Hiding the monkey (I mean money)
Cantwin, that is one of the salient questions we all have to deal with. (at least the married ones) I own my business and while the W manages the home account, that sum never changes. I bleed funds from the business to finance my activities. Ironically, my office mgr who has been with me for a long time is questioning my expenses and I think she suspects what I am doing. While it is her job to do so I have to be careful not to thrust my dalliance in her face either. In the end, the family has less money for extras and savings but the economy has impacted my business and the W understands that.
Drummer, I try to make every visit with my SB a sexual one, but we spend most of our time together doing non sexual things. Frankly, the sex is wonderful but since we have been together for a year things are predictable and not as toe curling. I cherish it because sex is fun period but also because I adore my SB and just plain love being near her. I do not want to step out on her because I don't want to risk hurting her. Sounds like love doesn't it?
Castlerae, Big Tigg has been successful luring girls for ridiculously low amounts. I think it has to do with their experience in the lifestyle and exposure to a generous Daddy. IF you find a naive SB to be who does not know her value, then you set the tone with what you offer her. Once they have tasted the good life then all bets are off. Mandy must be a drop dead gorgeous girl and obviously knows how to treat her SDs well. She moves in circles (blogs, sites) where much discussion is done about worth. There are many attractive girls who do not quite have that star quality.maybe cute but not gorgeaous, shy, lacking self confidence, etc who are happy getting what they can as long as the SD is to their liking. Mandy is correct if you get a gorgeous young girl who is in great demand. My SB falls in that category. I love her to distraction but she is probably not in that modelesque category.
Re: Altoids, The Curiously Strong Mint
[QUOTE=F Scott; 1430006]Does it work on babies as well?
Scott[/QUOTE]That's certainly a new trick that I just might have to try sometime! The only thing close that I've experienced was with Altoids. While it was great I already have a major sensitivity issue (in a bad way, you have to leave me alone for a while afterwards) and it magnified that issue. But during it was fantastic!
Mandy
Just a simple grasshopper
[QUOTE=Hernando;1430084]Scotty, this Polo of yours sounds like an experimenteur supreme.[/QUOTE]I think she enjoys treating me like a Boy Toy and showing me all the sexy stuff she knows how to do. I'm totally fine with that. I hope I never graduate from Polo Academy.
Mandy, I knew a baby like that once, and it had its upside (intensity) and down side, honestly (the waiting period). After I posted, I did a google search on "blow jobs and toothpaste" and apparently there is a whole world out there that revolves around toothpaste, toothbrushes and other oral care tools and what nasty uses they can be put to. The women seem to advocate just a small dab, while the guys like to overdo it (what a surprise!)
Let me put this out to the general brotherhood, and I include you in that term, my sweet Babyblog, what are some other strange but effective household items that you have used or heard used? Something beyond hairbrushes and vaseline jelly. One poster highly touted the handle of an ice cream scooper, as an example. The things you can find on the internet, I swear!
Scott
PS - Joe, very funny joke about Sensodyne! You're a funny guy.
Sugar doest always mean money
Given all of our recent discussions on the cost of sugar I wanted to share that my latest blog post is about two different kinds of sugar myself and a sister received last week. For my sister, it was an unexpected moment of legal services. And for me,"The Doctor" stepped in to help solve a medical issue I've dealt with my entire life. My sister and I are very grateful for this assistance. See, sugar doesn't always mean money & shopping.
Mandy
[url]www.sugarbabystory.com[/url]
Maybe I'm Becoming a Snob
[QUOTE=SubCmdr;1430080]It's not everyday you meet a strange girl ready to jerk and suck your dick to completion in a public parking lot in broad daylight. But when you do, I think you got to say it was a good day![/QUOTE]But Sub, can you really say this was a sugar baby? In my opinion a sugar relationship is more than a one or two time thing. I'd love to hear opinions on this from my brothers (HA! I've never had brothers!). Seriously though, I'm doing a radio interview on Tuesday (pre-recorded, anonymity will be kept) and I have to defend sugar and the differences between it and prostitution.
