Non Pro's

My personal experience is that when you're dealing with ordinary women and not pros the condom thing isn't a big issue. I haven't racked up huge numbers but I've had sex with 15 women off Seeking and only one insisted on condoms. A couple I offered to put one on. But most we just got down to business and it never came up. With some I mentioned testing and they looked at me like I was a weirdo.

[QUOTE=BigSubwoofer;5827350]Hi why'all. I just signed up to SA and have a potential meet and greet this weekend. I'm clueless on what should be discussed arrangement wise in text before meeting and what to discuss in person. I'm hoping to find something ppm where she's down for BBFS. Not sure how to bring it up without not treating them like a human being.

Any links to specific posts I should read? Not sure if there's a better way to research this board aside from going page by page.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BugManLet;5827680]My personal experience is that when you're dealing with ordinary women and not pros the condom thing isn't a big issue. I haven't racked up huge numbers but I've had sex with 15 women off Seeking and only one insisted on condoms. A couple I offered to put one on. But most we just got down to business and it never came up. With some I mentioned testing and they looked at me like I was a weirdo.[/QUOTE]Yup +1 on that. One thing I do want to call out SA is not ordinary women. It may have been 4 or 5 years ago. Today SA is mostly semi pro women, who clearly want money for sex but will not necessarily go to a board and post pics and ads for the service. I see these women as one step away from becoming part of the trade. They are one sickness (large medical bills), job loss or addiction (shopping, gambling, meds) away from entering the "life". I understand that there are still complete civilians to be found, but those are fewer today. Civilians go to Match dot com. Semi pros go to SA. It is as simple as that.

[QUOTE=BugManLet;5827680]My personal experience is that when you're dealing with ordinary women and not pros the condom thing isn't a big issue. I haven't racked up huge numbers but I've had sex with 15 women off Seeking and only one insisted on condoms. A couple I offered to put one on. But most we just got down to business and it never came up. With some I mentioned testing and they looked at me like I was a weirdo.[/QUOTE]Yeah, generally that's what I've seen too.

There is a weird generational split, in that the ladies over about thirty are more likely to want you to wear a rubber. If they are younger than that they probably have no memory of the HIV scares in the late eighties and early nineties.

I've had similar experience, zero expectations to use a condom. However, many of them expect you to pull out unless CIP is specifically requested. Surprisingly few of them are on birth control.

[QUOTE=MarkoRamius;5828275]
There is a weird generational split, in that the ladies over about thirty are more likely to want you to wear a rubber. If they are younger than that they probably have no memory of the HIV scares in the late eighties and early nineties.[/QUOTE]

I don't have a link since she blocked me. I decided not to take advantage of her offer of a platonic meet and greet for $400. She said she normally does $500. Not with me, you don't.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/59c6414b-93f9-4c0c-ab7a-100e07c259c2[/URL]

GPS. Received 600 for FS, 800 bb in previous arrangements.

Emphasis on former.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2f95500a-6525-4c4f-a6df-b20b572c7edd[/URL]

Chatted with this and when we discussed allowance I suggested $300-$400, she didn't counter, just said that her expectation was considerably higher.

Any Intel on MickiRae [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/17c65281-8c1f-4a34-8f5a-042d20003f2d[/URL].

Is she still around? Would trade info on other SBs I've had success with if anyone can help connect me.

AR.

[QUOTE=Anonymous420;5807089]Shhhhh! Too many guys on SA do not know these simple things which greatly increases my success rate.[/QUOTE]Lmao dude, how don't people know how to just be normal. Imagine wanting to meet these girls, ***** acting like they don't know what goes on in these sites, and instead of talking to her like a normal person, you instantly start to grope her. If a guy saw the same in a girl it would be an instant red flag. Basic etiquette goes a long way. Had worked for me still works for me. Not being fat and in fairly good shape also helps LOL.

[QUOTE=Arfq84;5829228]Any Intel on MickiRae [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/17c65281-8c1f-4a34-8f5a-042d20003f2d[/URL].

Is she still around? Would trade info on other SBs I've had success with if anyone can help connect me..[/QUOTE]She is a fun, older MILF that is DTF, very reasonable to. Be warned if you have any skill in the sack she will soak your bed.

[QUOTE=Bronco62;5728274]Had this one hit me up on secret benefits, seemed eager to meet but wants 900-1000 ppm, dropped the conversation there so I don't know what's on the menu.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profilev3/9a5875515ce0ad97[/URL][/QUOTE]This one msged me as well. Quoted 800 to 1000 PPM with no elaboration on menu. Seems way to high but to each their own.

Agreed, this may change however if the economy goes South as many are predicting. Wasn't involved in it at the time, but I hear SA was a goldmine for "civs" circa 2012.

[QUOTE=DrtyHarry;5828079]Yup +1 on that. One thing I do want to call out SA is not ordinary women. It may have been 4 or 5 years ago. Today SA is mostly semi pro women, who clearly want money for sex but will not necessarily go to a board and post pics and ads for the service. I see these women as one step away from becoming part of the trade. They are one sickness (large medical bills), job loss or addiction (shopping, gambling, meds) away from entering the "life". I understand that there are still complete civilians to be found, but those are fewer today. Civilians go to Match dot com. Semi pros go to SA. It is as simple as that.[/QUOTE]

Thanks for the advice earlier. I'm autistic so any socialization is awkward for me that's why my questions will be dumb.

Anyways for my meet and greet, we made out, then asked her to come over. She said if she came it'd turn it into an arrangement where she asked for 3-400. But got her to settle for 250 ppm 1-2 x a month but her boundaries were protection all the time so I dipped LOL. Is there any other things that's important to settle on for arrangements people usually ask for that I'm not thinking or considering?

All,

Anyone hook up with this gal? She is quick to move forward on our arrangements?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c677ac98-73c2-4cf8-b8d5-d3b03b427b8e[/URL]

This one wants $2 k per meet.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fd21b638-7bd9-435c-91a8-ff2aba131633[/URL]