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[QUOTE=ShieldKnight96;5348768]It sounds like you just got your feelings hurt at some point, as long as she has been around and as many times as I have seen her and no one else seems to have that kind of experience. You know ladies can't get wet if you're unattractive or stink or a dope head yourself. You sound like someone who is only trying to hurt her and not being quite honest.[/QUOTE]That was painful to read. WTF man form a complete sentence.
[QUOTE=ShieldKnight96;5348768]It sounds like you just got your feelings hurt at some point, as long as she has been around and as many times as I have seen her and no one else seems to have that kind of experience. You know ladies can't get wet if you're unattractive or stink or a dope head yourself. You sound like someone who is only trying to hurt her and not being quite honest.[/QUOTE]That was painful to read. WTF man form a complete sentence. The post your responding to that is.
[QUOTE=GaryRidgeway;5350827]In what world does it benefit a monger to send a photo? The providers say it is for their safety. How does a photo aid in safety. A photo might aid in persecution but will never provide safety. Just gives a scammer one more tool in their tool box. My plumber never asked me for a photo prior to service. Never do anything in this hobby you are not comfortable with.[/QUOTE]Its simple: Compliance with their (providers) request, is synonymous with "yeah, I hear ya, I'll do what ya say. Up to some arbitrary limit". Blah Blah Blah Let the games continue. Who ever said, you send a picture of yourself? The gals are well known by all of us to use "scripted" or touched up, old pictures... quid pro quo. There is no audit trail. Zilch. The request is moot, on both ends.
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[QUOTE=GaryRidgeway;5350827]In what world does it benefit a monger to send a photo? The providers say it is for their safety. How does a photo aid in safety. A photo might aid in persecution but will never provide safety. Just gives a scammer one more tool in their tool box. My plumber never asked me for a photo prior to service. Never do anything in this hobby you are not comfortable with.[/QUOTE]Provider ends up assaulted or dead then theres a photo of last known client.
[QUOTE=XanManLeft10;5351595][URL]https://spartanburg.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/the-head-dr-could-use-some-fun/675724871970[/URL][/QUOTE]I reviewed her before a couple of months ago. She normally lives / works in Forest City. She is legit, and a lot of fun.
If a provider wants to be safe, she should have muscle very near by (like clubs\ bars do)) or have a weapon at her finger tip. But my argument remains a photo assists in the prosecution or maybe a slight deterrent, but does not " provide safety. " Quick trips, banks and 7-11 get robbed daily and they have tons of cameras. I don't have a security camera in my house. But I do exercise my 2nd amendment. Big difference in perception of safety, a photo and actual safety. I am much more scared of a provider and her close associates (level of desperation) then I would be of average monger. I follow the local news very carefully and they only incident that I can think that was directly hobby related was when a provider and her way in over his elderly head friend tried to do a little debt collection at the hotel on wade hampton awhile back, and rightfully got handled after breaking into room. I strongly think sending a photo would cause a monger more issues, then provide a provider safety. Just one man's opinion. Stay safe.
[QUOTE=ChyllE1;5352046]I reviewed her before a couple of months ago. She normally lives / works in Forest City. She is legit, and a lot of fun.[/QUOTE]How does the front side look on this one? Usually when they don't show something, it means they don't want you seeing it.
[QUOTE=Mdcma;5352109]How does the front side look on this one? Usually when they don't show something, it means they don't want you seeing it.[/QUOTE]Melissa is a cool mid forties adult. You'll enjoy her company and conversation. Decent older house. Bedroom was clean.
I'm curious how many members on here are strictly in call. Like will not go out to meet someone. May potentially help with Transportation or pick them up but always at my house. I don't know to me it feels safer and like I have more control over the situation. Less likely to get robbed etc. It also tends to be much more comfortable in my clean house and comfortable made bed with my choice of products and toys. I guess the caveat is that I am divorced and have partial custody so I have the opportunity to do this. Like I said just looking for other opinions.
Been playing this game on and off for 25 years. I probably done incall 6 or 7 times. Had mostly ok to good experiences, with only 1 being potentially bad. But in the last few years my paranoia I don't know if I will be doing incall anytime soon. 5 plus years ago I use to regularly get a room in ashville and have 2-4 visitors in a 15 hour visit. In the last few years. Due to no shows. I just can't mentally do it anymore. I can't blow 80-100 to sit in a roach motel in ashville. I am devastated the Ramada inn on smokey park closed, it had a indoor pool and hot tub. So now outcall to a spot I have is usually my only option. There are things to consider about bringing a girl to your casa. 1. She probably is checking out your pad to see if you are a good burglary candidate.