Now, it's a younger generation radio station and the segment is called "Real-sex" so I don't think I'll be challenged in any way. But, I'd love to hear your thoughts and opinions on the topic as it will shape how I answer those questions. Once the interview is aired, I'll get the link to it and put it on my blog.
Wish me luck!
Mandy
A report from the land of mixed messages
This weekend has been an odd one, to say the least. As many advised here, I sent SB#2 a message asking that she get back to me and clarify what was going on. She got back to me fairly promptly, and after some discussion, we agreed to meet again. That was to be last weekend, but an hour before I was to leave for the meeting, she texted me, saying something had come up and she couldn't make it. A few messages back and forth and we agreed to just push the meeting ahead a week, same place and time. So meeting time was to be yesterday, and just as I was getting ready to leave, the phone chimes to let me know I've got a new message. It's SB#2 telling me that, yet again, she can't make it. She offers to met me the next day, but I've already got something planned (see below) , so I tell her I can't make it and ask her if she has any other ideas. Still haven't heard from her, and not sure I ever will at this point.
Today, met another woman I contacted through SA. Like with SB#2, I let her choose the place we met for lunch. She picks the exact same place! Go figure. Some here insist that the idea is to keep the initial meeting simple and cheap, coffee or something simliar. I figure lunch isn't that much, and by giving her the chance to choose, I show her I can be considerate of her wishes. Besides, if I'm buy her lunch, I don't have to offer her anything for gas, and these days, lunch might almost be a bargain compared to filling a gas tank up. Anyhow, we met, got a seat, and started talking. She's in her mid-to-late twenties, decent looking body for a woman who says she's got a kid (father gone). She seems to be interested in me, and the talk last well past when we're both finished with lunch. We finally decide to get out of the place and I walk her to her car. I'd told her I didn't intend for our first meeting to end in a 'booty call', so we parted company. As with SB#2, she seemed to enjoy herself and acted interested in me. Whether anything happens, or if instead it all fizzles I do not know, but that's how this man's 'sugar weekend' ended.
Hopefully everyone else is doing better.
Dry dock or different definitions of sugar
[QUOTE=SubCmdr; 1431566]The Cmdr is in dry dock. My intelligence officer Lt. Cmdr Sbaby has conducted a review and found my profile lacking true Sugar Baby appeal. This is affecting the quality of Sugar Baby that I attract. Also, she has made me aware that I don't have the resources to play in in the deep end of the sugar bowl. She has also indicated that if I'm looking for a (garden tool) I'm going to find a (garden tool). I have acknowledged my lack of game and plan to step it up a notch. Her work is noted and appreciated. She has gone above and beyond the call of duty.
Sbaby you have a point. But, I found SB2 on SA. I would have taken her to a room if she had not been an hour late. We were supposed to get together a couple of days later but she never confirmed. She canceled our next three dates and has stopped all communication with me. Now Daddy is all dressed up with no Baby to blow me. LOL![/QUOTE]Well I kind of agree with Sbaby, about your budget. YET here I placed an add on Craigs, to find a sweet reply of an young female, intrigued by the idea of sb / sd, and all she wants is educational aide and a guide to assist in her expedition to the wild erotic mystical land. So how can one refuse that. Is providing 'education' and 'guidance' not also providing sugar?
So just as there are quite a few different targets, there are also different torpedoes for the accomplishment of the goal.
Where do I send my resume?
[QUOTE=EuroInCincy; 1431549]I agree.
A long time ago I met one and I let her work for me, but I constructed it so that she was on recurring monthly commission, , so now even after not having been with her for 4 years she still gets a monthly check of 1, 500 without lifting a finger.[/QUOTE]Euro,
I think I can save you some money. I'd be happy to not lift my finger for $1200 a month!
Meant in total jest, but why do you still send her money? Fear of blackmail? If someone with fiduciary responsibilities in your company sniffs this out, isn't there a great deal of exposure for you?
