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[QUOTE=Darmour88;6644755]Gives off a very pro vibe. Says she had different accounts in the past. From what Ive seen she has had a few accounts already.[/QUOTE]Anybody know if this one still around? Haven't seen her on seeking.
[QUOTE=TooHotForYou;6953178]Anybody know if this one still around? Haven't seen her on seeking.[/QUOTE]That chick is insane. Please stay away.
[QUOTE=TheAnswer4;6953397]That chick is insane. Please stay away.[/QUOTE]I know she may have had her problems. Just wondering where she's been. I suspect her habits might've got out of hand.
[QUOTE=Tribeca67;6952705]Any info on this one?[/QUOTE]
I talked to her a few times about a year ago when she was in Charleston. Never could get her to agree to meet, she always had an excuse usually no child care.
[QUOTE=SaranRam1984;6946427]Another pic or video seller.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/098e5268-4f3e-462d-8772-dffb3efebf90[/URL][/QUOTE]I had the same scam request outcome from messaging her. She wants online to start.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1e9ab655-3f09-487c-9e56-624388514953[/URL]
- This one seems to be a scammer but wanted to confirm if any one had luck.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b403fef6-7728-47ad-b797-669f41e4f3ff[/URL]
- Out of Atlanta but seems to be real, any one experienced DM welcome.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/19f75992-49c7-4166-ad46-37ef47112004[/URL]
Has a wife and in my opinion, the wife looks better. They can come as a pair but they don't kiss each other or any of what you think comes natural as a couple without an upcharge. BBBJ is on the menu followed by cfs. The back door is open only if they are drunk. 250 each. I won't repeat with the pair.
Some I've had a conversation with and have dates planned with several of them if anyone has any info.
[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=71790408[/URL]
[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=71939856[/URL]
[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=72878246[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1f2dbcfc-9f85-44b0-8ffd-f1fdd913e30a[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/705f9c5c-c8c1-4624-9929-ff8143808f1b[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d65bf2cb-63fb-4fc0-b81b-7f365653d51a[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b1776a0a-51b7-43f7-b86c-66413aa3adf9[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/647c6f89-0996-429d-9c89-fb41188e0f1a[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e00eadd0-3dfe-4bec-950c-e48a0778a67f[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3027f313-0a6b-4a9f-8c16-cc5a57bbc399[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/57626674-d260-4a02-83e6-f48a162fa10d[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a2c4e72e-51c1-430c-86f6-42372a85a291[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6e94c710-74ab-4420-ba53-87062283bbac[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a6a0f83d-d413-4672-8e43-b204b9dfdccd[/URL]
Wanted to get expert opinion on overnight rates with SBs. I am just over 62 and in good shape for the age and average looking. I have been in the game for more than 5 years, only one time I did overnight with a girl (I still see her). In her case, I give her 400 for the night. My typical ppm rate is 300-400 for few hours (typically 2 pops). The max I have given is 500 ppm (for a super cute Latina). I am talking to this 22 year old College senior. White girl, slim, no tattoos, face I would give 9 and body 8. I had phone calls and video calls with her and confirmed she is real and photos are of her. She literally gave me all information about her, I know her real name, and all background checks come clear and what she says in her profile is 100% true. She told me that she had one arrangement before and he gave her 600 ppm. When I asked about how much time we can spend, she gave me two options, either meet in the afternoon and spend few hours or meet after 7 pm and spend the night. She didn't give different rates for these options. For few hours, I would have definitely given her 400. I am wondering rather than negotiating the ppm just go for 600 for overnight. Based on the conversation so far, everything is super smooth and she seems to be a very nice girl. Just wanted put this scenario to you guys and get the feedback if I could have done something differently. I am tempted to go for 600 overnight (and I can afford it based on my budget if I limit to 4 meet ups per month).
Play safe.
Dr. S.
