Sexual Addiction Reports

1st I seen.

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Great service, the splits thing had me sold. She laid on her stomach and did the splits while I went to never had anyone do that, better looking in person,.

Katie, Mandy Mo or whatever she goes by. Service was rushed. Felt sketchy on location but all went well and got out safe. I believe someone else was in the apartment. It was located off Rockford lane. Cover she had none. Her number is a 994. I mentioned this girl in q post a few days ago.

Last but definitely the best.

BBW Samantha saw her on fernvalley, she's got a 369 number beautiful thick girl, best personality of anyone I've ever seen. She tops Mia on personality. Very vocal not at all a clock watcher. I damn sure went well over my time. I must say she's my newest favorite.

I believe I've been in this game way to long and I'm going to try and retire. I'm going to head out and seek some help for addiction. I believe this is a addictive game and not the safest. I've been at it since 98 and that way to long. I feel my luck might run out. I'm looking for any possible referrals for addiction help I've realize I'm a sex addict as prob a lot of us are. Good luck and be safe.

[QUOTE=Automan;3343468]1st I seen.

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Great service, the splits thing had me sold. She laid on her stomach and did the splits while I went to never had anyone do that, better looking in person,.

Katie, Mandy Mo or whatever she goes by. Service was rushed. Felt sketchy on location but all went well and got out safe. I believe someone else was in the apartment. It was located off Rockford lane. Cover she had none. Her number is a 994. I mentioned this girl in q post a few days ago.

Last but definitely the best.

BBW Samantha saw her on fernvalley, she's got a 369 number beautiful thick girl, best personality of anyone I've ever seen. She tops Mia on personality. Very vocal not at all a clock watcher. I damn sure went well over my time. I must say she's my newest favorite.

I believe I've been in this game way to long and I'm going to try and retire. I'm going to head out and seek some help for addiction. I believe this is a addictive game and not the safest. I've been at it since 98 and that way to long. I feel my luck might run out. I'm looking for any possible referrals for addiction help I've realize I'm a sex addict as prob a lot of us are. Good luck and be safe.[/QUOTE]I too have been in the game about the same length of time, at times I've thought the same. Don't think I can completely give it up yet, but did take a recent break, I made it 29 days and completely understand. It can be very addictive and you have to control it like any other addiction. I took about a month long break and my goal is now just 1 appointment a week. I wish you the best and appreciate your help in the last year. Good luck man, and keep in touch!

HC.

[QUOTE=HoosierCream;3343882]I too have been in the game about the same length of time, at times I've thought the same. Don't think I can completely give it up yet, but did take a recent break, I made it 29 days and completely understand. It can be very addictive and you have to control it like any other addiction. I took about a month long break and my goal is now just 1 appointment a week. I wish you the best and appreciate your help in the last year. Good luck man, and keep in touch!

HC.[/QUOTE]I think I might gotten addicted to hs hobby also. After getting divorced about 2 years ago a buddy of mine introduced me to backpage and I went a little crazy. I was averaging 2 providers a day for 3 to 4 times a week. I am pretty easy going and not bad looking so a lot of providers I saw and had great chemistry with actually started contacting fairly often and it got harder and harder to say no. A couple of times I even saw 4 in a 24 hour period. Even with the super discounted rates they were giving me I did not want to get financially ruined and realized that just like any other drug it could lead to that. In the last month I started evaluating my condition and decided to back off. I love to fish and play golf also so I decided to concentrate on those hobbies instead. I found out that I started enjoying my sessions with my favorite providers more and now I am only in this hobby once or twice a week. To those of you that might fall in the same pattern I did get some professional help if necessary. I stopped myself but was willing to ask for help if necessary. Keep in mind that everything in moderation is always more enjoyable. Good luck and stay safe.

P.

