Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

[QUOTE=Deepblue798;2590662]I mentioned this in another post but I will talk about it again.

When I talk with a provider to setup something, I always ask about the menu in detail. I have some deal breakers like no dfk, no cim, no deal at all.

Some of the girls are being extremely cautious and refuse to talk about these details on the phone. They think I am a cop to hunt them down on the phone. Somehow, they believe providing this info on the phone will get them arrested.

Some of them tells me that they will not provide this information on the phone. That's fine, I just move on.

Some of them breaks the communication at that point. That is rude.

Some of them are just plain crazy. A couple of them asked me to send them a picture of my tool with my face in it, just to prove that I am not a cop. Ohh really?

I don't know the right word for this (weird, funny, annoying, absurd or whatever) but the most common response is "We will talk when you are here". I will not be there if I can't get answers to my questions honey. Why would I drive all the way to you, just to get my answers and then decide to stay or not stay after talking with you?!

Anyway, by now I got used to this and nothing much surprises me in this subject anymore. I just move on and don't think about it too much. Like I said, I believe some of these girls are extremely cautious but some of them are just plain idiots.

Now this happened to me very recently.

I PMed a senior member about a contact infomation which he possibly might have and I got this reply. Not the same exact words but something in this line.

"Mr. Deepblue with 5 posts, I will not share it with you OFFICER".

Sometimes I am wondering how these people with this much stupidity can manage to survive life? Sometimes I am thinking, this much "stupidity" should be a crime and these people should be locked up.

Then I remember the infamous saying "Ignorance is bliss".

Maybe they are having a happier life than I am just because they are plain stupid.

I am NOT here to offend anybody, just saying.[/QUOTE]Well I hate to break this to you buy yes, even acronyms like CIM can get the provider arrested after price has been agreed. In Ohio courts its accepted that common acronyms used in specific forums via electronic communications can be considered common known terms for accepted acts. In other words, if you contact someone via a automobile support forum then CIM can mean something involving cars. However if you contact an escort via BP, etc, and then ask about CIM, its accepted that you are talking about a sexual act. In Ohio for a provider to be charged with solicitation, they have to bring up money, which they all do quoting rates, and then stating a specific sex act for that rate. Now if this done via text, LE when arriving to see the provider has to verify with the provider themselves the details of the text or at least confirm they are aware of what the officer is wanting for the rate. Then they can be charged with solicitation. The girls are trying be safe. I agree some of the requests are unreasonable. Yes I would never send a picture of my junk to a provider. That itself can be illegal but the girls know LE would never do that, and they wouldn't. Some providers definitely go to far but its a risky give and take for them. They want the business and they want you to know what you will get but they also don't want to get arrested. I too try to get details from them before I see them because I don't want to ripped into them saying they never said they would do this or that. But if a provider just won't budge and wants to see pictures and won't say a thing without them or something else I'm uncomfortable with, I tell them I understand and move on. If its somebody you just have to see for some reason, show up and try to hash it out in person. That is if you are comfortable they are not LE.

[QUOTE=SinfulDreams;2592400]You might not be, but now you are definitely the only one that a lot of the upscale, and reputable providers will NOT see. If you pay what you pay, yes see a SW. It's an experience, not just to come in and bust your nut and leave. I actually will NOT see the serial hobbyist that wants a notch on his hobby belt. The way you talk and downgrade a female says a lot about you, regardless of whether or not you are GQ material. I don't feel I am entitled at all. I have busted my ass for 3 years, and I take damn good care of my clients with wearing lingerie, hair and makeup done, incall is clean and very upscale, refreshments, everything they need even if they want to take a shower, and a hot towel warmer. THAT is what a good provider does, NOT someone is is entitled.

You are every reason why the nice guys get a bad name. If you keep that mentality, you will not get far in this hobby.[/QUOTE]Plus one: smiling:

[QUOTE=Deepblue798;2592390]Thank you all for your replies.

I liked this one. Right on point.

Thank you.[/QUOTE]I meant that being if you were a cop, calling yourself deepblue would be stupid. But then, being a cop who wastes his / her life chasing down adults who do this thing, you would probably be one of the DUMB cops.

I think it's far more likely you just like shitty music from the 90's.

I think what I was trying to say was taken out of context and I didn't mean to offend anyone if that was the case. It wasn't directed towards anyone and I apologize. Not a dick and didn't mean to come off as one. I'm not stuck on myself but maybe a little cheap at times and like to find the best special possible. LOL walmart price matches competitors ads.

NOT A DICK BTW.

So my wife yesterday told me that my name was not on the list of Ashley Madison clients when the hacker put them on the internet. HMMM. Probably why I never use my real name, use a burner phone, etc. The hobby is a place where you always need to use the big head before you can use the little head. Be safe.

