Your story is infuriating because of the level of incompetence and ignorance
[QUOTE=SunMoonStars11;5360704]This is the biggest L of all time. I really cannot stres that enough but I will tell the story so that it may help some of you.
Met her at a hotel. She comes to get me. She's not quite as attractive as her pics but good enough. We go to her room and her friend is there (who is WAY hotter). They are very interested in getting the sugar before we get down to business but they seem cool. Soon as I send the sugar via one of the various apps, the hot friend gets on the phone pretending to be freaked out because her bf / pimp is mad. They ask me to leave. I don't know what's going on and I am kind of buzzed so I leave. I call / text her and she says that he says you can stay if you send more sugar. I say no. She says I can come by the next day. I think you can guess that she didn't see me. I was mad bc it was not an insignificant amount of sugar by I take the L and move one.
Fast forward to today, I message someone on SA who claims to be clairemaddoxx on twitter and the porn star Violet Smith. Things seem to be going smoothly. Before I leave she asks if I want to hang out with her and her friend. I ask for pics of her friend and it turns out to be the chick who scammed me a few weeks ago! I say don't want to play with her. My plan was to confront her when I got there but it didn't turn out that way. She sends me the address which is a sketchy hotel in LA. I get to the room and it looks like the girl on SA and twitter. We talk for a while and she seems REALLY cool. She tells me she is in town on vacation and even tells me some heavy personal stuff. After talking for a while I abandons my plan because I figure she can't be that much of a scum bag to tell me that and then scam me. I send her the agreed upon sugar. She has problems with the sugar but it does go through. She can't transfer the sugar so she asks me to send it again via ANOTHER app and she will send the first sugar back. So, like an idiot, I send it BEFORE she sends me back the other payment. After both go through she says she needs to go to the bathroom. Guess who is in there? The chick who scammed me a few weeks ago. As I realize that I am a complete moron, some skinny, non desript white guy casually comes in the room. "Hello" I say. He says hello back. He proceeds to calmly tell me that I need to leave because they don't want me here anymore. At this point, I am stunned at how ruthless these people are and at how perfectly I got played. Initially, I say "what if I don't leave". He says, "Well we will deal with that if it comes to that". At this point, I honestly considered doing something I might regret to this guy. I am much bigger and stronger than this guy and was absolutely certain he could not hurt me whatsoever. I am trying to figure out if I can do something, other than getting into a physical altercation, that would cause them some sort of pain. The chick whom I was supposed to hang out with left her purse on the bed so I picked it up. At this point, the guy and the chick who scammed me previously seemed to panic a little. "It's nothing in there!" she says. I motion towards the door and the skinny white guy tries to put me in a full-nelson and I kid you not, it felt like a child trying to grab me. Now, at this point I realize that I really don't want to escalate this any further so I just throw the purse across the room, tell them that they are pieces of shit and leave. Needless to say I feel like a complete idiot but it was completely my fault. I should have known that was going to happen once I found out the previous scammer was involved but this is what happens when the little head thinks for the big head. That being said, these people ungodly pieces of shit. I sincerely hope they try this on the wrong person one day.
Now, I have had GREAT success on SA but I also have been scammed before. However, I had never encountered scammers who went this far. Never. Scammers usually don't try this hard but these people were professionals. The scammer's name is Valerie by the way and she is most likely middle eastern with a flabby body. The other chick told me her full name but who knows if it was real but also I don't want to go against the rules of the board. Again, the thing that still makes me mad and amazes me is how organized they were. They really have a game and it works beautifully on nice, well-to-do guys like me.
I did learn more lessons though. The first is, don't be greedy and constantly look for new blood. I actually know enough women where I don't really need to be on the site as much as I am.
The second is, be careful using the site like an alternative to HX. While you can do this, you are opening up yourself to be scammed because SA is an unlimited source of targets. As you can see.
Also, at a certain point I learned to trust my gut. If they display scammer behavior, then they are probably a scammer. If not, still better to find someone who you don't have to wonder about. Clearly I didn't take my own advice tonight.
Lastly, if you ever find yourself in a situation like I was in tonight, just take the L and move on. You can always make more sugar. No need to get into an altercation over piece of shit scammers.[/QUOTE]You display. You are not a fucking child. Act accordingly. My feelings are that you are not built for this game. You seem to lack the general self-awareness and tact that will help you stay out of these situations. Furthermore, you seem to roll over quite easily.
I stopped reading after the 2nd encounter. It's people like you that screw up the entire thing. You are meeting a sugar baby in a sketchy motel. ? That in itself is the mother-fucking, gigantic Russian red flag of 'let me get the fuck out of here'.
As your penace I want you to write on a blackboard the following sentence:
I WILL NOT BE A SIMP.
I WILL NOT BE A SIMP.
I WILL NOT BE A SIMP.
Keep writing until it sinks in.
Or better yet, can I send you my cash app?
Let me get this straight. Cause I'm a bit confused (or disgusted)
[QUOTE=SunMoonStars11;5361652]I deserve all of that. Like I said, it was ll my fault.[/QUOTE]In the second no-tell motel you met a girl, who showed you a picture of a girl, who happened to be the girl that scammed you the first time, and you proceeded to not only.
Entertain the idea of seeing them both, but you cash apped her some money, knowing that they were definitely working in tandem and would do the same thing again.
Instead of just saying, "I'm out of here. " Then drive to the nearest pay phone and place a fake gun call to get them Swatted.
Instead you paid up like Uncle Fester.
Do us all a favor. Get the fuck off this board. Your stupidity might be contagious to some.
Scroll down and see my post about the sugar baby I had for a while. $200 a night
[QUOTE=TheSpius19;5362027]#1 - to me, all pussy is NOT created equally.
#2 - I don't know about you, but it lasts a whole hell of a lot longer than 20 minutes. My last 1 K date lasted about 5 hours & included 3 glorious rounds of BBFS with a ridiculous 5'11" model from Belgium.
Just sayin'.[/QUOTE]And that's what I'm saying.