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[QUOTE=RandoJoe;5532799]So some concerns I've had about getting into this side of the hobby:

One time I got a massage and got pulled over leaving the parlor I didn't get a ticket or arrested and pretty much refused to answer any questions. Nothing happened. I was in a storefront business so I didn't sweat it.

Obviously that's a way different situation than leaving a provider at a hotel. Have any of you guys got pulled over after? Can they send a warrant out later if they suspected you of anything even if they didn't write you up then like if the girl gets busted and she tries ratting you out? Or do they need to catch you in the act?

How do you handle people trying to dash or rob you? Is it smarter just to let the cash ride or to not back down from it?[/QUOTE]I've never been accosted by the po-po before or after. You're not going to get a warrant in the mail down the road. Unless they have mics and cameras in the room and you're babbling about paying her for sex they have no proof you did. If you're worried the cops are taking license plate numbers just park somewhere else and walk over. She isn't going to rat you out; it would be her admitting to prostitution.

If a chick runs, let her go. There's probably a pimp with a gun nearby. If you are literally robbed then it's your call whether to report it to the police. But then you got to explain something believable why you were there in the first place. Good luck with that.

Caution is smart, but don't over-think it. Scouring these boards for known, legit, cool providers is your best course of action. If you see an ad that catches your eye Google their phone numbers to find other ads. Use reverse google image search to check if the pics are only in escort ads or lifted from somewhere else. If you find the same pics in ads in a dozen different states she's likely fake. Lastly, copy / paste the link here and ask about her.

Good luck.

[QUOTE=DaveL7;5533235]300 for 1/2 hr. Not cheap. But AL OT of fun. Nice hotel in novi.[/QUOTE]10/ min worth fun? With a GFE provider I'm usually not done eating their pussy in the first 1/2 hr. LOL.

[QUOTE=Taz41;5533245]You're looking for a relationship even though you know you shouldn't be, you know you aren't going to get the 20 y / o you want and you don't want the 60 y / o, so it sounds to me like you're giving yourself a reason to not accept that reality by saying there's some sort of process that you'll always be stuck in, even though you've lived nearly 60 years on this planet and you that's not how life works.

It's not a "compartmentalization process" to realize she's seeing you for money. That's what it is. If you can't (or don't want to) accept that, then perhaps you should be more open about what you want for what you are doing, rather than pretending it will be something you'll accept some day, when we and especially she knows otherwise.

It could be a SB fits your needs. IDK what you're talking about 'skin thickening' though. It sounds like you're just allowing yourself to live in fantasy land where you may end up with the girl. Let me share that any 20 something seeing a 60 y/o man even for pay won't respect that dishonesty or find it attractive, so you may as well transition your thinking or be more honest about what you're looking for right now. They will figure out what you're looking for pretty quickly and probably exploit it in their own ways, whether you know it or not. You're an open book here so I'm sure women will have no problem realizing they can get what they want from you, let them see this weakness. Some of the sweetest, most popular ones on here will and, trust me, they aren't in any illusion like you seem to be about the relationship, and you had better get real about what many of them know about the ways that work to get rid of the heartbroken old man. I'm speaking as someone that has had end it with many regulars, and the result when you cut them off from guaranteed funds the response isn't always "I hope you have a wonderful life. " You are smart enough to know many had daddy issues; guess who often gets to step in for the abuse they never got to give to daddy. If you're not up to accepting the reality of that and keep choosing to go into these things not being honest about the higher degree of attachment it's pretty clear you want, then go do the SB thing and pay for that relationship you want would be my advice.[/QUOTE]I agree with everything you said. Especially that a SB will manipulate him and bleed him dry if he can't grasp and continually hold onto the fact it's a paid-for fantasy. No matter what other window dressing is involved she's there for only one thing. Remove the money from the equation and she's history as fast as one can flick a light switch. So my advice would be to forget the SB idea entirely unless he's very well off and doesn't mind losing his shirt for a pretend gf.

Sorry Lothario, but that's the reality. Whichever way you go, every single day, take a step back from your emotions and ask yourself "Would she be here without the money, and am I really getting what I'm paying for?" Good luck.

I seem to come and go here a lot recently and I wanted to provide an update. I have tried reaching out to Ingrid to see if she is back. She must be at the mental hospital still, or quit the lifestyle for good. I will miss that sweet 18 yo, I'd verified pussy. Oh my god it was so tight, and her spinner body. I have not been able to find a replacement but I shall keep searching.