[QUOTE=DrSummer;6956466]Wanted to get expert opinion on overnight rates with SBs. I am just over 62 and in good shape for the age and average looking. I have been in the game for more than 5 years, only one time I did overnight with a girl (I still see her). In her case, I give her 400 for the night. My typical ppm rate is 300-400 for few hours (typically 2 pops). The max I have given is 500 ppm (for a super cute Latina). I am talking to this 22 year old College senior. White girl, slim, no tattoos, face I would give 9 and body 8. I had phone calls and video calls with her and confirmed she is real and photos are of her. She literally gave me all information about her, I know her real name, and all background checks come clear and what she says in her profile is 100% true. She told me that she had one arrangement before and he gave her 600 ppm. When I asked about how much time we can spend, she gave me two options, either meet in the afternoon and spend few hours or meet after 7 pm and spend the night. She didn't give different rates for these options. For few hours, I would have definitely given her 400. I am wondering rather than negotiating the ppm just go for 600 for overnight. Based on the conversation so far, everything is super smooth and she seems to be a very nice girl. Just wanted put this scenario to you guys and get the feedback if I could have done something differently. I am tempted to go for 600 overnight (and I can afford it based on my budget if I limit to 4 meet ups per month).
Play safe.
Dr. S.[/QUOTE]Well bro if she's a 9 with a 8 body and seems legit might as well respect her rate atleast once. She might be worth it especially if she looks good. To me that's a great deal 600 over night. I Know girls who charge 400-1000 for FS for an hour. So 600 for over night is actually a good rate especially if she looks better than most providers. I'd say go for it once. If it's worth then her price is fair if not either talk her down next time, or find someone who does 400 ppm. Super pretty girls won't budge. I've had excellent service with a 9/10 chick it cost me a lot 800 $ but man she was worth it. So it's up to you. But if she looks how you said then go for it once atleast.
[QUOTE=DrSummer;6956466]Wanted to get expert opinion on overnight rates with SBs. I am just over 62 and in good shape for the age and average looking. I have been in the game for more than 5 years, only one time I did overnight with a girl (I still see her). In her case, I give her 400 for the night. My typical ppm rate is 300-400 for few hours (typically 2 pops). The max I have given is 500 ppm (for a super cute Latina). I am talking to this 22 year old College senior. White girl, slim, no tattoos, face I would give 9 and body 8. I had phone calls and video calls with her and confirmed she is real and photos are of her. She literally gave me all information about her, I know her real name, and all background checks come clear and what she says in her profile is 100% true. She told me that she had one arrangement before and he gave her 600 ppm. When I asked about how much time we can spend, she gave me two options, either meet in the afternoon and spend few hours or meet after 7 pm and spend the night. She didn't give different rates for these options. For few hours, I would have definitely given her 400. I am wondering rather than negotiating the ppm just go for 600 for overnight. Based on the conversation so far, everything is super smooth and she seems to be a very nice girl. Just wanted put this scenario to you guys and get the feedback if I could have done something differently. I am tempted to go for 600 overnight (and I can afford it based on my budget if I limit to 4 meet ups per month).
Play safe.
Dr. S.[/QUOTE]So if you compare this overnight rate for some escorts, it's a steal.
Personally, I found most SB are new to negotiations and either inflate a prior rate or quote something they read on social media where SB's post. I also have found some dudes simply overpay and skew the market.
If the afternoon works, using 4 hours, its 150 an hour. Overnight her hourly rate takes a nose dive but you will likely incur dinner / drinks that you don't pay in the afternoon.
If she is at 600 and you are at 400 the meet point is 500. If she is as hot as you say, and based on your prior experience, the delta in dollars is not really material.
I do suggest that SB's working PPM generally show signs of being more "experienced" or have a leaning to being pro.
But to answer your question, 400 for a few hours is on the higher side from my experience but I tend to select over 30 versus under 30. If they aren't a pro or pro yet, the clock should not be a factor.
Rather, it just what you pay for the meet and it rolls organically. It seems she trends toward this with her offer. The only risk in pushing her to 4 is she gets pissed off or she cuts the time down. I'd wager she'll take 5. But I'd view the PPM as someone who knows this game.
[QUOTE=DrSummer;6956466]I am wondering rather than negotiating the ppm just go for 600 for overnight. Based on the conversation so far, everything is super smooth and she seems to be a very nice girl. Just wanted put this scenario to you guys and get the feedback if I could have done something differently. I am tempted to go for 600 overnight (and I can afford it based on my budget if I limit to 4 meet ups per month).
