Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

[QUOTE=DNut;2494778]If you had a job that allowed you to set your own schedule, and you can vary it anytime you wanted, where the bulk of your clients don't call before noon (except for that 1 or 2 exceptions), would you still get up early?[/QUOTE]You can only work so many hours in a day! If you have to look fresh and perky and want to fuck for every appt. That would be draining. I would get up when I needed to. To maximize my earnings and looking good. That being said if they are not working they can always take a nap! I am sure they are being pestered 24/7 with texts etc. But they chose what when and where it is not so bad!

[QUOTE=Willy4690;2493781]Not sure why but lately it's hard to get providers to respond in mornings when trying to plan a lunch time session. Last several days I send texts to several providers looking to plan a lunch hour session and get little to no response. Then I get a text late in the afternoon. Well past my window of opportunity. Sitting in the office wanting to unload and all I see is old office hags everywhere. Plus I get in a bad mood. I think I remember in the Wolf of Wallstreet he recommended jacking off 3 times a day. Please don't make me resort to that! Just venting and wondering if anyone else is having issues.[/QUOTE]Yep, I'm in the same boat. Nothing doing early on, settled for a 3 pm with Madison. Seems like the ladies don't get out of bed until 10 or 11 am; which as you say by that time our window of opportunity has dwindled to nothing. They don't seem to take into account our travel time let alone setup time.

[QUOTE=HuntLadys29;2494730]Most ladies don't wake up till about 11 am I suggest setting things up the night before. HL29.[/QUOTE]2.

Good advice and comments from a couple seniors. Thanks DNut and HL 29. I guess the frustration is from ads that say 10 am or even 8 am start times in some cases. I had a couple "planned" sessions fall through when girls just didn't reply the next day. That's my frustration. Seems like middle aged men with Office jobs and some extra $$ frequent the hobby at lunch and girls could keep a steady flow if they figured that out. I absolutely can't do this in the evening. Other commitments. Just saying. I figured this is the forum to vent. That's what I'm doing. Been dabbling in the hobby for a long time (10 + yrs) so I know we should expect varying levels of service. Thanks and take care.

[QUOTE=Willy4690;2493781]Not sure why but lately it's hard to get providers to respond in mornings when trying to plan a lunch time session. Last several days I send texts to several providers looking to plan a lunch hour session and get little to no response. Then I get a text late in the afternoon. Well past my window of opportunity. Sitting in the office wanting to unload and all I see is old office hags everywhere. Plus I get in a bad mood. I think I remember in the Wolf of Wallstreet he recommended jacking off 3 times a day. Please don't make me resort to that! Just venting and wondering if anyone else is having issues.[/QUOTE]As I am up very early and can see someone as early as 6 am I am far down in the country in the Verona area I leave at 630 am but always back home by 830 am. Can make it 8 am if I had enuf notice. But I know most looking for morning are looking for downtown or nky. But as much as being up early is a plus, unless I was to have a good notice and be texted by 9 pm or earlier if you can't send a pm and I need to contact providers, it's a negative because I go to bed early.

(Note: I'm not naming names just yet. Just bitching).

Several months ago a new mature provider appeared here; I think I was her first appointment, and beforehand we talked several times. She was kind of skittish and careful, which is Ok by me. We agreed on a day and time and I was in my car when she texted me to say she wasn't sure about going through with this; I pulled over and called her. She then wanted me to come later, which was tough for me for OBVIOUS reasons due to time restrictions. Let's just say the boss would be looking for me. So we didn't connect, and she was a little miffed that I could make the later time.

After I saw a review or two, I reached out again and she replied with a "you better not cancel on me or else!" which kind of threw me; I responded that I was just asking, and that I had never not made it to a commitment. And what did "or else!" mean. She apologized and we tried to set up a time; again, it didn't work out for OBVIOUS reasons.

Since then, I have reached out 2-3 times since. Each time, it is a "no, you don't keep appointments. " Ok dokey. That isn't true, but what the hell.

