when they do it is six months later. I understand both sides of the situation so I am neutral when it comes towards listening.

Bottom line post reviews share info and keep it moving

There was a time when the NYC board was alright.

Too many folks who are on the board 24/7 over posting and over promoting.

Dudes are doing foul deeds and getting caught out there, only to reply with some spin and BS.

Certain cats promoting stash that no one wants or playing hard to get with UTRs who are 5' and lower.

Whateva!

Quality UTRS are out there but everybody is picky when it comes to making a choice. Minority quality UTRS are getting the short end of the stick LOL.

Nothing is ever overpromoted guys have a little attention span so they need to be reminded. You will make your own choice.

Reminder.

When it comes to someone over posting on BP it is usually a bad sign. Why should they have to place so many ads?

When it comes to UTR when someone is over posting or over promoting the same can be said.

I few posts have been written about UTR's that are over promoted and not the best looking in face or body.

Guys need to be reminded that no one is going to promote UTR's without satisfying their own interest or gain.

Service and attitude are more important than face and body. I generally start at 5 and above. These are not my civilian friends just providers who have great skills.

Always UTRS provide a alternative to terrible BACKPAGE selections. IMHO go for the BBWS and certain select slim goodies that have been approved by board members with legit credentials.

Think out of the box and don't be be influenced by he cyber bullies who are frustrated. Remember hobbying is fun to release your stress and tension. Nothing more and nothing else.

Back to the regularly scheduled program.

Yes there are terrible selections in Backpage, however, there are terrible selections with UTR's and the individuals who promote UTR's. Guys are saying that so let's not overlook their negative experiences with so called UTR's or UTR promoters.

Imagine for a second,

A guy meets a SW who is out there for everyone to hookup with for a Jackson.

Now a guy promotes her as a UTR for a Benjamin and a Grant.

The SW pays the promoter a cut, keeps the difference and comes out ahead.

If one or two guys did this, just imagine if everybody did it.

I'm just saying. Promoting is not just about looking out for the hobbyist.

More and more hobbyist want to do without the middleman.