I am a little lost reading some of the recent posts. My take is that different guys are into different things and most of us play different aspects of who we are in different neighborhoods with different people?
And those people look and seem to act differently. But none of them are all that and so absorbing our minds and lusts and interests and needs otherwise we would not be on the site?
So far seems like violent agreement has broken out all over about this BBGOTFO. (Big Blinding Glimpse Of The Fucking Obvious).
As for someone who both reports realistic street life and street people and flatters / glamorizes their subjects at the same time. Uh. That's found in Chaucer, Euripides, Shakespeare, Bosch, Toulouse Latrec, a Picasso, and photographers of street life like Henri Carter Bresson, Robert Frank, Gary Winograd, Jay Meyerwitz, and on and on. Let's not pretend that CookyJar is into a sub niche never found as a human interest ever before.
I dunno. We are into different things. Why put someone else down leaving ones own weird edges exposed in comparative hypocrisy. "I'm so messed up I have a supermodel wife but am so bored unfulfilled and overpaying for the priveledge I risk all that to get other things but at least I label them accurately. And that other guy doesn't?
Guys like all internet fights we reveal more about ourselves than we wish. There is a really interesting study that showed that people most recognize and are sensitive to and get mad at qualities they see in others they don't like yet hide about themselves.