So Friday I decided 'what the hell' again and reached out via text to ask about Saturday morning. She said yes, and asked me to call her the next morning, which I did. We spoke and she asked if I had any recent providers. I named a few. She asked me my name (which I thought was odd) and I told her. She said she would call me back in a few minutes. In between I texted her and gave her my handle, and said she could read my postings if she was unsure. To my surprise, she texted me back that she would never see me because I never kept appointments, and that I had tried to trick her into meeting me. Huh?

Obviously, she didn't recognize my phone number via text (I use Text-Free so I don't use my real number).

But here's the thing, lady:

1. I didn't cancel our appointment; you did when you got skittish. I won't hold that against you, so don't hold it against me when I didn't agree on the later time for OBVIOUS reasons.

2. Shit happens, like when the "boss" comes looking for you; understand that.

3. I could have easily gotten a different Text-Free number and texted you, and when you asked for a name, gave you the board name of anyone on here who you hadn't seen and given you bogus references based on their reviews here. I would have been in like Flynn.

4. Check my reviews; they are with reputable ladies. I don't not show up when I make an appointment.

Here's the scary part. This "you better not cancel on me or else!" statement is taken as a threat; you going to get all batty on me and rat me out to my "boss" or something. What the hell.

So my Saturday morning was ruined; luckily there are Class A providers on here who understand the business and that "shit happens. ".

RickElliot75.

RE75,

Thanks for sharing your experience, but, for the benefit of others, there should be no harm in mentioning the name. Many have been accused of the same thing, when only trying to find out the basic information, to see if an arrangement was even possible? Just because someone shows interest, does not make a contract, LOL. You were diplomatic in your report and the whole purpose of sharing information is to allow others to prioritize their adventures based upon positive and negative experiences of other members. No should threaten or feel threatened by making an honest post. Not every provider is a good fit for every member. I understand the need and satisfaction of getting things off your chest, but I'd encourage you with a YMMV, to expose those that have strict limitations or hear things differently than they are presented, as it seems to be in your case.

[QUOTE=RickElliot75;2499400](Note: I'm not naming names just yet. Just bitching).

Several months ago a new mature provider appeared here; I think I was her first appointment, and beforehand we talked several times. She was kind of skittish and careful, which is Ok by me. We agreed on a day and time and I was in my car when she texted me to say she wasn't sure about going through with this; I pulled over and called her. She then wanted me to come later, which was tough for me for OBVIOUS reasons due to time restrictions. Let's just say the boss would be looking for me. So we didn't connect, and she was a little miffed that I could make the later time.

After I saw a review or two, I reached out again and she replied with a "you better not cancel on me or else!" which kind of threw me; I responded that I was just asking, and that I had never not made it to a commitment. And what did "or else!" mean. She apologized and we tried to set up a time; again, it didn't work out for OBVIOUS reasons.

Since then, I have reached out 2-3 times since. Each time, it is a "no, you don't keep appointments. " Ok dokey. That isn't true, but what the hell.

So Friday I decided 'what the hell' again and reached out via text to ask about Saturday morning. She said yes, and asked me to call her the next morning, which I did. We spoke and she asked if I had any recent providers. I named a few. She asked me my name (which I thought was odd) and I told her. She said she would call me back in a few minutes. In between I texted her and gave her my handle, and said she could read my postings if she was unsure. To my surprise, she texted me back that she would never see me because I never kept appointments, and that I had tried to trick her into meeting me. Huh?

Obviously, she didn't recognize my phone number via text (I use Text-Free so I don't use my real number).

But here's the thing, lady:

1. I didn't cancel our appointment; you did when you got skittish. I won't hold that against you, so don't hold it against me when I didn't agree on the later time for OBVIOUS reasons.

