When an FBSM provider goes legit
[QUOTE=MoCoMonger;2494043]I have her "new" contact information, but she has "gone legit", that is, yoga, stretching and non-sensual massages. Feel free to PM me or just respond to the ad, if that still works. She was a treat.
MM.[/QUOTE]I've had a few of these over my (more than I care to admit) years of hobbying and, depending on the reason, it's not always permanent.
Sometimes it's because she got into a relationship, often with a former client, and has resolved to be faithful by going legit. Sometimes it's because she had a brush with LEO and has literally been scared straight. And sometimes, but very rarely, it's because she set some financial goals for herself and has gone legit after reaching them.
For the first two reasons, things can absolutely change. If the relationship ends or turns sour she may very well go back to doing FBSM. If it was a LEO issue, the more time passes the more the fear will subside and she may start doing FBSM for trusted former clients. If she really did quit for the 3rd reason, then congrats to her for having a good head on her shoulders and knowing when to walk away from the table (pun intended) and cash in her chips.
I've never seen her since she's out of my usual area but my advice for former clients would be to visit her a few more times, completely respecting her new boundaries, and use those visits to figure out if the new situation is likely to be permanent. If it turns out to be temporary then you've kept in touch and you'll reap the benefits. Of course I would only follow this process if she's really great, since a mediocre provider would not be worth the time and $.