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I have been seeing this ad for a while now. Can anyone share any intel? Thanks.
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I have been seeing this ad for a while now. Can anyone share any intel? Thanks.
[QUOTE=ChrisLooker;6126207][URL]https://south-jersey.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/quality-service-attention-to-d/517479828031[/URL]
I have been seeing this ad for a while now. Can anyone share any intel? Thanks.[/QUOTE]My buddy saw her about six months ago. Not sure about her performance but her place was an absolute pig sty and she was much bigger than her pics. I have also seen reviews that said stay away.
[QUOTE=HunterJay;6125621]I've contacted chicks with my real page multiple times never got banned I decided to make a page for hunting because I've seen chicks post their Facebook messenger info sharing it publicly for likes I only add a chick after a session I set up an appointment with a chick in Pemberton NJ but didn't go through with it I'll contact her in two weeks from now she didn't block me. I haven't tried IG yet to me Facebook is easier the chicks post all their business on Facebook helps me get a good sense of their character.[/QUOTE]Yea facebook is much easier than IG for sure.
[QUOTE=LolBoat;6122397]I gave up on normal dating along time ago, I'm tempted to give it a shot again because dealing w STG nonsense is just getting old.
Once in awhile you'll come across a BP-like girl who is just trying to make a buck to get her life sorted out but they always disappear after a month or two.[/QUOTE]I'm in the same boat at you for as long as I'm in the United States. Dating and getting laid in America is absolutely horrible for males and it seems to be getting worse. American men do so much for women but get very little in return.
A guy friend of mine and myself came to the same conclusion that here in America women go after the very top men (obvious benefits) and the very bottom but normal regular men now days get passed over or become a woman's last option after they been used and abused and left single mothers. Women just don't need men like they use to so they either chase rich men or violent criminals for the thrill and excitement.
You go to all the poor neighborhoods and all the young spinners have kids by just a small handful of men. In the hood it's not uncommon for one guy to be the father of 20 kids all by different women and he has no job. In the suburbs women are looking to marry doctors and usually stay with the same man they been with since high school.
Admittedly I'm a little jaded and not trusting of women based on what I seen growing up as to why I avoid relationships to be honest. I grew up with my uncle who was a bum but a good womanizer. Women seem to love men who lie to them and mistreat them even if it's physical.
By the time I started working as a teen I remember I use to work at shall I say a legit business facility and I remember getting involved with a girl who worked there of the same age. Literally her boyfriend use to drop her off at work and I use to peak out the window and watch him drive away and then me and this girl use to make out and feel each other up basically anywhere we had any privacy which was a lot as sometimes we would be the only two in the business while it was closed. Anytime we were together we made out and sometimes I took her home after work and her boyfriend had no clue.
[QUOTE=ChrisLooker;6126207][URL]https://south-jersey.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/quality-service-attention-to-d/517479828031[/URL]
I have been seeing this ad for a while now. Can anyone share any intel? Thanks.[/QUOTE]This one was featured in a "Monger Handbook" post I did on another site. As someone else said, there are bad reviews. But take in that whole ad. "Attention to detail" yet she couldn't be bothered to clean up the stuff lying on the floor to take a picture. That screams the exact opposite of "attention to detail" I've only had a couple of bad experiences, and not in a few years. Reviews are your friend, and if there aren't any reviews, look at the ad with a critical eye. Is every picture using some shitty Snapchat filter? Stay away. Are the pictures clear and high resolution? There is no excuse for them not to be, every phone in the world now has a camera capable of taking an award-winning photo in the right hands. Keep in mind also that she is going to look her absolute best in the posted pictures. She's not going to look better when you arrive. If anything, it's the opposite. Finally, read the ad and really take in what it says, then apply a bullshit filter and see how it holds up.
Any intel on this person?
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[QUOTE=JackHam75;6129464]Any intel on this person?
[URL]https://south-jersey.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/late-night-fun-cum-feel-my-tig/754356185204[/URL][/QUOTE]She's legit. I texted her back and forth a couple times last week. Never was able to connect. Too many delays between texts. I was disappointed because I think she would have been a good time. I may try her again. She's staying at a hotel off black horse pike.
[QUOTE=JackHam75;6129464]Any intel on this person?
[URL]https://south-jersey.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/late-night-fun-cum-feel-my-tig/754356185204[/URL][/QUOTE]I already reviewed her on here.
Also posted on A. C. Forum.
