Gifts For A Favorite Girl.
[QUOTE=IlvblckGrls;6162203]So I know people really come here to complain and argue about politics or whatever, but I'm hoping a few more of you would be willing to brainstorm! I can't afford a 500 gift for our fifth year, but what are appropriate gifts for a favorite escort? Beyond the obvious like a bottle of wine. I don't know how to start thinking about it! LOL.[/QUOTE]Ron M from Chicago here.
Get her a gift card to her favorite store or restaurant.
Anniversary (and other occasions) Gift
[QUOTE=IlvblckGrls;6162203]So I know people really come here to complain and argue about politics or whatever, but I'm hoping a few more of you would be willing to brainstorm! I can't afford a 500 gift for our fifth year, but what are appropriate gifts for a favorite escort? Beyond the obvious like a bottle of wine. I don't know how to start thinking about it! LOL.[/QUOTE]I like this topic. I think D Nut is on the right track. I find women value a thoughtful gesture as much or more than something with an obvious cash value. I have given VS gift cards, perfume (Daisy and FlowerBomb are favorites,) flowers, pastry, and, if I am sure of their size, lingerie or boots. Watch Amazon where you can buy something that normally costs a lot but you can get at a substantial discount. In fact, anything where the perceived value is greater than the actual cost works well. A spa day may exceed your budget. I have had my best experience getting tears by just buying a card and composing a romantic and thoughtful note saying how much I value our relationship and why she means so much to me. Chicks dig that stuff. They save cards like that for years! Ask them!
BAM.
She Got What She Deserved
[QUOTE=CautiousTed;6165617]I'm honestly not very happy that this happened to Raylee. I've read all the comments here about her. I've seen what she did. Etc but I think it's very Bush League what someone did to her. It may cause other problems with other good providers. Completely uncalled for and out of line. I've only visited her once so don't have any ties or skin in the game but for whomever did it, karma is a *****. They will get theirs when its least expected.[/QUOTE]NEVER send your ID or pictures to these girls, especially locals. There is a reason they are in the industry working the middle of Ohio / Kentucky / Indiana and it isn't because they are stable and sharp witted. You do not need to exchange your photos if you request one from the sex worker to prove they are who they are advertising themselves to be either. They are already putting themselves out there to attract customers because they need your. money. No reason a live verification cant be done by someone with nothing to hide that isnt scamming or using 20 year old photos. If the SW chooses not to do that, fine. Bad business decision by her, but her choice.
I'd understand considering sending personal info for verification if you are paying $10,000 a visit for the highest of high end escorts or pornstars booked through a reputable agency or madame but your info will still get leaked out of the little black book if they gets pressed by the right people. I'd rather pay something up front and risk losing a deposit to prove I'm serious rather than do anything that foolish.
You have the cash, you can make the rules. If sending an ID or personally identifiable info is a request that gets laughed at most of the time, it will stop happening. Your anonymity isn't less important than theirs. It's a farce that knowing who you are is for their "safety". If a teenager can get a fake ID to get in a bar, I'm sure someone with really bad intentions can get their hands on one too to trick a sex worker. If they are actually concerned about physical safety, they would schedule in a hotel so other people are in the vicinity or have another person close by monitoring. All giving up your identity does is give them leverage to out you if you piss them off. If your intent was to intentionally harm them, scam them or piss them off going into the meeting, you could easily fake anything they asked for that they falsely believe is giving them security.