Severe drought this spring
Not sure if I'm just incredibly unlucky these past couple weeks or what. But after sending almost 100 messages on Seeking, I've gotten 9 responses. Money isn't the issue since the ones who've reached out seemed genuinely interested. The problem is either work, school, COVID, vacation, or a combination thereof. To top it off, I used some much-needed vacation days to coincide with spring break. Figured I'd have myself a marathon of a good time before heading back to my 65-70 hour work weeks.
While I'm still grateful to be catching up on sleep & recharging my batteries, it sucks that things didn't go as planned with my regulars or backups. Anyway, just curious if anyone else is finding it difficult at meeting up this spring.
Great post from PhillySugar forum
Great post from PhillySugar forum:
Originally Posted by BurbsMonger.
Fellow mongers, it's been about 3 months since I took a self imposed hiatus from SA and about a month since I infiltrated one of the many sb only fb groups. As promised, here is what I uncovered.
- the typical scams; need gas / rent / food / money for Uber etc etc are discussed 95% of the time for the false promise of meeting or sending pics / videos. I believe it is safe to say, never advance money, gift cards, or purchase wish list items and send to any lady until you have properly vetted her.
I will report on 3 scams, only one was new to me and I have no experience with personally but found it important to warn others.
1) car date rob and dash- this was one I have experienced first hand however avoided successfully because I am pretty self aware of my car date locations. The set up is obviously a car date at either a pre determined location or location of her choice. Never choose the latter. We met at a large hospital utilizing their parking lot as nice private spot. I selected the location and strategically parked where I could see in all directions. When you are comfortable with your lady, her accomplices are scouting you when you arrive. They wait until you are partaking in the hobby fun and park your car. In my case there were 2 guys. I was able to avoid this because I saw their car park about 500 feet from mine and kept my eye on them the whole time. When I saw them approaching, I reached under my seat where I keep my friend G 9 . And yes, I have the proper paperwork for a permit and conceal. This young lady's name was Kelsey and was operating out of collegeville. I have her picture for those mongering in the burbs. She was operating on the SA, SB, WYP platforms. I caught her as recently as October pulling the same scam. It is scary that at least 2 other girls were discussing this type of scam although they did not appear to be from this area.
2) pic blackmail- they utilize the pic or pics you have on your profile page or that you text them to blackmail you for cash. They utilize burner numbers to blackmail you. This has happened to me like 5 times. I avoid this one by blurring all of my pics with different apps or using fake pics that are similar to what I look like by using google after the first time it happened to me. In addition, you can use Snapchat but they can still screenshot the pic but you will know it or they can use another phone or camera to take a pic of the snap.
3) pic blackmail / car damage / robbery- this one I have not experienced but I know exists locally and on the FB group. The basic set up is your Sb and you meet in a hotel room. While you are undressing or getting a shower she pretends she is texting but is really taking pics or videos of you in compromising poses. The idea is to blackmail you for money as she sends these pics and vids to her accomplices who are outside. These accomplices also scouted you when you arrived and know your car so they will threaten to damage your car or grab your plate number and try to locate you. As I have no personal experience with this not sure all of the ins and outs but thought it was important to warn all. To take precautions, I ask all sbs to shut off their phones before we get to our final location or partake in any activities.
I hope you find this information helpful and please Be Safe!
