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[QUOTE=Sounds;5557187]Usual scam for gift card is they will ask for the card number when you arrive before giving out the room number. Once you give them the number, they have access to the card and you won't get a room number or any reply.[/QUOTE]Thanks sounds. Never done it and never will. Best!
The best way not to get scammed is to stop treating these woman like there your gf and kissing there ass and actually thinking they like you. Treat them for what they are. There just woman looking to make money by the means they feel are necessary. Now not all woman are trying to scam but like anyone else once they spot a mark and an easy target then they will go for the kill. I read how you guys hand over the money when you walk in the door and how you have an ongoing thing and she said your best sex of her life so you trust her lending her money up front. I mean how dumb can you be. 70 % of these chicks have bfs. I agree with another guy here, single moms, legit single moms are the best ones to meet. But just use common sense and you won't get scammed.
[QUOTE=Trailman44;5557217]Thanks sounds. Never done it and never will. Best![/QUOTE]I guess if you give her the GC at the end, then no harm. However, I agree there is a very high probability that she will ask for in advance and scam you. She'll just want to make sure it's real and you are not going to scam her, LOL. It also makes no sense, why would she want a GC over cash?
[QUOTE=LikesBikes;5557046]Got a winner here. Anyone up for the challenge?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/76154d5c-c420-47ff-ae7f-d9c1f8c6fd71[/URL]
LOL![/QUOTE]I just don't understand why girls like this don't just start an OF or do web camming. They'd make more money. Maybe they don't because that involves actual work.
As FYI to newbies on here: DO NOT send any gift cards, venmo, cashapp, etc before meet. Even if the girl is real; the thing today for theis new crop of SBs is often the old adage of "if you say a pervy, gross thing to 10 girls, 1 one like it".
Ditto with these girls, who are often real (there used to be WAY more fake profiles a few years ago), and they essentially try to talk to as many guys as they can to get them to send them anything. If for example, they talk and text 20 dudes, they only need 1-3 of them to actually send them money of any amount and they can call it a day without ever having to meet, put out, or shit even text you again. I mean if you did some example math, say they talk to 100 dudes week; if they get 10 dudes a week to send them $25, that's $200 a week for as minimal work as possible. It's a grift that is more and more popular, and they are often girls you'll see on multiple SB and even dating sites who look for these gullible dudes as a job.
If any girl ever tells you it's a requirement, or keep pressing about it, tell them why you won't send and only transact in person. It's against SA's policy to send money before meet (which they don't enforce, sadly, even if you report them), it can lead to a paper trail (which even a single dude like me is uncomfortable with), and obv explain to them why its sugar for intimacy, and if they don't understand it and keep pressing: then block their ass and on to the next one.
[QUOTE=DrinIvisible;5557140]My take is: If you buy the card with a cash transaction and not through one of your credit cards, I don't see any harm.[/QUOTE]Do not waste your time with a gift card. If they want a card over cash it's a scam waiting to happen.
[QUOTE=TheList00;5557376]The best way not to get scammed is to stop treating these woman like there your gf and kissing there ass and actually thinking they like you. Treat them for what they are. There just woman looking to make money by the means they feel are necessary. Now not all woman are trying to scam but like anyone else once they spot a mark and an easy target then they will go for the kill. I read how you guys hand over the money when you walk in the door and how you have an ongoing thing and she said your best sex of her life so you trust her lending her money up front. I mean how dumb can you be. 70 % of these chicks have bfs. I agree with another guy here, single moms, legit single moms are the best ones to meet. But just use common sense and you won't get scammed.[/QUOTE]Good post.
Will also add: all of my top SB true UTR experiences. They don't ask for the money upfront. Its not even a discussion until they are about to leave. Obv more rarer today than it was during the BP / CL era.
You can also have good experiences from girls who do ask up front; but those are usually from semi-pros. Who can be good experiences, but just understand that you aren't going to get that UTR attention. They usually are dating someone else ("dating" being a loose term if you catch my drift LOL), you are less likely to get overtime, and you are also less likely to get "value" (meaning you'll pay more of the market rates that are inflated nowadays, or clock watchers).
This is also why UTR single moms are the best value: they want a good time as well as money. It's not just about the money for them, mom is stressed and she needs dick haha. But single moms also tend to me the most likely semi-pros too, because they got bills to pay, but they'll usually be more candid about what they expect as supposed to a 21 year old texting you to send cashapp every 20 minutes. As always YMMV.
