You have to PARTICIPATE and Contribute to Win!
Was just reading one of the DE threads. An Known monger (KM) had posted about one of his girls, to help her out, but added a caveat that he would respond to (Share digits with) those who contribute to the boards! So some unknown monger (UM) posts that he emailed KM and never got a reply! Then KM replied that UM had not met the caveat of "contributions. " Interesting. Is this douchebaggery? Is there a douchebag here?
So I took a look a UM posts.
First posted 04-07-17 with his hand out - [I]Just wondering if anyone has seen her lately or can vouch for her? Is she legit? [/I].
But in nearly a year's time this poster has "contributed" only 7 posts, the above and:
[I] #2 Just wondering if anyone has seen her?
#3 Looking to check this one out.
#4 Has anyone seen her or have any experience with her?
#5 Has anyone seen her? [/I]
#6 posted a link, to the above girl.
#7 Complained he wasn't given the keys to the Kingdom!
OK this looks a bit "interesting. " UM has been around the boards for nearly a year (10-months) and you has not one review post! Has UM not seen even ONE girl? UM has had zero hobby dates? Or is it that UM has not posted a review of even ONE of his hobby dates? HUH? For Goodness sake, just post a freaking review or two PLEASE!
Look, I get it, there maybe legitimate reasons or other thoughts going on as to why one is not participating:
1) [U]One is "scared" to post for some reason.[/U] To that I'd say, open yer F-in mouth as to what is your fear and let's discuss it! There are techniques and things one can do if they have a snooping spouse, etc. Knowledge is the way to over come fear, so why not tap into the vast experience that is hosted here?
2) [U]One does not know how to get started or has fear that holds them back.[/U] Fear is a good thing in the hobby as it keeps one out of trouble. However, fear that keeps one from hobbying is irrational. Shoot when I started I was probably more afraid than any of you ever were and three times as cautious. Yet, with time and the patient guidance of gents here, was able to LEARN and over come fear. So read and ask questions on techniques! I am absolutely SHOCKED as to the lack of any discussions on the DE threads about monger techniques. Lots of newbies around but I guess everyone thinks this is "easy. " From this chair, just about every time I think I know everything in the hobby, think it is easy or assume I am an expert, the hobby bites me in the azz. Oh sure, a few pick ups and one is an expert. Sigh. So yeah, ask questions on "how to" and get started mongering!
3) [U]Afraid to look stupid or unknowledgable[/U] - We all start somewhere! We all are rookies at the beginning. Best I can tell no one slams a rookie who is truly trying to "get it" or who asks "dumb" questions! (the only "dumb" question is the one NOT asked!) Shoot when I started out, I read the boards and for a while just asked other mongers questions about their style or techniques. I could be wrong but I think guys are more willing to share insight into their "how to" rather than specific details on a particular girl. I know I got a TON of great advice and insight from asking "stupid" techniques questions. Shoot one time I even posted that I saw a girl on a pay phone at the Gulf Station at 13/ Memorial. What a dumb question. LOL (and shows how long I have been at it! WTF is a pay phone?) So go ahead and ask about style / technique!
4) [U]One is not really interested info, but is just being a "shill" by posting girls he knows[/U] eh, I guess it could happen, but it is a really dumb approach. The "boards" here are not stupid and usually ferret out shills pretty quickly and that kills one's reputation.
5) [U] One is an internet-baby and views the net as his personal encyclopedia, free for the asking and because he is special, everyone should just give him information anytime he wants it.[/U] Well in this Gent's case he is failing miserably and the reality is smacking him in the face. Successful, long-term hobbying takes time, knowledge, energy and community. Expect to be "given" the keys and one will be shunned. Participate, if only to ask "how to" questions and one will find others more willing to help. Look, Admin can tell you that there is a TREMENDOUS amount of lurking going on here. Then in my observations there is VERY smaller number of serious posters / mongers. But IF I have taken the [B]risk[/B] of scooping a SW or going to see an incall girl or developed one independently, why would I share her with anyone & everyone? What do I get in return. Hey, I don't mind being a nice guy once in a while, but if it is a one-way street, why bother? (I have more girls on a List than time or resources allow!) So step up and contribute and gents will be helpful!