Was in town and had a dream with Nicole over the weekend in Atlantic city at a higher end casino hotel. Love her girl next-door look with a wild spinner side to her. I have seen her often in the past and was excited she had an incall available. Comm's were easy enough as usual. 2. 8 for the hr, pretty open menu except a trip to Greece. Fetish extra was reasonable too.
She remembered I prefer the nice side and greated me at the door in just her silver heals white thigh highs and a white shear robe. I was pleasantly surprised as the robe was loosely tied and she looked amazing under it.
We took our time and caught up a bit with general chit-chat as she slowly unbuckled my pants and politely shut me up with a bbj. Her flute skills are on point and asked me to take her doggie. Wasn't much hesitation I flipped her over and she arched her back, gave her all I had and finished all over her back.
Helped clean her up and we chatted a bit more about when I'll be back. Told her soon, but wanted to see this naughty side I've heard about next time.
If you have a chance to see her, I would definitely take it.
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[QUOTE=Lance547;6128834]I'm in the same boat at you for as long as I'm in the United States. Dating and getting laid in America is absolutely horrible for males and it seems to be getting worse. American men do so much for women but get very little in return.
A guy friend of mine and myself came to the same conclusion that here in America women go after the very top men (obvious benefits) and the very bottom but normal regular men now days get passed over or become a woman's last option after they been used and abused and left single mothers. Women just don't need men like they use to so they either chase rich men or violent criminals for the thrill and excitement.
You go to all the poor neighborhoods and all the young spinners have kids by just a small handful of men. In the hood it's not uncommon for one guy to be the father of 20 kids all by different women and he has no job. In the suburbs women are looking to marry doctors and usually stay with the same man they been with since high school.
Admittedly I'm a little jaded and not trusting of women based on what I seen growing up as to why I avoid relationships to be honest. I grew up with my uncle who was a bum but a good womanizer. Women seem to love men who lie to them and mistreat them even if it's physical.
By the time I started working as a teen I remember I use to work at shall I say a legit business facility and I remember getting involved with a girl who worked there of the same age. Literally her boyfriend use to drop her off at work and I use to peak out the window and watch him drive away and then me and this girl use to make out and feel each other up basically anywhere we had any privacy which was a lot as sometimes we would be the only two in the business while it was closed. Anytime we were together we made out and sometimes I took her home after work and her boyfriend had no clue.[/QUOTE]Yup you heard right. It's your fault you aren't scoring in real life. I have seen many other very smart and successful mongers make posts just like you did. You guys are totally wrong and your own worst enemies. Why am I saying this? Because I thought like you all did for way too many years. When I see people still thinking like this it sets me off much how ex smokers go off on current smokers the worst. I finally figured it out so when I see posts like this my thought is this guy is so wrong and will never have success as long as he keeps thinking this way. The funny thing is that it was mongering that set my mind right and why I have had more success with real life women since I started mongering than I did the decades before I did. It is all about mindset.
Let's break this down. I am not picking on you specifically. You seem to be a smart monger and make very good posts / reviews. So do many others who think like you do. These are the guys who have mongering down to a science and every noob should listen to them. But once they start talking real life women and dating they are clueless. This is directed at everyone. I know I am right and you are wrong because I thought and said the same things you just did. But then I realized I was the problem, not the women. Once you accept that you will do MUCH better with women.
Okay the women who marry the doctors and lawyers and other very successful and financially well off men. What is wrong with that? I say those women are smart to look out for themselves and the future of their children. What is wrong with those guys? That is a benefit of them working hard to achieve that lifestyle. It is on you that you didn't work to become successful like that to achieve the benefits that come with it. Why should some girl pick a middle or working class life in Carteret or Bayonne when she can live in Holmdel or Rumson? Your fault, not hers. But if you are smart and your brain is in the right place you can certainly bang such women.
What do you care if Sandy the hoodrat is sleeping with Ray Ray and all of his bum friends? Ray Ray does have kids with 20 different women. So what? Sandy likes that lifestyle. She wants to party every day and have no responsibility. Heck she doesn't even take care of her own kids. The state took them long ago. You really want to date Sandy? You think Sandy wants to live with you in Tom's River and go to PTA meetings and drive the kids to soccer practice? She doesn't want you or that lifestyle and you really don't want her so why even bring it up? Besides you are already banging Sandy. Ray Ray sends her out to escort and you are already seeing her when you are horny. But let's be real. You don't want to actually date that crackhead and you will never change her. But why would you?