2. Shit happens, like when the "boss" comes looking for you; understand that.

3. I could have easily gotten a different Text-Free number and texted you, and when you asked for a name, gave you the board name of anyone on here who you hadn't seen and given you bogus references based on their reviews here. I would have been in like Flynn.

4. Check my reviews; they are with reputable ladies. I don't not show up when I make an appointment.

Here's the scary part. This "you better not cancel on me or else!" statement is taken as a threat; you going to get all batty on me and rat me out to my "boss" or something. What the hell.

So my Saturday morning was ruined; luckily there are Class A providers on here who understand the business and that "shit happens. ".

RickElliot75.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ClassASweetie;2495705]As I am up very early and can see someone as early as 6 am I am far down in the country in the Verona area I leave at 630 am but always back home by 830 am. Can make it 8 am if I had enuf notice. But I know most looking for morning are looking for downtown or nky. But as much as being up early is a plus, unless I was to have a good notice and be texted by 9 pm or earlier if you can't send a pm and I need to contact providers, it's a negative because I go to bed early.[/QUOTE]I have meet her at 8 am she was just out of the shower in her robe true GFE. Great in call. Had a great time.

[QUOTE=RickElliot75;2499400](Note: I'm not naming names just yet. Just bitching).

Several months ago a new mature provider appeared here; I think I was her first appointment, and beforehand we talked several times. She was kind of skittish and careful, which is Ok by me. We agreed on a day and time and I was in my car when she texted me to say she wasn't sure about going through with this; I pulled over and called her. She then wanted me to come later, which was tough for me for OBVIOUS reasons due to time restrictions. Let's just say the boss would be looking for me. So we didn't connect, and she was a little miffed that I could make the later time.

After I saw a review or two, I reached out again and she replied with a "you better not cancel on me or else!" which kind of threw me; I responded that I was just asking, and that I had never not made it to a commitment. And what did "or else!" mean. She apologized and we tried to set up a time; again, it didn't work out for OBVIOUS reasons.

Since then, I have reached out 2-3 times since. Each time, it is a "no, you don't keep appointments. " Ok dokey. That isn't true, but what the hell.

So Friday I decided 'what the hell' again and reached out via text to ask about Saturday morning. She said yes, and asked me to call her the next morning, which I did. We spoke and she asked if I had any recent providers. I named a few. She asked me my name (which I thought was odd) and I told her. She said she would call me back in a few minutes. In between I texted her and gave her my handle, and said she could read my postings if she was unsure. To my surprise, she texted me back that she would never see me because I never kept appointments, and that I had tried to trick her into meeting me. Huh?

Obviously, she didn't recognize my phone number via text (I use Text-Free so I don't use my real number).

But here's the thing, lady:

1. I didn't cancel our appointment; you did when you got skittish. I won't hold that against you, so don't hold it against me when I didn't agree on the later time for OBVIOUS reasons.

2. Shit happens, like when the "boss" comes looking for you; understand that.

3. I could have easily gotten a different Text-Free number and texted you, and when you asked for a name, gave you the board name of anyone on here who you hadn't seen and given you bogus references based on their reviews here. I would have been in like Flynn.

4. Check my reviews; they are with reputable ladies. I don't not show up when I make an appointment.

Here's the scary part. This "you better not cancel on me or else!" statement is taken as a threat; you going to get all batty on me and rat me out to my "boss" or something. What the hell.

So my Saturday morning was ruined; luckily there are Class A providers on here who understand the business and that "shit happens. ".

RickElliot75.[/QUOTE]Please pm me.

[QUOTE=RickElliot75;2499400](Note: I'm not naming names just yet. Just bitching).

Several months ago a new mature provider appeared here; I think I was her first appointment, and beforehand we talked several times. She was kind of skittish and careful, which is Ok by me. We agreed on a day and time and I was in my car when she texted me to say she wasn't sure about going through with this; I pulled over and called her. She then wanted me to come later, which was tough for me for OBVIOUS reasons due to time restrictions. Let's just say the boss would be looking for me. So we didn't connect, and she was a little miffed that I could make the later time.

