[QUOTE=SfoDavid67;5800379]$500 would be several hours and rounds with Euro hotties in a German FKK.[/QUOTE]I miss German FKKs. Lived in Germany for 3 years and loved payday! But that's for a different thread.
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[QUOTE=SfoDavid67;5800379]$500 would be several hours and rounds with Euro hotties in a German FKK.[/QUOTE]I miss German FKKs. Lived in Germany for 3 years and loved payday! But that's for a different thread.
Fellow mongers. I used to live in the Seattle area (eastside). Moved away last year. I am coming back through town in a couple of weeks. The flights allow me a whole afternoon in town.
I am a little out of touch with the scene in Seattle now. Any recommendations for the afternoon? Preferably someone who is bb friendly. Not too far from SeaTac (so no Marysville or Olympia). Preferably white, but depends on the woman. And since I am only in town for the afternoon, incall very much preferred. NO BBW.
With such a little time window, I would rather set something up before landing. I don't mind doing the leg work before, but I just don't have the time to do a meet and greet, and then a second date.
Thanks in advance.
I could be wrong, but seems some scams are getting more sophisticated, more subtle.
Was msg Luna ([URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/271c9587-17fe-42a1-a91a-c9ac759783cc[/URL]) on SA.
Started as local Asian (ok msg thread her / me. Maybe. Let's continue.), then. I see she's posting multiple locations (time to probe.).
Probe from me: 'thank you for the selfies. Please send one w / local Seattle street sign or land mark in background'.
Response: didn't even get there. When I asked 'why multiple locations? SF, LA, Seattle?' got an deflecting 'you are rude' reply. Red flag. A real person would answer, yes?
Once exposed, if she's fake, she'll change name / profile. How do we share so persists?
Had a Meet & Greet from a highly likely SA prospect. Note: YMMV.
Context: I look for single moms, who have no time for broke / controlling boyfriends, who are working, striving, would like some help, but only from average, non-creepy older men. Reject fat / smelly / disgusting manners. That's why YMMV.
What I was told:
Bad behaviors. Sit next to her, grope and grab, hands down her clothes. It's a meet & greet. Horrible 1st impression.
Bad impression. Much, much fatter than pictures.
Good impression. Normal, across from table dinner / lunch. Talk. Normal. Are you BSing too much? Not needed. Be normal.
Key take-away: be non-fat, be normal. Have a normal conversation. Over lunch / dinner. Results in her saying 'this will work.'
YMMV.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e4475433-d13a-4a4a-9baf-b79c5d9afb9b[/URL]
Quick move to text, then standard sob story for money via cashapp.
[QUOTE=FriendlyFun;5803127]Had a Meet & Greet from a highly likely SA prospect. Note: YMMV.
Context: I look for single moms, who have no time for broke / controlling boyfriends, who are working, striving, would like some help, but only from average, non-creepy older men. Reject fat / smelly / disgusting manners. That's why YMMV.
What I was told:
Bad behaviors. Sit next to her, grope and grab, hands down her clothes. It's a meet & greet. Horrible 1st impression.
Bad impression. Much, much fatter than pictures.
Good impression. Normal, across from table dinner / lunch. Talk. Normal. Are you BSing too much? Not needed. Be normal.
Key take-away: be non-fat, be normal. Have a normal conversation. Over lunch / dinner. Results in her saying 'this will work.'
YMMV.[/QUOTE]I've known this all along. I'm no longer on the SB sites because I'm doing normal dates (out of long-term relationship) now. I'm completely done with escorts also. There is no need to pay for an hour of mediocre sex any more. Keeping your hands to yourself, being clean, being respectful goes a long way. Right now, I'm dating an incredibly gorgeous 33 YO (20 years younger than me), who went on many dates in which the guy couldn't keep his hands to himself and only wanted to talk about sex. I was the first in many dates that was clean, didn't touch her and had a conversation with her. A few weeks later, I can touch her all I want. She was concerned that we went several weeks before we had sex (little did she know that only one of us wasn't having sex; I had a rotation of 3 other women). Now, I'm with her and the older woman from SA that I'm still seeing and don't have the energy / interest in others (though I'd like to nail that stripper I saw a few weeks ago one more time).
[QUOTE=FriendlyFun;5803100]I could be wrong, but seems some scams are getting more sophisticated, more subtle.
Was msg Luna ([URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/271c9587-17fe-42a1-a91a-c9ac759783cc[/URL]) on SA.
Started as local Asian (ok msg thread her / me. Maybe. Let's continue.), then. I see she's posting multiple locations (time to probe.).
Probe from me: 'thank you for the selfies. Please send one w / local Seattle street sign or land mark in background'.
Response: didn't even get there. When I asked 'why multiple locations? SF, LA, Seattle?' got an deflecting 'you are rude' reply. Red flag. A real person would answer, yes?
Once exposed, if she's fake, she'll change name / profile. How do we share so persists?[/QUOTE]She reached out, I ignored her.
In my experience new hot Asian profiles that reach out to you are pretty much always scams.
[QUOTE=Michael1967;5803698]She was concerned that we went several weeks before we had sex .[/QUOTE]That right there is my problem with regular dating.
Are we back in HS? She is over 30, that make him wait for sex is childish.
I am busy I don't have time nor the patience for sexless dates.
