Interesting, I would guess you're in a very small minority of guys. I don't think I could ever say NO to any attractive lady desperate for a fuck. Knock on wood, I've never had problems getting a bonner irrespective of whether I have sperm generation or not.
[QUOTE=Big Money; 1139328]As hard as some of you might believe this, but I actually had the reverse problem in my first marriage to a Latina. No, she was not a provider, but someone I met at a company when I traveled to South America on business. I was in my late-30s at the time, and she was in her mid-20s when we married. At first the sex was great, then it became a routine, finally it became a chore as she wanted it more than I did.
I was happy getting it once a day or every other day to regulate my sperm production. Then she became a nympho after she got pregnant about 2 months after we married. After sex, we cuddled to fall asleep, then she wakes me up and wants more, or she would just BJ me while I'm unconscious. This seemed fun at first, but after 3-months straight of 2-3 times a night, my sperm production could not keep up, and I could not even get a good night's sleep. I got used to having a boner while sleeping, and didn't even know if I cummed or not. After a while more of these, she was in her last tri-mester, and it became uncomfortable for her to just jump on top of me. She had to lay inclined about 45 degrees to be comfortable, and that is how she slept and how she liked to have sex. So instead of just keeping a boner half asleep, I had to get up and pound her.
Lucky we had the blue pill back then. But here is when it became really a chore, the blue pill can give me the boner, but it could not make me cum or release. Even if I get a muscular relief without the cum, I get an erection again pretty quickly because of the pill effect was still in my system. I have boners without the muscular relief.
After when she had the baby, she was not supposed to have sex to heal her womb, but that did not mean her clitoris did not need stimulation. And I did have more time for sperm re-generation while I can just play with her clit to get her to orgasm. So doing a few more years of this, sex became a chore. We eventually divorced for other reasons, but the sexual compatibility might have contributed a small part to it. We did the nsa hook up for a while after the divorce, but nothing like the frequency that we had while married, then she had another man pursue her and we stopped altogether.
I still miss those high frequency periods, which is why I go on these sex binges with my cheap regulars in Texas. Only they know how to satisfy my preference for the unconscious BJs, middle of the night pops, etc, which is hard to fulfill with chicks who don't know you as well. And I'm still doing it with the help of Vitamin-V many times, but may not need it after dry spells. So I don't know if there is a lesson to be learned here or not, but it is a probably different experience than what most horny guys are used to. [/QUOTE]