Well we just did the two extremes and that leaves us with a whole lot of other women up for grabs who are neither out looking for rich guys or want to spend their lives bumming in the hood. This is your market and if you aren't getting anything here it is on you. They are there for the talking. But you are talking and acting yourself out of the competition before you even start.
First off the I am a nice guy and can do so much for you attitude turns them off completely. They see BORING. Women like excitement. In your mind that means a bad guy who beats them and treats them like dirt. You are wrong. All it means is a guy with some edge to them. They WILL take the bad guy over the whoa is me nice guy. But they would more rather have the good guy with SOME EDGE than either the bad guy or the whoa is me guy. You and the others who talk like you are the Whoa is Me guys. I am saying that not to insult you but to snap you out of that attitude. You are the LAST option. Not because of your looks or how much money you make or anything like that. It is your attitude and way of thinking. So keep thinking like you are and you will always be the last option. That will not change. So maybe consider changing your thought process? You are not going to change the attitude of thousands of years of women to all of a sudden like the whoa is me nice guy. It is in their genetics that those are the least desirable guys.
The good news is that you can move from the whoa is me guy to the good guy with a little edge rather easily. You can do it literally overnight. It means letting women know you are actually a man. What is a little edge? It's not being bad or an asshole. It's means just what it is. Have a little edge to you. Don't be wishy washy. Don't run to a girl at her every beck and call. Don't be the friend zone guy who is there to listen to all her nonsensical bullshit talk. Leave that to the whoa is me guys. You are now a good guy with an edge. You are the guy who makes it clear without outright saying it that she is lucky to be with you and not vice versa. You have to make her see that you can drop her in a second and do better without actually saying that. The truth is you may very well be damn lucky to have her but as long as she thinks you can and will do better she will fall in line. She wants to fall in line. That is their nature. That is why they don't like the whoa is me guys. And less is better when it comes to saying your inner feelings. Yes the I love you is fine. But don't cry about everything in life to her. She wants her man to show strength. Don't be a complainer. Be the man. They will fall in line because they want to fall in line.
You are probably already doing these correct things but with escorts. I am sure you have some regulars who treat you good and at a deep discount. Much of that is because you are a regular who isn't robbing or killing them. But it also has to do with you acting like a man. You probably look at yourself as being better than her and rightfully so. You need to take some of that attitude and apply it to real women. You would jump on a noob who was letting an escort walk over him. It's the same in the real world.
I got out of the whoa is me attitude shortly after I started seeing escorts. I did good in real life. I had good long term relationships. But I thought like you do so it probably held me back. Once I saw how easy it was to manipulate escorts I tried it with real life women and it WORKED. I realized it wasn't even manipulation. It was acting how women really want their men to act like. Does it mean I am picking up supermodels? Of course not. I would say I am better than average looking but don't have much more going for me. Yet I have been juggling multiple women at any given time now for years. All since I had the attitude change. I can afford to be picky. Granted I am probably now a sex addict but that is not a bad thing. I see escorts on occasion now a days but it is mostly married women and single women. I am the one who breaks things off now. All it took was a little attitude change.
There is no issue getting laid these days. The women haven't changed. It is your current attitude that is hurting you and that will not change until you change your thought process. I am not saying this to you and the others to be hurtful. I am telling you that with your current attitude any success you have is pure luck. How about changing the attitude so you know that when you make a move on a girl you are probably going to have her in bed very quickly.
I've been scrolling these post for many years now and I truly want to be involved in being a senior monger. Seniors mongers like Tailgunner and Cookiejar have always been my heroes and I look at them with awe.
So, today I start being a participate than a sideliner and went out on a date at Broadway.
With the help of my GF, Dee, who BTW gives me her blessing to monger once more. So long as I don't come home with STDs. She'll sanction my lifestyle.
Dee and I went on patrol by Kaighn and Broadway. Since Dee hadn't worked Broadway in years, her "program sheet" was outdated. We were going to start with tried and true Broadway girls starting with Brandy or Crystal. Usually hangs out at Kaighn and Broadway yet, some altercation between a Black Karen and Metro lead to Karen getting tased and face on the grimmy streets of Broadway.
After going along Broadway from Ferry to Clinton and back, we kept looking for those two when, we got a decent WSW around Spruce. After a few debates with Dee, she'd convinced me to pull the trigger.
Turns out to be a an ole friend of Dee name Blaze. She was stunned to see Dee after years of not being in Broadway.