Scott
If they were a sure thing, they would be called something else
[QUOTE=Castlerae; 1431513]This weekend has been an odd one, to say the least. As many advised here, I sent SB#2 a message asking that she get back to me and clarify what was going on. She got back to me fairly promptly, and after some discussion, we agreed to meet again. That was to be last weekend, but an hour before I was to leave for the meeting, she texted me, saying something had come up and she couldn't make it. A few messages back and forth and we agreed to just push the meeting ahead a week, same place and time. So meeting time was to be yesterday, and just as I was getting ready to leave, the phone chimes to let me know I've got a new message. It's SB#2 telling me that, yet again, she can't make it. She offers to met me the next day, but I've already got something planned (see below) , so I tell her I can't make it and ask her if she has any other ideas. Still haven't heard from her, and not sure I ever will at this point.
Today, met another woman I contacted through SA. Whether anything happens, or if instead it all fizzles I do not know, but that's how this man's 'sugar weekend' ended.[/QUOTE]Castle,
Your weekend sounds kind of typical for this pursuit. You've got to send a lot of texts and drink a lot of coffee before you find your ATF.
SB#2 reminds me of a baby I was in hot, hot pursuit of a while back. 20-something HCB, incredibly intelligent and articulate, a student at the Art Institute, an avid neo-burlesque artist, some interesting tats, an interest in all things Gaelic and medieval, and totally sexy in a 1940's pinup way. Good Lord, Scottie and I were delirious, and I was certain if I could just meet her once, she would be as putty in my hands.
A date and location for our M&G was set, and I made sure to put on clean clothes and brush my teeth before heading out the door. This was this past winter, so on the day of the first attempt there was snow on the side streets, but not the main ones. Still, coming into the city from the burbs, and then winding my way over to the breakfast place she had chosen was not all clear sailing. I get there, get a coffee and a table, and wait. And wait. And wait. Finally, I get a bat text saying she just woke up, her alarm mal-functioned, she was up late last night working on a painting, her cat was sick, the toilet was leaking, and, well, you get the picture.
"No problem," says I,"let's reschedule now. I'd really like to meet you." A new date and time is set, and I head out for my day. The new day comes; this time it had snowed a ton the night before, and getting to the cafe is a real hassle. I text her before I leave the house to make sure she will show this time, get assurances that it is just around the corner from her apartment so no worries, shovel my way to the garage, and head off, thankful I have 4 wheel drive. I get there, get a coffee, find a table, and wait. And wait. And wait. And text. And wait. During this time, much to my astonishment and consternation, someone I have known professionally for 20 years but haven't seen recently comes in, sees me, and greets me by name in a very loud voice! We talk for about 15 minutes at my table, one half of my brain paying attention to what she is saying, the other half watching the door and hoping that if the baby comes in and sees me talking to someone else, she will have to good sense to hang back. The third half of my brain is trying to construct a plausible excuse as to why I am so out of my home territory meeting an HCB so early in the morning. Thankfully (?) , she was again a no-show, so I extricated myself from my acquaintance, got back in my car, and headed off to work. No further messages from the baby. Strike out!
The moral of this story, I suppose, is that despite our best efforts to control things, or to ensure success, sometimes, more often than not, actually, things fall apart. As I have said before, they are a quixotic breed, these little babies. If it were all like this, I think I would have been out of the game long ago, but I can attest to the fact that there are successes, some of them quite fantastic ones (Polo) , and you will, eventually, meet your ATF. You need to keep in mind, it's nothing personal, just what happens sometimes.
Hope this is helpful to all my brothers who are not getting the results they had anticipated just yet.
Keep up the good work,
Scott
Re: Treat her like a friend
[QUOTE=SubCmdr;1431566]Sbaby you have a point. But, I found SB2 on SA. I would have taken her to a room if she had not been an hour late. We were supposed to get together a couple of days later but she never confirmed. She canceled our next three dates and has stopped all communication with me. Now Daddy is all dressed up with no Baby to blow me. LOL![/QUOTE]So, in prepping for my radio interview tomorrow I went back and looked at my old blog posts. While doing so, I ran across this statement."I want to find a friend for my daddy – not just a one night play date". On my blog play date is a little more explicit but I'm not sure if that's allowed here. Anyways, it made me think about Sub's most recent situation and a general question for you all. How many of you expect or anticipate any type of sexual activity on a first meet?
