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[QUOTE=AndrewT3333;4627767]I saw her twice. She was tough to hook up with, but both of us had scheduling issues. She was fun. Not really interested in hanging out for too long the times we met but wasn't hurried either.[/QUOTE]What was the allowance? Details on what you did sexually? She has a nice phat ass. Anything bare?
[QUOTE=Truthfu11;4628965]Ok, let's hear the consensus. Do you ppm when the meeting is just an afternoon out? Or only compensate for times where there is something sexual going on? I have not been paying but am wondering what the norm is.[/QUOTE]This is discussed endlessly over at SLF reddit but the consensus among SDs at least is that ppm only when intimacy starts. Some would go on an initial platonic m&g then give travel cost gifts at the least, and if they feel good about the girl, give a fraction of the usual ppm as a GIFT. And I must reiterate this, do not ever agree on paying a ppm to a girl for an initial platonic m&g because 1) that reinforces rinsing behavior and 2) you give a signal to the girl that you're willing to be put in a disadvantageous position. Remember that this is a transaction no matter how much others insist that it's like a vanilla relationship or girls that argue they're not escorts and therefore should be paid for dates. These girls ARE sex workers and both of you are engaged in a transaction.
You have to understand that SA is filled with professional rinsers / scammers who would try their best to get sugar from you with no sugar in return. So do not encourage rinsing behaviors, there are already enough youtuber professional scammers teaching that bullshit, you don't have to play into their scheme too. The more men who adhere to this principle the leas likely will these scammers thrive in SA and their numbers will drop. You have to remember too that SBs greatly outnumber SDs, so we dictate the demand. With that in mind remember that how another SD pays affects the rest of those in the market. So you start paying for platonic dates then these girls start expecting it from the next SD. Don't be that guy.
[QUOTE=ItsHowdyDoody;4629815]Tranny vibe there as well.[/QUOTE]I'm still surprised how many can't notice that Tranny look. Oh well, guess experience counts.
[QUOTE=Rileym;4629671][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9ffdba29-dd70-103d-5096-268ae3f5ef2e[/URL]
Can't decide if this one is a scam or not. Bolt on's look fun of course, definitely looks older than 26. Reached out 3 days ago with no response. Last night out of the blue she replies back sending very explicit messages back, talking about her throbbing pussy and needing to cum, and wanting to see me right then at her hotel. Gave her the cell to text in private but she didn't go for it. Apparently staying at a downtown hotel. No talk of allowance on the site.
Anyone have any recent experiences with this one?? Seems to be some red flags. Obviously a pro but scammer as well?[/QUOTE]She's been on there since 2015, very unlikely to be a scammer. Probably a pro.
Hey Guys, what am I missing here? Evertime I post the SA link in my browser it makes me login again or worse it says this user does not longer exist? Can anyone help? I have an account and still all links don't work?
[QUOTE=SeanKonnery;4630755]Hey Guys, what am I missing here? Evertime I post the SA link in my browser it makes me login again or worse it says this user does not longer exist? Can anyone help? I have an account and still all links don't work?[/QUOTE]You have to be an active, paid member to see profiles listed on here. If you are logged out you must log back in. Also, many profiles are deactivated either because the SB deleted their profile, suspended their account or were kicked off SA for doing something against SA rules.
[QUOTE=JHobby;4630448]This is discussed endlessly over at SLF reddit but the consensus among SDs at least is that ppm only when intimacy starts. Some would go on an initial platonic m&g then give travel cost gifts at the least, and if they feel good about the girl, give a fraction of the usual ppm as a GIFT. And I must reiterate this, do not ever agree on paying a ppm to a girl for an initial platonic m&g because 1) that reinforces rinsing behavior and 2) you give a signal to the girl that you're willing to be put in a disadvantageous position. Remember that this is a transaction no matter how much others insist that it's like a vanilla relationship or girls that argue they're not escorts and therefore should be paid for dates. These girls ARE sex workers and both of you are engaged in a transaction.