I think the addiction stems from too much disposable income. I used to have the same problem, still kind of do. But I found that the more bills I have to pay, the less likely I am to even think about seeing a provider. And when I do, due to the financial limits I placed on myself, I seek out girls I've seen before and really enjoyed. I rarely ever see new girls often because it's too expensive.

Just for example, I totaled my car not too long ago and am now stuck with making car payments again and increased premium. That, I didn't foresee, so the money I was using to fill my addiction crave to prostitutes, I no longer have unless I want to go in even more debt and worst. We all have biological needs so either we can get a girlfriend or fuck prostitutes. I don't like jacking off because it just leaves me feeling even more deprived. Sure, some people have a lot of money and don't have to worry about balancing a budget for paying for pussy routinely, but that is not me. So I try to use discipline to break the habit. Willpower alone and money burning that hole in your pocket are always a bad combination.

Now that I think about it, if I had more discipline in the beginning, I wouldn't have spent so much on this stuff. You really don't see how this clouds your brain in everyday life until you start trying to get clean. It's kind of like porn, except we have an unlimited access to real pussy we just call and pay up for any time of the day. So why should we try pursing girls outside of this? No reason. Except that this can become a real addiction and cloud your judgement and the way your brain operates. It's very weird in all honesty.

[QUOTE=JustFriends;3346749]I think the addiction stems from too much disposable income. I used to have the same problem, still kind of do. But I found that the more bills I have to pay, the less likely I am to even think about seeing a provider. And when I do, due to the financial limits I placed on myself, I seek out girls I've seen before and really enjoyed. I rarely ever see new girls often because it's too expensive.

Just for example, I totaled my car not too long ago and am now stuck with making car payments again and increased premium. That, I didn't foresee, so the money I was using to fill my addiction crave to prostitutes, I no longer have unless I want to go in even more debt and worst. We all have biological needs so either we can get a girlfriend or fuck prostitutes. I don't like jacking off because it just leaves me feeling even more deprived. Sure, some people have a lot of money and don't have to worry about balancing a budget for paying for pussy routinely, but that is not me. So I try to use discipline to break the habit. Willpower alone and money burning that hole in your pocket are always a bad combination.

Now that I think about it, if I had more discipline in the beginning, I wouldn't have spent so much on this stuff. You really don't see how this clouds your brain in everyday life until you start trying to get clean. It's kind of like porn, except we have an unlimited access to real pussy we just call and pay up for any time of the day. So why should we try pursing girls outside of this? No reason. Except that this can become a real addiction and cloud your judgement and the way your brain operates. It's very weird in all honesty.[/QUOTE]Thanks, to the members that are addressing the white elephant in the room. I imagine this is more of an addiction than hobby for most of us, but difficult to admit because of the shame often felt with addiction. Sexual feelings and desires are natural and important, but we don't want those feelings and desires to jeopardize our chances of happiness in life. I would suggest a section to address and share addiction concerns with other members. Hobby or Addiction, Bro's or Ho's, Tits or Ass- We should all support the wellbeing of everyone. Just a thought.

[QUOTE=JustFriends;3346749]I think the addiction stems from too much disposable income. I used to have the same problem, still kind of do. But I found that the more bills I have to pay, the less likely I am to even think about seeing a provider. And when I do, due to the financial limits I placed on myself, I seek out girls I've seen before and really enjoyed. I rarely ever see new girls often because it's too expensive.

Just for example, I totaled my car not too long ago and am now stuck with making car payments again and increased premium. That, I didn't foresee, so the money I was using to fill my addiction crave to prostitutes, I no longer have unless I want to go in even more debt and worst. We all have biological needs so either we can get a girlfriend or fuck prostitutes. I don't like jacking off because it just leaves me feeling even more deprived. Sure, some people have a lot of money and don't have to worry about balancing a budget for paying for pussy routinely, but that is not me. So I try to use discipline to break the habit. Willpower alone and money burning that hole in your pocket are always a bad combination.