[QUOTE=UmassBoi;4165204]I have been using SA and there is a girl who said she is 18 wanted to meet with me and stuff. So we started texting (used a google voice number) and talked about arrangements and no money amount or any explicit sexual was mentioned. We did exchange pictures mostly casual pictures but she did sent one nude photo later. Yesterday, her parents texted me with the number demanding an explanation why I am sending these messages to her 16 years old daughter or s / he would call the police. I briefly explained that her daughter was pretending she was 18 on a dating site and that I wouldn't have continued if I knew. I blocked her shortly after. In my mind, I know nothing is probably going to happen, but I've been really paranoid about this. How likely is the police going to track me down, and if they do, for what crime? Any advice will be greatly appreciated![/QUOTE]Since last week, I have been communicating with this girl who pretended to be 19 on SA. Mostly well mannered messages like "how are you" and "how is it going" until yesterday evening. She shared 3 pics with power plants and then suddenly shared a pic showing her lower back. Then in the evening, a person using the same number texted to claim as the girl's father and started exactly like in attached post about going to police. Now profile seems to have gone or blocked me. I apologized saying I was not communicating with minor but then he said we could resolve this "man to man" and asked to settle by sending money". I somehow managed not to send anything until now but wanted to check for advice and wanted to share for awareness. Thank you.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b49e4567-da6b-44cf-b072-34a3acdaeefe[/URL]
[QUOTE=Purnikator;5557968]Since last week, I have been communicating with this girl who pretended to be 19 on SA. Mostly well mannered messages like "how are you" and "how is it going" until yesterday evening. She shared 3 pics with power plants and then suddenly shared a pic showing her lower back. Then in the evening, a person using the same number texted to claim as the girl's father and started exactly like in attached post about going to police. Now profile seems to have gone or blocked me. I apologized saying I was not communicating with minor but then he said we could resolve this "man to man" and asked to settle by sending money". I somehow managed not to send anything until now but wanted to check for advice and wanted to share for awareness. Thank you.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b49e4567-da6b-44cf-b072-34a3acdaeefe[/URL][/QUOTE]Don't send them a penny. These scams are not even good well thought scams. There old and typical. I'm really 16 and the father texts you which is actually her bf. The best one is the I can't meet I have no gas in my car so send me 50 for gas, yea because driving 10 miles to my house takes 50 bucks in gas. I just fight back with them. Punk them out, talk shit, there your typical internet losers all talk no action. Stand up to them, don't be afraid of the police because trust me 1000 % these scammers are never going to police and the biggest reason is once you make a police report you have to give your info and then the case becomes public record so noones cop calling.
[QUOTE=Purnikator;5557968]Since last week, I have been communicating with this girl who pretended to be 19 on SA. Mostly well mannered messages like "how are you" and "how is it going" until yesterday evening. She shared 3 pics with power plants and then suddenly shared a pic showing her lower back. Then in the evening, a person using the same number texted to claim as the girl's father and started exactly like in attached post about going to police. Now profile seems to have gone or blocked me. I apologized saying I was not communicating with minor but then he said we could resolve this "man to man" and asked to settle by sending money". I somehow managed not to send anything until now but wanted to check for advice and wanted to share for awareness. Thank you.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b49e4567-da6b-44cf-b072-34a3acdaeefe[/URL][/QUOTE]I had a similar scam attempted with me. I told them I would meet them and pay them off. I gave them the address to a local gun range in Manchester and apparently they decided to do a no show LOL. Just push back on all of these rip off attempts and tell them to eff off. Most of them are so lazy they will give up pretty quick if you ignore them.
[QUOTE=Purnikator;5557968]Since last week, I have been communicating with this girl who pretended to be 19 on SA. Mostly well mannered messages like "how are you" and "how is it going" until yesterday evening. She shared 3 pics with power plants and then suddenly shared a pic showing her lower back. Then in the evening, a person using the same number texted to claim as the girl's father and started exactly like in attached post about going to police. Now profile seems to have gone or blocked me. I apologized saying I was not communicating with minor but then he said we could resolve this "man to man" and asked to settle by sending money". I somehow managed not to send anything until now but wanted to check for advice and wanted to share for awareness. Thank you.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b49e4567-da6b-44cf-b072-34a3acdaeefe[/URL][/QUOTE]Always use VOIP numbers (I. E. Textnow). Don't share pictures that you use on social media or professional profiles. Don't even respond when stuff like this happens; immediately block the number after, and I'd also maybe even get and use a new number for SB activities as well for extra security so no bullshit comes across your eyes. Also report the profile to SA; I am sure if you mention posing as underage, they will take action to remove it.