Play safe.
Dr. S.[/QUOTE]600 ppm for overnight if she is super hot is not bad at all.
[QUOTE=TooHotForYou;6953178]Anybody know if this one still around? Haven't seen her on seeking.[/QUOTE][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f79ecfb1-50af-4037-8247-23589e4013d3[/URL]
[QUOTE=DrSummer;6956466]Wanted to get expert opinion on overnight rates with SBs. I am just over 62 and in good shape for the age and average looking. I have been in the game for more than 5 years, only one time I did overnight with a girl (I still see her). In her case, I give her 400 for the night. My typical ppm rate is 300-400 for few hours (typically 2 pops). The max I have given is 500 ppm (for a super cute Latina). I am talking to this 22 year old College senior. White girl, slim, no tattoos, face I would give 9 and body 8. I had phone calls and video calls with her and confirmed she is real and photos are of her. She literally gave me all information about her, I know her real name, and all background checks come clear and what she says in her profile is 100% true. She told me that she had one arrangement before and he gave her 600 ppm. When I asked about how much time we can spend, she gave me two options, either meet in the afternoon and spend few hours or meet after 7 pm and spend the night. She didn't give different rates for these options. For few hours, I would have definitely given her 400. I am wondering rather than negotiating the ppm just go for 600 for overnight. Based on the conversation so far, everything is super smooth and she seems to be a very nice girl. Just wanted put this scenario to you guys and get the feedback if I could have done something differently. I am tempted to go for 600 overnight (and I can afford it based on my budget if I limit to 4 meet ups per month).
Play safe.
Dr. S.[/QUOTE]I've been in the Sugar game 7 years and have taken lots of trips well over 50 arrangements. I'm 64 and slowing down the last couple years have a couple girls I see 1-2 times per month and my GOAT comes back a couple time a year to ATL.
This girl sounds like a semi pro. I never talked about time / hours / overnight extras. If the girl doesn't like you enough to sleep over when you offer then forget it. I would just tell them we are going to blank Hotel and tell her I'm spending the night there. Would be cool if you want to stay over also. I never pushed it on the first date / meeting.
Usually the younger girls without full time jobs are the best shot for consistent overnights.
Some girls would usually stay, some would always stay and some could never stay (lived with parents had to be home etc.
I had one girl that always stayed the night and we did some trips some amazing times.. She would get upset if I tried to do a quick hit and run.
Most girls. I just told them at the first meet what the budget was. Always in the 150.00 to 400.00 range. I Never let them set the price and the pretty much always take it.
This is more Art than Science IMO. Just need to meet up with them and get them down the rabbit hole, have a good game and make sure they orgasm(s) was my go to.
[QUOTE=BrownSugaTwo;6952170]My boy missed out; she made him cover up: no cream pies for him, LOL. He's not white, so maybe that had something to do with it. Given that she is / was high volume, I suppose it's for the best. Not that I'm judging, I'm currently sort of in love with an SB that has a history of gangbangs. And likely has a boyfriend. It was all bare from day one (she just slid it in there), and I'm so intoxicated by her that I just can't stop. She's thick as hell and a doll. I'm sure she's crazy outside of an SB relationship, but I just can't help but fall under her spell. Sometimes, I really hate how vulnerable I am to that slit between these girls' legs, but it is what it is.[/QUOTE]Man, you just nailed it BS2. That intoxication can be amazing to the point of temporary insanity LOL.
But so grateful I have had those experiences. Some guys never do.
For the record, I'm the cheap guy these ladies are complaining about. My professional sales background won't allow me to just foot these ladies request. I negotiate for everything while requesting to pay as little as possible. It is what it is. As for NattyNat. I walked out on her. She seemed too planned out and scripted. I enjoy a more natural flow to things.
