TO PAY OR NOT TO PAY (in advance)
[QUOTE=IBetThatHurt;6754292]I've never ever laid out the tip before she started. After the flip, I tell her what I want and what I'm offering, and she can take it or leave it.
Those of you that "put it out before the session starts, do you really find it effective?
I always worry that if I put it out beforehand, she'll scoop it up and not give up the goods.[/QUOTE]When I know what the cost of the full service is to be (often by way of this board), I lay it out before hand, with no comment. The girl invariably knows exactly what I want from the git go, and the whole visit progresses smoothly without interruption for negotiation. And the service has been good. At least that has been my experience in AMP's. With escorts, it's trickier. Sadly, I must admit that some years ago an escort showed up at my motel, after I put in a call. The girl was very pretty, and I was dazzled. I had laid her full fee out on the bedside table. She said, first let's go downstairs to the beach bar for a drink, then later she said let's go get a bite to eat, I just went along with it all, happy as a clam. After dinner, the check came, and she said, while you take care of that, I'll go outside for a smoke. Well, I waited, and waited, and then waited some more. Finally, after a half hour, I trudged back to my room. Got inside, and looked over to the bedside table, and it was empty. I never saw her take the money during the beginning of our "date. ".