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Said she is up for meeting but wants $1 K per meet.
Told her that was an asinine ask on her part. She went on to say she wanted "sugar not Splenda" daddy and her last daddy "moved overseas" but paid her even more.
I also mentioned "prior daddy moving" is code for "way too many other reasonable girls out there" so he got smart and blocked you. Crickets after that comment!
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c695d874-e28a-4e4a-8ce9-a1dce0616d45[/URL]
Just wanted to share some tips that usually work for me in vetting the real from the fake.
1. Get yourself a phone number besides your real one. Apps like Text free and Burner work well. I don't hand the number out so when I do get spam calls or links I know its because I gave that number out on SA.
2. If the potential SB is 30 yrs old and below its a guarantee they have social media I. E Instagram or Facebook. Usually, if they give some lame excuse such as " I don't do social media" or " I do have IG but don't like giving out my social media" This is a red flag to me. The reason being most young women do have IG or Facebook in some capacity. Next, if the concern is privacy then I'm sure their page would be private already and you can only see pics if they accept a request. Also, I doubt they would just grant anyone access to see their pics even if you were given their IG name and you wanted to use an alias since they don't like giving access to their social media. Just my way of vetting and not 100% sure way of ruling out scammers and fakes but it works more than it doesn't.
3. Ask them for their Cash app, Venmo, Zelle or other forms of electronic payment name. I usually ask if they have Zelle first. Zelle, depending on your bank doesn't charge the receiver for transactions and is pretty reputable. This is usually tied to their bank and will give you their real name since it's tied to bank account information and either email or phone number. Venmo is tied as well. Cash App doesn't provide intrusive information on the receiver and is the preferred form for most scammers and real people as well. But just be aware. Things to looks for " My account was locked and can you send the money to my friend" I had one woman provide me with a male's *guy's picture was on the profile* Venmo and that was a red flag. I'm sure he was a handler. Venmo is a social-based site so that means if you pay someone through it you should always select to make the payment private. If not it will show you gave your intended recipient money in cyberspace linked to you. It can show who gave them money as well if they don't receive private payments.
4. I shouldn't have to say this but CALL BEFORE MEETING! Talk rather than text. If you get excuses on why they can't before a meeting it's a red flag don't convince yourself otherwise. No one is too busy to call when time permits. Video chat when possible and DO NOT show private parts. Don't fall for scams of showing genitals where women know you are married and will try to blackmail you by threatening to show the pictures they snapped of you.
5. DON'T send money before a meet or before any position of the deed to go down. Stick to your guns. This with the big head and not the smaller of the two. Meet during the day if you can and at a private location. Our robber friend is making a decent living off of scamming and she wouldn't be still on SA if it weren't for people falling for her sorry game. I got her number and told her I was in law enforcement and that I don't need a parking pass since I have an unmarked police cruiser and can park anywhere without being towed. She quickly told me that she was afraid to meet me because her dad is on the police force LOL.
6. Read reviews and search all SB related forums here in different cities close to your own. See if you see UTR pros on other sites ie. STG, etc. Some pros go on SA and provide over inflated prices for services you can get for waaaaay lower.
I'm sure and know some of this has been covered but wanted to share some tips that could help anyone out. Sharing is caring.
[QUOTE=Jost815;5230353]I saw her a couple years ago and at the time she was able to host. We did meet directly at her place and had some wine before jumping into it. I don't remember the service too well but I do remember it was bbfscip. She was a bit bigger than I like without having big boobs so I didn't repeat. I think I paid around 300.[/QUOTE]That is what I think, She must be bigger than her pics and does not want to walk away empty handed after M&G.
This is good advice and I wanted to add my thoughts to #2/5.
Many of the younger girls (18-22 or so) no longer use FB. As one teen told me " that's for old people like my parent's". FB was a gold mine years back when you could search by the phone number. IG and FB have removed that feature due to privacy concerns. You may find a 19 yo FB but she has not posted or updated in many years because many don't use it anymore. IG will give you hints such as people you may know but you have to save the number in your contacts of the phone you run these apps on. IG and Snapchat are the 2 that work best for me. I save every girl's # in my contacts and search for them that way on these apps. With SC you can then search under find friends under your contacts that you saved.
