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[QUOTE=ZifnabsDragon;5930204][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d4ccfb70-0c4a-4525-97b1-e11a55786968[/URL]

Looks hot! Puertoricanelle, anyone had any experience with her?[/QUOTE]Instagram: at puertorican_elle.

Gorgeous Grounds Espresso, 14507 and Aurora.

Also at Lake City Deja Vu.

I used to see her at DV back in 2018 or so. We had talked about meeting at my house but I never pulled the trigger. I'm guessing that she's going to be an expensive date now. She works hard to market herself. Super hot but does have implants and that's a problem for me.

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Anyway, I don't consider the $100 that big a deal. Given that lunch at Zip's for the two of us was less than $35 I've dropped a lot more money on less promising girls on the first date. If you get too stressed about $100 you shouldn't be playing in this sandbox.

[/QUOTE]My thought exactly!

[QUOTE=MarkoRamius;5931244]Anyway, I don't consider the $100 that big a deal. Given that lunch at Zip's for the two of us was less than $35 I've dropped a lot more money on less promising girls on the first date. If you get too stressed about $100 you shouldn't be playing in this sandbox.[/QUOTE]I've actually wasted more funds than that on a couple of women. I'm not stressed about it, but do get pissed when the "investment" turns out to be a complete waste. But if you want to continue doing that, be my guest.

[QUOTE=Michael1967;5931588]My thought exactly![/QUOTE]I know the discussion is done here, but the issue to me isn't whether or not $100 is a big deal (it's not), it's that when guys do this, they reward scammers and thus attract more of them. I truly think that SA is the greatest thing out there, however I also understand when newbies are shocked at the number of fake profiles and scammers on the site. Like, why would we talk so positively about something that's full of so much trash? And the thing is, it's completely understandable that they'd feel that way, but those of us who use it just know that it's something we have to navigate if we want to go that route. But that doesn't mean that I want even MORE scammers on the site and even worse, scammers who are made of real-life local women.

[QUOTE=TnaPorter;5931647]I know the discussion is done here, but the issue to me isn't whether or not $100 is a big deal (it's not), it's that when guys do this, they reward scammers and thus attract more of them. I truly think that SA is the greatest thing out there, however I also understand when newbies are shocked at the number of fake profiles and scammers on the site. Like, why would we talk so positively about something that's full of so much trash? And the thing is, it's completely understandable that they'd feel that way, but those of us who use it just know that it's something we have to navigate if we want to go that route. But that doesn't mean that I want even MORE scammers on the site and even worse, scammers who are made of real-life local women.[/QUOTE]Well stated. And while $100 might not seem like a big deal, if one continues doing that, then it begins to matter financially. If folks want to continue to waste money like that, go for it. Just not for me (and I suspect some others also). One can remain in this game / hobby without wasting money. Just need to use common sense.

First is not only the waste of $100, it is also the time and bad after taste.

In the grand scheme of things $100 is not much, just a third of what I would usually pay for a session with an SB, I gladly pay over $200 for a good dinner with a fine lady, yet I would never pay $100 for pho at lunch so its not pocket change either.

I had some sympathy with the OP as I guess he really liked the girl and was curious to test his character judging abilities, that was before his cocky attitude. Its true, that kind of attitude / behavior just encourage scammers to keep trying to rip us off. And again is not just the money, it is also the time.

For instance this lady.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/24ea388c-6e81-4d94-9bd2-9c313c52b061[/URL]

After two hours of steamy chat and once we started making plans to meet, she requested money in advance for the nanny. I wasted my time engaging with her because most likely another idiot has paid her in advance.

If somebody can not afford $100 yeah maybe they are in the wrong hobby but an asshole that does not have the empathy to understand fellow mongers with less spending power is definitely in the wrong community. Plus being a fucking idiot and encouraging scammers is detrimental to all of us with lots of money or not.

[QUOTE=TnaPorter;5931647]I know the discussion is done here, but the issue to me isn't whether or not $100 is a big deal (it's not), it's that when guys do this, they reward scammers and thus attract more of them. I truly think that SA is the greatest thing out there, however I also understand when newbies are shocked at the number of fake profiles and scammers on the site. Like, why would we talk so positively about something that's full of so much trash? And the thing is, it's completely understandable that they'd feel that way, but those of us who use it just know that it's something we have to navigate if we want to go that route. But that doesn't mean that I want even MORE scammers on the site and even worse, scammers who are made of real-life local women.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DelToro;5932312]First is not only the waste of $100, it is also the time and bad after taste.

If somebody can not afford $100 yeah maybe they are in the wrong hobby but an asshole that does not have the empathy to understand fellow mongers with less spending power is definitely in the wrong community. Plus being a fucking idiot and encouraging scammers is detrimental to all of us with lots of money or not.[/QUOTE]People seem to think if everyone else doesn't see things like them they're somehow idiots. I can have [B]empathy [/B]for poor people without it affecting my purchasing decisions. I'm sorry $100 is a lot for some people that want to buy pussy. I just don't really give a fuck when it comes time for ME to buy pussy.

If one actually buys the pussy sure, we all have different styles and motivations, if one is being scammed in a way that is more than obvious, I don't think it is about not seeing eye-to-eye, in any book one is a fucking idiot.

[QUOTE=RogerOver;5932330]People seem to think if everyone else doesn't see things like them they're somehow idiots. I can have [B]empathy [/B]for poor people without it affecting my purchasing decisions. I'm sorry $100 is a lot for some people that want to buy pussy. I just don't really give a fuck when it comes time for ME to buy pussy.[/QUOTE]

If that girl was a "scammer", she was a curiously incompetent one because if she would have played a bit more clever she could have gotten herself a lot more money. My own personal opinion was that she was a bit kooky and panicked and got cold feet.