Dee brought Blaze to meet me at our car and off we went. Though Blaze was nodding off, after giving her a "hard" for her wakeup, she was ready for the date.
Headed towards the Budget, prices for SS are still reasonable. Damage 47 for 3. Got to the room and got to freshin up with a shower. As we showered, both of us checked each other for signs or stds and demons tracks. Blaze looked like she had it together though, she was probably on a binge for a couple of days.
Blaze is a slender, with blond long hair with white endtails. I didn't see much demons yet, she does the pipe. Tits are small, does have piercing and her kitty is shaved. She presents herself more like an escort and she's on STG under Blaze.
Since this was an introductory date, we kept it simple and kept it oral. She responded well in DATY and we also did light French to work the mood. I was a bit bummed on she covers for FS yet, BBBJ was a delight. Her throat skills is her forte she claims. I vouch for that. No CIM. Maybe on future dates.
Afterwards, she said that she's on STG and was featured on USASEXGUIDE years before. She'd slowed down years before raising her teenage kid. She now an empty nester and lives down at the Shore. She comes to Camden to have a week of durg fueled escape. Till she goes back to reality down at the Shore and escorts.
Blaze had gotten her STG account hacked and some reviews on USASEXGUIDE had been accused of bait and switch. She does post on the Shore and South Jersey. I'm researching that and give a link as an addium.
I'm glad to have gotten a good first monger date with Blaze. Will repeat.
[QUOTE=TailGunner1;6130395]Yup you heard right. It's your fault you aren't scoring in real life. I have seen many other very smart and successful mongers make posts just like you did. You guys are totally wrong and your own worst enemies. Why am I saying this? Because I thought like you all did for way too many years. When I see people still thinking like this it sets me off much how ex smokers go off on current smokers the worst. I finally figured it out so when I see posts like this my thought is this guy is so wrong and will never have success as long as he keeps thinking this way. The funny thing is that it was mongering that set my mind right and why I have had more success with real life women since I started mongering than I did the decades before I did. It is all about mindset.
Let's break this down. I am not picking on you specifically. You seem to be a smart monger and make very good posts / reviews. So do many others who think like you do. These are the guys who have mongering down to a science and every noob should listen to them. But once they start talking real life women and dating they are clueless. This is directed at everyone. I know I am right and you are wrong because I thought and said the same things you just did. But then I realized I was the problem, not the women. Once you accept that you will do MUCH better with women.
Okay the women who marry the doctors and lawyers and other very successful and financially well off men. What is wrong with that? I say those women are smart to look out for themselves and the future of their children. What is wrong with those guys? That is a benefit of them working hard to achieve that lifestyle. It is on you that you didn't work to become successful like that to achieve the benefits that come with it. Why should some girl pick a middle or working class life in Carteret or Bayonne when she can live in Holmdel or Rumson? Your fault, not hers. But if you are smart and your brain is in the right place you can certainly bang such women.
What do you care if Sandy the hoodrat is sleeping with Ray Ray and all of his bum friends? Ray Ray does have kids with 20 different women. So what? Sandy likes that lifestyle. She wants to party every day and have no responsibility. Heck she doesn't even take care of her own kids. The state took them long ago. You really want to date Sandy? You think Sandy wants to live with you in Tom's River and go to PTA meetings and drive the kids to soccer practice? She doesn't want you or that lifestyle and you really don't want her so why even bring it up? Besides you are already banging Sandy. Ray Ray sends her out to escort and you are already seeing her when you are horny. But let's be real. You don't want to actually date that crackhead and you will never change her. But why would you?
Well we just did the two extremes and that leaves us with a whole lot of other women up for grabs who are neither out looking for rich guys or want to spend their lives bumming in the hood. This is your market and if you aren't getting anything here it is on you. They are there for the talking. But you are talking and acting yourself out of the competition before you even start.
First off the I am a nice guy and can do so much for you attitude turns them off completely. They see BORING. Women like excitement. In your mind that means a bad guy who beats them and treats them like dirt. You are wrong. All it means is a guy with some edge to them. They WILL take the bad guy over the whoa is me nice guy. But they would more rather have the good guy with SOME EDGE than either the bad guy or the whoa is me guy. You and the others who talk like you are the Whoa is Me guys. I am saying that not to insult you but to snap you out of that attitude. You are the LAST option. Not because of your looks or how much money you make or anything like that. It is your attitude and way of thinking. So keep thinking like you are and you will always be the last option. That will not change. So maybe consider changing your thought process? You are not going to change the attitude of thousands of years of women to all of a sudden like the whoa is me nice guy. It is in their genetics that those are the least desirable guys.