2. If you have a s / o around escort randomly stopping in is a consideration. I strongly believe most girls have tracking apps on their phone. If they dabble in blackmail they can easily figure out your name. Your ex's wife name etc. And can and will use that information. The biggest perk to outcall is you are probably uncle proof. They are not going to spend time and energy going to location to location to make a simple arrest. My outcall screening process. 1. Exchange texts 2. Receive confirmation photo doing as I direct 3. Brief phone call. 4. If we get that far I advise we will meet at a public location of my choosing, I always pick a place with lots of stores (cherrydale, any strip plaza). Once she arrives at location I advise her what store to go to. This provides me to observe her closely one last time, before cementing deal. I also like being on camera with her for my safety purposes. Quick trip cameras are great. I advise them early in the game that I will not allow any driver to be lurking outside my residence. She has 2 options to ride with me or follow me in the car she drove solo to the location. (yes I have peaked in cars for hiding peeps). I know these are a ton of steps and I am sure I have missed some amazing girls that can't or will not follow my rules, but I am attracted to girls that still almost have it together. I always pay what ever rate they ask.
I never negotiate. I always tip. To me the first step to a enjoyable experience is to have it drama free. Sitting in parking lots begging for a room. Number or having to avoid all the literal and figuratively potholes to get to a room to be worried about peeps coming out of bathroom is just to much for me. If she agrees to all my conditions and doesn't show, all I am out is a little time and a ton of disappointment. I am the only one looking out for me, so I take that responsibility seriously. Most my experience is strip club based, for what it's worth. Remain cautious.
I don't see how you get girls to do all that. 99% of the one I've contacted won't even send me a pic let alone do all that.
[QUOTE=GaryRidgeway;5352477]Been playing this game on and off for 25 years. I probably done incall 6 or 7 times. Had mostly ok to good experiences, with only 1 being potentially bad. But in the last few years my paranoia I don't know if I will be doing incall anytime soon. 5 plus years ago I use to regularly get a room in ashville and have 2-4 visitors in a 15 hour visit. In the last few years. Due to no shows. I just can't mentally do it anymore. I can't blow 80-100 to sit in a roach motel in ashville. I am devastated the Ramada inn on smokey park closed, it had a indoor pool and hot tub. So now outcall to a spot I have is usually my only option. There are things to consider about bringing a girl to your casa. 1. She probably is checking out your pad to see if you are a good burglary candidate.
2. If you have a s / o around escort randomly stopping in is a consideration. I strongly believe most girls have tracking apps on their phone. If they dabble in blackmail they can easily figure out your name. Your ex's wife name etc. And can and will use that information. The biggest perk to outcall is you are probably uncle proof. They are not going to spend time and energy going to location to location to make a simple arrest. My outcall screening process. 1. Exchange texts 2. Receive confirmation photo doing as I direct 3. Brief phone call. 4. If we get that far I advise we will meet at a public location of my choosing, I always pick a place with lots of stores (cherrydale, any strip plaza). Once she arrives at location I advise her what store to go to. This provides me to observe her closely one last time, before cementing deal. I also like being on camera with her for my safety purposes. Quick trip cameras are great. I advise them early in the game that I will not allow any driver to be lurking outside my residence. She has 2 options to ride with me or follow me in the car she drove solo to the location. (yes I have peaked in cars for hiding peeps). I know these are a ton of steps and I am sure I have missed some amazing girls that can't or will not follow my rules, but I am attracted to girls that still almost have it together. I always pay what ever rate they ask.
I never negotiate. I always tip. To me the first step to a enjoyable experience is to have it drama free. Sitting in parking lots begging for a room. Number or having to avoid all the literal and figuratively potholes to get to a room to be worried about peeps coming out of bathroom is just to much for me. If she agrees to all my conditions and doesn't show, all I am out is a little time and a ton of disappointment. I am the only one looking out for me, so I take that responsibility seriously. Most my experience is strip club based, for what it's worth. Remain cautious.[/QUOTE]
I am thrilled if a girl bails out early in the process. I would rather get a no straight out gate. Then a no 5 steps in. But I just can't play the games of incall. I have zero self worth, but I have enough that I will not subject my self to sitting in some 3 rate hotel parking lot. Or a section 8 apartment complex. I will admit my success rate is very low. But my rip off rate, stress rate is also very low. The money that I have allocated for the hobby has stacked up due to my requirements and lack of supply. Not ideal, I just head to the strip clubs in Atlanta or when a girl does come through I spend like a newly signed rapper. Just one man's protocol. Stay safe.
