[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;4699328]I searched on Banchalove but came up empty.[/QUOTE]Since I remember that in the subject of my post. You can also check my recent posts!
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[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;4699328]I searched on Banchalove but came up empty.[/QUOTE]Since I remember that in the subject of my post. You can also check my recent posts!
The $150 - $250 price point is in line with my experience as well. For reasonable girls, that is. In my searching, the ratio of GPS to reasonable is about 6 to 1.
[QUOTE=VincentCor74;4701213]I get a lot of those "requests", also. Takes a LONG time to weed through and find one who is realistic.
Met a hot, mixed, 5'10', mature, Meredith student / part-time model yesterday for coffee / meet and greet and we are getting together today for our first real "date"; I offered 150 and she countered 200 because she's going to Atlanta with friends this weekend, and needs some extra spending money.
So, I relented. Though that's more than I like to spend.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Sobe69;4700309]What are the allowance for these college ones? I have only gotten GPS request for 500+.[/QUOTE]I'm typically offering something steady and long-term, so it's a bit different ballgame. Usually $150/ week (dividing up $600/ mth) plus dates and occasional gifts. I don't negotiate, though. Someone asks for more than that, l just tell them we're not aligned and move on. It saves a lot of time and saves me from feeling like I'm not meeting their needs.
You might be amazed at how eager and appreciative a 20 year old who no longer has to work three jobs to pay for school can be. I like the stability and consistency myself. It's always a fun moment for me when that initial nervousness has died out and they're reaching out to me for that second or third fuck that week, even though there's no profit in it for them.
[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;4689273]Ghosted me when we had a date. Has anyone been successful.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/app/profile/fda13f7d26e9c160[/URL][/QUOTE]She is Mixed Race UTR and looking for discreet clients. PM me for her contact info. Down for GFE. SENIOR MEMBERS ONLY. Mention “Stardoll “ in your PM. OR I will not answer.
This SB only wants to sell you her pics / videos [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/26346054-eb73-4b80-bce5-1cb3fa3de923[/URL].
This is the message I received.
So I am honestly not looking for anything in person.
1,000% am who I say I am.
Looking to send pictures and videos at your request. Special or custom pic / videos come at a request too.
[QUOTE=PghGuy2005;4706649]This SB only wants to sell you her pics / videos [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/26346054-eb73-4b80-bce5-1cb3fa3de923[/URL].
This is the message I received.
So I am honestly not looking for anything in person.
1,000% am who I say I am.
Looking to send pictures and videos at your request. Special or custom pic / videos come at a request too.[/QUOTE]I used to report every one of those to the site. Says using the site as a business is unacceptable but yet they do nothing about it.
[QUOTE=Pubb69;4695511]Just my opinion but They are the worst of the worst. GPS, attitudes, over priced and the illusion they actually have significance in the real world. It seems the worst women in the world are attracted to that profession.[/QUOTE]With bars / restaurants / public gatherings "closing" these girls are going to need to make money somehow, now.
Just a thought.
She looks very sexy. Beautiful. Anyone has intel on this lady.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6b34e9b4-eec8-4f53-815f-e9d58d72c923[/URL]
[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;4710267]She looks very sexy. Beautiful. Anyone has intel on this lady.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6b34e9b4-eec8-4f53-815f-e9d58d72c923[/URL][/QUOTE]Yep, super sweet and real girl. Big time GPS.
[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;4710267]She looks very sexy. Beautiful. Anyone has intel on this lady.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6b34e9b4-eec8-4f53-815f-e9d58d72c923[/URL][/QUOTE]Sweet nice girl, but big time GPS!
[QUOTE=Raltime;4710938]Yep, super sweet and real girl. Big time GPS.[/QUOTE]I've seen this used many times. Can somebody explain what GPS stands for.
GPS stands for Golden Pussy Syndrome. In other words, a gal with an inflated opinion of herself, at least as judged by some board members.
[QUOTE=Hiamey;4712400]I've seen this used many times. Can somebody explain what GPS stands for.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=TheDistance;4706209]I'm typically offering something steady and long-term, so it's a bit different ballgame. Usually $150/ week (dividing up $600/ mth) plus dates and occasional gifts. I don't negotiate, though. Someone asks for more than that, l just tell them we're not aligned and move on. It saves a lot of time and saves me from feeling like I'm not meeting their needs.