The good news is that you can move from the whoa is me guy to the good guy with a little edge rather easily. You can do it literally overnight. It means letting women know you are actually a man. What is a little edge? It's not being bad or an asshole. It's means just what it is. Have a little edge to you. Don't be wishy washy. Don't run to a girl at her every beck and call. Don't be the friend zone guy who is there to listen to all her nonsensical bullshit talk. Leave that to the whoa is me guys. You are now a good guy with an edge. You are the guy who makes it clear without outright saying it that she is lucky to be with you and not vice versa. You have to make her see that you can drop her in a second and do better without actually saying that. The truth is you may very well be damn lucky to have her but as long as she thinks you can and will do better she will fall in line. She wants to fall in line. That is their nature. That is why they don't like the whoa is me guys. And less is better when it comes to saying your inner feelings. Yes the I love you is fine. But don't cry about everything in life to her. She wants her man to show strength. Don't be a complainer. Be the man. They will fall in line because they want to fall in line.
You are probably already doing these correct things but with escorts. I am sure you have some regulars who treat you good and at a deep discount. Much of that is because you are a regular who isn't robbing or killing them. But it also has to do with you acting like a man. You probably look at yourself as being better than her and rightfully so. You need to take some of that attitude and apply it to real women. You would jump on a noob who was letting an escort walk over him. It's the same in the real world.
I got out of the whoa is me attitude shortly after I started seeing escorts. I did good in real life. I had good long term relationships. But I thought like you do so it probably held me back. Once I saw how easy it was to manipulate escorts I tried it with real life women and it WORKED. I realized it wasn't even manipulation. It was acting how women really want their men to act like. Does it mean I am picking up supermodels? Of course not. I would say I am better than average looking but don't have much more going for me. Yet I have been juggling multiple women at any given time now for years. All since I had the attitude change. I can afford to be picky. Granted I am probably now a sex addict but that is not a bad thing. I see escorts on occasion now a days but it is mostly married women and single women. I am the one who breaks things off now. All it took was a little attitude change.
There is no issue getting laid these days. The women haven't changed. It is your current attitude that is hurting you and that will not change until you change your thought process. I am not saying this to you and the others to be hurtful. I am telling you that with your current attitude any success you have is pure luck. How about changing the attitude so you know that when you make a move on a girl you are probably going to have her in bed very quickly.[/QUOTE]I know you put time and thought into writing the above. Also, I know you weren't writing it to brag but rather to share your experiences and success with other mongers. And it makes sense to me. I get your entire perspective. I don't take it personal and life experiences are supposed to teach us. My son is a job hopper. He takes a big paying "work from IT" home job and just moves on if the lawn is a little greener over the fence. Because of his work perspective, he earns more money than I do. He's had five jobs in the past five years...... all much better than the last one. I stay at one old tired, fairly decent job. He sees it as dog eat dog. And I try to live with a different set of ethics. I can't imagine doing some of what he does. My word is my bond. His word is as good as it needs to be and no more. That said, I really am a sucker. A really naive nice guy. I trust words. I know that's dumb.
But, some of what you do. I could never do. But, I get it. I have tried to emulate your style of mongering and I've got the part down where I have accepted that these woman want their life. At least to the extend that they want their life more than they want to leave their life. And though almost everything that you say makes sense to me, I still can't do it all. Just like I know my son will far exceed my personal achievements, both earnings and savings. He will retire way early and I'm already past. But hey I like work and travel and I travel for work. Just like him, you and those that are able to do what you do, will have far more mongering getting laid success than me. Does that make me stupid? I don't think it does. We are all led by personal principles embedded into our personalities. But, I envy you winning lots of woman and having lots of sex.
In mongering, I get lost sometimes when I weigh the importance of a few bucks to me. I don't really give a shit about fifty or a hundred bucks. I work hard and play hard. And this sex addiction of mine takes up time. That said, I do understand economics and supply and demand. And if enough of us don't care about a hundred bucks, pretty soon we'll all owe another hundred bucks. I care more about that then I do the money.
