Thanks ... not about OTC cash or free
[QUOTE=Savior Faire]You said you're "not sure if she means as a client or not". But you say you feel a special closeness to her. Then you want to extrapolate from others' experiences to arrive at a conclusion as to whether your experience is going to be real or just about money. But if you feel so close to her that you think it might be real, why not just ask her? She says, 'We should meet OTC', you say 'For business or pleasure?', or something more serious if you wish. But asking her is the only way you're going to find out. What I don't get, though, is the trepidation at asking. What's the downside? It turns out she means for money - so what? Is she going to stop giving you LD's because you thought it possible she might have meant something else? Do you think she's going to say to the other strippers/hookers that you actually thought she liked you, and they'll all start laughing? Does THAT, in turn, provoke traumatic junior high flashbacks? I'm not attacking you, I just don't understand the mindset. Maybe I'm also helping you move past your fears.[/QUOTE]
SF, honestly a little too much analysis over the situation- it was much more simple than that. No fear factor here, believe me. Just provided a little background to get to the question.
Let's kill this back and forth ...
It's really pretty simple...
I know at least one dancer who also quite two clubs and finally got out of dancing for the same reason. At the risk of outing myself as a hypocrite, I plead guilty to posting a name here and there on the boards over the years so I'm not trying to come off as criticizing anyone else for doing it.
Not every club is like Cheaters but you can find the same thing at every club in Providence, yes, even the Foxy Lady, if you look hard enough and spend enough money. The thing is, dancers who do extras don't necessarily want the world to know that they do them. A girl often wants to be selective and also get a financial commitment out of a guy before she starts putting out.
Once a girl gets outed on any board for performing sex acts the chances are good that guys who have never spent a dime on her will show up at her club expecting a BJ. This is not what many of these women want, they have the right to decide where and when and also how much a guy has to spend before he gets some candy. If a girl feels that her reputaion has been compromised to the point where she can't earn and feel good about being at work she will often quite.
The mistake that a lot of guys make is to assume that a girl who gets on her knees and gives you a blow job in a strip club has no self respect. In most cases, nothing could be further from the truth.
[QUOTE=Phat Bastard]Obviously you don't have to answer but I have to ask:
Why would a post here make her quit?
What was her name as a dancer?[/QUOTE]
Typical Cheaters Experience Wed. Night
One thin white girl, all the rest were fat or dark, or fat and dark. Strippers/hookers asking for a dollar just because they asked to suck your cock and you said no (but some say most of them have self-respect...). Somebody either massively shit or massively puked IN THE SINK in the men's room. Some shit or puke got on the floor and was stepped in, judging by the shit/puke footprints. Management cleaned it up but left behind a towel with a red splotch that looked like blood on it. Hepatitis? AIDS? Cholera? Definitely a bio-hazard. That's what they should name the place = Bio-Hazard.
Cheaters about a week ago....
I visited on a recent Friday after races at the dog track. I didn't lose so a strip club was in order.
Anyway, as reported in many posts the club itself is a dive, probably seething with all sorts of organisms (NOT orgasms!) but relatively safe nonetheless. I nursed my one beer and scanned the talent. This day there was only one worth thinking about going to the booth with (dangling preposition, perhaps?)
After leering at her for a few minutes, and she realizing that her regular was either late or not showing, she came over to talk to me. We negotiated a trip to the booths for $100 (according to her, "you pay for the booth") Luckily they were all busy for about 10 minutes so I got 10 minutes of free fondling and schmoozing. Always a good sign when they're all busy - extra warm-up time!
Inside the booth, we had a good time. Sadly it was only a hands on experience, but satisfying anyway.
Oh, the dancer's name? Tori.
Thinking back, the comment about "you pay for the booth" was interesting, I probably could have gotten away with a little over a C-note and HER paying for the booth. Oh well, live and learn!
I don't go to horror movies...
and I don't gawk at car accidents-I spend most of my club time at Fantasies or Caddy in RI, Foxy Lady and Marios in Mass. The cutie vs. skank ratio is fairly low in all of those clubs and I can get everything available at Cheaters without my ass sticking to the chairs...
I do visit the Pink Palace once or twice a year as nobody does it quite like Susana does...
[QUOTE=Savior Faire]For the same reason people go to horror movies or gawk at car accidents, combined with the possibility of finding that one really good dancer, like Britney or Triniti.[/QUOTE]