So the point is that one can build a bit of credibility on the threads without posting reviews, but reviews help greatly. (I know as I did it!) But the more "cred" one builds, the more likely one can get info from others. There should be no reason NOT to post unless one is one way or a douchebag. If you need help or have concerns. Just ask! After all asking helps build cred too! LOL!
So if you want to "win" on these here boards, you have got to PARTICIPATE! Just do it!
Why Guys are Loath to Share
Look, let me give you insight about these boards and perhaps why guys around here are the way they are. (my apologies to P.S. For using him as an example) But years ago P.S. Posted about a girl in Elkton, named Shantell. P.S. Was kind enough to share digits with me and I dated her. (thanks P.S.) But apparently back then P.S. Shared a girl's number with anyone who requested it. After a couple of dates with Shantell I asked her about how it was going from the P.S. Referrals. Now this is from her mouth and experience. She said she got about 100 texts and calls from guys as a results of P.S. Sharing the number. (doubt he gave it to 100 guys, but once a number is shared, it is out in the wild and others share it with their buddies) So out of 100 contacts about 60% or 60 of the contacts were nothing more than keyboard masterbaters. Guys who request picture after picture after picture so they can jack off to them. Of the remaining 40 about half, or 20 just wanted to chat or never actually get around to setting up a date. Of the remaining 20 who made plans to date, 15 backed out at the last minute or went ghost and never showed up. So out of getting posted here and having to deal with 100 contacts and numerous follow-ups she only got 5 real live dates out of it! That is a 95% failure rate for a shared number! Now you see why guys are reluctant to share digits with just anyone? I have always been impressed by what Shatell told me. So much so that I altered my approach with girls as to distinguish myself from the masterbaters, fakes and flakes. So only sharing a number with "contributors" is one way to hopeful reduce this failure rate?
Oh and in my experience, years ago, I saw a girl reviewed here and during that encounter was introduced to another girl. I got her number and dated her a few times. This girl wasn't "out there" and as such I "developed" her as a regular. Then trying to be a nice guy, posted her and offered up her number to Senior Members. So I got a number of inquiries and one dude had low post count but seemed to have contributed, so I shared her number. The dude went and dated her and as he left she counted the poetry reading fee and the jerk shorted her $40. WTF! Then things turned ugly and there was a scene in the parking lot, dude tried to run over the girl with his car, blah, blah, blah. So when I got the report, I PM'ed the guy to see what was up. Not only did he not have the b@lls to respond, he deleted his profile and went into hiding. Douchebag! So yeah. Why would I share the number of a girl I developed with just anyone?
But it doesn't stop there. Recently I posted pictures about a provider who is a member here, Lovelyk829. I dated Lovelyk829 many years ago and posted reviews of her along with discrete pictures. Shoot, I had guys asking for her contact info for at least a year after that! LOL! But now she is back and asked me to help her out. (still same petite, tight little body) I was glad to help her because 1) she has a profile and thus email here, so I do not have to get involved in passing out her number [I]{something I am loath to do these days because of new found info}[/I] and 2) I know Lovelyk829 can handle her own business and does not need me in the mix. So what are the reports I get back from her about all of youse? "No one serious, just guys playing games!" Hmmm, not one date and all of the guys looking for free handouts? What is up with that? I guess most guys prefer their poetry read to them by 350-lb slobs who will do anything for $10?
So some perspective on what the experiences of others have had with sharing on these board. We can over come this if guys read this and adjust their approach!
Time for some Improvise, Adapt & Overcome?
[QUOTE=Afraven;3735322]Wow, it's been 5 yrs since I posted that. Yup, I gave a street by street turn of the loops that I hit, when out and about.[/QUOTE]Hey AF. Nice to see you back! Hope all goes well. Couple of things:
I followed your turn by turn directions mentally and it looks good! Every one has their own style and preferences and I think you hit all of the strolls very well. For me, I'd extend some of the runs a few blocks or furlong further.