Many of them use their real names on accounts and you can add them to watch their story line posts and see these attention ho's take pic's of themselves and post. It's a good peek into what they do and look like. I actually find they are more responsive to communicate with you rather than texting (referring to the younger ones). Another thought on recon is pay for a phone search service such as Whitepages or similar. They are really not that expensive if you do Seeking full time. That is changing as they read more blog's encouraging them to use texting app's regrettably. But I still get about a 50% hit of a real name (or daddy's name cause he is still paying her phone bill) when I run it.
Regarding #5 Man I wish every guy would do this. It just feeds the scammers and rinsers if you prepay. You can read the SB forums on here in every city daily and even the seasoned veteran's get taken by these prepay / cash advance. I am not trying to shame them cause they were honest to post (just think about how many never post about it). It usually has in the post. I know better, should have seen the red flags, was thinking with the little head, can't believe I fell for it, she seemed so real etc. Never, never prepay a penny. Never. You give them money in person face to face. Simple common sense but you read stories on here daily of it happening again and again daily. Never send money in advance.
[QUOTE=CireSire;5230936]Just wanted to share some tips that usually work for me in vetting the real from the fake.
1. Get yourself a phone number besides your real one. Apps like Text free and Burner work well. I don't hand the number out so when I do get spam calls or links I know its because I gave that number out on SA.
2. If the potential SB is 30 yrs old and below its a guarantee they have social media I. E Instagram or Facebook. Usually, if they give some lame excuse such as " I don't do social media" or " I do have IG but don't like giving out my social media" This is a red flag to me. The reason being most young women do have IG or Facebook in some capacity. Next, if the concern is privacy then I'm sure their page would be private already and you can only see pics if they accept a request. Also, I doubt they would just grant anyone access to see their pics even if you were given their IG name and you wanted to use an alias since they don't like giving access to their social media. Just my way of vetting and not 100% sure way of ruling out scammers and fakes but it works more than it doesn't.
3. Ask them for their Cash app, Venmo, Zelle or other forms of electronic payment name. I usually ask if they have Zelle first. Zelle, depending on your bank doesn't charge the receiver for transactions and is pretty reputable. This is usually tied to their bank and will give you their real name since it's tied to bank account information and either email or phone number. Venmo is tied as well. Cash App doesn't provide intrusive information on the receiver and is the preferred form for most scammers and real people as well. But just be aware. Things to looks for " My account was locked and can you send the money to my friend" I had one woman provide me with a male's *guy's picture was on the profile* Venmo and that was a red flag. I'm sure he was a handler. Venmo is a social-based site so that means if you pay someone through it you should always select to make the payment private. If not it will show you gave your intended recipient money in cyberspace linked to you. It can show who gave them money as well if they don't receive private payments.
4. I shouldn't have to say this but CALL BEFORE MEETING! Talk rather than text. If you get excuses on why they can't before a meeting it's a red flag don't convince yourself otherwise. No one is too busy to call when time permits. Video chat when possible and DO NOT show private parts. Don't fall for scams of showing genitals where women know you are married and will try to blackmail you by threatening to show the pictures they snapped of you.
5. DON'T send money before a meet or before any position of the deed to go down. Stick to your guns. This with the big head and not the smaller of the two. Meet during the day if you can and at a private location. Our robber friend is making a decent living off of scamming and she wouldn't be still on SA if it weren't for people falling for her sorry game. I got her number and told her I was in law enforcement and that I don't need a parking pass since I have an unmarked police cruiser and can park anywhere without being towed. She quickly told me that she was afraid to meet me because her dad is on the police force LOL.
6. Read reviews and search all SB related forums here in different cities close to your own. See if you see UTR pros on other sites ie. STG, etc. Some pros go on SA and provide over inflated prices for services you can get for waaaaay lower.
I'm sure and know some of this has been covered but wanted to share some tips that could help anyone out. Sharing is caring.[/QUOTE]
I just spoke to tinygirlbigworld and she told me the exact same thing. $1 K per meet and her daddy just went overseas.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/66827c1b-fd2a-431d-aac8-7ffbe366e094[/URL]
[QUOTE=Bdoe4264;5230837]Said she is up for meeting but wants $1 K per meet.
Told her that was an asinine ask on her part. She went on to say she wanted "sugar not Splenda" daddy and her last daddy "moved overseas" but paid her even more.
I also mentioned "prior daddy moving" is code for "way too many other reasonable girls out there" so he got smart and blocked you. Crickets after that comment!
