Rants and Stupid shit in Hartford

[QUOTE=ChadZ1212;6093120]Yea, so gents, no need for name calling. It's ok if members provide different opinions.

Now I'm sure you gents are asking, Chad what's your opinion regarding Covid? Too tell you the truth, judging by my experience only. Reflecting on my encounters in 2019,2020, 2021,2022, I fucked without mask, clothes, condom, licked pussy, kissing. I didn't get the Vax. I haven't gotten Covid. By no means, I am NOT suggesting you guys do the same. Just my experience only. Glad to help..[/QUOTE]I don't understand the need to discuss politics on here, but some guys love to do it and because they know they're right, they need to convince people who don't think the same way to change their minds. I don't get into politics at all in the forums because if I give my opinion I'm going to be judged negatively by half the guys on here. I don't need that for this website. As far as I'm concerned everybody has a right to their opinion, even if it's wrong! Inevitably, when people don't see the light and switch over to the other side, the name calling begins. It's a real grown up way to handle things! Look what happened to the Escort forum here in Hartford. A2 put a thread up that's going to be up until March because of the arguing and name calling here. If you're going to argue, thank God you're doing it in this thread, but you really lose credibility when you start the name calling.

I'll have to tell the story about a guy on here I considered a really good friend, and when I question him on some things that a couple of providers that I had shared with him told me, he got very defensive, refused to answer and started the name calling. It blew my mind. Not enough room here to do that, but when I have more time I will. Let's be careful not to degenerate any of these forums into situations that A2 needs to step in.

Just my opinion.

Blue.

Is it just me or does the "skip the games" scene seem pretty dead lately?

[QUOTE=GordonFreeman;6097363]Is it just me or does the "skip the games" scene seem pretty dead lately?[/QUOTE]I believe its dead, maybe its the time of year? Who knows? I texted 3-5 girls that peaked my interest and crickets on all of them. I almost want to go looking for girls on Tinder LOL. Does anyone have any suggestions?

[QUOTE=Jeep2013;6097501]I believe its dead, maybe its the time of year? Who knows? I texted 3-5 girls that peaked my interest and crickets on all of them. I almost want to go looking for girls on Tinder LOL. Does anyone have any suggestions?[/QUOTE]I think it's dead too. I've been reaching out to a bunch as well (have some more time than usual this week) and the only ones who are responding are. Less than attractive, shall we say, in one way or another. Lots of crickets.

I can't stand when a provider messages 4+ hours later. Could be a bad timing issue.

I cannot stand the high waisted mom jeans and shorts that are now popular. I just think they look stupid and if you are fat you are not fooling anyone when you wear them.

You're all fuckin 'tarded. That is all.

[QUOTE=Gridge;6126183]I cannot stand the high waisted mom jeans and shorts that are now popular. I just think they look stupid and if you are fat you are not fooling anyone when you wear them.[/QUOTE]Fat people in general don't look good, and fat girls who make the mistake of wearing high waisted pants just show off how fat they really are -- just like how some women shouldn't wear yoga pants. Sometimes it's better to leave a lot to the imagination.

But on the right girl they can be super "conservative hot". As with anything, it takes the right body to pull them off.

[QUOTE=Kwagmire;6097513]I think it's dead too. I've been reaching out to a bunch as well (have some more time than usual this week) and the only ones who are responding are. Less than attractive, shall we say, in one way or another. Lots of crickets.[/QUOTE]It's been DEAD! For a fricken long time!! Think about, every fricken girl on here has gotten worse and worse, every time you get horned up enough to do this shit you have to SETTLE! And, it ain't getting better! The escort game is crashing & burning, doesn't matter what town or city in the USA, it's not what it use to be even 10 years ago. The game is spinning out of control pretty much like the rest of the planet. Facts.

So this has been on my mind for awhile and has happened to me maybe once or twice.

See a girl regularly. Nice and consistent without hiccups. The girl needs extra money. Not an upcharge but asks for an advance. Let's say regular is 100 each visit. Then she says hey, can I get an extra 80 and next time is covered. Thinking ok sure, nice girl and always chit chat so risk seems low. Then the next week, she suddenly isn't available. This continues on until giving up or she presents a compromise like 80 for the next month or so.

To me, I don't see the biz sense. She digs a hole and is willing to lose the flow consistency that used to be there. Now a safe consistent monger is now a loss instead of maintaining her baseline.

It further establishes the rule of sticking to the original agreement and keep it as a service. We wouldn't pay a mechnic extra for the next service to be free or discounted.

So maybe I answered my own question. Gullible.

[QUOTE=DonnnyBravo;6132305]So this has been on my mind for awhile and has happened to me maybe once or twice.

See a girl regularly. Nice and consistent without hiccups. The girl needs extra money. Not an upcharge but asks for an advance. Let's say regular is 100 each visit. Then she says hey, can I get an extra 80 and next time is covered. Thinking ok sure, nice girl and always chit chat so risk seems low. Then the next week, she suddenly isn't available. This continues on until giving up or she presents a compromise like 80 for the next month or so.

To me, I don't see the biz sense. She digs a hole and is willing to lose the flow consistency that used to be there. Now a safe consistent monger is now a loss instead of maintaining her baseline.

It further establishes the rule of sticking to the original agreement and keep it as a service. We wouldn't pay a mechnic extra for the next service to be free or discounted.