You have to understand that SA is filled with professional rinsers / scammers who would try their best to get sugar from you with no sugar in return. So do not encourage rinsing behaviors, there are already enough youtuber professional scammers teaching that bullshit, you don't have to play into their scheme too. The more men who adhere to this principle the leas likely will these scammers thrive in SA and their numbers will drop. You have to remember too that SBs greatly outnumber SDs, so we dictate the demand. With that in mind remember that how another SD pays affects the rest of those in the market. So you start paying for platonic dates then these girls start expecting it from the next SD. Don't be that guy.[/QUOTE]Thanks, man. Very well put. I'm in total agreement with you. A non sexual date should follow normal dating rules, yes, I'll pay for dinner, theater tickets, admission, drinks, but no allowance over that. They are being treated to something they couldn; t afford on their own.
[QUOTE=Truthfu11;4630910]You have to be an active, paid member to see profiles listed on here. If you are logged out you must log back in. Also, many profiles are deactivated either because the SB deleted their profile, suspended their account or were kicked off SA for doing something against SA rules.[/QUOTE]I can see the profiles just fine and I don't have a paid membership.
Anyone got anything on this one?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/46d8fcee-9979-4644-8229-f0d07dda1ac1[/URL]
Her profile if it's to be believed is amazing, but she does have that FinDom attribute in there and she apparently doesn't care that she is called one. And she comes complete with her own sob story. So does anyone have any experience with this one that can sway me one way or the other?
Here's one of the more bizarre profiles I've read in a while: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7b973485-79d4-4a7c-9942-de06b957772c[/URL].
I guess all she needs is one person who fits her requirements.
[QUOTE=ADAvet101;4631303]Anyone got anything on this one?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/46d8fcee-9979-4644-8229-f0d07dda1ac1[/URL]
Her profile if it's to be believed is amazing, but she does have that FinDom attribute in there and she apparently doesn't care that she is called one. And she comes complete with her own sob story. So does anyone have any experience with this one that can sway me one way or the other?[/QUOTE]For me, there are too many red flags to waste my time. Findom? Fick that. Do you want to give your money away for nothing? Two kids? Usually means baby damage which is not for me at all. And if every pic is with snapchat filters? No thanks. There are tons of SBs on the site. Why would you waste your time with this?
Talked to her at the beginning of December, she told me how she married into a bad situation, and needed to get out ASAP, I told her a figure for PPM, and then she sent me a screenshot of the SA TOS that mentions no PPM. She then said she wasn't looking for PPM, or a monthly, she needed 1800 to move and that was it. I told her best of luck, and that was the end of that.
[QUOTE=ADAvet101;4631303]Anyone got anything on this one?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/46d8fcee-9979-4644-8229-f0d07dda1ac1[/URL]
Her profile if it's to be believed is amazing, but she does have that FinDom attribute in there and she apparently doesn't care that she is called one. And she comes complete with her own sob story. So does anyone have any experience with this one that can sway me one way or the other?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Rileym;4629671][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9ffdba29-dd70-103d-5096-268ae3f5ef2e[/URL]
Can't decide if this one is a scam or not. Bolt on's look fun of course, definitely looks older than 26. Reached out 3 days ago with no response. Last night out of the blue she replies back sending very explicit messages back, talking about her throbbing pussy and needing to cum, and wanting to see me right then at her hotel. Gave her the cell to text in private but she didn't go for it. Apparently staying at a downtown hotel. No talk of allowance on the site.
Anyone have any recent experiences with this one?? Seems to be some red flags. Obviously a pro but scammer as well?[/QUOTE]Like I said a few days ago she quoted me $1,100.00 per month allowance and would not entertain a PPM price. This was a few months ago, so maybe things have changed.
But I did not pursue at those prices.
Hi everyone I am new to SA, I mean new paid member and I am a little cautious. So out of the blue this lady sends me invitation to go see her at her place. [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f9871bb9-ac28-4fef-8ee5-3d75366c68a1[/URL] Does anyone have any experience with her??
[QUOTE=Truthfu11;4630914]Thanks, man. Very well put. I'm in total agreement with you. A non sexual date should follow normal dating rules, yes, I'll pay for dinner, theater tickets, admission, drinks, but no allowance over that. They are being treated to something they couldn; t afford on their own.[/QUOTE]Amen to both JHobby and Truthfu11 for saying what needed to be said. Both of their points are right on base.