I am glad you take the time to share with us the process by which you are able to achieve success. I enjoy the insights. Problem is at my age, I think that...... my age...... maybe I need to work on some of these escorts mothers. Too bad they're all so frigging fat and ugly. If you find a skinny fifty plus MILF, let me know. But, often the older woman age, the less likely they are to want to have sex and that really is the problem with 60 plus men doing what you guys do with married woman. They have better choices. I stay fit, work out, run and fuck as often as I can... I am in great shape and maybe can out lift, out pull-up.. outrun you, but in the sex game..... well I am older and I can't compete unless I show them my fat wallet. Those of us more mature will not have the same level of success as those of you 35 to 50. Married 50 to 60 year olds don't generally want to go fuck around. Not to say none do, but in far less numbers than their younger counterparts. Woman are much different than men. The older I get the more I need.
[QUOTE=DustyAries2;6130486]I've been scrolling these post for many years now and I truly want to be involved in being a senior monger. Seniors mongers like Tailgunner and Cookiejar have always been my heroes and I look at them with awe.
So, today I start being a participate than a sideliner and went out on a date at Broadway.
With the help of my GF, Dee, who BTW gives me her blessing to monger once more. So long as I don't come home with STDs. She'll sanction my lifestyle.
Dee and I went on patrol by Kaighn and Broadway. Since Dee hadn't worked Broadway in years, her "program sheet" was outdated. We were going to start with tried and true Broadway girls starting with Brandy or Crystal. Usually hangs out at Kaighn and Broadway yet, some altercation between a Black Karen and Metro lead to Karen getting tased and face on the grimmy streets of Broadway.
After going along Broadway from Ferry to Clinton and back, we kept looking for those two when, we got a decent WSW around Spruce. After a few debates with Dee, she'd convinced me to pull the trigger.
Turns out to be a an ole friend of Dee name Blaze. She was stunned to see Dee after years of not being in Broadway.
Dee brought Blaze to meet me at our car and off we went. Though Blaze was nodding off, after giving her a "hard" for her wakeup, she was ready for the date.
Headed towards the Budget, prices for SS are still reasonable. Damage 47 for 3. Got to the room and got to freshin up with a shower. As we showered, both of us checked each other for signs or stds and demons tracks. Blaze looked like she had it together though, she was probably on a binge for a couple of days.
Blaze is a slender, with blond long hair with white endtails. I didn't see much demons yet, she does the pipe. Tits are small, does have piercing and her kitty is shaved. She presents herself more like an escort and she's on STG under Blaze.
Since this was an introductory date, we kept it simple and kept it oral. She responded well in DATY and we also did light French to work the mood. I was a bit bummed on she covers for FS yet, BBBJ was a delight. Her throat skills is her forte she claims. I vouch for that. No CIM. Maybe on future dates.
Afterwards, she said that she's on STG and was featured on USASEXGUIDE years before. She'd slowed down years before raising her teenage kid. She now an empty nester and lives down at the Shore. She comes to Camden to have a week of durg fueled escape. Till she goes back to reality down at the Shore and escorts.
Blaze had gotten her STG account hacked and some reviews on USASEXGUIDE had been accused of bait and switch. She does post on the Shore and South Jersey. I'm researching that and give a link as an addium.
I'm glad to have gotten a good first monger date with Blaze. Will repeat.[/QUOTE]I saw you talking to her on broadway and tried to pull around. You scooped her up before I could. There were more than a few hard looking SW on Broadway today. You got the only good one I saw. What I didn't know was her STG name is Blaze. I texted Blaze at 7 AM and got no response. Later tonight I texted again and I did get an answer and she quoted me much higher than SW prices but not so bad. Following tailgunners lead I would never have paid the quoted rate. There was a review of Blaze not long ago saying she was too skinny. But, I like skinny, but that pig-tailed cutie you scooped up was not too skinny, she just right for just about anyone. And BTW I like Cookie Jar and Tailgunner too, but your GF Dee is my real fuckin hero
[QUOTE=TailGunner1;6130395]Yup you heard right. It's your fault you aren't scoring in real life. I have seen many other very smart and successful mongers make posts just like you did. You guys are totally wrong and your own worst enemies. Why am I saying this? Because I thought like you all did for way too many years. When I see people still thinking like this it sets me off much how ex smokers go off on current smokers the worst. I finally figured it out so when I see posts like this my thought is this guy is so wrong and will never have success as long as he keeps thinking this way. The funny thing is that it was mongering that set my mind right and why I have had more success with real life women since I started mongering than I did the decades before I did. It is all about mindset.