After I saw a review or two, I reached out again and she replied with a "you better not cancel on me or else!" which kind of threw me; I responded that I was just asking, and that I had never not made it to a commitment. And what did "or else!" mean. She apologized and we tried to set up a time; again, it didn't work out for OBVIOUS reasons.

Since then, I have reached out 2-3 times since. Each time, it is a "no, you don't keep appointments. " Ok dokey. That isn't true, but what the hell.

So Friday I decided 'what the hell' again and reached out via text to ask about Saturday morning. She said yes, and asked me to call her the next morning, which I did. We spoke and she asked if I had any recent providers. I named a few. She asked me my name (which I thought was odd) and I told her. She said she would call me back in a few minutes. In between I texted her and gave her my handle, and said she could read my postings if she was unsure. To my surprise, she texted me back that she would never see me because I never kept appointments, and that I had tried to trick her into meeting me. Huh?

Obviously, she didn't recognize my phone number via text (I use Text-Free so I don't use my real number).

But here's the thing, lady:

1. I didn't cancel our appointment; you did when you got skittish. I won't hold that against you, so don't hold it against me when I didn't agree on the later time for OBVIOUS reasons.

2. Shit happens, like when the "boss" comes looking for you; understand that.

3. I could have easily gotten a different Text-Free number and texted you, and when you asked for a name, gave you the board name of anyone on here who you hadn't seen and given you bogus references based on their reviews here. I would have been in like Flynn.

4. Check my reviews; they are with reputable ladies. I don't not show up when I make an appointment.

Here's the scary part. This "you better not cancel on me or else!" statement is taken as a threat; you going to get all batty on me and rat me out to my "boss" or something. What the hell.

So my Saturday morning was ruined; luckily there are Class A providers on here who understand the business and that "shit happens. ".

RickElliot75.[/QUOTE]I stopped counting the number of providers who I don't see anymore. Either by their choosing or my own. Honestly, it's no skin off of my neck and the world turns. They don't need my $$week, and I don't need their (fill in the blank here).

You did the right thing -- finding another provider who can accommodate your needs -- and while I appreciate that you didn't name-and-shame, I'd still love knowing who I should avoid in the future.

MM.

[QUOTE=Rhrh196;2499497]I have meet her at 8 am she was just out of the shower in her robe true GFE. Great in call. Had a great time.[/QUOTE]Sandy (class a sweety) is great with early morning sessions. I've seen her as early as 7:00 am and always delivered quality service.

[QUOTE=MisforMaster;2499736]I stopped counting the number of providers who I don't see anymore. Either by their choosing or my own. Honestly, it's no skin off of my neck and the world turns. They don't need my $$week, and I don't need their (fill in the blank here).

You did the right thing -- finding another provider who can accommodate your needs -- and while I appreciate that you didn't name-and-shame, I'd still love knowing who I should avoid in the future.

MM.[/QUOTE]I know who she is. She is pretty far east of I-275. I Didn't go back. The service wasn't very good.

I've been a member here for over a year now and I just wanted to thank everyone here for all the information and help that goes on around here on a daily basis. This is a great resource and I've learned a lot. I hope I've provided some info that has helped others as well. Here's to all you guys! Thanks!

[QUOTE=RickElliot75;2499400](Note: I'm not naming names just yet. Just bitching).

Several months ago a new mature provider appeared here; I think I was her first appointment, and beforehand we talked several times. She was kind of skittish and careful, which is Ok by me. We agreed on a day and time and I was in my car when she texted me to say she wasn't sure about going through with this; I pulled over and called her. She then wanted me to come later, which was tough for me for OBVIOUS reasons due to time restrictions. Let's just say the boss would be looking for me. So we didn't connect, and she was a little miffed that I could make the later time.

