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So, I had a few minutes between meetings so thought I would browse the site and waste a few minutes. And waste I did. Of my first handful of profile clicks, four profiles came up as last login from Ukraine, Bangladesh, Pakistan and Indonesia. This is crazy.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5d5da65b-7390-44f0-a000-62cf24e28e0f[/URL]
Seemed pleasant and open through the first few messages but then asked for allowance on first meet when we started getting more detailed. Didn't ask for more details as its a non starter for me.
[QUOTE=Abcat1;4646384]I've been seeing escorts for thirty years but like an idiot sent my photo out to a few women. Even worse my text number was my actual phone number. They found out where I lived, where I work. Sorry to hear about you also. I'm keeping my finger crossed they'll be no repercussions.[/QUOTE]This is my worst fear. I use a texting app so they can't trace my cell number but without pictures on my profile I didn't get any luck. I'm really nervous that some crazy girl will start digging and blackmailing me but without picture most won't even respond.
I recollect someone on here said there is an app that scans a photo and matches attempts to match photos with faces on the internet. If there's any truth to that and I believe there is, we should all be extremely careful. SA is a great site, but you are really venturing into a black hole.
[QUOTE=FightingFungus;4632544]All the girls you posted are 40 plus. Any reason for that, I tend to go younger[/QUOTE]I'm in my late 50's and don't connect with the younger one' and they probably don't connect with me. Many of them have never heard of the Beatles. I also find the older one's much more open minded toward to sex. You don't have to hassle them about BBFS. They want it that way.
[QUOTE=Abcat1;4638211]Do you guys send photos to these women ever? I'm reluctant but that's what they want unless I'm targeting the wrong ones.[/QUOTE]I don't have my pic on SA and never will. I definitely end up with less opportunities as a result but I still have success. It takes a little more work. It's not worth the risk, if you're married, to send a pic. I've been honest with a couple of them as to why I don't post and it worked. There is plenty of opportunity out there! Keep grinding.
[QUOTE=Dbomb;4646069]Anyone seen Samdelion? [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3de471f8-5234-4ed9-bd19-57725396fbba[/URL].
Cutie and seems nice. Barely 19. Says she's fooled around, but is still a virgin (uh huh). Bisexual (profile says "women are more than welcome. ".
I've been talking to sammieokay.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/73093afa-b1d1-4779-a57a-1b55677160dc[/URL]
Pretty and sexy. Wants 350 to meet for lunch or dinner, wants everything to be kept platonic. Maybe one of you can work some magic and coax her into something more physical for as much or less, but I personally don't put forth that effort. Either they're willing or they're not.
I met BrokeBrookeBaby.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cb7e474c-a529-4a7e-8b64-06dab230f9c6[/URL]
Similar experience as others have reported. Said she could stay for 2 hours. She was late, which I expected and planned for (I only schedule a meet on days when I have nothing to do anyways). When she arrived, she stripped down right away and looked good, but it seemed she had little bruises on her right arm and on her face. NOT drug bruises, but minor physical altercation bruises. Then she says she can't stay long, for reasons she could have mentioned early into planning (we planned this the day before) but waited until she was here. I ended up shorted on time. Sort of killed the mood.
Wanted me inside her (CFS, no BBFS, same as others have reported), but I declined. Went for BBBJ / CIM. She tried to rush. Eventually couldn't hold back and I unloaded. Got dressed, walked her out to her car, we wished each other well. Meeting lasted a little under an hour.[/QUOTE]Regarding BrokeBrookBaby I could have hooked up with her but decided against it. She sent me pics of her having cum all over her. I understand that it maybe a turn on for some, but it was a turn off for me.
Anyone have experience with this one. Not into AA, but this one is pretty hot. Probably a pro.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d0a82cf3-d174-44c2-8493-90c4ce4d6b9b[/URL]
Yes there will be scammers who will try to extort you that is why you have to make sure the ones that you send do not contain any identifiable info that could trace it back to you. Which means don't take photos of you beside your car or inside your home. Don't upload photos that you also posted on any social media too. Scrub your photos and make sure that no EXIF data is saved that could geotag your location. Check your phone settings and make sure that it is not saving these data by default.
Social media should all be turned to private and you could even change your settings to prevent facebook profile to come out in searches, the same with linkedin too.
With that said if you're single then there is really very little leverage that scammers can use on you and are probably less likely to engage you knowing how much harder of a mark you are. So it may be worth changing your status on SA to single. Then again, a lot of SBs do avoid dating married men so it would be best to be honest with your status once you have established some form of trust.
With all of that precautions aside, photos do make a difference on your success rate. Just think about it would you message a sb profile who doesn't have photos? The same is true for these girls too when it comes to SDs.
I just did the facial search on myself. I didn't find myself but it told me who I resemble and it really works.
[QUOTE=JHobby;4647717]Yes there will be scammers who will try to extort you that is why you have to make sure the ones that you send do not contain any identifiable info that could trace it back to you. Which means don't take photos of you beside your car or inside your home. Don't upload photos that you also posted on any social media too. Scrub your photos and make sure that no EXIF data is saved that could geotag your location. Check your phone settings and make sure that it is not saving these data by default.
Social media should all be turned to private and you could even change your settings to prevent facebook profile to come out in searches, the same with linkedin too.
With that said if you're single then there is really very little leverage that scammers can use on you and are probably less likely to engage you knowing how much harder of a mark you are. So it may be worth changing your status on SA to single. Then again, a lot of SBs do avoid dating married men so it would be best to be honest with your status once you have established some form of trust.
With all of that precautions aside, photos do make a difference on your success rate. Just think about it would you message a sb profile who doesn't have photos? The same is true for these girls too when it comes to SDs.[/QUOTE]Excellent source of precaution is what you just did. Thank you.
Can anyone help me with my profile and offer me some tips? Last time I didn't have much success.
Thank you.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ac809622-2df7-4682-bf0d-2758e19b09f9[/URL] She is posting out of Elgin as it says but her phone number googles recent esco-rt adds in downtown [URL]https://callescort.org/630-520-2825[/URL].
Proceed with caution, I decide its not worth it.
[QUOTE=StanKost;4646297][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/28d762bb-cc01-49fa-abb0-0720f1d2a73f[/URL]
She is dtf asked for 500 $ I offered 300 $ and she went silent for few days till today when she asked for 400 $. She can't host so if you can't too have to add the hotel cost. With plenty of girls in the 300 range I passed but she may offer extras for the high cost.
[/QUOTE]This girl has multiple profiles and has been talked about on here before: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/116518ef-a4b8-4615-a084-3ff6260772fe[/URL].
Apparently has / had some substance abuse issues. She texted me as well as yesterday which prompted me to check her social media and it looks like she recently was robbed at gun point on the CTA and is pretty banged up with a black eye, broken ribs, concussion, fractured hand, and severely bruised legs and ankles. Probably desperate to cover the cost of her stolen phone and medical bills.
[QUOTE=Zimbler;4635653]2000 a month is not that bad if you want something regular and consistent. That comes out to 500 a week. Let's say you see her twice a week. That's 250 per visit. If you see her more than twice a week then it's a bargain. It just might get boring for someone seeing the same person that often[/QUOTE]She's a pro at $500 er hour.