[QUOTE=Wiggles0923;5533301]I seem to come and go here a lot recently and I wanted to provide an update. I have tried reaching out to Ingrid to see if she is back. She must be at the mental hospital still, or quit the lifestyle for good. I will miss that sweet 18 yo, I'd verified pussy. Oh my god it was so tight, and her spinner body. I have not been able to find a replacement but I shall keep searching.[/QUOTE]Sounds amazing. Hope you'll share if you do or if she's back!

[QUOTE=Vollan78;5533025]Search the forums for Courtney. If I recall, she has has some not so good reviews.[/QUOTE]It took a while to backtrack to a discussion with a link (jeez, why don't people add a link or screen cap? Nearly every girl in town shares the same first name with someone else and some change their name and number often too). She sounds like a psycho.

[QUOTE=Taz41;5533316]Sounds amazing. Hope you'll share if you do or if she's back![/QUOTE]Last time she wanted more customers but was about to leave for the clinic. Also I was really selfish and wanted her to myself. For $250 I was living a dream with that girl. If she responds to my text I will ask if I can pass out her digest, as I am not active now.

Love scouting leads. Maybe it can be a side gig like a personal shopper.

[QUOTE=Wiggles0923;5533301]I seem to come and go here a lot recently and I wanted to provide an update. I have tried reaching out to Ingrid to see if she is back. She must be at the mental hospital still, or quit the lifestyle for good. I will miss that sweet 18 yo, I'd verified pussy. Oh my god it was so tight, and her spinner body. I have not been able to find a replacement but I shall keep searching.[/QUOTE]She must be at the mental hospital still? If mental hospital isn't another term for drug rehab that's reason enough to stay away permanently IMHO. It's likely that her young life and escort lifestyle put her there. Going back into the lifestyle is like putting a recovering addict into a halfway house that's doubles as a crack house.

[QUOTE=Wiggles0923;5533335]Last time she wanted more customers but was about to leave for the clinic. Also I was really selfish and wanted her to myself. For $250 I was living a dream with that girl. If she responds to my text I will ask if I can pass out her digest, as I am not active now.

Love scouting leads. Maybe it can be a side gig like a personal shopper.[/QUOTE]Was she the girl from SugarDaddyMeet? Out of Ann Arbor?

Yep, could not find the ad. I hope she reaches back out. Even if it is just one more time, I want to smash that puss.

[QUOTE=WednesdayFun;5533416]Was she the girl from SugarDaddyMeet? Out of Ann Arbor?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Perusing;5532548]The Seventh Heaven agency. Must be a member to really look their site over. [URL]https://www.t7h.net/home[/URL].[/QUOTE]Once you book one of the girls you have access as a "member".

Visit two weeks ago. Not bad, not great. A little awkward with getting right down to business, maybe she was in a hurry? Overall looks are pretty solid. Tall but that's okay with me. Everything covered. Nice location, more Walled Lake than Novi. Looking to find something on the regular in the Novi area, so the search continues. Seems even if $$$ isn't the limiting factor, steady and reliable is hard to come by these days. Stay safe.

[QUOTE=OaklandT309;5533296]I agree with everything you said. Especially that a SB will manipulate him and bleed him dry if he can't grasp and continually hold onto the fact it's a paid-for fantasy. No matter what other window dressing is involved she's there for only one thing. Remove the money from the equation and she's history as fast as one can flick a light switch. So my advice would be to forget the SB idea entirely unless he's very well off and doesn't mind losing his shirt for a pretend gf.

Sorry Lothario, but that's the reality. Whichever way you go, every single day, take a step back from your emotions and ask yourself "Would she be here without the money, and am I really getting what I'm paying for?" Good luck.[/QUOTE]I'm truely touched that you guys spent so much time thinking my situation over and taking the time to offer your opinions. I want to assure you I'm not about to run out and liquidate my IRA to split it amongst my ATFs or with a random 20 YO spinner. I have no illusions about serious relationships with any of these girls. I was merely acknowledging that with my personality and inexperience with the hobby I find myself caring more than is probably healthy. I'll get over it.

Meanwhile, I'll be in the hunt tomorrow for an early 20's spinner. Wish me luck on my c*nt hunt.

