Sugar Daddy Sites

[QUOTE=EvilTmp;5272707]Reddit sugar forum is mostly a platform for pros and semi-pros SBs. Their whole outlook is how to get the most from men while doing the least possible. So of course all you'll hear is whatever benefits the girls most and they couldn't care less about the men's experience or point of view. Things like monthly allowance and 'how dare you offer less than 2 k a month' are all over the forum. Once you understand where it's coming from you can safely ignore it and just go on your merry way. It's just hoes complaining for the most part.[/QUOTE]This explains much as to why newbies are asking so much these days. They think it's market standard rate.

[QUOTE=SFVsag;5273413]This explains much as to why newbies are asking so much these days. They think it's market standard rate.[/QUOTE]It is amazing how just a handful of providers are controlling the narrative on Reddit and setting the expectations on what is acceptable for the rest of us. Talk about BBBJ on Reddit and you will be treated like a creepy pervert.

So I kind of think of this place a family of guys that share information. I haven't been on here as much recently. But when my last postef everyone could see how I fell for a girl I met on SA. So I'm just going to open up and be honest. I hope that's okay here. It miss the days when the legend B Malibu was here and he was such a great guy and open about his experiences and even falling for a provider at an AMP.

So one of my biggest issues coming back into the game is comparing everyone to my previous relationship. I've been off and on SA for a few years and I've had a lot of different experiences. Majority fwb and I've had two long-term arrangements if you will before, but nothing like this girl. The thing is I feel like she kind of declawed me. I spent most my life having casual relations with girls. And now I feel like I don't know how to act how to get girls on these sites anymore. I go in being way too nice. The longer you're in this you're bound to take a loss or two. I've taken two small losses before, but not like this. I've had a few losses recently when trying to get back in it. I never gave money up front before but when I met this previous girl I really just liked her so much I gave her 60 before we met and she was shocked and I was shocked. From there we talked everyday and saw each other every week. We never exchanged money per visit.

But now I find myself without my killer instinct anymore. I talked to these girls online I'm almost trying to recreate the situation or the dynamic me and the other girl had, by trying to be nice. But it never works out. I don't know I just don't have that firmness anymore I'm too much of a simp now. I know I'm just kind of ranting but I had to share this somewhere.

[QUOTE=TheHuntsman;5276012]So I kind of think of this place a family of guys that share information. I haven't been on here as much recently. But when my last postef everyone could see how I fell for a girl I met on SA. So I'm just going to open up and be honest. I hope that's okay here. It miss the days when the legend B Malibu was here and he was such a great guy and open about his experiences and even falling for a provider at an AMP.

So one of my biggest issues coming back into the game is comparing everyone to my previous relationship. I've been off and on SA for a few years and I've had a lot of different experiences. Majority fwb and I've had two long-term arrangements if you will before, but nothing like this girl. The thing is I feel like she kind of declawed me. I spent most my life having casual relations with girls. And now I feel like I don't know how to act how to get girls on these sites anymore. I go in being way too nice. The longer you're in this you're bound to take a loss or two. I've taken two small losses before, but not like this. I've had a few losses recently when trying to get back in it. I never gave money up front before but when I met this previous girl I really just liked her so much I gave her 60 before we met and she was shocked and I was shocked. From there we talked everyday and saw each other every week. We never exchanged money per visit.

But now I find myself without my killer instinct anymore. I talked to these girls online I'm almost trying to recreate the situation or the dynamic me and the other girl had, by trying to be nice. But it never works out. I don't know I just don't have that firmness anymore I'm too much of a simp now. I know I'm just kind of ranting but I had to share this somewhere.[/QUOTE]The kids today call it simping.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;5276271]The kids today call it simping.[/QUOTE]I was once I mighty jungle cat. Now I'm a declawed house cat. You know it's hard to find someone you really connect with. Yeah I've said I fell hard for her. Now I'm totally simping with other girls to recreate it. Whatever connection I previously had with her it was unique. Out of all the girls I've met on SA only 3 were different. Two of them we are still friends to this day. I'm just struggling to get back to normal me.

[QUOTE=TheHuntsman;5276012]So I kind of think of this place a family of guys that share information. I haven't been on here as much recently. But when my last postef everyone could see how I fell for a girl I met on SA. So I'm just going to open up and be honest. I hope that's okay here. It miss the days when the legend B Malibu was here and he was such a great guy and open about his experiences and even falling for a provider at an AMP.

So one of my biggest issues coming back into the game is comparing everyone to my previous relationship. I've been off and on SA for a few years and I've had a lot of different experiences. Majority fwb and I've had two long-term arrangements if you will before, but nothing like this girl. The thing is I feel like she kind of declawed me. I spent most my life having casual relations with girls. And now I feel like I don't know how to act how to get girls on these sites anymore. I go in being way too nice. The longer you're in this you're bound to take a loss or two. I've taken two small losses before, but not like this. I've had a few losses recently when trying to get back in it. I never gave money up front before but when I met this previous girl I really just liked her so much I gave her 60 before we met and she was shocked and I was shocked. From there we talked everyday and saw each other every week. We never exchanged money per visit.

But now I find myself without my killer instinct anymore. I talked to these girls online I'm almost trying to recreate the situation or the dynamic me and the other girl had, by trying to be nice. But it never works out. I don't know I just don't have that firmness anymore I'm too much of a simp now. I know I'm just kind of ranting but I had to share this somewhere.[/QUOTE]I feel you buddy. Just curious: are you single? If you are, maybe you should try other traditional dating sites. On SA, if you act like a simp, you will most definitely be treated like one. None of these girls on there are looking for boyfriends. Just keep that in mind.