You might be amazed at how eager and appreciative a 20 year old who no longer has to work three jobs to pay for school can be. I like the stability and consistency myself. It's always a fun moment for me when that initial nervousness has died out and they're reaching out to me for that second or third fuck that week, even though there's no profit in it for them.[/QUOTE]It seems to me that some men on this site have some sort of superpower, for I cannot even imagine offering $150 per week to a lady. I have been insulted for offering $150 per meet! How do you guys get any woman to agree to this? I guess maybe it is the location. I live in LA and my $300 per meet offers are mostly turned. At first, I was confused then I realized that a lot of high rollers on SA are tossing money at these ladies like it is nothing. One woman I saw showed me Venmo and CashApp notifications for $500, $1000, etc, and I was only giving her $250. A lot of these SBs are balling!
[QUOTE=Raltime;4710938]Yep, super sweet and real girl. Big time GPS.[/QUOTE]If you decide to go forward let us know how it goes!
[QUOTE=BBenson4569;4713000]If you decide to go forward let us know how it goes![/QUOTE]Haha, no way, she wanted enough to cover all her monthly cost, car, rent, food, she was very nice, but I would call her (Palladium or platinum) PPS, not GPS.
Not worth it.
[QUOTE=Shyzai;4712513] I live in LA... ![/QUOTE]Raleigh definitely isn't LA. Cost of living is about a third.
I look for a particular type of girl. I like a good student that is trying to make ends meet and who likes older men. My last sb was working three jobs and wanted to give up one. She was able to give up two for the first 18 months and because she was smart and saved, she went to none for her last semester and the push to graduation. It's a very pretty nice gig to give up 20 hours of crap work for a few hours with a guy who treats a girl way better than guys her age will. My first sb over a decade ago convinced me of that.
I'm not going to impress the lady trying to live the yacht dream and buy hermes bags. I don't even try. My aim is for cute, smart and eager. They get it.
[QUOTE=TheDistance;4713655]Raleigh definitely isn't LA. Cost of living is about a third.
I look for a particular type of girl. I like a good student that is trying to make ends meet and who likes older men. My last sb was working three jobs and wanted to give up one. She was able to give up two for the first 18 months and because she was smart and saved, she went to none for her last semester and the push to graduation. It's a very pretty nice gig to give up 20 hours of crap work for a few hours with a guy who treats a girl way better than guys her age will. My first sb over a decade ago convinced me of that.
I'm not going to impress the lady trying to live the yacht dream and buy hermes bags. I don't even try. My aim is for cute, smart and eager. They get it.[/QUOTE]TheDistance,
I love your style and try to do the same but I've hit a bit of a dry spell the last two or three years on SA. Too many scammers plus I think my age has something to do with it too. I'm not in the best physical shape either. Keep up the great posts!
[I]Safe mongering and sugaring![/I]
A lot of us look for and can find the same.
What most guys don't realize (or aren't willing to do) is that:
A. It takes a little time and work to find the perfect fit.
B. These girls may not get physical with you on the first date. If a girl isn't willing to do a non-paid (or very lightly paid) meet and greet, she's not looking for a steady arrangement imo. (I make it clear going in that if we hit it off I will expect in upon 2nd date; weeds out the fakes pretty quickly).
C. My best arrangements have been where there was never even a set amount discussed and they never asked. We'd go grocery shopping; or I'd just leave an envelope with some cash; or I'd ask if she had a bill pending I could pay online; or I'd get to learn what places she frequents. Tanning salons, nail places, etc. And buy gift certificates.
The perfect arrangement feels like friends with benefits with an unspoken extra benefit for them.
[QUOTE=TheDistance;4713655]Raleigh definitely isn't LA. Cost of living is about a third.
I look for a particular type of girl. I like a good student that is trying to make ends meet and who likes older men. My last sb was working three jobs and wanted to give up one. She was able to give up two for the first 18 months and because she was smart and saved, she went to none for her last semester and the push to graduation. It's a very pretty nice gig to give up 20 hours of crap work for a few hours with a guy who treats a girl way better than guys her age will. My first sb over a decade ago convinced me of that.