The real dangerous ones (and they are out there) will actually meet you and fuck you several times and give you a false sense of security.

There was this one stunner I met a long time ago, she was in Atlanta but she traveled a lot for work. We met a few times in Seattle and Portland and then over the next few months a few other places. Last time I ever saw her was at Shutters on the Beach in Santa Monica. Two hours after she left every single one of my credit cards went hot and was shut down. Fortunately AMEX was able to courier me a new card, and I was quick-witted enough to call my banks and shut everything the fuck down and right then. Over the next two weeks there were multiple credit applications in my name and multiple attempts to send very large wire transfers (one was for over 500 k) from my accounts. Cleaning up the mess and getting everything secure and usable again took the better part of a month and a lot of uncomfortable phone calls.

Do I know it was her? Not for sure, but the timing was too cute and too perfect for it to have been anyone else. So if you run into a tall slender blonde who goes by Carlie Jo or Carla run away.

[QUOTE=PoonHound1969;5929590]She is already in! LOL I think I found another unicorn to add.[/QUOTE]If anyone has a suggestion please share.

Yeah one should protect PII at all costs, unless there is indisputable trust and even then better be safe than sorry.

I really like my current stable SB, we have been seeing each other for over a year, I know her name, where she lives, where she works, where her kid goes to school. She does not even know my real name, has not and never would be at my place, and even now when we are together and I need to go to the bathroom I bring my phone / wallet with me.

[QUOTE=MarkoRamius;5932526]If that girl was a "scammer", she was a curiously incompetent one because if she would have played a bit more clever she could have gotten herself a lot more money. My own personal opinion was that she was a bit kooky and panicked and got cold feet.

The real dangerous ones (and they are out there) will actually meet you and fuck you several times and give you a false sense of security.

There was this one stunner I met a long time ago, she was in Atlanta but she traveled a lot for work. We met a few times in Seattle and Portland and then over the next few months a few other places. Last time I ever saw her was at Shutters on the Beach in Santa Monica. Two hours after she left every single one of my credit cards went hot and was shut down. Fortunately AMEX was able to courier me a new card, and I was quick-witted enough to call my banks and shut everything the fuck down and right then. Over the next two weeks there were multiple credit applications in my name and multiple attempts to send very large wire transfers (one was for over 500 k) from my accounts. Cleaning up the mess and getting everything secure and usable again took the better part of a month and a lot of uncomfortable phone calls.

Do I know it was her? Not for sure, but the timing was too cute and too perfect for it to have been anyone else. So if you run into a tall slender blonde who goes by Carlie Jo or Carla run away.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DelToro;5932369]If one actually buys the pussy sure, we all have different styles and motivations, if one is being scammed in a way that is more than obvious, I don't think it is about not seeing eye-to-eye, in any book one is a[b] fucking idiot[/b].[/QUOTE]But you seem to believe that I, as a buyer of pussy, am supposed to think about YOU or other people when making a buying choice that benefits you. I don't do that. I never will. That would make me a "fucking idiot. " Maybe some others (cough, you) can just make more money and stop blaming others for failures?

[QUOTE=Blazer1979;5931477]Instagram: at puertorican_elle.[/QUOTE]Anybody tap that yet or get some fun at lake city with her she is working there tonight per her Instagram might have to go in try my luck.

[QUOTE=RogerOver;5933023]But you seem to believe that I, as a buyer of pussy, am supposed to think about YOU or other people when making a buying choice that benefits you. [/QUOTE]LOL you are indeed a fucking idiot not for your spending habits but because you failed reading comprehension, nowhere in my posts I said anything about anybody pussy buying habits affecting me or not thinking about me. I did say that spending money in known scams is idiotic and lack of empathy on comments make some people assholes no where I criticize anybody pussy buying habits.

[QUOTE=MarkoRamius;5932526]If that girl was a "scammer", she was a curiously incompetent one because if she would have played a bit more clever she could have gotten herself a lot more money. My own personal opinion was that she was a bit kooky and panicked and got cold feet.

The real dangerous ones (and they are out there) will actually meet you and fuck you several times and give you a false sense of security.

There was this one stunner I met a long time ago, she was in Atlanta but she traveled a lot for work. We met a few times in Seattle and Portland and then over the next few months a few other places. Last time I ever saw her was at Shutters on the Beach in Santa Monica. Two hours after she left every single one of my credit cards went hot and was shut down. Fortunately AMEX was able to courier me a new card, and I was quick-witted enough to call my banks and shut everything the fuck down and right then. Over the next two weeks there were multiple credit applications in my name and multiple attempts to send very large wire transfers (one was for over 500 k) from my accounts. Cleaning up the mess and getting everything secure and usable again took the better part of a month and a lot of uncomfortable phone calls.

Do I know it was her? Not for sure, but the timing was too cute and too perfect for it to have been anyone else. So if you run into a tall slender blonde who goes by Carlie Jo or Carla run away.[/QUOTE]I knew a Carlie Jo / Carla in Chicago. One hell of a HOT MILF. I fucked her for a bit and also came in her ass. Blonde maybe 40 (10 years ago) - worked out of a house about 30 minutes north east of Chicago. Cannot remember the exact name of the city. Definitely not the same lady that you are referring to. But you brought up some good memories. Sorry this happened to you bro, but I have always been super careful about my identity with hookers or SA. They think I am sharing a lot because I have well rehearsed stories, but none of them are true although they all sound very convincing and realistic. I actually love pillow talk between rounds, and have well rehearsed stories that I have used for years. Funny thing is, even if it is not true, if you say it enough times, you actually sound pretty convincing. Either way. Sorry this happened to you, but you seem to have handled it very well after the fact.