Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=Bran001;5678522]To those of us who really are into the SA experience, Montreal is apples vs. Oranges. The goal for me is to sleep with a college student / grad student / young professional, not a pro sex worker. The experiences are just very different.

It's not to say that the sex experience with a pro might not be better in some ways. It'll be different. It all depends on what your "thing" is.[/QUOTE]Yes agreed but the girls I have had the pleasure of seeing in Montreal were mostly college girls. I never had what I would consider a "pro" but it was also before SA came along. The selection was so wide that you could pick and chose from the different agencies and MERB was a great resource for finding the real givers. Granted they were never on a repetitive schedule with me but that was because I wasn't there on a schedule just when I was able to plan a work trip. I did hit it off with one young girl and she decided to stay the night and she ended up with me the whole time I was up there.

I just don't understand the need to drop huge coin to get laid when there are plenty of options without killing the bank account. I have plenty of disposable income and still refuse to drop the large amounts but that's just me.

[QUOTE=Joe1223;5679096]Yes agreed but the girls I have had the pleasure of seeing in Montreal were mostly college girls. I never had what I would consider a "pro" but it was also before SA came along. The selection was so wide that you could pick and chose from the different agencies and MERB was a great resource for finding the real givers. Granted they were never on a repetitive schedule with me but that was because I wasn't there on a schedule just when I was able to plan a work trip. I did hit it off with one young girl and she decided to stay the night and she ended up with me the whole time I was up there.

I just don't understand the need to drop huge coin to get laid when there are plenty of options without killing the bank account. I have plenty of disposable income and still refuse to drop the large amounts but that's just me.[/QUOTE]Joe I agree with you 100%. There is never a need to drop huge coin.

So I did an experiment lately on SB. Given that a lot of messages weren't getting responses even after sharing my pvt. Photos, yet I would keep getting more message requests from profiles I hadn't even looked at, and messages to buy more credits to unlock them. I decided to remove all my photos and profile bio, and see if I continued to get unsolicited message requests. No surprise, I did. I feel like the creators of the site put on a bunch of fake profiles, and some script to message people so you keep buying credits to unlock conversation that don't go anywhere.

[QUOTE=Hamsd;5679952]So I did an experiment lately on SB. Given that a lot of messages weren't getting responses even after sharing my pvt. Photos, yet I would keep getting more message requests from profiles I hadn't even looked at, and messages to buy more credits to unlock them. I decided to remove all my photos and profile bio, and see if I continued to get unsolicited message requests. No surprise, I did. I feel like the creators of the site put on a bunch of fake profiles, and some script to message people so you keep buying credits to unlock conversation that don't go anywhere.[/QUOTE]Yes, SB absolutely does. I think they also use dormant accounts to message people. I got daily messages from girls when I hadn't logged into the site for a year.

Seems to be the only way to proceed is to only message girls first. If they message you first, pretend they don't exist, 99% chance its fake.

One way to rule out accounts, any girl who's seeking section is one line, and super basic. They're pretty lazy about filling out the dead accounts, so the girls who take time to describe themselves and add a few sentences about what they're looking for are more likely to be real.

[QUOTE=ActionJ1;5680683]Yes, SB absolutely does. I think they also use dormant accounts to message people. I got daily messages from girls when I hadn't logged into the site for a year.

Seems to be the only way to proceed is to only message girls first. If they message you first, pretend they don't exist, 99% chance its fake.

One way to rule out accounts, any girl who's seeking section is one line, and super basic. They're pretty lazy about filling out the dead accounts, so the girls who take time to describe themselves and add a few sentences about what they're looking for are more likely to be real.[/QUOTE]It's not dormant accounts or necessarily fake accounts. There's a few other sites they own and they cross post the profiles. What ends up happening tho is I don't think the messages or profiles syndicate properly. I've talked to a few in SA when I recognized their pictures and they never heard of SB but had signed up to other sites. I've yet to get something legit from SB. The model is conducive to enticing fakes with this approach tho since every message you send then is a true roll of the dice. Even for verified profiles.

I recommend avoiding this one.

When I entered her apartment I was surprised to see kids sitting in the living room along with another young woman as I walked by in front of them. I asked the SA girl if the kids were hers and she said they were "ours" (referring to the other girl). Later she asked if the other girl could hang out (I. E. Have fun) with us. I got a good look at this other girl; she was gross. Didn't want anything to do with that so I privately and politely declined. Obviously these two are a lesbian couple.

When I was alone with the SA girl she hardly made eye contact and was asking for the donation before doing anything.

She told me she liked kissing but was passively, yet adamantly resistant to actually doing it. The whole situation was just offputting and I ended up leaving.