[QUOTE=TheHuntsman;5276012]So I kind of think of this place a family of guys that share information. I haven't been on here as much recently. But when my last postef everyone could see how I fell for a girl I met on SA. So I'm just going to open up and be honest. I hope that's okay here. It miss the days when the legend B Malibu was here and he was such a great guy and open about his experiences and even falling for a provider at an AMP.

So one of my biggest issues coming back into the game is comparing everyone to my previous relationship. I've been off and on SA for a few years and I've had a lot of different experiences. Majority fwb and I've had two long-term arrangements if you will before, but nothing like this girl. The thing is I feel like she kind of declawed me. I spent most my life having casual relations with girls. And now I feel like I don't know how to act how to get girls on these sites anymore. I go in being way too nice. The longer you're in this you're bound to take a loss or two. I've taken two small losses before, but not like this. I've had a few losses recently when trying to get back in it. I never gave money up front before but when I met this previous girl I really just liked her so much I gave her 60 before we met and she was shocked and I was shocked. From there we talked everyday and saw each other every week. We never exchanged money per visit.

But now I find myself without my killer instinct anymore. I talked to these girls online I'm almost trying to recreate the situation or the dynamic me and the other girl had, by trying to be nice. But it never works out. I don't know I just don't have that firmness anymore I'm too much of a simp now. I know I'm just kind of ranting but I had to share this somewhere.[/QUOTE]It's a tough balancing act to be tough with the right amount of tender. Maybe search out some women that you aren't crazy attracted to and play the game with them. That way you remove some of the risk. I totally empathize with you, I had one long term find someone and one that was probably my unicorn just start a legit relationship this month. Right before the vaccine! Godamnit. But take heart that there are a ton of new girls on the site ever single day. Good luck.

It seems SA is a big waste of time and money these days. I sure missed the good old days of Craiglist.

Curious, where else are you finding young, naive, and amateur pussies?

[QUOTE=LargeEss;5276338]It's a tough balancing act to be tough with the right amount of tender. Maybe search out some women that you aren't crazy attracted to and play the game with them. That way you remove some of the risk. I totally empathize with you, I had one long term find someone and one that was probably my unicorn just start a legit relationship this month. Right before the vaccine! Godamnit. But take heart that there are a ton of new girls on the site ever single day. Good luck.[/QUOTE]As a man you have to be firm and fair with whatever woman you're with. Yes it's hard. Her and I just clicked from the beginning. Yes we met on SA but it wasn't about that. I have to realize like any relationship I can't recreate the past.

I had a 3 yr relationship with a girl from UCI that I met off SA. No money was ever exchanged. She just liked being with an okay man and would spend weekends at my house.

A combination of the game changing a bit and my feelings for that girl have made it hard. Like I said I feel like I've been domesticated LOL. Thanks for the kind words bro.

[QUOTE=TopGun9;5276341]It seems SA is a big waste of time and money these days. I sure missed the good old days of Craiglist.

Curious, where else are you finding young, naive, and amateur pussies?[/QUOTE]I've tried secret benefits and sugar daddy meet. I don't like the way both sites are set up. Very shitty. Although I met a young girl from ucr on sb and have had a nice ppm relationship right now. It's funny when I go to pick her up because she lives in the apt complex directly across the street from my previous arrangement. Every time I go to pick her up I can see my ex bedroom window open and light on.

[QUOTE=JackMiles;5276320]I feel you buddy. Just curious: are you single? If you are, maybe you should try other traditional dating sites. On SA, if you act like a simp, you will most definitely be treated like one. None of these girls on there are looking for boyfriends. Just keep that in mind.[/QUOTE]I'm not looking for a gf either. Just something fun and casual. Or so I'm telling myself. As I said I'm a little mixed up after my previous encounter. I honestly feel declawed.

[QUOTE=TheHuntsman;5276293]I was once I mighty jungle cat. Now I'm a declawed house cat. You know it's hard to find someone you really connect with. Yeah I've said I fell hard for her. Now I'm totally simping with other girls to recreate it. Whatever connection I previously had with her it was unique. Out of all the girls I've met on SA only 3 were different. Two of them we are still friends to this day. I'm just struggling to get back to normal me.[/QUOTE]Not to be harsh, but perhaps you were always really a declawed house cat, and the mighty jungle hunter was the illusion. I don't see how someone can lose perspective like you're describing when it comes to a transactional relationship, particularly when you state that you've had so many.

My advice, pull on your big boy SD pants and get busy. Nothing helps repair a wounded ego or getting [I]over[/I]one chick like getting [I]on[/I] another one.

Good luck.

[QUOTE=RogerOver;5276955]Not to be harsh, but perhaps you were always really a declawed house cat, and the mighty jungle hunter was the illusion. I don't see how someone can lose perspective like you're describing when it comes to a transactional relationship, particularly when you state that you've had so many.

My advice, pull on your big boy SD pants and get busy. Nothing helps repair a wounded ego or getting [I]over[/I]one chick like getting [I]on[/I] another one.

Good luck.[/QUOTE]Thank you and your didn't come off harsh at all bro. It wasn't transactional at all. Yes, I do have to put on my big boy sd pants. I'm just working thru this.

[QUOTE=TopGun9;5276341]It seems SA is a big waste of time and money these days. I sure missed the good old days of Craiglist.

Curious, where else are you finding young, naive, and amateur pussies?[/QUOTE]If you stick to the 18-20 crowd you will always find gold. But if your version of a 10 is in an older age bracket, then idk what to suggest.

Yesterday I met up with a 21 yr old latina from SDM. She was really chill and the damage was 300. Tight tight little spinner body. Will definitely see her again.

So far she's the only girl on SDM that I've met. Still way too many girls on their asking for online only or 400+ per meet. One girl said 3 for head and 4 for everything. I'll post more later about my experiences on SDM.