Let's break this down. I am not picking on you specifically. You seem to be a smart monger and make very good posts / reviews. So do many others who think like you do. These are the guys who have mongering down to a science and every noob should listen to them. But once they start talking real life women and dating they are clueless. This is directed at everyone. I know I am right and you are wrong because I thought and said the same things you just did. But then I realized I was the problem, not the women. Once you accept that you will do MUCH better with women.
Okay the women who marry the doctors and lawyers and other very successful and financially well off men. What is wrong with that? I say those women are smart to look out for themselves and the future of their children. What is wrong with those guys? That is a benefit of them working hard to achieve that lifestyle. It is on you that you didn't work to become successful like that to achieve the benefits that come with it. Why should some girl pick a middle or working class life in Carteret or Bayonne when she can live in Holmdel or Rumson? Your fault, not hers. But if you are smart and your brain is in the right place you can certainly bang such women.
What do you care if Sandy the hoodrat is sleeping with Ray Ray and all of his bum friends? Ray Ray does have kids with 20 different women. So what? Sandy likes that lifestyle. She wants to party every day and have no responsibility. Heck she doesn't even take care of her own kids. The state took them long ago. You really want to date Sandy? You think Sandy wants to live with you in Tom's River and go to PTA meetings and drive the kids to soccer practice? She doesn't want you or that lifestyle and you really don't want her so why even bring it up? Besides you are already banging Sandy. Ray Ray sends her out to escort and you are already seeing her when you are horny. But let's be real. You don't want to actually date that crackhead and you will never change her. But why would you?
Well we just did the two extremes and that leaves us with a whole lot of other women up for grabs who are neither out looking for rich guys or want to spend their lives bumming in the hood. This is your market and if you aren't getting anything here it is on you. They are there for the talking. But you are talking and acting yourself out of the competition before you even start.
First off the I am a nice guy and can do so much for you attitude turns them off completely. They see BORING. Women like excitement. In your mind that means a bad guy who beats them and treats them like dirt. You are wrong. All it means is a guy with some edge to them. They WILL take the bad guy over the whoa is me nice guy. But they would more rather have the good guy with SOME EDGE than either the bad guy or the whoa is me guy. You and the others who talk like you are the Whoa is Me guys. I am saying that not to insult you but to snap you out of that attitude. You are the LAST option. Not because of your looks or how much money you make or anything like that. It is your attitude and way of thinking. So keep thinking like you are and you will always be the last option. That will not change. So maybe consider changing your thought process? You are not going to change the attitude of thousands of years of women to all of a sudden like the whoa is me nice guy. It is in their genetics that those are the least desirable guys.
The good news is that you can move from the whoa is me guy to the good guy with a little edge rather easily. You can do it literally overnight. It means letting women know you are actually a man. What is a little edge? It's not being bad or an asshole. It's means just what it is. Have a little edge to you. Don't be wishy washy. Don't run to a girl at her every beck and call. Don't be the friend zone guy who is there to listen to all her nonsensical bullshit talk. Leave that to the whoa is me guys. You are now a good guy with an edge. You are the guy who makes it clear without outright saying it that she is lucky to be with you and not vice versa. You have to make her see that you can drop her in a second and do better without actually saying that. The truth is you may very well be damn lucky to have her but as long as she thinks you can and will do better she will fall in line. She wants to fall in line. That is their nature. That is why they don't like the whoa is me guys. And less is better when it comes to saying your inner feelings. Yes the I love you is fine. But don't cry about everything in life to her. She wants her man to show strength. Don't be a complainer. Be the man. They will fall in line because they want to fall in line.
You are probably already doing these correct things but with escorts. I am sure you have some regulars who treat you good and at a deep discount. Much of that is because you are a regular who isn't robbing or killing them. But it also has to do with you acting like a man. You probably look at yourself as being better than her and rightfully so. You need to take some of that attitude and apply it to real women. You would jump on a noob who was letting an escort walk over him. It's the same in the real world.
I got out of the whoa is me attitude shortly after I started seeing escorts. I did good in real life. I had good long term relationships. But I thought like you do so it probably held me back. Once I saw how easy it was to manipulate escorts I tried it with real life women and it WORKED. I realized it wasn't even manipulation. It was acting how women really want their men to act like. Does it mean I am picking up supermodels? Of course not. I would say I am better than average looking but don't have much more going for me. Yet I have been juggling multiple women at any given time now for years. All since I had the attitude change. I can afford to be picky. Granted I am probably now a sex addict but that is not a bad thing. I see escorts on occasion now a days but it is mostly married women and single women. I am the one who breaks things off now. All it took was a little attitude change.