[QUOTE=Davem7643;2593037]So my wife yesterday told me that my name was not on the list of Ashley Madison clients when the hacker put them on the internet. HMMM. Probably why I never use my real name, use a burner phone, etc. The hobby is a place where you always need to use the big head before you can use the little head. Be safe.[/QUOTE]I was on that site a number of years back but used other email address. Where does one look to find the list of names or addresses? I thought this was still on the "hidden internet", which those of us not very tech savvy have no idea how to access. Do you have any idea?

[QUOTE=Davem7643;2593037]So my wife yesterday told me that my name was not on the list of Ashley Madison clients when the hacker put them on the internet. HMMM. Probably why I never use my real name, use a burner phone, etc. The hobby is a place where you always need to use the big head before you can use the little head. Be safe.[/QUOTE]Did you ask her why she was looking for your name on the list?

[QUOTE=MojoGuy;2593090]Did you ask her why she was looking for your name on the list?[/QUOTE]LOL. Because her friend found her husbands name on the list. I've done a few dumb things while on my journey in the hobby but I try to think things thru before making a plunge. Again be safe.

[QUOTE=Davem7643;2593127]LOL. Because her friend found her husbands name on the list. I've done a few dumb things while on my journey in the hobby but I try to think things thru before making a plunge. Again be safe.[/QUOTE]SO is she some kind of webmaster? Thought you had to go through two levels of something called the Dark Web? I'm not familiar with this but from what the media is reporting it is difficult to get to the list? It is also illegal to download the stolen information. I would also assume that the hackers have a way of hacking innocent folks trying to verify if they are on the list or not. I think it is best not to even check.

[QUOTE=Grizzler;2592638]I meant that being if you were a cop, calling yourself deepblue would be stupid. But then, being a cop who wastes his / her life chasing down adults who do this thing, you would probably be one of the DUMB cops.

I think it's far more likely you just like shitty music from the 90's.[/QUOTE]He could be a cop, that thinks we'd think it's stupid to call himself deepblue and dismiss it! Just kidding. I don't care either way.

As far as vice being stupid, it may be from the perspective of why someone would chase after it, but it wasn't so long ago that a knowledgeable poster highlighted how valuable the revenue model around pinching mongers is. It's a money maker for the city or they wouldn't do it.

[QUOTE=DJake069;2593210]SO is she some kind of webmaster? Thought you had to go through two levels of something called the Dark Web? I'm not familiar with this but from what the media is reporting it is difficult to get to the list? It is also illegal to download the stolen information. I would also assume that the hackers have a way of hacking innocent folks trying to verify if they are on the list or not. I think it is best not to even check.[/QUOTE][URL]https://ashley.cynic.al[/URL]

Use at your own risk. Another site, [URL]trustify.com[/URL] or something like that, is pulling the email addresses that people enter and then spamming them. Of all the choices, this one "appears" to be the most legit. None of my real addresses showed up. Burner address from a free trial years ago was there. So who knows based on and=1 but there ya go.

Have a great day.

Dz.

[QUOTE=Davem7643;2593127]LOL. Because her friend found her husbands name on the list. I've done a few dumb things while on my journey in the hobby but I try to think things thru before making a plunge. Again be safe.[/QUOTE]I was just messing with ya. LOL. I'm still kicking myself around about a dumb thing I did in the hobby a couple of months ago but at least I learned from it.

Dear Karma,
I have a list of people you've missed.

Sincerely,
Mojo.

[QUOTE=DJake069;2593210]I think it is best not to even check.[/QUOTE]I agree 100%. My S. O. Said something about the Ashley Madison thing when it came out and I played Mr. Stupid about it and responded "Is that the girl that had the show at Planet Hollywood in Vegas a few years back?" (actually it was Holly Madison) Other than a few choice words about Josh Duggar she hasn't mentioned it since.

[QUOTE=TommyJohn;2586804]Does anyone else occasionally have a problem logging in from a smart phone? I enter the info and it acts like your logging in but user name still comes back blank. Not to big a deal, just wondering if anyone else has this issue.[/QUOTE]This is very common for me hun, in fact, it does it to me every single time. You are logged in. Do you know at the top left corner, just a little bit from the top of the page where there are 5 tabs, the first one being front page, then forum, then what's new, photo gallery, and anbreviations? Just tough the one that says forum and then your screen will look like a screen that has been logged in. I hoe that this helps.

[QUOTE=Davem7643;2593037]So my wife yesterday told me that my name was not on the list of Ashley Madison clients when the hacker put them on the internet. HMMM. Probably why I never use my real name, use a burner phone, etc. The hobby is a place where you always need to use the big head before you can use the little head. Be safe.[/QUOTE]Checked a burner email address I used there years ago and wham! There it was. Welcome to "don't give a fuck land. " Population: me.