Her real name is Haylee. She said at first her name was Daisy but I pointed out how there was a certificate on her bedroom wall that said Haylee and she admitted it was her name.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fd3989ab-0da9-4608-ae87-5fddd3ca744b[/URL]

[QUOTE=Patriarchist;5684427]I recommend avoiding this one.

When I entered her apartment I was surprised to see kids sitting in the living room along with another young woman as I walked by in front of them. I asked the SA girl if the kids were hers and she said they were "ours" (referring to the other girl). Later she asked if the other girl could hang out (I. E. Have fun) with us. I got a good look at this other girl; she was gross. Didn't want anything to do with that so I privately and politely declined. Obviously these two are a lesbian couple.

When I was alone with the SA girl she hardly made eye contact and was asking for the donation before doing anything.

She told me she liked kissing but was passively, yet adamantly resistant to actually doing it. The whole situation was just offputting and I ended up leaving.

Her real name is Haylee. She said at first her name was Daisy but I pointed out how there was a certificate on her bedroom wall that said Haylee and she admitted it was her name.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fd3989ab-0da9-4608-ae87-5fddd3ca744b[/URL][/QUOTE]Yea I talked to her awhile back, not hard to get her facebook and info once I did but she's a ex drug addict / street prostitute from michigan who is a lesbian, she trolls encore at night trying to score action. She looks good in her insta pics but one close up of her stomach shows damage. But should have posted first before meeting it would have saved you time and money.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/781a1750-76e9-47fb-ba39-3b7eb1b31a34[/URL]

I guess you can't get any more direct than that.

I'm seeing 2 grad students. One who has yet to ask for money. I just buy her stuff at Target and then dinner and then we bang at her place. Other is Asian and loves playing a sub serviant Geisha. We get hotels for a few hours every few weeks and she is basically my slave. Pretty cool for 400 per meet. Both have deactivated their SA profiles so can't share (and probably wouldn't share unless they were cool with it).

But I still keep my eye out for those weeks when I have nothing going on:

Vermillion / Alix / Alizeryn 27 Boston.

Red head wannabe sophisticate. New profile. Same attitude. GPS. You won't get anywhere with her anytime soon. Wants $2500 per month. Some previous reviews under old profile. It's a shame because she's relatively cute.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/64523b5b-8aac-4eb6-8f4c-a2e54d4b167c[/URL]

Daisy 27 Granby.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/65ef078c-8f11-492a-8f1e-cf048f422a75[/URL]

Sexy tattooed MILF got her to drive to me. 400 plus hotel. Pretty fun. Protected FS and Greek. Complicated to setup so probably will not repeat.

Payton 30 Franklin.

Seems pretty fat but says you can come over and she will blow you and you can leave a deposit. No fees discussed but can't imagine it's expensive. May try if holidays get me up LOL.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d1ea42bc-3489-43f8-8f47-3ee8487e92e2[/URL]

Chloesinclairx 19 Boston.

Young and inexperienced. Wants $1000 per date with no guarantee of any action ever. Says she has gotten that before. No idea who would pay a grand for hanging out with no a no sex 19 yr old but everyone has their preferences (Seriously dudes? And I'm the creepy one?

Doublethefun1 27 Boston.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/560f9aee-7fee-4ea4-b22d-2a133819a981[/URL]

Nikki (from Saugus who's been reviewed here many times) and a friend. If this is the same friend she described to me it sounded pretty good. But Nikki wants 350-400 solo so this is probably double. Probably a lot of weed and drug smoking. Probably you paying for a hotel room. Probably same hygiene issues. I guess if you want a threesome with two okay looking late 20's women for 7-8 go for it.

Greek goddess 23 Boston.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/560f9aee-7fee-4ea4-b22d-2a133819a981[/URL]

99% sure she's a pro. Wants 500. Can't host. Very difficult to get info out of. Talked her down to 3 then she went to New York.

Babyalex2121 27 Boston.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cefa6aa1-efd1-4a4a-b672-1702dc23badd[/URL]

Cute. Can't get her to tell me what she wants for financials. Seems like she just wants to talk. Weird.

Bettydoll123 33 Andover.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/33ebf175-a08f-4141-ad38-7cd085e2d5be[/URL]

Cute. Can't host. Seems to be up for most activities. Wants 300. But stopped responding to me.

Soccerstar24.

Pretty. Lawyer type. Definitely into quick bang for buck. Quoted me 1 k. Passed.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/945b8ed9-ecc4-4d27-893c-f837514b1c27[/URL]

Sana 26 Boston (no link).

