Took offense at my request
A couple days ago I stopped by Cherry massage off Buford hwy. I drew Chloe who is probably upper 30's -mid 40's. I told her I wanted an hour and she took me to the room. When she comes back in as I'm laying on the table I politely ask her if she can use some of the hand sanitizer and I'll do the same. I like to know that we're both clean, especially if it's my first time with someone or some place. As we know not all massage places are the same, and that way they can get a hint for what I'm looking for too since I'm using some as well.
Well apparently this was the rudest thing in the world to ask and she got very offended and said she is always clean and runs a clean shop. (I guess she may be the owner?) I got the impression that it's not the first time she's been asked this, and I personally ask almost every time I get a massage.
I apologized and said not to worry about it. I should've just left as I felt the energy was wrong after that. The rest of the hour we made some little small talk but I really wasn't feeling it. I felt that was an unreasonable reaction to just being asked to use hand sanitizer especially since I used some too as I always do. There was some light teasing and that's about it. On the flip she tried to tease a bit but the vibe was sour still, I should've just left after her outburst tbh. When the hour was up I just dressed quickly and left her a $5 and told her I probably won't be back.
Has anyone ever had any issues like this? Is that bad etiquette to ask? First time someone ever responded like that and I get the feeling she's a very stern person no smile or anything when I walked through the door so will not be repeating.
KC.