After I saw a review or two, I reached out again and she replied with a "you better not cancel on me or else!" which kind of threw me; I responded that I was just asking, and that I had never not made it to a commitment. And what did "or else!" mean. She apologized and we tried to set up a time; again, it didn't work out for OBVIOUS reasons.

Since then, I have reached out 2-3 times since. Each time, it is a "no, you don't keep appointments. " Ok dokey. That isn't true, but what the hell.

So Friday I decided 'what the hell' again and reached out via text to ask about Saturday morning. She said yes, and asked me to call her the next morning, which I did. We spoke and she asked if I had any recent providers. I named a few. She asked me my name (which I thought was odd) and I told her. She said she would call me back in a few minutes. In between I texted her and gave her my handle, and said she could read my postings if she was unsure. To my surprise, she texted me back that she would never see me because I never kept appointments, and that I had tried to trick her into meeting me. Huh?

Obviously, she didn't recognize my phone number via text (I use Text-Free so I don't use my real number).

But here's the thing, lady:

1. I didn't cancel our appointment; you did when you got skittish. I won't hold that against you, so don't hold it against me when I didn't agree on the later time for OBVIOUS reasons.

2. Shit happens, like when the "boss" comes looking for you; understand that.

3. I could have easily gotten a different Text-Free number and texted you, and when you asked for a name, gave you the board name of anyone on here who you hadn't seen and given you bogus references based on their reviews here. I would have been in like Flynn.

4. Check my reviews; they are with reputable ladies. I don't not show up when I make an appointment.

Here's the scary part. This "you better not cancel on me or else!" statement is taken as a threat; you going to get all batty on me and rat me out to my "boss" or something. What the hell.

So my Saturday morning was ruined; luckily there are Class A providers on here who understand the business and that "shit happens. ".

RickElliot75.[/QUOTE]#3 is what you should have done. It isn't about being honest, it is about getting the appointment. I have had 87 girls tell me their phone died in the last year. 77 tell me they were at the store. I have seen brothers, cousins, friends, friends' friends, but never once a boyfriend. Obviously, you wanted to see her, so do what it takes. Life is going on out there, appointments will be missed and you are dealing with a woman, she is going to remember the interaction how she wants to and the truth matters not. Do want it takes to bang the girl you want to and quit trying to worry about whether she is reliable or somebody you can run back here and tell everybody she is reliable. Because guess what? None of them are reliable and that is why they are doing what they are doing. I am one of these girls' biggest fans and I couldn't care less what I have to do get the appt. Three different text accounts? Sure thing. Don't get angry, get smarter.

[QUOTE=Sabadogigante;2501991]I've been a member here for over a year now and I just wanted to thank everyone here for all the information and help that goes on around here on a daily basis. This is a great resource and I've learned a lot. I hope I've provided some info that has helped others as well. Here's to all you guys! Thanks![/QUOTE]I have been posting since 2009, when I got into mongering, and I have to say I have learned a lot as well. My suggestion would be to keep reading and learning. After a while you get a certain savvy you can only pick up by being active. What to look for, what to avoid, etc.

Never be afraid to walk away. If it doesn't feel right, don't go or leave. You may think you are going to miss out on a great experience if you leave but, you know what? That experience is still going to be right around the next corner. There is always another babe waiting to take your money.

[QUOTE=3-MinutePassion;2502309]I have been posting since 2009, when I got into mongering, and I have to say I have learned a lot as well. My suggestion would be to keep reading and learning. After a while you get a certain savvy you can only pick up by being active. What to look for, what to avoid, etc.

Never be afraid to walk away. If it doesn't feel right, don't go or leave. You may think you are going to miss out on a great experience if you leave but, you know what? That experience is still going to be right around the next corner. There is always another babe waiting to take your money.[/QUOTE]What I learned from this board the most is.

1. do not trust anyone anytime.

2. We work hard for our money, so should they.

3. Walking away is.

Always ok for either party.

4. Have fun.

5. Fuck on fellow mongers.