I'm not going to impress the lady trying to live the yacht dream and buy hermes bags. I don't even try. My aim is for cute, smart and eager. They get it.[/QUOTE]
Am happy to offer another UTR. Only Senior members. Do not waste my time if you are not a senior on here. PM me for details. Mixed race. Sexy as hell. Please state her name KIM in you response. I will not respond If you dont have her name in your response. GFE. And will go the extra mile to make you happy so you will return.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/app/profile/a2e005f21a075295
[QUOTE=TheDistance;4706209]...
You might be amazed at how eager and appreciative a 20 year old who no longer has to work three jobs to pay for school can be. I like the stability and consistency myself. It's always a fun moment for me when that initial nervousness has died out and they're reaching out to me for that second or third fuck that week, even though there's no profit in it for them.[/QUOTE]I've messaged many SBs on SA over the years but very few actually respond. I am not White don't know if that is a deal breaker!
What ever happened to her?
[QUOTE=LikesGirls;4715995]What ever happened to her?[/QUOTE]She moved to Fayetteville & goes by Riley. There are some reviews on the Fayettevillle escort board. Here is one of her ads:
[URL]http://fayetteville-nc.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/if-youre-looking-for-the-best/965989137035[/URL]
[QUOTE=LikesGirls;4715995]What ever happened to her?[/QUOTE]The last I heard she moved back to Fayetteville. She seemed to have shifted to full on escort too.
[QUOTE=VincentCor74;4714151]A lot of us look for and can find the same.
What most guys don't realize (or aren't willing to do) is that:
A. It takes a little time and work to find the perfect fit.
B. These girls may not get physical with you on the first date. If a girl isn't willing to do a non-paid (or very lightly paid) meet and greet, she's not looking for a steady arrangement imo. (I make it clear going in that if we hit it off I will expect in upon 2nd date; weeds out the fakes pretty quickly).
C. My best arrangements have been where there was never even a set amount discussed and they never asked. We'd go grocery shopping; or I'd just leave an envelope with some cash; or I'd ask if she had a bill pending I could pay online; or I'd get to learn what places she frequents. Tanning salons, nail places, etc. And buy gift certificates.
The perfect arrangement feels like friends with benefits with an unspoken extra benefit for them.[/QUOTE]Exactly. This should be used as a template for anyone wanting an ongoing sugar relationship with a non pro. The only thing I would add is check your approach with the 'normal' girls. We all know what this is about but the 'normal' girls fresh and new to this don't want it to feel blatantly transactional.
On a personal note I'm currently suffering with the current reality! I've recently met (on Tinder not SA) and texted with two hot coeds bored out of their minds with the self quarantine and everywhere closed. They've both invited me to meet and f*ck (got to love students), but I can't get out of my house bc my SO is freaking out bc of COVID19 and everywhere is closed anyways so where the hell can I say I'm going? I also don't think it's wise to go out with all the unknowns about the virus so I'm dying inside knowing the girls will eventually lose interest before I get a chance to fck. Unfortunate but there will be plenty more opportunities at the other side of this. Stay safe!
Yaya.
I would bravely take care of those poor coeds for you.
But that's good advice. Tinder may be a good source of girls looking for something (or someone) to do.
[QUOTE=YayaGogo;4716748]Exactly. This should be used as a template for anyone wanting an ongoing sugar relationship with a non pro. The only thing I would add is check your approach with the 'normal' girls. We all know what this is about but the 'normal' girls fresh and new to this don't want it to feel blatantly transactional.
On a personal note I'm currently suffering with the current reality! I've recently met (on Tinder not SA) and texted with two hot coeds bored out of their minds with the self quarantine and everywhere closed. They've both invited me to meet and f*ck (got to love students), but I can't get out of my house bc my SO is freaking out bc of COVID19 and everywhere is closed anyways so where the hell can I say I'm going? I also don't think it's wise to go out with all the unknowns about the virus so I'm dying inside knowing the girls will eventually lose interest before I get a chance to fck. Unfortunate but there will be plenty more opportunities at the other side of this. Stay safe!
Yaya.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=PghGuy2005;4715968]I've messaged many SBs on SA over the years but very few actually respond. I am not White don't know if that is a deal breaker![/QUOTE]I actually don't message first. If I read a profile with decent looking pictures and text that I think matches what I'm looking for, I favorite them and open access to my private pictures. My photos are all recent and accurate and my description is a little lengthy but gives a pretty decent amount of detail both about myself and what I'm looking for.