[QUOTE=LotharioPK;5533907]I'm truely touched that you guys spent so much time thinking my situation over and taking the time to offer your opinions. I want to assure you I'm not about to run out and liquidate my IRA to split it amongst my ATFs or with a random 20 YO spinner. I have no illusions about serious relationships with any of these girls. I was merely acknowledging that with my personality and inexperience with the hobby I find myself caring more than is probably healthy. I'll get over it.

Meanwhile, I'll be in the hunt tomorrow for an early 20's spinner. Wish me luck on my c*nt hunt.[/QUOTE]I wish you luck with that hunt and hopefully you'll report. But, IDK the message got through. I'm not myself speaking about liquidating IRA funds. Has nothing to do with IRA funds. They get all the appointments they want LOL. You're not getting it if you think they care about your money. They don't need that.

I was speaking to someone who said they were new on what I saw in what they were saying both about themselves and about what they thought a regular was. I'm not going to share the specifics I've had with regs (and I've always tried to stay with escorts that were on a higher end as regs, not to brag, but to share). But, I didn't say a word about your money.

I've largely saw 5 regulars myself during my past decade plus. Yeah, I could and did care about them. But, you eventually see the same ways they can and will abuse that, and if you aren't completely honest about it up front. They'll expose it. They have 12+ regular dicks and 3-4 exit plan dicks. If you aren't an exit plan dick, you are there to pay the bills and you're going to be dealt with. You don't seem to be able to think to that level to start, which is a problem. The ones I saw wouldn't even take extra money... that's how little they care about the extra money after a point! They wanted a stable of "guys that cared" that they didn't care about, to the very last point you can imagine that meaning once they don't want you around.

The one went in the hardest, seemed the most normal and down-to-earth. The most petite and sex-driven one of them all. Went from that to the most psychotic and I'll just keep the rest of that story to myself. Have no doubt that they are all, at all times, wondering what they'll have to do if you may even start to look like you're "too concerned" bc you're there for their regular needs while they need them and only until that time. And also. Have no doubts. That they are ready to dump all their shit on the nicest, most caring guy that comes along. And, as I said, to the final extent of what that may mean. As I said, if you want a relationship, be honest, bc you seem to be setting that up. Again, I'm not talking SWers here or some new girl bc I avoided new girls... they're also about the money and will drop a reg who started at a low-rate with the same violence just bc their rate goes up. Always found it easier to pay quality to start.

This post took no thought whatsoever. You said you were going to care and "it was a process" to not see it as a transaction. My point was simple - It's not to them... why isn't it to you? Perhaps you just don't know. Well, hope you are wise enough to listen, since you asked.

[QUOTE=HellKite10;5532881]Before I met Julianna, I've contacted a few ladies which I'll list here and I got to say, their communication needs better communication and none offered GFE. An hour later, I'll get a response from them:

Patricia - [URL]https://www.eros.com/michigan/files/7673519.htm[/URL].

Valentina Diaz - [URL]https://www.eros.com/michigan/files/2210203.htm[/URL].

Luna - [URL]https://www.eros.com/michigan/files/2141006.htm[/URL].

Now with that out of the way, I want to share my experience with Julianna. Her pictures don't do her justice; exotic beauty when I met her at the door. Checking out the storm heading our way, I wanted to set up an appointment before it came. I get an immediate text from Juli saying she's alright with the time I picked. Damage was 5 for Hr and 4 for Hhr. Went with 5 because my gut was telling me to do so. Driving over there was a pain because of traffic. I contacted her again and told her I was going to run late, but she brought an idea I could start my session in another time. It was 30 minutes ahead. This told me she was (or is) understanding with the circumstances and she's willing to make things work if possible. Once I got to my destination, I texted her to let her know I was here (without being rushed). Juli wanted me to stay where I was because of maids cleaning out her room. So, it was a good thing I learned my lesson from last time because if I didn't, I would of called myself stupid. The hotel she's in was very nice; I've been there before and may not look like much of the outside, but the inside is nicely designed.

