Watch Out For This Advice
[QUOTE=Amateur11;2566856]I'm no doctor either, and although I am a ***** and a heathen, in fucking and licking hundreds of ladies in the past couple decades, I've never ended up with more than chlamydia and crabs. The medical, political and governmental establishment wants to tow and extend that line that "everybody is at risk for HIV, you have to wear a condom. " This is sort of like the "absolute truth" that precum carries sperm, and the pill is not 100% effective at preventing pregnancy.
Bullshit.
The pill is 100% effective when used CORRECTLY. "Using" the pill means taking in at roughly the same time every day. Government statistics, and doctor recommendations include "misuse" which is why the GOVERNMENT and DOCTORS state that it it not 100% effective. For the record, the only time I got a girl pregnant was because we fucked like rabbits for a week and I later found out she stopped taking the pill a month earlier. If the pill were only "95% effective," I'd have at least 5-10 open child support claims, and I don't.
As for "precum contains sperm," no, it inherently does NOT, but the the 80% effective (again, rated by those doctors and government experts who are all too willing to remind you how much more they know than you do) pull out method is only 80% effective because 20% of the dudes shot off earlier, didn't piss enough, and therefore there was LEFTOVER SPERM in the uerthra which got pushed out by the NEXT STREAM of precum.
Where am I going with this? To correlate this with the PC explanation and incidence of HIV, whereby doctors and government officials want to tell us that ALL sexual activity is at risk of HIV. Newsflash: Just like 40 years ago, the only people getting HIV and AIDS are men getting fucked in the ass by men, women getting fucked in the ass by men who also secretly get fucked in the ass by men, and IV drug users who share dirty needles, or men who used dirty needles and fucking other people in the ass after they've been infected.. These are your AIDS cases. It's not PC to say this is a "gay disease" or "anal sex is the only real risk factor," but that's the truth. Do some research. In my street-smart real-life opinion, the IV drug users are the ones to avoid for straight sex, but again, unless you have an open sore on your cock and go raw, or eat the girl out with a fresh oral wound, you're not going to catch it IF she has it.
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The key phrase to listen to here is "You're not a doctor" and to add to it, I'm assuming you're not a health professional of any sorts. I personally don't care what you or the others do, but be careful about giving people who may not be as "street smart" as you a false sense of bravado and will use this to make stupid choices. I found a lot of things wrong with what you wrote, but mostly that it seems to all be fueled by your views on being PC. HIV is real, the stats prove that gay guys are 20 x more likely to get it, but that does not reduce the fact that hetero partners still do. While anectodal evidence is good to put things into perspective, it is just anecdotal.
While on this topic, it's absurd how many providers do BBFS. Using a fake number, I generally try to see if any prospective provider does BBFS and while I'm convinced the majority do with long-time regulars, its alarming to see how many will do it with new people they have never met or talked to for $40 extra or doubling the rate. I tend to avoid those ones because the liklihood they have something is greater. In case you were wondering who they were, many of them don't advertise anymore but the four that are popular here are Baby, Angel / Haze, Tampa Haze, and Meena. There were many more, but those had no issues with barebacking. I ended the convos immediately.