Seeking and SDM are typically not for the cheap at heart. However, I've had the most amazing time with many different ladies. These ladies have been uterly beautiful, young and very talented. When I was in my twenties, I had to shoot game and hope the fine ones would give me a chance. Then I had to call them often and take them on dates only praying that their 3 month minimum or 6 date rule had been met for me to get a sniff. I banged my share and a few other guys share back then. But I had to pay substantially. This was when I made far less money.
Now, thanks to being SD age, I can just window shop. Ask how much. Ask what they are cool with before even seeing them in person. I'm spending far less and because these ladies want to continue the arrangement; am getting way more effort and skill than ever. It's a win win for me.
There have been sooooo many from Seeking. All full bare cip. Some are into much more; however I'm normally not thinking about getting a pic. But sometimes I just stood and looked at my meal before I devoured it and the thought of documenting the moment did creep into my mind. So enjoy LOL. At this point I can't even imagine not taking the easy route. As I'm approaching 50, ladies no longer look anything like this. I may be addicted. Shoot, I think this is way better vice than drugs or anything else.
GLHF.
[QUOTE=Roddee;6957629]For the record, I'm the cheap guy these ladies are complaining about......[/QUOTE]Spending less for more is call being SMART!
Well done, my friend, very well done.
I am also a big fan of Ebony spinners.
TG9.
[QUOTE=Airmantroy;6956837][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f79ecfb1-50af-4037-8247-23589e4013d3[/URL][/QUOTE]This girl stole from me. She can't be trusted and you shouldn't put any money time or effort into her. Pussy is also loose.
[QUOTE=Lookinatl;6958082]This girl stole from me. She can't be trusted and you shouldn't put any money time or effort into her. Pussy is also loose.[/QUOTE]I'm not planning on seeing her, but how about some details for anybody who might want to risk it?
[QUOTE=DrSummer;6956466]Wanted to get expert opinion on overnight rates with SBs. I am just over 62 and in good shape for the age and average looking. I have been in the game for more than 5 years, only one time I did overnight with a girl (I still see her). In her case, I give her 400 for the night. My typical ppm rate is 300-400 for few hours (typically 2 pops). The max I have given is 500 ppm (for a super cute Latina). I am talking to this 22 year old College senior. White girl, slim, no tattoos, face I would give 9 and body 8. I had phone calls and video calls with her and confirmed she is real and photos are of her. She literally gave me all information about her, I know her real name, and all background checks come clear and what she says in her profile is 100% true. She told me that she had one arrangement before and he gave her 600 ppm. When I asked about how much time we can spend, she gave me two options, either meet in the afternoon and spend few hours or meet after 7 pm and spend the night. She didn't give different rates for these options. For few hours, I would have definitely given her 400. I am wondering rather than negotiating the ppm just go for 600 for overnight. Based on the conversation so far, everything is super smooth and she seems to be a very nice girl. Just wanted put this scenario to you guys and get the feedback if I could have done something differently. I am tempted to go for 600 overnight (and I can afford it based on my budget if I limit to 4 meet ups per month).
Play safe.
Dr. S.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Leep12;6957502]This girl sounds like a semi pro. I never talked about time / hours / overnight extras. If the girl doesn't like you enough to sleep over when you offer then forget it. I would just tell them we are going to blank Hotel and tell her I'm spending the night there. Would be cool if you want to stay over also. I never pushed it on the first date / meeting.[/QUOTE]Leep has the right of it. You shouldn't compare SBs to escorts. If you're thinking of $/ hr then just go ahead and get an escort and skip the hassle and monthly membership fee for SBs. I'm paying for a DATE not for a certain amount of time. The date may consist of a couple of hours, or it could mean they stay overnight. But NEVER, EVER think you need to pay extra for more time. That's just escort / john thinking. Don't let yourself get conned into thinking like a John.
She is nice and has a nice apartment. But she wants you to get in and get out. She used her mouth less than a minute and started asking if I was ready. I said no, keep going, and she wouldn't keep a rhythm—kept stopping and spitting. Then after a couple minutes she started complaining that her mouth hurt and she was dizzy and all kinds of other stuff. I couldn't even get hard, so I left. Her breath is just terrible.
