[QUOTE=Creideiki;7116088]I've told these stories before so I'll keep it short. I booked 2 hours including a massage with a provider in Clearwater who looked stripper-ish (chest tattoos, etc.) and ended up having a by-the-book cuddle session with her (at least the massage was good). On the other hand, I had the most beautiful woman I've ever shared a bed with in any capacity gradually open up her menu from by-the-book cuddling to receiving massages while topless, then kissing, then making out, then roaming, and finally, sex. She and I had a great connection and chemistry from the very start and every session, even if it stayed platonic, was worth it to me, and I was frankly stunned everything went the way it did.
The girls he describes may very well be inclined to go to extras, but "may" never means "will. " Connection is everything. If you don't feel like you're connecting, extras probably are not going to be had. If you are connecting but she's not offering extras right away, you have to decide if the long game is worth it to you.[/QUOTE]I think it'd be helpful to give some help to others on the board about specific things to say or ways to approach the girl that can make her more comfortable that increase one's chances of her allowing roaming or more. The girl is already aware that we're offering $ to cuddle, it's not like approaching a girl at a bar and having "game". These girls have no monetary reason to allow more than platonic cuddling (unless they charge extra for it), so I'd love to know how one sets the mood, gets the girl comfortable, where he starts his hands and when / where he should move his hands / body position to gauge her response.