[QUOTE=GaryRidgeway;5352477]Been playing this game on and off for 25 years. I probably done incall 6 or 7 times. Had mostly ok to good experiences, with only 1 being potentially bad. But in the last few years my paranoia I don't know if I will be doing incall anytime soon. 5 plus years ago I use to regularly get a room in ashville and have 2-4 visitors in a 15 hour visit. In the last few years. Due to no shows. I just can't mentally do it anymore. I can't blow 80-100 to sit in a roach motel in ashville. I am devastated the Ramada inn on smokey park closed, it had a indoor pool and hot tub. So now outcall to a spot I have is usually my only option. There are things to consider about bringing a girl to your casa. 1. She probably is checking out your pad to see if you are a good burglary candidate.
2. If you have a s / o around escort randomly stopping in is a consideration. I strongly believe most girls have tracking apps on their phone. If they dabble in blackmail they can easily figure out your name. Your ex's wife name etc. And can and will use that information. The biggest perk to outcall is you are probably uncle proof. They are not going to spend time and energy going to location to location to make a simple arrest. My outcall screening process. 1. Exchange texts 2. Receive confirmation photo doing as I direct 3. Brief phone call. 4. If we get that far I advise we will meet at a public location of my choosing, I always pick a place with lots of stores (cherrydale, any strip plaza). Once she arrives at location I advise her what store to go to. This provides me to observe her closely one last time, before cementing deal. I also like being on camera with her for my safety purposes. Quick trip cameras are great. I advise them early in the game that I will not allow any driver to be lurking outside my residence. She has 2 options to ride with me or follow me in the car she drove solo to the location. (yes I have peaked in cars for hiding peeps). I know these are a ton of steps and I am sure I have missed some amazing girls that can't or will not follow my rules, but I am attracted to girls that still almost have it together. I always pay what ever rate they ask..[/QUOTE]Well that's a pack of lies. Lets review some girls that don't see people who named after serial killers.
I saw Jewelz and had a great time. Sweet lady. Demons, yes, but not out of control. I did an hour with Hailey, she's quiet but definitely not a total dead fish. Definitely didn't feel unsafe.
Interesting write up, Gary. With that level of risk aversion, why would you not consider just getting established with a regular or two?? Just saying. I don't have time for that many hoops, and neither do most providers, I suspect.
Maybe its the thrill. I can fully understand that! The hunt! Hell yes.
[QUOTE=GaryRidgeway;5352477]Been playing this game on and off for 25 years. I probably done incall 6 or 7 times. Had mostly ok to good experiences, with only 1 being potentially bad. But in the last few years my paranoia I don't know if I will be doing incall anytime soon. 5 plus years ago I use to regularly get a room in Ashville and have 2-4 visitors in a 15 hour visit. In the last few years. Due to no shows. I just can't mentally do it anymore. I can't blow 80-100 to sit in a roach motel in Ashville. I am devastated the Ramada inn on Smokey park closed, it had a indoor pool and hot tub. So now outcall to a spot I have is usually my only option. There are things to consider about bringing a girl to your casa. 1. She probably is checking out your pad to see if you are a good burglary candidate.
2. If you have a s / o around escort randomly stopping in is a consideration. I strongly believe most girls have tracking apps on their phone. If they dabble in blackmail they can easily figure out your name. Your ex's wife name etc. And can and will use that information. The biggest perk to outcall is you are probably uncle proof. They are not going to spend time and energy going to location to location to make a simple arrest. My outcall screening process. 1. Exchange texts 2. Receive confirmation photo doing as I direct 3. Brief phone call. 4. If we get that far I advise we will meet at a public location of my choosing, I always pick a place with lots of stores (Cherrydale, any strip plaza). Once she arrives at location I advise her what store to go to. This provides me to observe her closely one last time, before cementing deal. I also like being on camera with her for my safety purposes. Quick trip cameras are great. I advise them early in the game that I will not allow any driver to be lurking outside my residence. She has 2 options to ride with me or follow me in the car she drove solo to the location. (yes I have peaked in cars for hiding peeps). I know these are a ton of steps and I am sure I have missed some amazing girls that can't or will not follow my rules, but I am attracted to girls that still almost have it together. I always pay what ever rate they ask.
I never negotiate. I always tip. To me the first step to a enjoyable experience is to have it drama free. Sitting in parking lots begging for a room. Number or having to avoid all the literal and figuratively potholes to get to a room to be worried about peeps coming out of bathroom is just to much for me. If she agrees to all my conditions and doesn't show, all I am out is a little time and a ton of disappointment. I am the only one looking out for me, so I take that responsibility seriously. Most my experience is strip club based, for what it's worth. Remain cautious.[/QUOTE]