Act like you belong there
[QUOTE=GHDgaber;5247754]A question for the veterans who might be more experienced: Is there anything I should or should not do when showing up to a hotel / making my way to the room? I've only ever had 1 prior experience and that was at a private residence so discretion and privacy weren't an issue. As someone still very new to all of this I'm already a bit nervous at the thought of being obvious, standing out or drawing unwanted attention. I'm not sure if it makes any difference but the meeting would likely be mid / late morning and at a common business traveler hotel. Apologies if this stuff is seemingly obvious, I appreciate any tips or advice. Thanks.[/QUOTE]Most places the ladies stay, the front desk doesn't care who you are as long as you don't look or act shady.
I always have my phone up to my ear listening to old voicemails.
I've never been asked why I'm there.
Agreed, act like you belong.
But don't look like you're acting like you belong (I dunno, fly casual Han).
Dress at least business casual, but don't dress like you're going to a wedding; and probably more important, don't dress where you'll raise suspicions at home. As IrishLaddie said, people at the hotel don't care what you're doing there unless you're causing a problem. Cover your other bases, like making sure your location services are off so you don't get someone using Find-My-Dickhead showing up starting to bang on doors.
Also, if you're nervous about all this, that's ok but don't go jumping in with a disreputable / questionable / shady lady. Everyone that's ever done this has started out like a jack-lighted deer. They'll all get that you're jittery, but the bad apples will start calculating once they smell a mark. Keep with the ones that are less likely to cause you a problem. Research the forums and glean the rules of the road. Leave the fucking Rolex and other jewelry at home, bring only the cash you need, etc. Just don't be a dumb ass and you'll be ok.
Would like to get a hold of her
[QUOTE=IndyGolfer60;5248529]As he mentioned she is only working part time now, so her link is dead right now.[/QUOTE]Where does she post when she's working?