So maybe I answered my own question. Gullible.[/QUOTE]Gullible? Yes. But I also think they are digging a hole. Sometimes they can't think far enough ahead about how they are getting something consistent from someone they have met before. I used to see someone regularly, but after awhile she just got lazy and seemed to act like her letting me show up was good enough. Ended that one and am really more cautious and up front with someone when I see them multiple times.

[QUOTE=DonnnyBravo;6132305]So this has been on my mind for awhile and has happened to me maybe once or twice.

See a girl regularly. Nice and consistent without hiccups. The girl needs extra money. Not an upcharge but asks for an advance. Let's say regular is 100 each visit. Then she says hey, can I get an extra 80 and next time is covered. Thinking ok sure, nice girl and always chit chat so risk seems low. Then the next week, she suddenly isn't available. This continues on until giving up or she presents a compromise like 80 for the next month or so.

To me, I don't see the biz sense. She digs a hole and is willing to lose the flow consistency that used to be there. Now a safe consistent monger is now a loss instead of maintaining her baseline.

It further establishes the rule of sticking to the original agreement and keep it as a service. We wouldn't pay a mechnic extra for the next service to be free or discounted.

So maybe I answered my own question. Gullible.[/QUOTE]I don't get you guys that insist to use the word "business" or even "biz" in a post with one of these providers. I have never seen MBA in a girl's description of herself in an STG post! Yet, I do see all the time, guys ranting about their lousy business sense with their over booking, not communicating, being late, raising prices, changing what is allowed, yadda, yadda, yadda. You can't expect them to have any kind of business sense or they would probably be doing something else. Some of them are smarter than others, but there's not many of them. Some of them get handlers because they are so poor at it, but that sends us into alert mode which also affects their "business". It's all part of the game and we end up trying to juggle possibilities. Even the "reliable" ones get into problems and will suddenly rob a regular out of desperation, or one that is usually a problem might change her ways to get more "business"! This is why YMMV can, at various times apply to ANY provider, and even a consistent problem have a good session! None of this resembles in any way a healthy business. Now, there are a few loaners out there that know what they are doing, but they are few and far between. If you really want a business like experience, go to one of the professional escort services, or Nevada, or better yet, Europe.

Be careful with the "B" word.

Blue.

[QUOTE=DonnnyBravo;6132305]So this has been on my mind for awhile and has happened to me maybe once or twice.

See a girl regularly. Nice and consistent without hiccups. The girl needs extra money. Not an upcharge but asks for an advance. Let's say regular is 100 each visit. Then she says hey, can I get an extra 80 and next time is covered. Thinking ok sure, nice girl and always chit chat so risk seems low. Then the next week, she suddenly isn't available. This continues on until giving up or she presents a compromise like 80 for the next month or so.

To me, I don't see the biz sense. She digs a hole and is willing to lose the flow consistency that used to be there. Now a safe consistent monger is now a loss instead of maintaining her baseline.

It further establishes the rule of sticking to the original agreement and keep it as a service. We wouldn't pay a mechnic extra for the next service to be free or discounted.

So maybe I answered my own question. Gullible.[/QUOTE]What I have done in past is. Give 10 or 20 and tell that's all I can do & don't worry just keep it, I don't need it.

I think it's a win win, morally you helped & she'll think that she got something out of you, FREE which she need not return...

[QUOTE=DonnnyBravo;6132305]So this has been on my mind for awhile and has happened to me maybe once or twice.

See a girl regularly. Nice and consistent without hiccups. The girl needs extra money. Not an upcharge but asks for an advance. Let's say regular is 100 each visit. Then she says hey, can I get an extra 80 and next time is covered. Thinking ok sure, nice girl and always chit chat so risk seems low. Then the next week, she suddenly isn't available. This continues on until giving up or she presents a compromise like 80 for the next month or so.

To me, I don't see the biz sense. She digs a hole and is willing to lose the flow consistency that used to be there. Now a safe consistent monger is now a loss instead of maintaining her baseline.

It further establishes the rule of sticking to the original agreement and keep it as a service. We wouldn't pay a mechnic extra for the next service to be free or discounted.

So maybe I answered my own question. Gullible.[/QUOTE]I had a similar experience with a UTR 5 years ago.

After 3-4 months, she hit me with her 'cash advance / make it up later' deal. She was willing to drive 50-60 miles just to pickup the money and leave. I don't know what happened to her but desperation had set in for her. It was frantic begging and she was not a druggie.

I had to cut her loose. Begging was part of her lies. I gave her zero and never had contact with her again. I'm not about to be towed in a downward spiral with anyone.

BMD.

I was helping one for a few months and they pulled same stunt. You'd give some money to help and they blow you off, or common one I haven't eaten in days can you buy me food. Easy to help them these days with online delivery or cash apps, or getting them a hotel cause they can't. Be careful if you get into one like this and know your limits of loss because in end there's no collection agency to help get your recovery back for you on the advance.

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;6132821]I had a similar experience with a UTR 5 years ago.

After 3-4 months, she hit me with her 'cash advance / make it up later' deal. She was willing to drive 50-60 miles just to pickup the money and leave. I don't know what happened to her but desperation had set in for her. It was frantic begging and she was not a druggie.

I had to cut her loose. Begging was part of her lies. I gave her zero and never had contact with her again. I'm not about to be towed in a downward spiral with anyone.

BMD.[/QUOTE]