[QUOTE=BumbaCloth;6861120]Any info on her?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c739077a-2db3-430d-bfb5-35f8050ecba3[/URL][/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Drew75;6959691]She is nice and has a nice apartment. But she wants you to get in and get out. She used her mouth less than a minute and started asking if I was ready. I said no, keep going, and she wouldn't keep a rhythmkept stopping and spitting. Then after a couple minutes she started complaining that her mouth hurt and she was dizzy and all kinds of other stuff. I couldn't even get hard, so I left. Her breath is just terrible.[/QUOTE]I couldn't even get past the texting stage with her. I asked for a meet and greet beforehand (part of my weed out strategy), and she wouldn't go for it. Just wanted in and out. I bailed after a few texts.
Thank you all who responded to my post. I scheduled a coffee meet with her this Friday evening. Depending on the vibe I get in person, I will decide on going on for overnight or not. So far all the vibes I am getting are very very positive. She didn't mention about the ppm anymore and I didn't ask either. My gut says this is going to go well. But I will of course try to use my big head. LOL. I will report back the outcome.
Play safe.
Dr. S.
It tells me I have to purchase with bitcoin and contact support.
Hey gents -.
I've never tried the SB approach. I'm wondering if you guys post pics on your profile or share them with SBs? I prefer to remain very discreet. So wouldn't want to share pics until we do a video chat. Is that even worth it? Or will I not get any decent responses to my initial inquiries without a pic to post or share?
DM is ok too. I appreciate your advice!
[QUOTE=LuvitAtl;6960587]Hey gents -.
I've never tried the SB approach. I'm wondering if you guys post pics on your profile or share them with SBs? I prefer to remain very discreet. So wouldn't want to share pics until we do a video chat. Is that even worth it? Or will I not get any decent responses to my initial inquiries without a pic to post or share?
DM is ok too. I appreciate your advice![/QUOTE]I used to have very blurry pics, but Seeking seems to not allow that anymore. My suggestion is to do a photo search and find someone that isn't famous, but has somewhat similar age and physical characteristics. You can sometimes get lucky and find someone that has multiple pictures you can use. I will share a real pic once we start chatting off the site, but make sure it's not a pic you have ever used online just to make image searching a little harder. Most women are not surprised when a guy doesn't use real pics, but I have had a couple of instances where they were pissed and ended it as soon as I told them.
[QUOTE=Drew75;6959691]She is nice and has a nice apartment. But she wants you to get in and get out. She used her mouth less than a minute and started asking if I was ready. I said no, keep going, and she wouldn't keep a rhythmkept stopping and spitting. Then after a couple minutes she started complaining that her mouth hurt and she was dizzy and all kinds of other stuff. I couldn't even get hard, so I left. Her breath is just terrible.[/QUOTE]You're the second or third person that said she's an in & out bandit and a complainer either you're taking too long to bust or you're going too hard. Plus her pics are outdated someone else said.
[QUOTE=LuvitAtl;6960587]Hey gents -.
I've never tried the SB approach. I'm wondering if you guys post pics on your profile or share them with SBs? I prefer to remain very discreet. So wouldn't want to share pics until we do a video chat. Is that even worth it? Or will I not get any decent responses to my initial inquiries without a pic to post or share?
DM is ok too. I appreciate your advice![/QUOTE]I agree with 2 me. Think you would be at a big disadvantage without any pics, these girls complain about all the fakes etc. Many will think you are a waste of time.
I used my own pics on SA. I did use some "borrowed" photos for a Tender dating account. Find someone reasonably close to your look and build.
It's not easy, I ended up stealing some FB photos from a guy I went to HS with. I figured no harm since we aren't in the same state.
[QUOTE=Lookinatl;6958082]This girl stole from me. She can't be trusted and you shouldn't put any money time or effort into her. Pussy is also loose.[/QUOTE]Good to know as I have been talking with her for a year or so and was looking to have her to my place overnight (with cash and some valuables locked in my gun safe). I will now delete her.