Now that I think about it, if I had more discipline in the beginning, I wouldn't have spent so much on this stuff. You really don't see how this clouds your brain in everyday life until you start trying to get clean. It's kind of like porn, except we have an unlimited access to real pussy we just call and pay up for any time of the day. So why should we try pursing girls outside of this? No reason. Except that this can become a real addiction and cloud your judgement and the way your brain operates. It's very weird in all honesty.[/QUOTE]If you date women your going to spend 120.00 every night on them. To me I would rather have one young sexy lady that I can call two times a week. I am 56 and been called handsome, but really I know I would never be able to have a young sexy lady as I did when I was 35. I am two time married and divorced and NOT looking for a third marriage. I guess what I am saying we (men) are going to pay either way, so why not have a thin, sexy, firm young 20 year old to cuddle up with?? Lukos.

[QUOTE=JustFriends;3346749]I think the addiction stems from too much disposable income. I used to have the same problem, still kind of do. But I found that the more bills I have to pay, the less likely I am to even think about seeing a provider. And when I do, due to the financial limits I placed on myself, I seek out girls I've seen before and really enjoyed. I rarely ever see new girls often because it's too expensive.

Just for example, I totaled my car not too long ago and am now stuck with making car payments again and increased premium. That, I didn't foresee, so the money I was using to fill my addiction crave to prostitutes, I no longer have unless I want to go in even more debt and worst. We all have biological needs so either we can get a girlfriend or fuck prostitutes. I don't like jacking off because it just leaves me feeling even more deprived. Sure, some people have a lot of money and don't have to worry about balancing a budget for paying for pussy routinely, but that is not me. So I try to use discipline to break the habit. Willpower alone and money burning that hole in your pocket are always a bad combination.

Now that I think about it, if I had more discipline in the beginning, I wouldn't have spent so much on this stuff. You really don't see how this clouds your brain in everyday life until you start trying to get clean. It's kind of like porn, except we have an unlimited access to real pussy we just call and pay up for any time of the day. So why should we try pursing girls outside of this? No reason. Except that this can become a real addiction and cloud your judgement and the way your brain operates. It's very weird in all honesty.[/QUOTE]I would say that you are not an addict. If you have the will power to do the correct thing than you are under control. I would consider your use of the hobby as more of an luxury every now and then. In my younger years nothing would stop me from getting what I wanted. Until I had gotten what I wanted I was going to make a bad decision. I definitely went into debt playing in the hobby. My rent was late, I missed car payments, I couldn't buy people gifts and it had an overall negative experience on my life. However If I needed my fix it didn't mater. Now that I am older and money is no longer an issue I don't seem to play as much. Funny how that works.

I think its different for all of us, however if we are honest with our selves the hobby for the most part is a negative in ones life. It affects all relationships most of the time and its hard to see things practically past the sexual experience. I think I have realized that as I have gotten older and I have tried to make changes for the most part. I still slip every now and then but not to the extent that I once did in the past.

I don't consider myself a sex addict because I do not go on the hunt for it. I'm not going broke, I'm not hurting my wife; if I need it or desire it, I work it into my own little budget.

I pay someone to touch me once a month. I want to be caressed, my lips to be sucked on, my neck to be kissed; just to feel her mess my hair up, look into my eyes, smile at me.

I want to feel passion and elation of being the most important person in someone's life, if just for an hour.

I do not get that at home.

I long to be touched and kissed. And therefore, I am willing to pay for it on a monthly basis. I feel it keeps me sane in this too crazy world.

If that's an addiction, then ok. I'm good with it. As long as I'm not putting another human in danger, humiliation, drama.

Any information on this one?

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I've been in 12-step groups for Sex Addiction off and on over the years and have seen people who want to stop, and stay stopped, having success. Maybe didn't work for you, but works for others and would work for me if I was willing. So speak for yourself, but please don't try to force your opinion on others. That's not to say a therapist, or some combination might work for someone. To each his own. The point is if it's out of control and messing up your life, you find out what works and do it. For some, that will be 12 step.