I will add the profile is not up anymore, so that's good but I am sure the scammer will just start a new one.
I saw some posts about this. I've only sent money to a girl once and it was after we were texting for months because she was far away. And even though I knew who she was, we had talked on the phone, shared some explicit pics I still had some hesitation before sending her $ pre-date.
It's your money so do with it whatever you want but I will just tell you you DON'T have to do this. If someone is asking for it they've either been scammed or are a scammer period. If a girl can't carve out 30 minutes to meet you for coffee or a drink with no pre-compensation then shame on her.
I've had the most success with negotiating in person too. Women are bad negotiators face to face. Behind a keyboard they feel empowered. In person they crumble. I once got a girl down from 600 to 300 in person. That being said the 1000 per date crowd will probably want something in advance and quite frankly aren't worth it unless you are literally throwing away money.
I happy for the 3-4 range and have paid 5-6 on the high end. Sometimes you can get a 3-4 end girl do a card date or something filthy for less but it's rare. I also offer things like Amazon GCs or other gift cards to turn it from a money based relationship to gifts.
Your mileage may vary. Good luck.
Personal opinion is if someone asks for money predate just tell them you have 5 others who will meet you for nothing.
[QUOTE=Joe1223;5558067]I had a similar scam attempted with me. I told them I would meet them and pay them off. I gave them the address to a local gun range in Manchester and apparently they decided to do a no show LOL. Just push back on all of these rip off attempts and tell them to eff off. Most of them are so lazy they will give up pretty quick if you ignore them.[/QUOTE]I usually give the address of the police station in some random town.
As for the gas money. I tell them I'll meet at the gas station of their choosing and fill up their tank. Usually they argue a little then give up.
The weird ones.
AnonymousSex (Shrewsbury).
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/463b37dc-e421-4210-b69c-0bbda9caacd3[/URL]#.
Just wants sex. Come over have sex. Leave. Sounds too good to be true. Spidey sense tingling. Hard pass.
Coquettepanda16 (Wilmington).
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/df63615e-a80a-414b-8eac-c8d2a1efb598[/URL]
Just weird with her panda obsession. I just couldn't get past that. And she messaged non stop. Seemed like a stage 5 clinger.
The strippers.
GorgeousGurl (RI).
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dc0acde5-7b4c-4ce6-9a50-54f342ada0e1[/URL]
Cute single mom. No idea where she dances. Seems to want a different type of experience than guys pawing her all night long at the club. Won't get intimate quickly. Not sure I want to put in the effort for something I can presumably get in a room at her work for a lot less money.
Honey6193 (RI).
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/936aad5c-cb38-4ed1-bef7-dec7eda92003[/URL]
Petite dancer. Isn't very responsive. Same comment as one above.
Greek_Girl_ (multiple locations).
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/34864005-d194-46c8-9f15-9eae5f29c965[/URL]
Rather notorious dancer from popular club in Providence. Advertises on Tryst and other sites. Expensive but hot. Will probably run you 6-7 per date.
Aliyah is 4 you.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5017b988-083f-413b-b2c1-7f5d6db79bbd[/URL]
Not sure where she dances but seems to be straddling the line between escort and dancer. Messaging was difficult and I gave up.
The Expensive Young Ones.
Holly190 (Boston).
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/23ed3c5e-d8f1-495f-be38-712c5bad00a9[/URL]
1 k per date. Need I say more?
Poppi Rae (Concord, NH).
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5896375f-c2e5-498b-ba04-0067054f41db[/URL]
Petite spinner. 800 per date. And won't do certain things. Next.
Will be doing a post on single moms and escorts next.
Still haven't found anyone consistent. I've gotten laid a few times but nothing to write home about.
This one is out of Providence so probably will check that board. Just seeing if anyone has any experience with her good or bad?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b95f74ee-6b20-43b0-9f03-fe96bb0cbdff[/URL]
23, Asian.
Thanks!
[QUOTE=BR1201;5562122]This one is out of Providence so probably will check that board. Just seeing if anyone has any experience with her good or bad?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b95f74ee-6b20-43b0-9f03-fe96bb0cbdff[/URL]
23, Asian.
Thanks![/QUOTE]I did speak to her and she sounds genuine. I have access to the pics she gave. However, she pulled the race card and send she doesn't like Indian men so did not pursue it further.