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[QUOTE=Jackass3;3773085]So any of you guys ever get involved with any of these girls?? How'd it turn out?? I'm a single and got involved And now I'm really digging this girl but red flags are popping up and I think I'm in way over my head and I need some real world guidance. Pm for more details if need be.[/QUOTE]Been there done that. Keep your distance brother. There is a reason most of these girls do what they do, and I'm mainly talking about BP women and anything closely related. Can't say the same for sugar baby sites as I have not gone that route but a lot of BP girls also post there.

In my experience, I have found that it's best to keep it all business or you will end up very disappointed. Check your feelings at the door. You want to be their knight in shiny armor, savior, or whatever you want to be. You will spend a lot of energy, money, and put your heart and soul into them, only to have your heart ripped out and crushed. If these girls wanted a serious relationship, they would not be doing this. Yes there are few exceptions, but those are few and far between. It's ok to help them out if you are willing to lose money, but in the end, you will feel like you have been used. I could go on and on about the dos and don'ts, but the best advice is to keep it neutral. Believe me, it will save you a lot of stress, disappointment, heartbreak, and money.

[QUOTE=RustyKuntz;3773401]Been there done that. Keep your distance brother. There is a reason most of these girls do what they do, and I'm mainly talking about BP women and anything closely related. Can't say the same for sugar baby sites as I have not gone that route but a lot of BP girls also post there.

In my experience, I have found that it's best to keep it all business or you will end up very disappointed. Check your feelings at the door. You want to be their knight in shiny armor, savior, or whatever you want to be. You will spend a lot of energy, money, and put your heart and soul into them, only to have your heart ripped out and crushed. If these girls wanted a serious relationship, they would not be doing this. Yes there are few exceptions, but those are few and far between. It's ok to help them out if you are willing to lose money, but in the end, you will feel like you have been used. I could go on and on about the dos and don'ts, but the best advice is to keep it neutral. Believe me, it will save you a lot of stress, disappointment, heartbreak, and money.[/QUOTE]No how to tell when a ***** is lying? There lips move!! Lot of these girls could be 5 star actress with the acting they do, any time I get one on a regular basis and all good they try and suck you in with drama, they love the Knight in shining armor guy. You can't turn a ***** into a house wife they will rob you mentally and emotionally blind and leave you broke.

[QUOTE=RustyKuntz;3773401]Been there done that. Keep your distance brother. There is a reason most of these girls do what they do, and I'm mainly talking about BP women and anything closely related. Can't say the same for sugar baby sites as I have not gone that route but a lot of BP girls also post there.

In my experience, I have found that it's best to keep it all business or you will end up very disappointed. Check your feelings at the door. You want to be their knight in shiny armor, savior, or whatever you want to be. You will spend a lot of energy, money, and put your heart and soul into them, only to have your heart ripped out and crushed. If these girls wanted a serious relationship, they would not be doing this. Yes there are few exceptions, but those are few and far between. It's ok to help them out if you are willing to lose money, but in the end, you will feel like you have been used. I could go on and on about the dos and don'ts, but the best advice is to keep it neutral. Believe me, it will save you a lot of stress, disappointment, heartbreak, and money.[/QUOTE]Its a rabbit hole you don't want to go down.

[QUOTE=Jackass3;3773085]So any of you guys ever get involved with any of these girls?? How'd it turn out?? I'm a single and got involved And now I'm really digging this girl but red flags are popping up and I think I'm in way over my head and I need some real world guidance. Pm for more details if need be.[/QUOTE]The sooner you leave the easier it will be, don't fall for their jedi mindgames.

[QUOTE=Jackass3;3773085]So any of you guys ever get involved with any of these girls?? How'd it turn out?? I'm a single and got involved And now I'm really digging this girl but red flags are popping up and I think I'm in way over my head and I need some real world guidance. Pm for more details if need be.[/QUOTE]Yes. And like you I ignored red flags. It turned out to be a train wreck. Don't do it, bro, if there are red flags. Use the big head. I'm not against getting a piece of ass, but know your role and don't "invest" much past just what it is which is a piece of ass.

