I respect the practical nature of what you're saying
[QUOTE=Raider1687;2571864]I totally disagree. This isn't dating where you have to do that. Everyone of these girls treats all of us the same UNTIL they meet us. Once you are in the door, that is fine if you want to stick up for yourselves, but until you meet them, you will just be a 10-digit number to them and it is certainly worth having to make two trips across town to bang the chick you want. Don't ever bring up that they wasted your time either, because then they will think you feel like they "owe" you something and they won't see you. Just pretend it didn't happen or text from another number. As soon as a girl stands me up, I get concerned that she will ever see that number again, so I text from another number. That is how you get to see the girl you want, don't ever take one single thing or treatment from these girls personally. You can't imagine how many texts they get and you are just a number until the meet. And even then! This game is about fun, not morals.[/QUOTE]It's not a moral concern. It's practical. I think that mentality (I'll do whatever it takes to get bang a specific girl) sets a bad precedent. Voicing that kind of attitude on a public forum parades an attitude of general acceptance of these things. It creates a culture of acceptance.
For some of us, it might be worth it to make two trips. For others, 3. For some, it isn't worth leaving the house without a firm commitment. Pussy is, generally, hard to value properly because it fluctuates hourly for each of us.
I completely understand the volume of texts, and the number of guys that must truly flake out on the girls on a daily basis. I also know that many of them are unreliable to the bone, and being poor, live lives surrounded by insanity and chaos. I know.
But the truth is that giving a girl who does this your business, just means she'll see no reason not to do that in the future to all her new customers. If she is serious about being a good provider, she'll eventually read reviews about her, and if she can accept the criticism, she will realize that guys who are reliable appreciate reliability. If she can't. She won't.
But if we all did exactly as you do, we have no reason to expect better. Especially if we publicly agree that it is acceptable, and to be put up with. Understand, I've accepted these kinds of things many times and been willing to try again and again with some gals. I don't even change numbers. But I still think it's stupid that I do it. And I recognize that I am just making things a little worse when I accept it and try again.
In other words: I'm not a skinny guy, telling everyone to stop eating that hot dog and that being fat is unhealthy. I'm a fat guy who knows he shouldn't be eating those hot dogs, and knows that eating hot dogs is a bad idea. Doesn't mean that being fat is okay.
If only people would think before speaking.
[QUOTE=Choochie;2571451]I think he brings up legit concerns, and we can take his info and judge for ourselves.
Also, consider that some guys know the backdraft that comes with raising those concerns and maybe he doesn't want to deal with it or have it affect their hunt.
All you white knight idiots are doing is diminishing the amount of free info we all get by defending her with what amounts to nothing much.
Maybe she is. Maybe she isn't. If I was interested in seeing her I'd want to know all I could when doing so.[/QUOTE]Let me get this right. If a man posts several times, negative things about a girl he has never met, it is good Intel the gentleman here need to make good, safe choices. But, if a man posts positive things about a girl he HAS seen, met several times, it is just useless information from a white knight??
This makes absolutely no sense. In order to make an informed decision as to which girl you should see, you need both sides, good and bad. We can only hope the posts / reviews of providers come from the men who actually see them.
Maybe you and Lugnutz can go start your own site. You guys can trash all the girls you have never even seen. No good good reviews allowed. I bet you will have tons of amazing girls waiting in line to sign up. Not that you would care how many girls join,you have no intention of ever seeing them anyway.