Sub, I wonder if you inadvertently made this girl feel like she was an escort by pushing the situation. Instead of saying I enjoyed meeting you and I'm looking to our next date you tempted / pushed an awkward situation that in all honestly is just a little trashy. At least from the female perspective. My point to the whole thing is if your goal for the SB is long-term, you may have to sacrifice the short-term gratification. If you push the short-term, well it shows her that you don't value her for anything more than that and she will vanish. Like I wrote above, I want a friend and I do think that's something common among us SB's. If you want them to keep talking with you and come to the next date, make sure you treat her like a friend.
As always, just my opinion.
Mandy
M&g and achieving "lift off"
[QUOTE=SbabyBlog; 1432516]So, in prepping for my radio interview tomorrow I went back and looked at my old blog posts. While doing so, I ran across this statement."I want to find a friend for my daddy – not just a one night play date". On my blog play date is a little more explicit but I'm not sure if that's allowed here. Anyways, it made me think about Sub's most recent situation and a general question for you all. How many of you expect or anticipate any type of sexual activity on a first meet?
As always, just my opinion.
Mandy[/QUOTE]Mandy, understand todays opinion can never be changed, no matter what other insights you'll get, it can and will be used against you.
Now back to lift off at the first encounter. Sometimes it happens sometimes it won't, it all depends on how the flow goes. I don't count on it but if there is an indication that the pot wants to go climb mount everest I won't stop her.
My M&G are coffee, fun, banter, to see if I can get along. To remove potential land mines. Is she ok with my situation etc. Just light and easy. Just because you have the launch codes, does not mean you need to go for the target. Remember wars are not won in a single battle. Sometimes not getting there at that time is more beneficial for the long run.
One thing I always do. Is ask if she is 'absolutely sure' she wants to climb mount everest. Since it will be there later. Pull back. And there is even more desire to climb it
Just my Euro cents
Escort vs SB and Sex on the First Date
Hi all,
I thought I'd add my thoughts to a couple of posts. I came from the escort world and "graduated" to the SB experience. While I don't think there are any definite lines between the two, I would largely agree with Hernando that it's the social interaction and relationship aspect that makes a SB vs simply an ATF escort. Monthly allowance I think also plays into it. Which leads me to sex on the first date. When responding to SBs I would never expect or initiate sex on the M&G unless it was discussed before hand. I've had two experiences here in my home town of Atlanta over the last couple of months where that was the case. One was actually 2 ladies (both 19) whom I contacted separately on SD4Me and were actually friends. They were pretty straight forward with what would happen after dinner on the M&G. Up side: 2 attractive, fairly interactive, HYB willing to meet for faaar less than any double in the escort world. Downside: sex was mediocre and it is nice to be able to talk to your companions between activities. It was like talking to a couple of rocks. The other was an agreed upon fee before hand if we would "explore all the aspects of our potential relationship" on our first date. She was interesting, but again mediocre sex for too much $$. So I guess I would describe both of those as escorts in SB clothing. As a matter of fact the second one showed up on some local escort sites a couple of weeks after I broke it off with her. I did have one other date where I wasn't expecting sex going into the M&G and we did end up hooking up afterwards. I did compensate her at that point for her time. I think any "test drive" should be compensated. Just some ramblings. I will write a related post about a couple of very nice experiences I've had hooking up with SBs while traveling.
The Grand Benevolent Protective Order of the Sugar Bowl welcomes you
[QUOTE=AliasSM; 1432466]All of the sudden, I now totally understand what this SA thing is all about. I may be a member for life.
Alias[/QUOTE]We will be holding the initiation ceremony this Saturday night.