I probably get slightly less responses than when I wrote (and the percentage is really low either way), but it's a lot more efficient. I can't speak to the ethnicity issue from the SD side, but I know from the black / biracial ladies I've met and sugared that it can be disconcerting from their perspective. I think that's a shame because I've had some fantastic relationships overall with these young ladies.
Like others have said, I don't try to to score on the first date. I try to make it a nice date, either lunch or dinner at a decent place with enough time to chat and flirt and see if there's some chemistry. I don't necessarily try to fuck on the second date, but I do angle for some sexiness, maybe some shopping and modeling or a massage. It practically always turns into more. The beauty of this is that it's pretty organic and allows someone who is looking for a more traditional sugar situation to feel comfortable and positive about it.
I also have no qualms at all about slipping a great date a little "gas money" after a first date with potential and chemistry, but I'd never agree to meet someone who even brought up the subject of there being a financial aspect to having dinner with me.
How do you use tinder and avoid being caught by you SO. Do you use a real pic? Also I will take one for the team and take those coeds off your hands for you and return them when the madness ends.
[QUOTE=YayaGogo;4716748]Exactly. This should be used as a template for anyone wanting an ongoing sugar relationship with a non pro. The only thing I would add is check your approach with the 'normal' girls. We all know what this is about but the 'normal' girls fresh and new to this don't want it to feel blatantly transactional.
On a personal note I'm currently suffering with the current reality! I've recently met (on Tinder not SA) and texted with two hot coeds bored out of their minds with the self quarantine and everywhere closed. They've both invited me to meet and f*ck (got to love students), but I can't get out of my house bc my SO is freaking out bc of COVID19 and everywhere is closed anyways so where the hell can I say I'm going? I also don't think it's wise to go out with all the unknowns about the virus so I'm dying inside knowing the girls will eventually lose interest before I get a chance to fck. Unfortunate but there will be plenty more opportunities at the other side of this. Stay safe!
Yaya.[/QUOTE]
Gentlemen, (and I use that term loosely).
I have a very UTR 20 something lady in North Raleigh that is in a bind and will entertain a few of you for some assistance.
She's normally a hard-working young lady in a salon, but we know the current climate there, so she's needing help to make ends meet.
Now. Before you all run to me with your dicks in your hands:
1.) She is a larger gal; especially from the waist down. So, if you are looking for some hard body, this isn't your scene.
2.) She confessed to me she's had some sexual trauma in the past; so, if you are looking to play "daddy dom" this isn't your scene, either.
3.) If you can be a decent human and are having a hard time (pun intended) finding someone clean and decent to spend some time with, then this might be a good fit for you.
4.) To reiterate point 1, there's a reason I'm passing and passing this on, right. ? Seriously, don't waste her time, if you aren't going to go through with it. I was kind enough not to and so should you. She's got a really pretty face, tbh and nice rack. She's a sweet girl- treat her as such.
Since no one shares in this group anyone open for a trade? I have been seeing a old regular lately that came back into town. The good news is she is still hot, tight and submissive & above average in the all of things we desire. The bad news is she came back with demons and not has a harmless handler. Why am I giving this up? Her location is too close to people I know & I'm trying to leave that game and find that true SB that works and needs a little extra. Getting too old for the other stuff. Let the full inbox begin LOL.
[QUOTE=Sobe69;4719160]Since no one shares in this group anyone open for a trade? I have been seeing a old regular lately that came back into town. The good news is she is still hot, tight and submissive & above average in the all of things we desire. The bad news is she came back with demons and not has a harmless handler. Why am I giving this up? Her location is too close to people I know & I'm trying to leave that game and find that true SB that works and needs a little extra. Getting too old for the other stuff. Let the full inbox begin LOL[/QUOTE]Noticed the student in Chapel Hill returned from her South America visit.
[QUOTE=Sobe69;4719088]How do you use tinder and avoid being caught by you SO. Do you use a real pic? Also I will take one for the team and take those coeds off your hands for you and return them when the madness ends.[/QUOTE]I put the app deep inside the 'folder' where you can only find it by opening the folder and scrolling a couple pages. Also I don't show my face in the pics I have, which has undoubtedly cost me many swipes but my direct alpha bio gets me interest anyways from the right kind of girls.