And then if they turn to be super vanilla in bed, what a fucking waste of time.
[QUOTE=DelToro;5803877]That right there is my problem with regular dating.
Are we back in HS? She is over 30, that make him wait for sex is childish.
I am busy I don't have time nor the patience for sexless dates.
And then if they turn to be super vanilla in bed, what a fucking waste of time.[/QUOTE]I think the same way, but:
1. She's really hot.
2. She's really into me.
3. She's 20 years younger.
4. She owns a business and doesn't give a fuck about my money.
5. (This should be number one) We think exactly alike, we have the exact same interests. There isn't any BS on the dates. There are "hit and quit girls" and she's more of a "hit it and stay".
6. I'm getting laid whether she wants to wait or not, I'll just get it somewhere else.
The interesting part will be, if we do become exclusive, will I still fuck around? These last 5-6 months, I've fucked so much that I'm not getting the same rush I used to. I honestly am getting laid about 5 days / week from 3-4 different people. I'm just sort of exhausted. I have another trip to Costa Rica scheduled soon (last time I did between 30-40 women in 10 days), and I think that trip may break me.
It's been a while since I've been here, took a hiatus from hobbying. Reach out to a few of my old contacts, but they moved on or not playing anymore.
Getting back in the game, any intel in this one?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e657700f-b984-4138-b949-434fab4447b5[/URL]. (for some reason, the link isn’t working, but if you hit refresh, it’ll open)
[QUOTE=Michael1967;5804083]
The interesting part will be, if we do become exclusive, will I still fuck around?
[/QUOTE]No, because by definition, if you're still fucking around then you're not exclusive.
[QUOTE=Michael1967;5804083]I think the same way, but:
1. She's really hot.
2. She's really into me.
3. She's 20 years younger.
4. She owns a business and doesn't give a fuck about my money.
5. (This should be number one) We think exactly alike, we have the exact same interests. There isn't any BS on the dates. There are "hit and quit girls" and she's more of a "hit it and stay".
6. I'm getting laid whether she wants to wait or not, I'll just get it somewhere else.
The interesting part will be, if we do become exclusive, will I still fuck around? These last 5-6 months, I've fucked so much that I'm not getting the same rush I used to. I honestly am getting laid about 5 days / week from 3-4 different people. I'm just sort of exhausted. I have another trip to Costa Rica scheduled soon (last time I did between 30-40 women in 10 days), and I think that trip may break me.[/QUOTE]I found that, since I started mongering some time ago, I can't really stay in a regular, monogamous relationship as I become completely disinterested in sex with her after a couple of weeks. If there isn't a sexual interest, there is no real electricity and I am gone!
[QUOTE=CookieGuy;5804798]I found that, since I started mongering some time ago, I can't really stay in a regular, monogamous relationship as I become completely disinterested in sex with her after a couple of weeks. If there isn't a sexual interest, there is no real electricity and I am gone![/QUOTE]If a woman can keep it up with my appetite and is reasonable hot, I do not lose interest. Problem is most woman are fairly vanilla and do not have large sex drives. Go through a few sexless dates to figure she is vanilla is a complete waste of time.
In SA, I am crazy honest in my profile, most girls do not answer my advances after reading my profile, some even write to me to tell me I am gross. But the ones that do, know we are going to be pretty naughty. Best sex in my life have been with SA women, usually they are the ones that want more and end up looking for a boyfriend elsewhere.
[QUOTE=FriendlyFun;5803127]Had a Meet & Greet from a highly likely SA prospect. Note: YMMV.
Context: I look for single moms, who have no time for broke / controlling boyfriends, who are working, striving, would like some help, but only from average, non-creepy older men. Reject fat / smelly / disgusting manners. That's why YMMV.
What I was told:
Bad behaviors. Sit next to her, grope and grab, hands down her clothes. It's a meet & greet. Horrible 1st impression.
Bad impression. Much, much fatter than pictures.
Good impression. Normal, across from table dinner / lunch. Talk. Normal. Are you BSing too much? Not needed. Be normal.
Key take-away: be non-fat, be normal. Have a normal conversation. Over lunch / dinner. Results in her saying 'this will work.'
YMMV.[/QUOTE]Shhhhh! Too many guys on SA do not know these simple things which greatly increases my success rate.
[QUOTE=Michael1967;5804083]I think the same way, but:
1. She's really hot.
2. She's really into me.
3. She's 20 years younger.
4. She owns a business and doesn't give a fuck about my money.
5. (This should be number one) We think exactly alike, we have the exact same interests. There isn't any BS on the dates. There are "hit and quit girls" and she's more of a "hit it and stay".
6. I'm getting laid whether she wants to wait or not, I'll just get it somewhere else.
The interesting part will be, if we do become exclusive, will I still fuck around? These last 5-6 months, I've fucked so much that I'm not getting the same rush I used to. I honestly am getting laid about 5 days / week from 3-4 different people. I'm just sort of exhausted. I have another trip to Costa Rica scheduled soon (last time I did between 30-40 women in 10 days), and I think that trip may break me.[/QUOTE]Dude, I admire your stamina; 10 years ago I might have had the juice for 1/3 that much. I did manage 6 sessions the first time I went to a German FKK, but my circuits were on complete overload that day. Thought my head was going to explode. Anyway. Kudos and thanks for the inspiration 🤪(bows deeply).