Beautiful Asian MILF. Coming from an hour away. Said she would take 500 but then she blocked me.

[QUOTE=BR1201;5684558]I'm seeing 2 grad students. One who has yet to ask for money. I just buy her stuff at Target and then dinner and then we bang at her place. Other is Asian and loves playing a sub serviant Geisha. We get hotels for a few hours every few weeks and she is basically my slave. Pretty cool for 400 per meet. Both have deactivated their SA profiles so can't share (and probably wouldn't share unless they were cool with it).

But I still keep my eye out for those weeks when I have nothing going on:

Vermillion / Alix / Alizeryn 27 Boston.

Red head wannabe sophisticate. New profile. Same attitude. GPS. You won't get anywhere with her anytime soon. Wants $2500 per month. Some previous reviews under old profile. It's a shame because she's relatively cute.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/64523b5b-8aac-4eb6-8f4c-a2e54d4b167c[/URL]

Daisy 27 Granby.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/65ef078c-8f11-492a-8f1e-cf048f422a75[/URL]

Sexy tattooed MILF got her to drive to me. 400 plus hotel. Pretty fun. Protected FS and Greek. Complicated to setup so probably will not repeat.

Payton 30 Franklin.

Seems pretty fat but says you can come over and she will blow you and you can leave a deposit. No fees discussed but can't imagine it's expensive. May try if holidays get me up LOL.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d1ea42bc-3489-43f8-8f47-3ee8487e92e2[/URL]

Chloesinclairx 19 Boston.

Young and inexperienced. Wants $1000 per date with no guarantee of any action ever. Says she has gotten that before. No idea who would pay a grand for hanging out with no a no sex 19 yr old but everyone has their preferences (Seriously dudes? And I'm the creepy one?

Doublethefun1 27 Boston.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/560f9aee-7fee-4ea4-b22d-2a133819a981[/URL]

Nikki (from Saugus who's been reviewed here many times) and a friend. If this is the same friend she described to me it sounded pretty good. But Nikki wants 350-400 solo so this is probably double. Probably a lot of weed and drug smoking. Probably you paying for a hotel room. Probably same hygiene issues. I guess if you want a threesome with two okay looking late 20's women for 7-8 go for it.

Greek goddess 23 Boston.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/560f9aee-7fee-4ea4-b22d-2a133819a981[/URL]

99% sure she's a pro. Wants 500. Can't host. Very difficult to get info out of. Talked her down to 3 then she went to New York.

Babyalex2121 27 Boston.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cefa6aa1-efd1-4a4a-b672-1702dc23badd[/URL]

Cute. Can't get her to tell me what she wants for financials. Seems like she just wants to talk. Weird.

Bettydoll123 33 Andover.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/33ebf175-a08f-4141-ad38-7cd085e2d5be[/URL]

Cute. Can't host. Seems to be up for most activities. Wants 300. But stopped responding to me.

Soccerstar24.

Pretty. Lawyer type. Definitely into quick bang for buck. Quoted me 1 k. Passed.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/945b8ed9-ecc4-4d27-893c-f837514b1c27[/URL]

Sana 26 Boston (no link).

Beautiful Asian MILF. Coming from an hour away. Said she would take 500 but then she blocked me.[/QUOTE]Nikki from Saugus.

BBBJ CFS no FIV not into kissing daty cute.

Mom with 3 kids YMMV.

SharpIngnue
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/732c7b5f-71e6-4d8b-96fd-ceb4324e457d[/URL]

Scammer. Wants you to send money via Paypal before meeting, unwilling to send a verification photo, and says she's available all day and willing to do anything sexually.

Chloe714
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3098eda4-8cef-4d08-9715-48acf11f1e8b[/URL]

Desperate. Says she's two months behind on rent and has until Jan 1st to come up with what she owes, I'm interested in a long-term weekly situation and she's seems to be interested in make as much money as possible now.

Annaboo
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5ada43a0-8d5f-4fa3-b321-0987e33e4f41[/URL]

Sorry to disappoint, but Ashley Adams doesn't live in New Hampshire.

[QUOTE=CandyMan555;5684763]Nikki from Saugus.

BBBJ CFS no FIV not into kissing daty cute.

Mom with 3 kids YMMV.[/QUOTE]Maybe there's multiple Nikki's from Saugus or the one I know just is different around me. She's definitely the girl in the pic on the right. She also has a couple solo profiles. The one I've met has 1 kid likes oral, FIV, and loves kissing. Will allow CIM, COF, COT etc. Video encouraged and I have plenty of those. She even sent me other videos of her with other guys. Only weird thing is she hates a lot of breast play. And she sometimes smells bad, smokes a ton of weed, and can be really irritating asking for shit and texting all the time.