And nope I'll keep them to myself for the time being. Kinky attractive coeds with daddy issues and no sugar don't grow on trees. Plenty of newly unemployed SB's are pouring onto SA these days for those who are able to see them. Good luck!
Yaya.
[QUOTE=YayaGogo;4719868]... Kinky attractive coeds with daddy issues and no sugar don't grow on trees....[/QUOTE]Daddy issues. I left that off of my early description of what I look for. That's definitely a primary component of the personality that I search for.
TD.
On SecretBenefits.
She's very real and even better looking in person, than in her pics. Which are quite cute.
Did a meet and greet with her and thought things were going to move forward, easily.
But, when I went to make an actual date, she decided to ask for more than I was comfortable with. She started at 400 and then asked for 300 when I didn't respond.
IMO. Her looks and personality (and potential willingness to host at her place) might be worth it for those of you in that spending range. That's not my tempo. So I passed and haven't heard back from her.
She's an out of work waitress, from what I gather.
Anyone has infor on a Anna Cute. I would appreciate any info.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/06367ae2-1423-4e6e-90a4-30e7adbedd5e[/URL]
I would say there are few fools and idiots left who will be paying these self proclaimed queens and princesses the ridiculous prices they requested. The usual scams are all dried up now, these scam artists should have saved them for a rainy day. Welcome to reality Sugar hoes.
I have a long term SB, petite, big titties, red head who likes group play. You bring a like minded SB and we can swap, trade off etc. Yes, she likes to be doubled etc, I'm only into women 100% and you should be too! No, I'm not interested in hanging out with you if you don't have your own girl. I did this once before and a couple of why'all had a girl, were going to bring a girl and then of course the girl couldn't make it at the last minute but you still wanted to show up. LOL no thanks. I like to share as in, you bring your fun girl and I have mine! We are available for this the 3rd through the 8th. Hotel suite, drinks if you like, etc.
No sniffling or sick babies! No druggies, no hookers, no disgusting fat chicks, no thugs, must legal age verified etc, etc. Hit me up for some fun, when you know your girl is in! I won't waste your time, please don't waste ours!
A few of these girls from WYP still have GPS. No fucking way I'm covering a place and $300 unless you are a top 10 porn star. I think these girls get offered too much cash by some desperate losers and they think that's the number. It's absurd.
I let the shut down wear them down till they start making sense.
I think the older college crowd is a good population but the strippers and waitresses are still asking crazy numbers.
Stay safe out there.
[QUOTE=MythMan2010;4730854]A few of these girls from WYP still have GPS. No fucking way I'm covering a place and $300 unless you are a top 10 porn star. I think these girls get offered too much cash by some desperate losers and they think that's the number. It's absurd.
I let the shut down wear them down till they start making sense.
I think the older college crowd is a good population but the strippers and waitresses are still asking crazy numbers.
Stay safe out there.[/QUOTE]It's all about leverage. They are all out there for your money and want to do as little as possible to get it, it's shameful that some don't get that concept and allow themselves to be used. The majority of the girls on that site are inexperienced with life in general and have some big ideas but are too lazy to achieve anything on their own so they think the site is a shortcut to success and personal achievement. My view is they are just delusional hookers and the current situation is going to let reality sink in real fast.
I told a potential SB that am paying my current SB but there is no intimacy because I don't find her sexually appealing to me. The potential SB got upset for using the "Pay". She complained that I don't "PAY" an SB. She only gets an allowance. So I looked up those 2 words, LO AND BEHOLD they are truly synonymous. So who is wrong me or the potential SB. For some reason, these young girls feel they can get an ALLOWANCE and provide intimacy but they are not prostitutes. Just wanted to see what others here think.
[QUOTE=Hiamey;4732370]I told a potential SB that am paying my current SB but there is no intimacy because I don't find her sexually appealing to me. The potential SB got upset for using the "Pay". She complained that I don't "PAY" an SB. She only gets an allowance. So I looked up those 2 words, LO AND BEHOLD they are truly synonymous. So who is wrong me or the potential SB. For some reason, these young girls feel they can get an ALLOWANCE and provide intimacy but they are not prostitutes. Just wanted to see what others here think.[/QUOTE]Yes it's their illusion so why bust their balloon or argue with them about it. Certainly doesn't get you anywhere and end up costing more than it's worth.