Everyone Has Their Own Method
No hard and fast rule for landing a sugarbaby except you have to keep trying. Takes time.
Hey is a typical intro message from a SB to a SD. Doesn't mean they are not real. Just a common starting point.
The profiles that give you one, two, three word responses consistently and never engage in a real conversation are generally a waste of time.
Try this: Add a different market to your profile that you will never travel too. Like Dallas. Then message the hell out of the profiles in Dallas. Try different approaches and see which gets a response. If the Dallas SBs reply and ask why you are listed in two markets say Dallas is your home town but you come to Cincinnati for work. When you find an approach that works try it in Cincinnati with your real prospects. Reason not to do this message testing in Cincinnati is its your SB pool. Don't crap in your own pool with approaches that are sheeeet.
[QUOTE=Nob72;5535053]I just joined SA for the first time and thought I'd give sugarbabies a try. So far I haven't had much luck and thought I'd ask some advice how to get started.
I've had a few send me messages that consist mostly of "hey" and nothing else. When I reply to them I usually still only get only a few words in response. I've initiated contact and messaged a few girls but it's mostly been just smalltalk. Even when I ask they don't come out and say what they're REALLY looking for.
So, how blunt do I need to be? Do I just openly ask how much $ they charge to meet and what their rules are for being physical? Or do I have to continue to dance around the subject and try to woo them until they bring up their rules?[/QUOTE]