Within the hotel room, she wore a green dress and high heels. Hot damn! She greeted me with a quick peak on the lips and hug. I placed my donation, washed up, returned to her by holding her, Juli turned her head and smiled. Juli helped me relax because man I needed it from the last few weeks. As we were touching one another, we loosened our clothes. Juli guided me to the bed and touched some more. Even though her chest was small, the rest of her birthday suit was breath taking. With her menu, she offers GFE, BBBJ / CBJ, DATY, LFK, and FCS. Juli also offers an ear if you gents just want to talk to her. I lied down on the bed and Juli gave me those sexy eyes of hunger for my 'd'. Part of me thought she should of played the head a bit more, but what I think she was trying to do was for me to enjoy the CBJ as much as I could before I start pounding her. And boy did I. If done right by the angle, she'll moan for you. We both enjoyed ourselves, but it was one of those times that I couldn't get off because she wasn't tight; Juli was a bit loose. After trying DOGGY, MISH, COWGIRL, I wanted to DATY. [/QUOTE]Thank you for the review.

[QUOTE=Kinger19;5533743]Once you book one of the girls you have access as a "member".[/QUOTE]Can you book without being a member?

[QUOTE=BadKarmaGuy;5534091]Can you book without being a member?[/QUOTE]Look at the site, there is a process for becoming a "member" before booking. The site has all the information.

Daze.

Has anybody seen this one? I know the girl, she is or was a Chalmers SW. I guess I can't say her name because she goes by her real name? I had her number for the longest but it doesn't work anymore and I haven't been able to reach her on this number.

[QUOTE=LionGuy09;5533751]Visit two weeks ago. Not bad, not great. A little awkward with getting right down to business, maybe she was in a hurry? Overall looks are pretty solid. Tall but that's okay with me. Everything covered. Nice location, more Walled Lake than Novi. Looking to find something on the regular in the Novi area, so the search continues. Seems even if $$$ isn't the limiting factor, steady and reliable is hard to come by these days. Stay safe.[/QUOTE]Safe and reliable, right down to business. That's perfect description of Candy.

[QUOTE=EastsideYoung;5534500]Has anybody seen this one? I know the girl, she is or was a Chalmers SW. I guess I can't say her name because she goes by her real name? I had her number for the longest but it doesn't work anymore and I haven't been able to reach her on this number.[/QUOTE]I've seen recent ads for her on [URL]callescort.com[/URL].

Perhaps it has a valid number.

[QUOTE=Lamarr;5534747]Safe and reliable, right down to business. That's perfect description of Candy.[/QUOTE]Tried numerous times texting Candy in the last month. Nothing. Any secretes to contacting her?

I haven't seen her but she looks cute. I tried calling and texting her this morning and got nothing. The east side doesn't have much talent these days. I've messaged 7 different women and not one has responded so far.

[QUOTE=EastsideYoung;5534500]Has anybody seen this one? I know the girl, she is or was a Chalmers SW. I guess I can't say her name because she goes by her real name? I had her number for the longest but it doesn't work anymore and I haven't been able to reach her on this number.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Jimbalaya;5529740]Ok, so there's a new ad posted with her plus one of the girls from the special house in Pontiac. Now, I've seen the girl she's with in the pics, and although she no longer looks that great, she's legit. Like said, are they pooling resources? Expanding their employee baseM. Got a 2nd house going? Idk.

[URL]https://detroit.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/2-is-always-better-than-1/577807176613[/URL][/QUOTE]The girl you provided the link for is legit?

So I am writing this post because I see a lot of people asking if providers are legit. If you don't know how or don't want to reverse image search try looking at their ad for these clues that the ad is probably fake:

Bad or broken English.

Using words like bare, services. Providers don't ever say either of these.

Out of the area phone number.

Pictures look too professional.

Different types / color phones being held up in selfie pics.

Lower than normal rates.

And the best one "deposit required, if you can't leave a deposit, don't contact me".

If you decide to text them, I would START with "hey what city are you in!" Or something similar. If their reply is pretty much the same question then move on. (Usually their reply is "do you need / require my services?" Or "so we aren't wasting time, what area are you in" this is typically a red flag in reply to my question what city are you in.

I've even gone as far as to say "bye scammer" and their reply is "LOL" because they know they are caught!

[QUOTE=BestDjInOhio;5535198]So I am writing this post because I see a lot of people asking if providers are legit. If you don't know how or don't want to reverse image search try looking at their ad for these clues that the ad is probably fake:

Bad or broken English.

Using words like bare, services. Providers don't ever say either of these.