[QUOTE=RustyKuntz;3773401]Been there done that. Keep your distance brother. There is a reason most of these girls do what they do, and I'm mainly talking about BP women and anything closely related. Can't say the same for sugar baby sites as I have not gone that route but a lot of BP girls also post there.

In my experience, I have found that it's best to keep it all business or you will end up very disappointed. Check your feelings at the door. You want to be their knight in shiny armor, savior, or whatever you want to be. You will spend a lot of energy, money, and put your heart and soul into them, only to have your heart ripped out and crushed. If these girls wanted a serious relationship, they would not be doing this. Yes there are few exceptions, but those are few and far between. It's ok to help them out if you are willing to lose money, but in the end, you will feel like you have been used. I could go on and on about the dos and don'ts, but the best advice is to keep it neutral. Believe me, it will save you a lot of stress, disappointment, heartbreak, and money.[/QUOTE]Let's see Disappointed-Check.

Feeling used-check.

Stress, disappointment, heartbreak, and money- check, check, check, check.

Man this is making me crazy. She's totally playing me and I'm a glutton for punishment. The hardest part for me is that I genually care about her. I honestly don't even care if she wants to be with me as much as I want her to get out of the business so she doesn't end up dead. I feel like if I walk away that's exactly what's going to happen. This is a part of the business I never thought I would be involved in.

[QUOTE=BBtie72;3773571]Its a rabbit hole you don't want to go down.[/QUOTE]I'm way down deep already. Pm sent.

[QUOTE=Jackass3;3774108]Let's see Disappointed-Check.

Feeling used-check.

Stress, disappointment, heartbreak, and money- check, check, check, check.

Man this is making me crazy. She's totally playing me and I'm a glutton for punishment. The hardest part for me is that I genually care about her. I honestly don't even care if she wants to be with me as much as I want her to get out of the business so she doesn't end up dead. I feel like if I walk away that's exactly what's going to happen. This is a part of the business I never thought I would be involved in.[/QUOTE]So all the red flags are there for you, you checked everything off that I mentioned without you even telling me the details. I didn't just pull this out of thin air, many of us have experienced it. Get your head out of her hole and open your eyes and ears, I say this kindly. You gave me more details and after reading them, I came to the same conclusion, walk away or keep your distance. I feel it's best for you to stay away, so you can clear your head and accept reality, however, it's not an easy thing to do. You say you are in very deep, it's going to take a while for you to clear your mind and wipe the fuzz off your eyes. As much as you want to believe everything we tell you, you want to believe everything she tells you, which is understandable because you've fallen for her. Unfortunately, the truth is, you are not as special as she makes it out to be, there are others who are getting the same treatment as you. Yes, she may like you and do certain things for you because she feels comfortable with you, but she is only trying to make you feel special and return the favor, you take care of her needs and vice versa.

I was once in the same position as you, I literally spent over 10 k on a girl in one year. All the red flags were there but I chose to ignore most of them. I would have her stay at my place, bail her out of jail, listen to her sob stories, on and on. Eventually I found out there were other guys but she would tell me they were just old friends who help her out financially, nothing sexual, yea right. What guy do you know that is willing to give money to a known provider, in exchange for nothing. Eventually I walked away, stopped answering her calls, which came at any given time, and that was the best thing I did. I learned a lot that year just from that situation. Take it from me, don't make the same mistake. I know of some guys who were in the same situation and invested more, only to be highly disappointed. One guy married a woman, had kids with her, only to see her walk out and return to the hobby.

[QUOTE=Jackass3;3774108]Let's see Disappointed-Check.

Feeling used-check.

Stress, disappointment, heartbreak, and money- check, check, check, check.

