Non Pro's

How do you search for a user name? I tried searching for her, but nothing came up.

-LCB.

[QUOTE=SeaTownGuy;3408639]Em191919 is pretty much a provider working UTR. She is training wheels for SA.[/QUOTE]

Looks like she shut her profile down.

Of course she did! Not a pro, but got a review as if she was, and then a bunch of guys with no game at all probably hit her up asking for her "rates" and "menu". In my experience SA is not a place for guys with no game to play around. They just chase girls away. Stick to the escort boards if what you want is an escort.

[QUOTE=SeaGentleman;3404634]Sometimes it is a little more expensive, but the ladies aren't prudes and love BBFS.[/QUOTE]A bit more expensive, but I'm finding they like to stick around a few hours and want to go a few times, not just 1 hour and you're pushed out the door. My spending is $$ but I'm getting 2-6 hours. Sometimes pure playtime, sometimes a hour of dinner or 2 hours groping while watching a movie on my couch and a few more hours of play.

Joined for about a week and was able to find a who was able to accomadate whatever I wanted already. Lots to sort through but plenty of fun to be had.

[QUOTE=JettaGuy;3412833]Joined for about a week and was able to find a who was able to accomadate whatever I wanted already. Lots to sort through but plenty of fun to be had.[/QUOTE]How do you join for a week?

Question for the more experienced guys. When you meet someone from SA or a provider from TNA are you hosting? I've always been hesitant about hosting since if you give someone your address, it's really easy for them to find out your real name and so on.

Thanks!

[QUOTE=JusDreamin;3413213]How do you join for a week?[/QUOTE]I joined for a month but it has only been about a week on the site.

I would never host with a provider and I would only host with a SA gal after we have known each other for a substantial amount of time. The privacy and security issues of hosting a stranger more than outweigh the cost of a hotel.

[QUOTE=Aegean45;3413941]Question for the more experienced guys. When you meet someone from SA or a provider from TNA are you hosting? I've always been hesitant about hosting since if you give someone your address, it's really easy for them to find out your real name and so on.

Thanks![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Aegean45;3413941]Question for the more experienced guys. When you meet someone from SA or a provider from TNA are you hosting? I've always been hesitant about hosting since if you give someone your address, it's really easy for them to find out your real name and so on.

Thanks![/QUOTE]Consider that many of these women have major issues. Some are quite level headed but many (if not the majority) are supporting drug habits or loser boyfriends / pimps. The last thing you want is someone in your house casing out all of the shit you work hard to have. Aside from making it easy for a person who may use your identity against you to do just that, consider the safety risk posed by the girl, "drivers", or others that may follow the girl to your residence. It is wise to keep your mongering as far away from where you live as conceivably possible.

Now, hosting in a hotel is a different story. It can also blow up in your face if you are stupid in the way you go about it but if executed well it is a legitimate option.

[QUOTE=Aegean45;3413941]Question for the more experienced guys. When you meet someone from SA or a provider from TNA are you hosting? I've always been hesitant about hosting since if you give someone your address, it's really easy for them to find out your real name and so on.

Thanks![/QUOTE]I've hosted over 50 SA women. I screen them via numerous SA messages, a couple days of texting and then a meet & greet date before inviting them to my place. I have never had a problem. I've hosted a few TNA women, but only those with stellar reps on the site.

Once, long ago, when I was younger and a lot more dumb, I invited a BP girl to my house. Met her at a coffee shop and had her follow me home. Never again. She showed up a 4 days later screaming that I was the father of her baby. She thought, wrongly, that I wouldn't call the cops to have her removed because of previous activities. Not so, m'lady!

Point is, I will never, ever, for any reason, no matter how hot she is, invite a BP / TNA / SA / whatever girl to my home. Once they know where you live you lose a lot of anonymity and decision-making power as to when and how to engage or communicate. Not worth it. Yeah there are risks with incalls but as long as I stay clear-minded and don't think too much with the tiny head, I. E. Be willing to bail at the first hint of drama / red flags, I sleep a lot better that night knowing she doesn't know where to find me. This is also why I never park where they can see my vehicle and a dozen other things I do to make sure, as much as possible, that when I leave they have no idea how to track me down.

[QUOTE=HuksAlot;3414641]I've hosted over 50 SA women. I screen them via numerous SA messages, a couple days of texting and then a meet & greet date before inviting them to my place. I have never had a problem. I've hosted a few TNA women, but only those with stellar reps on the site.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Penis;3414996]Once, long ago, when I was younger and a lot more dumb, I invited a BP girl to my house. Met her at a coffee shop and had her follow me home. Never again. She showed up a 4 days later screaming that I was the father of her baby. She thought, wrongly, that I wouldn't call the cops to have her removed because of previous activities. Not so, m'lady!

Point is, I will never, ever, for any reason, no matter how hot she is, invite a BP / TNA / SA / whatever girl to my home. Once they know where you live you lose a lot of anonymity and decision-making power as to when and how to engage or communicate. Not worth it. Yeah there are risks with incalls but as long as I stay clear-minded and don't think too much with the tiny head, I. E. Be willing to bail at the first hint of drama / red flags, I sleep a lot better that night knowing she doesn't know where to find me. This is also why I never park where they can see my vehicle and a dozen other things I do to make sure, as much as possible, that when I leave they have no idea how to track me down.[/QUOTE]Yeah, fathering a child and robbery would be my 2 biggest concerns. Especially since in SA they think you have significant financial wealth. Maybe I'm just being paranoid. LOL.

I don't bring women to my home who I meet on the internet. It's bad enough they could write down a plate number off a car date.

That's another place to be situationally aware-ever notice cops will touch the back of your vehicle when approaching for a traffic stop?

It's to "print it" in case they need you later. Wipe your vehicle down after an encounter with LE or a working girl.

Definitely keep it away from your residence. That's your home, the place you go to relax and be safe. As noted previously, some of these women are out of their minds or supporting serious drug and alcohol habits, they don't and can't think clearly when they're addicted.

A while back I had an appointment with a regular girl I had met on Backpage and she had run out of alcohol before my arrival. She mentioned that she was concerned that she didn't have a bottle and should go get more before we started but I thought she'd be okay without it. I had no idea that she was badly addicted to alcohol. After about an hour she really started flipping out, yelling, cursing throwing and breaking things, accusing me of a bunch of random stuff and being out of control and unreasonable. She was completely hysterical and I couldn't get her to calm down. It got worse when she couldn't find her ID to get more alcohol and I refused to bring her because I didn't want her in my car. I also wasn't coming back, not with her being so crazy. I quickly left in the middle of her fit and I don't even think she realized I had gone. I could hear her yelling and carrying on all the way down the hallway and out the door. I had seen her several times but didn't know that she was such an out-of-control alcoholic because she'd always had enough to drink by the time I saw her. Once it ran out, her body and brain really needed it and it got pretty ugly. I'm really glad I never had her in my car or my house.

Most of the time we don't know enough about these girls and their private lives. You bring that unknown into your home when you have them over.