Update on this. I met her on Friday. She looked even better in person and the vibe was so good, I had no hesitation to go for the overnight. I have been on the sugar hobby for more than 5 years, and have taken closer to 100 girls to FC. Hands down this is the best experience of all. She was all I wanted from a SB. Easy to get alone, clean, and great sex. After 3 rounds, I was so tired I fell asleep. Then 2 rounds in the morning. She left around 10 AM. Never mentioned about the ppm again. But I gave 600. Worth every penny. After 5 minutes I got the text thanking me and and wanting to see me again soon. That tells me she was happy with the allowance. Keep up the hopes, good girls are out there, but I know it is hard to find them.
Play safe.
Dr. S.
[QUOTE=DrSummer;6960198]Thank you all who responded to my post. I scheduled a coffee meet with her this Friday evening. Depending on the vibe I get in person, I will decide on going on for overnight or not. So far all the vibes I am getting are very very positive. She didn't mention about the ppm anymore and I didn't ask either. My gut says this is going to go well. But I will of course try to use my big head. LOL. I will report back the outcome.
Play safe.
Dr. S.[/QUOTE]
Has anyone tried? Is she real?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f79ecfb1-50af-4037-8247-23589e4013d3[/URL]
[QUOTE=HKGuy;6965189]Has anyone tried? Is she real?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f79ecfb1-50af-4037-8247-23589e4013d3[/URL][/QUOTE]Check post #14537 [URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?14265-quot-Sugar-Babies-quot-and-quot-Arrangements-quot&p=6958082&viewfull=1#post6958082[/URL].
She's a thief.
[QUOTE=ChristianTroy;6965321]Check post #14537 [URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?14265-quot-Sugar-Babies-quot-and-quot-Arrangements-quot&p=6958082&viewfull=1#post6958082[/URL].
She's a thief.[/QUOTE]Thanks. You saved me.
Visiting Atlanta for few days have a meeting lined up with this one says her name is S-L looks like she been around for a minute any info will be greatly appreciated.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/64ee6cff-7351-48cf-b7d8-1a106f688f85[/URL]
[QUOTE=LittleMonster;6965787]Visiting Atlanta for few days have a meeting lined up with this one says her name is S-L looks like she been around for a minute any info will be greatly appreciated.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/64ee6cff-7351-48cf-b7d8-1a106f688f85[/URL][/QUOTE]I just messaged her as well and would like to know how it goes if you go through with it.
[QUOTE=DrSummer;6964823]Update on this. I met her on Friday. She looked even better in person and the vibe was so good, I had no hesitation to go for the overnight.[/QUOTE]Thanks for posting the update. It sounds like you've found a really good one that checks all your boxes, congrats!! There are definitely some high quality women out there waiting to be found on the SB sites if you have the patience to find them (and the game to catch them when you do)! I know for my part the experiences I've had have surpassed all of my expectations and then some. Good luck with your new girl and keep us updated!
JD.
I've seen her a few times over the last year. She's very sweet, very thin with fake boobs but a pretty good lay. When I saw her she hosted at her place which was nice.
[QUOTE=LittleMonster;6965787]Visiting Atlanta for few days have a meeting lined up with this one says her name is S-L looks like she been around for a minute any info will be greatly appreciated.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/64ee6cff-7351-48cf-b7d8-1a106f688f85[/URL][/QUOTE]
Thanks JD. You bring up a good point, patience. My experience in the hobby / mongering spans more than a decade. In the hay days of backpage, I was doing back to back 15 min QVs for 40 a pop. After a close call, I decided to quit that life forever, and focused solely on sugar since then. I have met great girls over the years, made happy memories, great sex, can't complain at all. While it could be my luck, I believe my approach and certain rules I follow religiously help me finding the girls I look for. I wanted to share some of those if that helps anyone.
First, I am looking for an SB, not a hooker or a PRO (I know, you are going to say they all are hookers, they are not exclusive, I get it). I don't expect them to be exclusive, but I don't want them fucking 5 guys in a raw one day. I am after certain type of girls. My target age group is 20-30. College girls, graduate students, professionals who are not doing this out of desperation, but to have some supplemental income. Not a big fan of single moms. In my early screening I weed out all others.