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c695d874-e28a-4e4a-8ce9-a1dce0616d45[/URL][/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=RegularJoe1985;5229826]I think most of us, who are really active on SA, have been suspended at one time or the other. Should we consider it as a Badge of honor.
Just create ticket, tell them you're suspended and don't know why.
They'll ask you to go through terms and acknowledge that you understand them. Click yes and be careful next time.
We are the ones paying on SA, so they have an incentive to keep us while still keeping themselves safe.
I think covid and loss of subscribers caused them to raise rates. And many are just paying intermittently.[/QUOTE]I tried doing this and they said I'm permanently banned. Looking for ways to make an account again without getting suspended. Pretty trusting process.
[QUOTE=AdcFellow;5231143]I just spoke to tinygirlbigworld and she told me the exact same thing. $1 K per meet and her daddy just went overseas.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/66827c1b-fd2a-431d-aac8-7ffbe366e094[/URL][/QUOTE]She should move overseas with her SD if she wants $1 K / meet. Sorry, no tail is worth that much no matter how hot.
Yes she was definitely bigger than what I was expecting from her pictures. She's a nice girl but just not my type.
[QUOTE=RegularJoe1985;5231005]That is what I think, She must be bigger than her pics and does not want to walk away empty handed after M&G.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Jost815;5231581]Yes she was definitely bigger than what I was expecting from her pictures. She's a nice girl but just not my type.[/QUOTE]I was close to pulling the trigger. She does drunk text well and she seems horny AF. That said, we exchanged a few selfies and I could tell she was MUCH larger than her SA photo's show. I passed.
I wasn't getting the best vibes but JR was looking for some action. Anyway make a long story short google reverse image search is your best friend. Can't say this enough. Who knows what would have happened (maybe just a wasted hotel room).
I think I need to start making girls jump through hoops like others (send me a photo with right hand hold up 4 fingers LOL).
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/95c7f6a6-dd94-46d5-b1cb-9ba88e132e55[/URL]
Stella (today).
Betty (Dec.).
New profile today and hit her up. We chatted. She said she was a fashion designer under contract and I remembered chatting her before. Figured it out when she gave me her digits to text. She started wanting to sell content but then seemed down to meet. Said I get a room in Tysons or falls church area and that was when we moved to text. We came to four and half bills for no rules and no limits. Asked for a verification pic and she couldn't provide. One of the pics she sent is way hot and not buying it without a verification.
[QUOTE=Silk3434;5232441]I wasn't getting the best vibes but JR was looking for some action. Anyway make a long story short google reverse image search is your best friend. Can't say this enough. Who knows what would have happened (maybe just a wasted hotel room).
I think I need to start making girls jump through hoops like others (send me a photo with right hand hold up 4 fingers LOL).[/QUOTE]Can you let us know who so we don't make the same mistake?
[QUOTE=DCGuy1234;5232863]Can you let us know who so we don't make the same mistake?[/QUOTE]I called her out on it and then I was blocked. Here is the photo I saved. "She" was located in Maryland somewhere.
This ones got red flags left and right in her profile, but I played along and we moved to text. So she asks if I can host, I said sure, but where are you located? She comes back and says NY. So I said but your profile says DC. ? She claims that's where she lives in NY but she's currently visiting her Aunt in DC. Uhhh yeah right. Blocked and on to the next one.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d1dc4f3e-822c-47a2-a681-0e75bda061d5[/URL]
[QUOTE=RegularJoe1985;5229826]I think most of us, who are really active on SA, have been suspended at one time or the other. Should we consider it as a Badge of honor.
Just create ticket, tell them you're suspended and don't know why.
They'll ask you to go through terms and acknowledge that you understand them. Click yes and be careful next time.
We are the ones paying on SA, so they have an incentive to keep us while still keeping themselves safe.
I think covid and loss of subscribers caused them to raise rates. And many are just paying intermittently.[/QUOTE]I have avoided being suspended so far knock on wood. I try to keep any conversation as vague and as PG as possible. I won't even mention PPM myself initially on the site. I always insist on discussing any details of an arrangement off the site I use snap or text. I no longer give my information first always get their number or snap name first.
Also another tip think it was mentioned way back in the beginning. But as much as possible I try avoid linking any discussion from the site to the text or snap. Ie never tell them the name I am using on the site or once we are on text / snap never tell them my username from SA. Sometimes they ask I always joke do you give out your information that much you can't remember me. So once we get to the details there's never a link between the text / snap or my SA profile. Plus I save the BB question t till we are in person.