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[QUOTE=SinfulDreams;2478846]You might want to speak for yourself, or those you see. I know several providers that don't do drugs, myself included, so I am sure he will have several to see.[/QUOTE]Service, affordability and spoiling for themare the keys. Good point Ms Sinful.
It will be a dry one for me. No takers for dinner, dessert, and back for fun BCD. Again we have had this discussion before but having perused the posts it seems a number of mongers have contacted ladies with no responses. Ladies state their disdain for clients who do not follow through with their appointments and men have done the same. When one has contacted 11 ladies with no responses even when voice mails are left, frustration is the order of the day. Speaking with a lady last evening she suggested that unless responses were forthcoming keep a black book coded of course and do your damned best to never call them again because if they are fking you the bad kind with shoddy business practices they are doing the same to others. The hills are alive with candidates so the loss of a dozen or two are no big deal. Just keep ben around and keep on hunting. Have a good weekend everyone and stay wet the good kind of course. If I wanted the other I would continue to take showers. In this case mine will probably be the cold kind. BMack.
[QUOTE=SinfulDreams;2478846]You might want to speak for yourself, or those you see. I know several providers that don't do drugs, myself included, so I am sure he will have several to see.[/QUOTE]Good for you. However, the reality is an extremely high percentage of providers use drugs. You may catch some that are not using temporarily. You may not be able to detect it. But, my point was, if you are only going to see providers you know to not be using, it is a fool's errand. And everyone who has been doing this for any length of time knows this. I admire his conviction, though.
I'm pretty aligned with 3 Minute on this one. It doesn't make sense to me that the answer would be to stop buying the services of providers. Yes, some (or many?) of them feel trapped, but trapped by what? By mongers? Maybe I'm just naive, but it seems most of us that hobby have respect for the providers. That ought to translate into allowing them to be empowered to decide how they pull themselves out of whatever situation they are in. For some of the providers, it means not judging them for this lifestyle which they have chosen for themselves. One could argue that this is a supply and demand issue, but if demand were to disappear overnight, would it necessarily improve the lives of the providers? I really don't think so.
This hobby provides mutual benefit and should absolutely be legal. The best we mongers can do in our role is be respectful and fair about the service being provided.
[QUOTE=SinfulDreams;2478846]You might want to speak for yourself, or those you see. I know several providers that don't do drugs, myself included, so I am sure he will have several to see.[/QUOTE]I've been seeing this one provider for 19 months now. A very classy woman. I know where her monies go and it's definitely not drugs. So Dude, not all ladies are drug users. I'm very lucky to have met her not as an escort but because she's a very classy woman.
[QUOTE=3-MinutePassion;2478799]You will have no one to see. See no, hear no, speak no.[/QUOTE]Absolute bullshit.
I agree with 3 Minute. Majority of providers are users. Many do not appear like it and may fool you.
I'm not sure about the whole not seeing a provider if they are users because it will support there drug habit thing.
If you are trying to make some difference. I may suggest this. If they are somewhat putting effort to quit but lack the resources. Than take them to the clinic. I've taken one to the clinic. She goes daily. Been clean for awhile now. Shows me her test results showing her system is clear and everything.
I know some of you feel just the pay and do the deed and not get involved. But I could not help my conscious. I'm glad I did what I did.
If you contacted 11 women and not one responded, maybe it's you that is the common denominator. I made one call, and had one appointment. It can't be that hard, and it doesn't seem fair to ***** about it here.
[QUOTE=BigMack;2478933]It will be a dry one for me. No takers for dinner, dessert, and back for fun BCD. Again we have had this discussion before but having perused the posts it seems a number of mongers have contacted ladies with no responses. Ladies state their disdain for clients who do not follow through with their appointments and men have done the same. When one has contacted 11 ladies with no responses even when voice mails are left, frustration is the order of the day. Speaking with a lady last evening she suggested that unless responses were forthcoming keep a black book coded of course and do your damned best to never call them again because if they are fking you the bad kind with shoddy business practices they are doing the same to others. The hills are alive with candidates so the loss of a dozen or two are no big deal. Just keep ben around and keep on hunting. Have a good weekend everyone and stay wet the good kind of course. If I wanted the other I would continue to take showers. In this case mine will probably be the cold kind. BMack.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=TheGardener1;2479336]Absolute bullshit.[/QUOTE]What is your point? I say it is difficult to find providers that do not use drugs. Are you denying this? Is there another White Knight in our midst?
[QUOTE=FirstHalf;2479583]If you contacted 11 women and not one responded, maybe it's you that is the common denominator. I made one call, and had one appointment. It can't be that hard, and it doesn't seem fair to ***** about it here.[/QUOTE]I can't say why they didn't respond but facts are facts they didn't This is rants and raves Where should I put it DEAR FKING ABBY. This shit goes on all the time WTFU and quit seeing ladies who do this and they are plentiful.
[QUOTE=3-MinutePassion;2479648]What is your point? I say it is difficult to find providers that do not use drugs. Are you denying this? Is there another White Knight in our midst?[/QUOTE]You said "you will find no one to see".
Put the drink or weed down and read what you typed. Yes I do understand that there are many. There is no disputing that.
[QUOTE=CloudStrife7;2479366]I agree with 3 Minute. Majority of providers are users. Many do not appear like it and may fool you.
I'm not sure about the whole not seeing a provider if they are users because it will support there drug habit thing.
If you are trying to make some difference. I may suggest this. If they are somewhat putting effort to quit but lack the resources. Than take them to the clinic. I've taken one to the clinic. She goes daily. Been clean for awhile now. Shows me her test results showing her system is clear and everything.
I know some of you feel just the pay and do the deed and not get involved. But I could not help my conscious. I'm glad I did what I did.[/QUOTE]Good for you!
Is it a free clinic? Which one?
I heard from a friend of mine who is an uncle to the city, there will be a heightened presence this weekend in the downtown Cincy area, due to the Taste of Cincinnati. Plainclothes will be stationed in hotels looking out for high traffic rooms, and some decoys will be use. Be careful if you're going to be playing. Keep your head down, and don't be stupid.
Happy Memorial Day weekend! (Remember to thank a vet.).
[QUOTE=DNut;2479856]I heard from a friend of mine who is an uncle to the city, there will be a heightened presence this weekend in the downtown Cincy area, due to the Taste of Cincinnati. Plainclothes will be stationed in hotels looking out for high traffic rooms, and some decoys will be use. Be careful if you're going to be playing. Keep your head down, and don't be stupid.
Happy Memorial Day weekend! (Remember to thank a vet.).[/QUOTE]Not exactly a secret. They have been saying that all over the radio and television.
[QUOTE=Tuffy12;2479818]Good for you!
Is it a free clinic? Which one?[/QUOTE]They are called Drug addition treatment or drug rehabilitation clinics. They are all over the place. They give users methadone or suboxone in replace of other opiates when they have the urge to use / withdrawals. They are not free. They start with high dosage and than slowly drop the dosage throughout out time until you do not need it anymore.