[QUOTE=Redneck3565;3262647]If you DO have a "problem" by whatever definition YIOU determine it to be, see a therapist, and STAY AWAY FROM ANY AND ALL "12 Step Groups" like "SAA" (Sex Addicts Alnonymous), or "Love and Sex Addicts Anonymous). They believe that "sex" is a "character defect" and can be "fixed" with "spirituality". Its the biggest bullshit of a "recovery group" since its close cousins, AA and NA were excreted into existence![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=TwistedBrother;3419597]I've been in 12-step groups for Sex Addiction off and on over the years and have seen people who want to stop, and stay stopped, having success. Maybe didn't work for you, but works for others and would work for me if I was willing. So speak for yourself, but please don't try to force your opinion on others. That's not to say a therapist, or some combination might work for someone. To each his own. The point is if it's out of control and messing up your life, you find out what works and do it. For some, that will be 12 step.[/QUOTE]Exactly what types of problems are people in those groups for? Are they mostly run of the mill mongers like us? I can relate to mongers like me who pursue adult women, but I want nothing to do with true sex offenders who have either been to jail or ought to be in jail.

Any sex parties in LA?

[QUOTE=MrChooShoes;3371314]I don't consider myself a sex addict because I do not go on the hunt for it. I'm not going broke, I'm not hurting my wife; if I need it or desire it, I work it into my own little budget.

I pay someone to touch me once a month. I want to be caressed, my lips to be sucked on, my neck to be kissed; just to feel her mess my hair up, look into my eyes, smile at me.

I want to feel passion and elation of being the most important person in someone's life, if just for an hour.

I do not get that at home.

I long to be touched and kissed. And therefore, I am willing to pay for it on a monthly basis. I feel it keeps me sane in this too crazy world.

If that's an addiction, then ok. I'm good with it. As long as I'm not putting another human in danger, humiliation, drama.[/QUOTE]Did you bother to post in this thread?

[QUOTE=UOnlyLiveOnce;3421725]Exactly what types of problems are people in those groups for? Are they mostly run of the mill mongers like us? I can relate to mongers like me who pursue adult women, but I want nothing to do with true sex offenders who have either been to jail or ought to be in jail.[/QUOTE]It can be either or other; it doesn't really matter what the behavior is as it relates to sex. It's that you want to stop and you can't. It could be doing horrible, damaging things to others that could land you a life term, or it could be watching porn on your computer and consensual flirting with co-workers. If you want to control it, or stop it, and you can't, then it's like drinking, drugging, etc. That's somewhat simplistic, but that's the gist of it.

[QUOTE=TwistedBrother;3486962]It can be either or other; it doesn't really matter what the behavior is as it relates to sex. It's that you want to stop and you can't. It could be doing horrible, damaging things to others that could land you a life term, or it could be watching porn on your computer and consensual flirting with co-workers. If you want to control it, or stop it, and you can't, then it's like drinking, drugging, etc. That's somewhat simplistic, but that's the gist of it.[/QUOTE]The idea that a person somehow "can't stop" an alleged "compulsive" behavior, or a substance abuse addiction is NONSENSE and MORONIC IDIOCY perpetrated by the advocates of "12 Steppism". The "true believers" of "12 Steppism" believe that someone is allegedly "powerless" over the ingestion of a substance, or engaging in a VOLUNTARY ACTIVITY, like promiscuous sexual behavior. And yet the fact that a person engaging in such activity CAN STOP-for even ONE SECOND-proves that the person CAN STOP! Staying stopped is a different issue, but there is ALWAYS STOPPING! THAT indicates there is SOME level of POWER! The idea of "powerlessness" over what a person WILLINGLY ENGAGES IN is the most moronic thought put into modern psychology. Whether it is over a drug or an activity. There is ALWAYS the choice to CONTINUE, MODERATE, or OUTRIGHT STOP! Each and every time!