She Found Me On Facebook Once
[QUOTE=HobbyExec;5911780]Maybe it's just me,. Or could it be one of those new southern things?
I was born and raised in the low country area before heading off to college and later living (and working) on both coasts.
And in several cities in between. And in all my 20 years in this hobby, Columbia is the only city I've seen actual ads like this where a provider literally posted "no married men". I've actually had 2 amazing visits with Sam and a few nice visits with a certain young caramel cutie here in Columbia who now claimed not to see married men. WTF.
Do these ladies not know the history of the "hobby" I guess it's just the REAL courtesans and mistresses who know that the "hobby" is more of A married (or an attached) man's means of securing intimacy and erotic pleasures that are not being recognized in their bedrooms at home. I'm not suggesting that married men don't love their wives / families, nor am I implying the RIGHT or WRONG of such choices. What I'm simply saying is that this has been a married man's "alternative solution" for centuries. And in many cases, such intimate excursions have helped a few of these married men cope with marriages, or even helped the spice things up on occasion at home. And then there are those who's sex lives at home might be limited due to the wife having health issues.
Additionally, the single man has certainly contributed and benefited greatly from "hobbying", but the single gentlemen did / does not necessarily have all the same needs for secrecy as the married man. Most single gentleman can pretty much bounce from flower to flower as they please and in many cases $ is not much of a factor or might not even be a part of the intimacy exchange.
But for the married man, to express his appreciation, or to provide "consideration" (to the lady for maintaining confidentiality and privacy of their encounters, the married man has always over time been more than willing to give the ladies $ or gifts to protect his privacy and or to maintain the intimate relationship.
Apparently, these 2 ladies don't see what they do as part of the "hobby" and to them, their acts are just a hustle for them with no intimacy and no personal attachments. And that may be cool for them and many of the guys who just want or need the "bust-and-go" type visit from the pool of girls who flood the sites like STG and ListCrawler. If that's the preference, then these guys should not b!t#h and complain about what these ladies won't do, their pissy attitudes, and their messy accomodations and appearances or the GPS donation requests they seek.
Again, this could be just my limited view / perception of what the real hobby is all about based on visits with some top notch providers I've had the pleasure of meeting over the years. Just my $0. 01.
Play Safe.
HEx.[/QUOTE]She found me on facebook once, because we had a great convo after my visit and I just stopped seeing her since. I will go back if she allows BBBJ.