A view from down the road
Let me start off by saying I have never seen Jaylynn, never talked to her, and have no plans to do so. Although most of this post will be about her it is in fact intended to be a post about the hobby in general and many of the indisputable facts.
This whole situation is not the first report of a meeting gone bad. When I say gone bad, I do not mean a monger not enjoying themselves in play. I mean a C&D / ripoff / etc. Based on this situation, I went back and read EVER post for the last 15 months or so in regards to this lady. Counting this one there have been 3 accounts of her ripping someone off, one of legal problems, and one report saying it was an "ABSOLUTE FUCKING NIGHTMARE". Everytime a situation arises with this lady, a flock of guys come to her defense saying it must be a lie. Well on the first occurance, I believed myself it to be false. Then the second occurence, I believed it was time to keep your eyes and ears peeled. Now with the third occurence, I truly believe any and everyone is blind if you do not believe the story. Although the monger who reported this is not a known name in the SB area, he is trusted in the hobby. He is a senior member overall and I can tell you for a fact that is in on a well known verification site with many thumbs up from providers who he has seen and spoke positively of him.
The story here is everyone needs to know the full meaning of YMMV. That term is generally used to for a limited scope meaning menus vary or possible even donation variances. In reality it is intended for any hobby situation that has unknown factors. Most of these ladies have substances addiction issues / boyfriends / husbands / etc. All of these items can AT ANY MOMENT change their behavior. There is also an issue with the incall vs outcall. I have had experiences in the past where providers would have an incall and everything would be great. Then they have outcall and it all goes to shit. Many of these ladies do not have a vehicle or share one with a SO. If they do an outcall, the SO is now there with them and has an immediate impact. If in fact Jaylynn (or any other lady) was riding with a friend or SO, what do you think that person's last words were to her? "Hey I will sit out here for an hour in the freezing fucking cold with a great big smile on my face while that guy fucks you" or "If you get the chance, grab the money and run. It is too fucking cold for me to sit out here. " Being an outcall, the lady is away from her place so she is not making a scene where she stays and knows there is nearly no chance that you will call LE to say you were ripped off. There is the additional factor if the guy is not local. The lady knows the guy will mostly likely be going home and will not be around to try and harass her or try to get retribution.
In reference to J, perhaps she is innocent but I believe everyone should look at past questionable events before basically calling a senior member a liar. In reference to the entire hobby, even if she is innocent, everyone should be completely cognizant that crap happens like this all the time and no one should think they are above it.
Indy Guy.