All this for a BJ? Maybe you should take up golf, less stressful.
[QUOTE=GaryRidgeway;5352477]Been playing this game on and off for 25 years. I probably done incall 6 or 7 times. Had mostly ok to good experiences, with only 1 being potentially bad. But in the last few years my paranoia I don't know if I will be doing incall anytime soon. 5 plus years ago I use to regularly get a room in ashville and have 2-4 visitors in a 15 hour visit. In the last few years. Due to no shows. I just can't mentally do it anymore. I can't blow 80-100 to sit in a roach motel in ashville. I am devastated the Ramada inn on smokey park closed, it had a indoor pool and hot tub. So now outcall to a spot I have is usually my only option. There are things to consider about bringing a girl to your casa. 1. She probably is checking out your pad to see if you are a good burglary candidate.
2. If you have a s / o around escort randomly stopping in is a consideration. I strongly believe most girls have tracking apps on their phone. If they dabble in blackmail they can easily figure out your name. Your ex's wife name etc. And can and will use that information. The biggest perk to outcall is you are probably uncle proof. They are not going to spend time and energy going to location to location to make a simple arrest. My outcall screening process. 1. Exchange texts 2. Receive confirmation photo doing as I direct 3. Brief phone call. 4. If we get that far I advise we will meet at a public location of my choosing, I always pick a place with lots of stores (cherrydale, any strip plaza). Once she arrives at location I advise her what store to go to. This provides me to observe her closely one last time, before cementing deal. I also like being on camera with her for my safety purposes. Quick trip cameras are great. I advise them early in the game that I will not allow any driver to be lurking outside my residence. She has 2 options to ride with me or follow me in the car she drove solo to the location. (yes I have peaked in cars for hiding peeps). I know these are a ton of steps and I am sure I have missed some amazing girls that can't or will not follow my rules, but I am attracted to girls that still almost have it together. I always pay what ever rate they ask.
I never negotiate. I always tip. To me the first step to a enjoyable experience is to have it drama free. Sitting in parking lots begging for a room. Number or having to avoid all the literal and figuratively potholes to get to a room to be worried about peeps coming out of bathroom is just to much for me. If she agrees to all my conditions and doesn't show, all I am out is a little time and a ton of disappointment. I am the only one looking out for me, so I take that responsibility seriously. Most my experience is strip club based, for what it's worth. Remain cautious.[/QUOTE]
