What does one want out of these boards?
[QUOTE=CookyJar;2324691]With all due respect to you, Cephlapod Love. I'm a fan and read your stuff faithfully. But! Where's the harm?
Wow! Double wow! You're asking me to give up a major part of what I do.
I can't lie. It's not that I don't know how or that I don't want to, I cannot lie. Lying would mean the end. If it got around that I was lying about what I did with their pictures, few girls would give their consent. I tell them that I'm going to be putting their pictures on an obscure little internet site. If they ask what site, I tell them. Sure, I could lie. What would happen once it got around that CookyJar was a liar and couldn't be trusted. Then I'd really have nothing to share.
How does it cause them distress and grief?
Very few streetwalkers have internet access. The few, which I know of, that have visited this site didn't seem to give a hoot. Some have asked me to show them USASexGuide and after reading a few of the boring reviews, they quickly lost interest.
I'm no, "White Knight," and I'm no asshole either. If a girl want to know where I am going to be posting her pictures, I'm going to tell her. If she doesn't like them and wants them removed, I tell her how to do that too.
CookyJar.
P.S.: I'm not familiar with the, Fight Club. What's the number #1 rule?[/QUOTE]CJ. I guess I didn't 'splain it well, so let me try again? My bad.
On one hand YOU kind sir are a special case, a VERY special case. (I mean that in all kindness and sincerity!) But my comments were not aimed at you. Don't take them to heart. You, your eminence, are a special case because your modus operandi is taking pictures of girls for the specific purpose of posting them on line, not looking for girls for dates. From what I gather you discuss up front with the girls what you're doing and why you're doing it.
So what you describe for you is highly appropriate- You should show the girl [B]your[/B] work if she asks. You should be honest (and are) that you intend to post her pictures on line. So what you are doing is fine and appropriate.
[B]What imho one shouldn't do is show the girl posts about her by OTHER mongers! Or show her the site if she doesn't know it exists![/B]
I'll give you ONE example, that happened to me, as an illustration of the harm caused.
I dated a SW and did my duty and posted here so others would be able to shop. I dated her several times and reported those dates too. One evening I was out and saw my old friend and stopped to scoop her. She jumped in and a half a block later, here comes the vennom! [B]She was pizzed that there was any mention of her on a sex site, mentioning this site by name,[/B] my handle and telling me another monger had shown her the site. She was so mad she jumped out of the car nearly knocking me out of the car when she slammed the door. She was upset that her kids might find the info on line! Apparently not everyone who walks the street likes to have all of her bidness made public. So this girl was truly hurt and upset. Now I guess I could be a d*ck and say, "Who cares, she's a SW." But I don't. I think SW are people and deserve respect, so if those actions upset her, then I need to respect that. So there is the "hurt for her. " {Maybe we have different experiences and different SW populations we encounter?}
In addition, [B]in my humble opinion, the purpose of these boards is for us mongers to share information among ourselves.[/B] If I had to guess, I'd say that the "white knights" are using this to try to gain some favor from the girls being reported on? That doesn't seem to be in the spirit of this board. Not sure how it helps the girl either? I have heard from other mongers in PMs that they too have had similar experiences. So these mongers report they have been disincentivised to share their findings. So some "hurt" for the purposes here (community)?
But hey, [B]that example wasn't the only time some White Knight has cock-blocked me off of info shared on line.[/B] Prolly won't be the last. But hey, as a result of enough "White Knights" on these USA boards, I no longer post much of my finds or photography. That means dozens of girls and numerous encounters not reported. See any "harm" to the purposes of these boards?
Now as to not being familiar with "The Fight Club?" Huh? WTF! I thought that was Male 101 or mandatory to the M (vs F) Card? We gunna hafta pull your card? LOL. Jk. Fight Club is a movie staring Ed Norton and Brad Pitt. It is a freaking "cult" (if being male is a cult) classic! You can Wiki it and get all of the psycho babel background on it, you'd be better served just watching it! An old Marine might appreciate it? Netflix, Redbox, shoot maybe even youtube! We need to get ya yer M-card updated! LOL!
So yeah, The First Rule of Fight Club is. [I] 11 sec vid..[/I].
[URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i2lmFCqbJcI[/URL]
RE: What does one want out of these boards?
[QUOTE=CephlapodLove;2325968]CJwhat you describe for you is highly appropriate- You should show the girl [B]your[/B] work if she asks. You should be honest (and are) that you intend to post her pictures on line. So what you are doing is fine and appropriate.
[B]What imho one shouldn't do is show the girl posts about her by OTHER mongers! Or show her the site if she doesn't know it exists![/B]
We need to get ya yer M-card updated! LOL!
So yeah, The First Rule of Fight Club is. [I] 11 sec vid..[/I].
[URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i2lmFCqbJcI[/URL][/QUOTE]I have nothing to add, other than you are 100% right.
[b]There is no reason to show a girl a post about her by other mongers.[/b] (There are always exceptions to every rule. Trying to get a little sympathy from the girl is not a good reason to break rule #1.) I once had to show a girl [B]MY[/B] post on her, after a fellow monger had told her that I had posted that she gave it up for $5.
Lots of girls know about this site, just like they know about Backpage, CraigList and escort sites. It is part of their trade, after all. They know they get reviewed. Most girls could care less. They do not like getting bad reviews, but usually they do not get all bent out of shape and go running off to kill themselves over what some asshole has posted on the internet. The girls are dealing with the reality of the situation. It is us guys who take everything as a personal attack.
CookyJar.
It in't over. Sarah Still Smiling
So it turns out that Sarah is still in business. Had a few rough days. With the same things everyone has to deal with. She had a job but is now looking for a new one (non street job). We got together for a couple of hours at a notel and the word FREAK is now etched in my mind. The funny part was she kept saying, "I've never done that before," after many activities. And let me tell you there were a lot of activities taking place. The TV in the room had porno on it but there was too much happening to take time to watch. I must have popped over 7 times I lost count. It was a better workout than I've had at the gym. The little minx doesn't do greek but at one point my finger was in there as her finger was a blurrr in the V and she was having a great time. I told her "The next time will be more than a finger. " To which she replied, "Yesssssss. " The most outrageous activity was her use of a glass toy that I brought along. It was cold being in the car. There is nothing like watching, as she played. She wants a toy of her own now, she had "never done that before. " So I was worn out as I dropped her off at her home. She lives in NJ but I don't know a way to let the mongers in Philly keep up on her activities. I have to tell you that she greatly undervalued her services. She did say that she did things with me that she wouldn't with others because we've known each other for so long (we think about 6 years). So I cannot guarantee the donations necessary. Going in last night I had talked about one number and gave a little more "at the beginning of the session". She was very thankful. Activities got started right away as there is no premedication here anymore. I've given her contact information to a lot of you on here but she told me that she is so unsure of even the best USASG guys that she may not attend any events. I can't help there. Good luck in your searches. RM.