Man this is making me crazy. She's totally playing me and I'm a glutton for punishment. The hardest part for me is that I genually care about her. I honestly don't even care if she wants to be with me as much as I want her to get out of the business so she doesn't end up dead. I feel like if I walk away that's exactly what's going to happen. This is a part of the business I never thought I would be involved in.[/QUOTE]I understand how you feel, you don't want her to end up dead or something bad happening to her. You want to save her and all that but you are basically fighting a losing battle. I don't want to ramble on about reasons why most providers are in the hobby, most of us know why, and there are other personal reasons we will never know about. Having said that, you can't save her, you can't make her get out of the hobby. Only when she is ready to make that change, she will do so. Trust me, these providers know the risks they are taking by being in the hobby, yet they still choose to do it for several reasons.

So I have a project down on Murfreesboro Road. It's close to hotel that I know some ladies have used as incalls. When I drive by, I see ladies that may appear to be in the business but I don't recognize. These aren't the typical streetwalkers you see by the Shell, etc. It would be so convenient if any of you guys knew any of these girls in the hotel where I see them. Any info would help. Please PM me. I didn't mention the name of the hotel, obviously, BUT many of you know the one I speak of.

Thanks!

[QUOTE=Jackass3;3774108]Let's see Disappointed-Check.

Feeling used-check.

Stress, disappointment, heartbreak, and money- check, check, check, check.

Man this is making me crazy. She's totally playing me and I'm a glutton for punishment. The hardest part for me is that I genually care about her. I honestly don't even care if she wants to be with me as much as I want her to get out of the business so she doesn't end up dead. I feel like if I walk away that's exactly what's going to happen. This is a part of the business I never thought I would be involved in.[/QUOTE]You already know what to do.

Listen to the previous guys posts. They were being real.

Hell, we have all got a T-shirt on this. It's called being played or she has narcissistic behavior pattern.

[QUOTE=Jackass3;3774174]I'm way down deep already. Pm sent.[/QUOTE]They are not Snow White and we are not Prince Charming. Its business. If it works its like finding a winning lottery ticket in the street.

[QUOTE=Mike1701;3775702]You already know what to do.

Listen to the previous guys posts. They were being real.

Hell, we have all got a T-shirt on this. It's called being played or she has narcissistic behavior pattern.[/QUOTE]It took another girl in the business to give me the low down on how the game is played!

[QUOTE=RustyKuntz;3773401]Been there done that. Keep your distance brother. There is a reason most of these girls do what they do, and I'm mainly talking about BP women and anything closely related. Can't say the same for sugar baby sites as I have not gone that route but a lot of BP girls also post there.

In my experience, I have found that it's best to keep it all business or you will end up very disappointed. Check your feelings at the door. You want to be their knight in shiny armor, savior, or whatever you want to be. You will spend a lot of energy, money, and put your heart and soul into them, only to have your heart ripped out and crushed. If these girls wanted a serious relationship, they would not be doing this. Yes there are few exceptions, but those are few and far between. It's ok to help them out if you are willing to lose money, but in the end, you will feel like you have been used. I could go on and on about the dos and don'ts, but the best advice is to keep it neutral. Believe me, it will save you a lot of stress, disappointment, heartbreak, and money.[/QUOTE]We all have similar stories. There all addicts of some kind or another. Being a White Knight is not the way to go.

You can treat them with respect but have your eyes wide open.

The smart ones don't need a white knight.

To many guys have ruined their lives and their families trying to save these women. Don't become another victim.

Even the veterans of the site get sucked in every now and then.

Listen and learn from our learning curves.

Good LUCK.

[QUOTE=BlackHawk101;3776445]We all have similar stories. There all addicts of some kind or another. Being a White Knight is not the way to go.

You can treat them with respect but have your eyes wide open.

The smart ones don't need a white knight.

To many guys have ruined their lives and their families trying to save these women. Don't become another victim.

Even the veterans of the site get sucked in every now and then.

Listen and learn from our learning curves.

Good LUCK.[/QUOTE]Thanks oh mighty wise one. My eyes have been opened more than you know.