Notably, when headed up West, instead of turning at 7th, I'd go all the way up to DEA (DE Ave). That way, one passes the apt houses just before 9th. A location where I have often dropped off girls flush with a poetry reading fee. Also, I'd add Washington St in the loop somewhere, but beware of the independent businessmen at the corner stores around 7/8.
On the 4th leg, add a run out uLA to that company with the oval logo, & come back. I'd rather make a second pass on 4th than the lower part of LA. Getting to MDA is a personal preference from there but Broom has been a connector for those hoofing it.
Personal preference on MDA. I usually go out as far as Banning Park. While going up that side of the hill is less target rich, it has been productive in the past AND a few utr girls live out that way.
Interesting that information you provided many years ago and yet we still get questions from those familiar with DE as to where "the best" stroll" is located.
Inaguration of The Honorable Stacie
I am pleased to announce that I had the pleasure of attending the inauguration ceremonies for the Newly created office of Mayoress of uLA! Stacie holds all of the qualities requisite for the position: experience, good nature, willing to help, is liked by all of the girls out there. It was a lovely ceremony with appropriate dignitaries and the appropriate pomp and circumstance.
I also learned more about the dead zone that is uLA when she gave her acceptance speech. Apparently one could not swing a dead cat and not hit a girl on Sunday evening! China, Lucky, Amy, Michelle, and another one that slips my mind. So that is six! [i]{that has to be the definition of "dead," no?}[/i]
So if you see the Mayoress, stop and chat. And of course tip her for her time, if nothing more than to be a gent. For just information I often donate $10 to the cause. However, if one wishes their windows washed or other legals services, expect to pay more than that!
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February Douchebaggery. Self Reporting
Had some issues take me away from the Hobby in February for nearly a third of the month, so not as active as the previous month. Plus with so many girls found before that have digits, have been able to rest on those laurels.
So once again giving a taste of my recent experience, all fwiw. Not bragging at all, in fact part of me says nothing to be gained by posting at all. So the posting is fwiw.
[B]Source of Dates[/B] [color=lightgrey] [I] (Demonstrates there is more than one way to find dates and often wise to keep several lines going at once. )[/I]. [/color]
1- renewed contact after some time frame away.
6- repeat dates with off the chain girls.
1 - street scoop from uLA.
1 - CL post or replies.
1- new girl via referrals from another girl or another monger.
Oh and I was unable to get to a couple of girls who showed up after having been away for awhile, not to mention a few from CL that I took a pass on for various reasons!
If you can not find something. Get on the boards and POST about technique: where you are fishing, how you are fishing, when you are fishing, what style (bait) you are using, etc. Lots of knowledgeable guys around who can help!
STDs are REAL. Be Responsible
I am shocked! If you are hobbying then one needs to take STDs seriously! That means getting tested AT LEAST 2 times a year! AND IF someone you dated has an STD. Get tested to make sure you didn't get it too.
Look, a monger PM'ed me recently that he got a call from a girl he dated. She had Chlamydia and reported it to him. He went and got tested, and YES, he was POSITIVE for Chlamydia as well. So he went and got treatment and refrained from dating until he got an "all clean" test result. BUT the problem is that he dated at least two, VERY popular and highly reported on Elkton girls after he dated the girl who gave him Chlamydia and BEFORE he learned he had it. SO that means that he probably gave Chlamydia to those two girls and any other girls he dated.
But what has me shaking my head is that dudes that have dated these girls since "Mr Infected" dated them, these dudes have a "ho-hum" attitude about this information. I guess these geniuses figure that if their d*ck isn't dripping or there is no pain on urination, that they are OK? Problem is that Chlamydia infection often has ZERO outward effects. So hey, you want to run around with Chlamydia and give it to your GF, or SO only to be discovered later? Yeah, that sounds like a great idea.
Don't be a douchebag and an idiot and gamble with your health - GO GET TESTED!
Dead Zone, Delusions and DD: The Box Version
Took a tour through the box today at about 12:35 PM or so. Saw two girls out- Jackie, black hair with blue streaks and Diana in red & black coat.
Also saw two LE hiding in plain sight, pulled off to the side, parked surveying the landscape. Hard to see these guys until you are on top of them.