I've only been on SA for 2 months, so wanted some perspective from you degenerates that have been doing this a lot longer than I have. Some of you will probably think this "predicament" is funny, or maybe I'm just being paranoid.

Just met with a 19 year old, part-time model. My rules are first meet is an afternoon coffee or drink, just a meet and greet, nothing intimate. Had planned for late afternoon, but things got pushed back to around dinner time. Mistake #1. Since things to pushed back, I wound up going to the bar early and she showed up a little late as well, leading to my mistake #2, which was getting more drunk than I had intended. We hit it off, had good physical chemistry, barhopped in the area for a while (she has a fake I'd), and so things went into the night. Mistake #3 is since I thought this would be a quick happy hour drink and not something long and drawn out, I didn't bring any protection. Now she takes me back to her place. I'm browning / blacked out by now, probably had 7+ drinks by this point, but I remember her saying to me while we're making out, "I want you to cum inside me. " I think I had whiskey dick and couldn't cum for a while after fucking bareback, even though that pussy was so wet and tight. So she smoked me up, and then we moved to round 2. Things I remember at this point are nutting in her, looking into her eyes telling her she's amazing, kissing her, making her feel loved (this is just my playbook LOL). Listened to some music and smoked some more pot, fell asleep, and she woke me up at 2 am and said that I should probably get home.

It sounds to good to be true, which is what bothers me. She had a great, young body with pierced nipples. The girl even didn't ask for money, I just went to the ATM on the walk back to her place and decided that I should give her $400. I'm worried that she may be trying to long con me by pretending that she gets pregnant and having me pay for the abortion, or even worse, if she really did get knocked up, keeping the kid. Am I out of my mind? Maybe it was just sexy talk about her wanting me to nut inside of her. Maybe this experience is why guys go through so many headaches and fake profiles to find a girl like this? Give me some advice LOL.

Also, someone was talking about AlexBaby. It's got to be a gay guy running that account or that she never intends to meet. I messaged her first, sent her some pics, she kept saying that I was so sexy and handsome that she was worried she would fall in love with me if we met in person, that she's half Nepali and would kill to be with an Asian guy like me, but she always waffles when I bring up just a quick meet for coffee.

[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5679514]Joe I agree with you 100%. There is never a need to drop huge coin.[/QUOTE]I think it depends on what you're looking for. A few years ago I had four arrangements at the same time for a while; I admit to dropping more money than anyone should and haven't since then. Weekly BBFSCIP and everything in between: 19 year old, white, 5'10, long legs, banging body, Harvard undergrad and part-time runway model; 18 year old Lesley undergrad, white, 5'3, C cup, tattoos, artist; 20 year old UMass Boston international student, Asian, 5'4, toned, B cups, no idea what she studied; 21 year old Korean girl studying pharmacy or something, 5'7, c cups, really banging body and loved fucking. Two of the best memories of my life from then -- 1. Taking the model shopping at Copley, ended up at Stuart Weitzman and watched her try on those knee high boots in front of everyone at the store and model them for me, then going back to her place to fuck with those on, and 2. Waking up at the Intercontinental pre-dawn to the Korean girl blowing me.

Those four all gave me more than any provider has. I don't regret anything because someone in my position I don't think I could have had those experiences otherwise. These days I can't find anyone close to what I had on SA before.

[QUOTE=BleedGreen88;5685706]I've only been on SA for 2 months, so wanted some perspective from you degenerates that have been doing this a lot longer than I have. Some of you will probably think this "predicament" is funny, or maybe I'm just being paranoid.

...I'm worried that she may be trying to long con me by pretending that she gets pregnant and having me pay for the abortion, or even worse, if she really did get knocked up, keeping the kid. Am I out of my mind?[/QUOTE]Whether she's running a long con or not, at this point worrying won't help your situation. No use in stressing out.

FWIW, I doubt she's trying to con you. Unless you positioned yourself as some **ridiculously** wealthy guy, the negative affects of her being pregnant outweigh the positives of having joe schmo pay child support. And if she's even half way smart, she'd realize that she'd make way more money over the short & long term having you pay for dinner + allowance vs asking for you to pay for an abortion.

In my experience (on the site and personal dating life), a lot of women in MA are into having you cum inside them. One girl I dated for a bit explained that she's much more afraid of STDs than getting pregnant because the latter she has much more control over (before and after the deed).

Long story short, this girls actions are not inconsistent with other girls her age imo.

SA is weird. Some women are just interested in having a guy take them out on the town and others are looking for cold hard cash. It's entirely possible you got the former not the latter.