Mandy is Dandy But Not Worth the Drive
[QUOTE=Joenct;4038216]Was going to be in the providence area so I gave mandy a call, didn't pick up on Fri. Tried again on sat and she picked up. After some back and forth she said she would be available after 2:30 so I headed towards the area she lived got there and called about 2:20 and never heard back total waste of time.[/QUOTE]Tried to reach her 4 times and on the 5th time we finally connected. All the reviews were accurate, and I hoped that after we met she'd pick up my calls and be easier to schedule an appointment with. I tried to see her again about a week later and we planned a time and when I was halfway there she texted me to cancel. I was disappointed but at least I hadn't made the full drive (50 minutes). It took 3 more tries to schedule again, and this time I arrived at her location and she never responded to my text. She was in with another client or she was chowing down on lunch or she was partaking of some questionable substances. . . I don't care. If I happen to be her area again, sure, I'll call and try to go see her, but I'd have to be a darn, desperate fool to drive more than five minutes out of my way to spend some time with No-Answer Mandy.
Just my 2 cents.
Adobe.
Ask Her No Questions and She'll Tell You No Lies
[QUOTE=AtomicfFuzzy;4042548]I texted her and she told me that BBFS is on the menu. However, when I then asked if she was clean she didn't answer and turned it around on me "are YOU clean?" and then told me to find another girl. I guess dodged a bullet there? Take this how you may.[/QUOTE]I'm just curious about why guys bother to ask. If she's providing BBFS to you, she's providing it to other guys, too. If the guy she saw two days ago gave her a disease, she wouldn't know it anyway, and you could still catch it. If she's letting guys Spunkmeyer into her Otis, she's not as clean as providers who insist on a cover. If she's taking that risk herself, she's not likely to be honest with you about whether or not she's clean anyway. If you're her and you're feeding a habit, you'll lie to guys to get their do-re-mi, right? And if she's not clean at the moment and she's still taking clients, well, she's the kind of person who would lie anyway, right? If she says she's not clean, that's probably the truth, but if she tells you she's clean, why on earth would you believe her, or any provider? Can you imagine asking a girl if she's clean and hearing her answer, "Well, no, now that you mention it, I should probably visit the clinic to pick up some antibiotics. I'm so sorry for wasting your time. I meant to remove my ad. Can I offer you a free HJ because of the way I misled you?
I mean. . . Do you also ask girls if they can get pregnant if you Spunkmeyer into their Otis? If so, get ready to become a Papa Smurf one day soon, and to pay child support.
Seriously, some providers might not take offense at the question and might calmly lie to you, or if they've just seen a clinic, tell you the truth. . . But a lot of gals would bristle at the implication that just because they're offering you a service that you are specifically looking for, they're the only ones who might be unclean.
I don't understand why anyone would even bother to ask that question, because an answer of "Yes, I am," is as unreliable as a three-dollar bill.
Just my 2 cents.
Adobe.
Red Head Woonsocket. No Show.
[QUOTE=RobVodka;4043432]I had a date scheduled with her but fell victim to standard escort sketchiness. We agreed on a time, then about 10 minutes before she was supposed to be here, I get a text saying she's about ready to leave and would feel better if she could talk to me as she was afraid I was going to cancel on her once she drove to my hotel (oh the irony) I called and said I wasn't going to cancel provided that she leave then and let me know how long it was going to take. She wanted my room number as a guarantee, which I declined to give and explained this exact scherio. We had an agreement that she going to text me when she arrived and I would give the room number. And hour and a half later I sent her a text saying forget it and this is why I don't give room numbers and guys cancel on her! Some providers just can't get out of their own way.[/QUOTE]Can you elaborate more on your method for giving out your room number. I realize that you're trying to limit your exposure to a set-up. But there has to be more to your method. What happens if she doesn't shows up, but calls you anyway at the time that you are expecting her and says that she has arrived and wants your room number? Are you going to give it to her? But regardless, what's the point?. Do you think that she's collecting room numbers. If she's legit, she has the same concerns about you gaming her, so why not give her the room number ahead of time? If you are worried about her setting you up, then perhaps you've not done enough research to validate her and you shouldn't have contacted her and made a date. I'm not trying to start an argument. Your concerns are valid and I've had them too. Just trying to understand your method. Also, did she tell you her name? Maybe we can do some more research if we have a name to go with her ad.