But hey, it is OK as I was passing out doughnuts today while I was having this delusion.
Anybody F one of these girls?
STDs Part of the Hobby, Not a Personal Evaluation
[QUOTE=JRichard;3746277]I visited a person a few times who conducted business at the WaWa on Ridge and Naamans a number of years ago. One evening I am reading CL's are&are and came across a warning about her there. Sure enough the next day while showering I notice some funky shit going on down below the equator. Straight to the doctor, all around not good.
So did what I thought was appropriate and I tried to tell her, but she wanted no part of listening. I only received oral from her. You got to play safe, it's simply not worth it. Some just take too many chances, especially if you know they have other issues / demons. I did comment on the post with another public service announcement to steer clear of the area. But man, that cured me of the hobby for some time.[/QUOTE]I hear ya! LOL! Years ago, well before the hobby, I had an ex-GF that was an occasional hook up. Nice girl, working RN. Back then she was pretty much all I was playing with and one day I noticed a little "scab" in the pubes. So I picked it off. THEN I noticed another one and picked it off. Interestingly the skin under the "scab" didn't look like what was typical. So I looked closer at the "scab" and it had legs! Off to the Doc for Quell shampoo and ended up doing lots of bed linen washing in hot water & bleach!
But the hardest part was the garbage feelings I heaped on myself. I guess somewhere in the socialization process we are taught that only "dirty people" (I. E. Realy sub-human, lesser value people) get Venereal Diseases and what not. So I had something, so that made me "dirty?" So I get it when anyone contracts an STD or sexually transmitted "situation. " It is hard not to be down on one's self. But hey, no need to tell others (self shame) so the only one putting you down is you! LOL! I mean really, when you were a kid and got Mono, was that shamed, or did you get "props" for kissing girls and thus getting infected?
Took me a few years but realized that good people catch colds, Mono and STDs! I'm sure the religious right will tell you we are all equal in the face of God, yet they are likely be the first to condemn you as something "less than human" if you come down with an STD. So how do you want to view things? As a manageable hazard to the hobby or as all of a sudden one becomes "dirty?" Most STDs are treatable and the ones that can not be cured are manageable as long-term chronic conditions!
Of course finding and staying in a Monogamous relationship is a sure fire way to avoid STDs. Oh, and using condoms each an every time can help reduce the risk even more! Or one can just become "dirty!" LOL!
Assualt, Attempted Rape, Theft
So the pure douchbaggery continues on the streets. As reported to me:
Prior Sunday evening a girl was scooped off of uLA by a dude in a white Mazda. Dude called himself Miguel, a stocky, Mexican male approximately 5'9" in height. He drove her to Centerville where he offered her $20 for sex, when she refused, he forced himself on her, put one hand over her mouth and attempted to have sex with her despite her saying NO! [I](this geniuses is the definition of rape - once a girl, date, prostitute or your wife says "No," going further is a crime)[/I] She tried to get away, the dude took her money and her cell phone. She got out of the car but was abandoned in Centerville. I have details on the license plate, but forum rules prohibit post them here.
Reminds me of the Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would have done to you! If a girl does not want to take your offer, drop her off. [i](I guess it would be too much to ask to give her $5 for the time she spent with you and the other paying date she missed?)[/i] [b]Just because she is "working" does not make her less of a human being than your mother, wife, sister or daughter. She still deserves respect as a human being.[/b]
But also, what is with these dudes? $10 will get you NOTHING on the streets, unless you find a girl who is Jonesing and you probably want to avoid her anyway. Look, the cost of a "bundle" of dope is around $35 - $45. Gee, any idea why street rates are what they are? So offering less than a bundle for a date usually isn't going to get you anywhere. No, you are not special and any girl has the RIGHT to refuse low-ball offers!
Now it appears as though this numbnuts does not understand is that he committed at least 3 felonies! If these girls were smart they would report these azzh*les: after all, IF the cops charge the girl with prostitution, that is a misdemeanor. So hey guys, use your big head. You want to be a "macho man"? You want to trade felonies against a misdemeanor charge?