I guess certain aspects of myself gives me an edge in this game. First, I am divorced and single, no SO. This gives me freedom. While I am over 60, I am in good physical and mental shape. I am no George Clooney in any stretch of imagination, but I take care of myself well, appearance, health and manners. Clean shaven, makes sure my teeth, nails, hair etc in good shape. Although I like casual clothes, I present myself well, I guess. Not just first meet up, every meet, I take time to prepare for every meet up so that the girl finds me attractive. My profession is considered somewhat prestigious, that may help too (I don't bring it up with them first unless they ask). Basically I project myself to girls that I could be a long term, stable, and safe SD for them.
Few rules I follow. Always meet up for a coffee before heading to FC, no direct hotel visits. No money exchanged (under no circumstance whatsoever) until panties hit the floor. Only ask her if she is open for intimacy before we meet for coffee, but I don't go into details like how many pops, sex acts, covered or not etc. Allowance will be discussed if they are adamant, but only vaguely. Always ppm, no monthly allowance. I don't treat the girl as a piece of meet. Being respectful, friendly, and funny go a long way. But, I don't try to be a simp. I will be assertive, and no-nonsense when needed.
Regarding patience, I always have one or two girls in rotation, so I go to a meet up with a new girl not in a position of desperation, but more in an adventurous mood. Girls sense that so they are not going to play games with me. I am always ready to walk away if something doesn't feel right. Once I find the right girl, I treat them well, and seal the deal quickly. Typically the coffee will be followed by a dinner at a good restaurant, then fun in a hotel room. I spent money on a good hotel room not trying to be cheap (at least Hilton, Holiday In level, not Motel 6).
Hope this information is of some help to you guys. But, I have to tell you, finding a good SB is much harder these days. It is a numbers game. Before COVID, I would find a good match after messaging about 10 to 20 girls. Now it takes at least 100 girls. Yes, it is lots of work. But once you find them, it is a blast. If you have time and energy, you can do it. Don't give up.
Play Safe.
Dr. S.
[QUOTE=JoyDrop;6966635]Thanks for posting the update. It sounds like you've found a really good one that checks all your boxes, congrats!!
JD.[/QUOTE]
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Regarding patience, I always have one or two girls in rotation, so I go to a meet up with a new girl not in a position of desperation, but more in an adventurous mood. Girls sense that so they are not going to play games with me. I am always ready to walk away if something doesn't feel right. Once I find the right girl, I treat them well, and seal the deal quickly. Typically the coffee will be followed by a dinner at a good restaurant, then fun in a hotel room. I spent money on a good hotel room not trying to be cheap (at least Hilton, Holiday In level, not Motel 6).
Hope this information is of some help to you guys. But, I have to tell you, finding a good SB is much harder these days. It is a numbers game. Before COVID, I would find a good match after messaging about 10 to 20 girls. Now it takes at least 100 girls. Yes, it is lots of work. But once you find them, it is a blast. If you have time and energy, you can do it. Don't give up.
Play Safe.
Dr. S.[/QUOTE]Damn, I'm shocked by this. I was active on Secrets and SDM last year and had no shortage of women in Atlanta anxious to meet me. I'm in my 60's as well and would gravitate to the slender black ladies that were in the 6-8 range. Most were less than 30 and worked. I did not split hairs about their educational background. Seems as if 3. 50 was getting it done with relieable ladies that would show up on time at the hotel, warm me up, go have dinner, and return for a finish. They put in a good effort and about 4 hours of time. The drive eventually just killed me coming from SC. I'm searching up this way now and had a M&G last night. 5'5' 130, black, student, 25, pretty, good figure, and could do all that I requested. Give her an 8 in looks. She said her car payment is 4. 75 so that's what she needs for a PPM. In my market I don't think she's far off but damn, I miss the Atlanta pricing. Just so competitve. Needless to say, with dinner and a room I'm well over 7. 0 Might have to drag my eldery ass back to ATL but your scaring me with this 1 in hundred thing. I'm not as particular, so maybe it's a non issue for me. Can you share what your PPM is for your 1 in 100 lady and give a rough estimate of how you would rate her looks? Appreciate your well thought out post. I don't mind spending, but just like to get a good value for what I spend. Thanks.