There is no issue getting laid these days. The women haven't changed. It is your current attitude that is hurting you and that will not change until you change your thought process. I am not saying this to you and the others to be hurtful. I am telling you that with your current attitude any success you have is pure luck. How about changing the attitude so you know that when you make a move on a girl you are probably going to have her in bed very quickly.[/QUOTE]I stopped that nice guy BS a long time ago took a few wake up calls to snap out of it not worth being extremely nice to people it's an invitation to be disrespected the Hood chicks with multiple kids are only good for sex that's it I prefer the fuck buddy relationship just have sex and fun and leave be back for next schedule appointment. The women married to lawyers and doctors are fucking and sucking someone off while the husband is at work but will never leave their husband because the women have financial security Lmao and some of the husbands know this but prefer to keep the married going to prevent losing half or majority of assets to wife. Yes those married women are available but will have limits the guy is just a fuck buddy someone to help with the married woman sexual desires that's it if the guy start the I love you and can give better than husband nonsense the married woman will find another fuck buddy or have one or two available already.
Great post Tailgunner
[QUOTE=ReadingNeeds;6130517]I know you put time and thought into writing the above. Also, I know you weren't writing it to brag but rather to share your experiences and success with other mongers. And it makes sense to me. I get your entire perspective. I don't take it personal and life experiences are supposed to teach us. My son is a job hopper. He takes a big paying "work from IT" home job and just moves on if the lawn is a little greener over the fence. Because of his work perspective, he earns more money than I do. He's had five jobs in the past five years...... all much better than the last one. I stay at one old tired, fairly decent job. He sees it as dog eat dog. And I try to live with a different set of ethics. I can't imagine doing some of what he does. My word is my bond. His word is as good as it needs to be and no more. That said, I really am a sucker. A really naive nice guy. I trust words. I know that's dumb.
But, some of what you do. I could never do. But, I get it. I have tried to emulate your style of mongering and I've got the part down where I have accepted that these woman want their life. At least to the extend that they want their life more than they want to leave their life. And though almost everything that you say makes sense to me, I still can't do it all. Just like I know my son will far exceed my personal achievements, both earnings and savings. He will retire way early and I'm already past. But hey I like work and travel and I travel for work. Just like him, you and those that are able to do what you do, will have far more mongering getting laid success than me. Does that make me stupid? I don't think it does. We are all led by personal principles embedded into our personalities. But, I envy you winning lots of woman and having lots of sex.
In mongering, I get lost sometimes when I weigh the importance of a few bucks to me. I don't really give a shit about fifty or a hundred bucks. I work hard and play hard. And this sex addiction of mine takes up time. That said, I do understand economics and supply and demand. And if enough of us don't care about a hundred bucks, pretty soon we'll all owe another hundred bucks. I care more about that then I do the money.
I am glad you take the time to share with us the process by which you are able to achieve success. I enjoy the insights. Problem is at my age, I think that...... my age...... maybe I need to work on some of these escorts mothers. Too bad they're all so frigging fat and ugly. If you find a skinny fifty plus MILF, let me know. But, often the older woman age, the less likely they are to want to have sex and that really is the problem with 60 plus men doing what you guys do with married woman. They have better choices. I stay fit, work out, run and fuck as often as I can... I am in great shape and maybe can out lift, out pull-up.. outrun you, but in the sex game..... well I am older and I can't compete unless I show them my fat wallet. Those of us more mature will not have the same level of success as those of you 35 to 50. Married 50 to 60 year olds don't generally want to go fuck around. Not to say none do, but in far less numbers than their younger counterparts. Woman are much different than men. The older I get the more I need.[/QUOTE]My brother, listen to me closely. There are some things we can't change when we get older. You probably can't change careers and be super successful now. But the good news is you are never too old to change your attitude towards women and get results. You would be surprised how many older women out there in their 40's, 50's and even 60's still look good AND still want to have sex and are damn good at it. Most are married in horrible relationships. They are looking for fun and some will flat out leave their husbands. You just have to make the effort to go out and find them. Then you need to use the proper attitude to get them. Whoa is me will not get them. As for finding a woman who meets your needs and does the things you want the less is better approach works. Meaning drop the whoa is me and be the good guy with an edge. They want this and will do all the little things you want naturally because you are acting like a man. It's not rocket science. It took me years to figure this out. But it is all in the attitude and the confidence you have.