Out of the area phone number.

Pictures look too professional.

Different types / color phones being held up in selfie pics.

Lower than normal rates.

And the best one "deposit required, if you can't leave a deposit, don't contact me".

If you decide to text them, I would START with "hey what city are you in!" Or something similar. If their reply is pretty much the same question then move on. (Usually their reply is "do you need / require my services?" Or "so we aren't wasting time, what area are you in" this is typically a red flag in reply to my question what city are you in.

I've even gone as far as to say "bye scammer" and their reply is "LOL" because they know they are caught![/QUOTE]These scammers have infested Kik and Instagram. Big scam is asking for a Steam card.

[QUOTE=BestDjInOhio;5535198]So I am writing this post because I see a lot of people asking if providers are legit. If you don't know how or don't want to reverse image search try looking at their ad for these clues that the ad is probably fake:

Bad or broken English.

Using words like bare, services. Providers don't ever say either of these.

Out of the area phone number.

Pictures look too professional.

Different types / color phones being held up in selfie pics.

Lower than normal rates.

And the best one "deposit required, if you can't leave a deposit, don't contact me".

If you decide to text them, I would START with "hey what city are you in!" Or something similar. If their reply is pretty much the same question then move on. (Usually their reply is "do you need / require my services?" Or "so we aren't wasting time, what area are you in" this is typically a red flag in reply to my question what city are you in.

I've even gone as far as to say "bye scammer" and their reply is "LOL" because they know they are caught![/QUOTE]Pretty good compilation BestDjInOhio.

One more key addition is "Location". If you do you not see a city name or street name mentioned, then its most likely fake / scam. Avoid ads which say local, near you, close by, state name or phone number, unless the sp is already reviewed by a senior.

[QUOTE=OaklandT309;5531137]FWIW, she replied this evening to a message I sent this morning, apologizing for the delay because her phone had been messed up. I replied it was NP and asked if she did outcall as Romulus is an hr drive. She just replied Yes, and answered a couple questions about her time of day availability and a couple other things. It was a complete answer, not just yes and / or no. IOWs, lucid. She also asked to pre-arrange a meet tomorrow. And she says her hair is mixed red & blond now.

So, IDK. You guys' experience makes me cautious, but her response keeps me hopeful. If it happens I'll report.[/QUOTE]You would think that these girls would get better phones because that's their lifeline to getting clients it never ceases to amaze me how many issues these guys have with their phones the one most important piece of their business and they get crappy and cheap with it LOL smh.

[QUOTE=Kinger19;5532099]Hey guys,

Anyone had the pleasure yet?

[URL]https://www.eros.com/michigan/files/9464892.htm?cat=197[/URL][/QUOTE]Saw Blair yesterday. It wasn't an enjoyable time for me. I know she was great with some others. So good example for YMMV.

Pros:

Agency was very responsive.

She is Pretty and clean.

Cons:

Mandatory Id verification process.

Not budget friendly (for me).

She was keeping a distance and lots of rules.

Fake tits.

Wasn't worth for the damage $$$ for hhr.

Finally ended up in just unenthusiastic CBJ. I'm not repeating but YMMV.

[QUOTE=NotASexAddict2;5531303]Yeah, she made things up to me though. She took her time (boy did she) but she's great as ever.[/QUOTE]Good to hear. She's pulling up some IOU's.

[QUOTE=BuyerBuyer666;5535002]I haven't seen her but she looks cute. I tried calling and texting her this morning and got nothing. The east side doesn't have much talent these days. I've messaged 7 different women and not one has responded so far.[/QUOTE]

Yeah man she still looks like those pictures maybe just a little older. Chest not deflated cause she's got a nice set of bolt ons and not emaciated skinny. Hygiene was always on point. She was my go to for a while till she changed her number. By far my atf for a bbj. I just don't know if the ad is legit. I might be wrong but the picture of the titties im pretty sure are not hers.

I'm looking to move past standard things like massage and escort. I want to know where to look for couples. Sex clubs. Fetish clubs. Girl / Boy combo. Providers who have male companions.

Fetlife is so hard to navigate. Is there anywhere anyone can point me?

[QUOTE=BestDjInOhio;5535526]You would think that these girls would get better phones because that's their lifeline to getting clients it never ceases to amaze me how many issues these guys have with their phones the one most important piece of their business and they get crappy and cheap with it LOL smh.[/QUOTE]Cheap burners?

I didn't have the chance to see her the other day, but in the last couple days she's relocated to Canton. It's a little closer to me at least. Also, she'd posted some new pics and I messaged her that every new pic she posts is hotter than the last. She sent me a couple others and we passed a couple messages. I'm planning to arrange to be in the Canton area tomorrow. Hopefully she'll be awake and answering.

[QUOTE=Shrekr;5535435]Pretty good compilation BestDjInOhio.

One more key addition is "Location". If you do you not see a city name or street name mentioned, then its most likely fake / scam. Avoid ads which say local, near you, close by, state name or phone number, unless the sp is already reviewed by a senior.[/QUOTE]My favorite scammer red flag:

"Full of service Fun! Shower Sex With many positions Doggy Style Fuck & full.

Night Enjoy Oralanal69 position passionate Kissing Penis Massage penis.

Suck Long Time travel specially Fuck your own style Any Place Available".

LOL.

[QUOTE=Wiggles0923;5533486]Yep, could not find the ad. I hope she reaches back out. Even if it is just one more time, I want to smash that puss.[/QUOTE]I never pulled the trigger on her. Maybe because it was all car dates and I don't feel safe (was really jittery last year after evening robbed by Amber). Should have gone for it, hope she comes back.

[QUOTE=OaklandT309;5536018]My favorite scammer red flag:

"Full of service Fun! Shower Sex With many positions Doggy Style Fuck & full.

Night Enjoy Oralanal69 position passionate Kissing Penis Massage penis.

Suck Long Time travel specially Fuck your own style Any Place Available".

LOL.[/QUOTE]Reminds me of the scene in Full Metal Jacket in Saigon: "Hey GI! Me love you looong time! Suckee! Suckee!

[QUOTE=Argongas1;5535861]I'm looking to move past standard things like massage and escort. I want to know where to look for couples. Sex clubs. Fetish clubs. Girl / Boy combo. Providers who have male companions.

Fetlife is so hard to navigate. Is there anywhere anyone can point me?[/QUOTE]What you're looking for is a whole lifestyle that takes time and patience to get involved in. You won't find it just by visiting the right place, it's an earned lifestyle. I'm a Bull and have been fucking hot wives while hubby watches for almost 30 years now, but it took time to earn that privilege. You must have an extremely flexible schedule, be personable, attractive, and of course have a big cock And that's just the basic requirements.

I've been looking at this ad for a while.

[URL]https://www.eros.com/michigan/files/2286845.htm?cat=1[/URL]

Has anyone has any experience with her? She looks incredible.

[QUOTE=MrHungWell;5536365]What you're looking for is a whole lifestyle that takes time and patience to get involved in. You won't find it just by visiting the right place, it's an earned lifestyle. I'm a Bull and have been fucking hot wives while hubby watches for almost 30 years now, but it took time to earn that privilege. You must have an extremely flexible schedule, be personable, attractive, and of course have a big cock And that's just the basic requirements.[/QUOTE]Took me years, depending on what you are looking for. You have to work hard, not be creepy, and understand it a very different set of social and consent rules. The pay off is, I did not need this page for years.

Decided to toftt and give her a try. Do not waste you time or money. I took the plunge and what a nasty experience. And not the good nasty! Hotel was trash, room was trash, smelled like a crack den at the hotel room?! She is covered in bruises and cuts and I think is missing a few teeth. The only hole that was worth a damn was the one missing teeth. Pretty good CBJ but both of the other doors were like throwing a hotdog down a hallway. This is from a guy who is a bit bigger than the league average. I have never bagged on a provider before but just couldn't let this one slide. Stay away and take your cash somewhere else.

[QUOTE=MrHungWell;5536365]What you're looking for is a whole lifestyle that takes time and patience to get involved in. You won't find it just by visiting the right place, it's an earned lifestyle. I'm a Bull and have been fucking hot wives while hubby watches for almost 30 years now, but it took time to earn that privilege. You must have an extremely flexible schedule, be personable, attractive, and of course have a big cock And that's just the basic requirements.[/QUOTE]How does someone earn that lifestyle? How do you meet people of the similar interest? I occasionally scroll through fetlife but never had luck. Is there a specific place or site with activity?