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[QUOTE=BubbaLove;5190664]I appreciate both of your takes. They offer a viewpoint from the opposite ends of the approach spectrum, and I guess the trick I will adopt is using a sort of happy medium between those two. I already took two conversations to text and told them both right away I want to hook up for cash. I offered 200 to hopefully be countered at 300, but they both quoted 500. That is higher than I expected. Is this a normal rate for an hour? I have gone through plenty of pros, so I'm familiar with those rates. And based on my experience 500 should only be an amount you're going to pay if you're sure that chick is going to rock your world.

Another thing I should mention is that my search radius is between SLO and Santa Barbara, which I imagine is quite different to LA in terms of bargaining and the type of girls. There isn't much feedback for those area's forums so I posted here. I went to this site to try and get at those more fresh college chicks, as opposed to the typical escort on PD and the like. The college chicks in this area are unreal, but likely a bit more on the conservative end. Appreciate both of you.[/QUOTE]Make offers to about 50 girls. That may sound like a lot. But trust me its the way to do it. It shouldn't take more than a month. Make 2 a day. You should have at least 5 done deals out of that at a price you are happy with. You need to get in the groove of making offers and the back and forth. Forget about which ones or when you will actually meet up. It will all come together with this approach fast enough.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;5191185]Make offers to about 50 girls. That may sound like a lot. But trust me its the way to do it. It shouldn't take more than a month. Make 2 a day. You should have at least 5 done deals out of that at a price you are happy with. You need to get in the groove of making offers and the back and forth. Forget about which ones or when you will actually meet up. It will all come together with this approach fast enough.[/QUOTE]Thanks man. You and the other guy both eased my concerns surrounding this process. And your suggestions were sort of confirmations of my initial hunch regarding the next steps, which is encouraging. I'm looking forward to the fun.

[QUOTE=BubbaLove;5190664]I appreciate both of your takes. They offer a viewpoint from the opposite ends of the approach spectrum, and I guess the trick I will adopt is using a sort of happy medium between those two. I already took two conversations to text and told them both right away I want to hook up for cash. I offered 200 to hopefully be countered at 300, but they both quoted 500. That is higher than I expected. Is this a normal rate for an hour? I have gone through plenty of pros, so I'm familiar with those rates. And based on my experience 500 should only be an amount you're going to pay if you're sure that chick is going to rock your world.

Another thing I should mention is that my search radius is between SLO and Santa Barbara, which I imagine is quite different to LA in terms of bargaining and the type of girls. There isn't much feedback for those area's forums so I posted here. I went to this site to try and get at those more fresh college chicks, as opposed to the typical escort on PD and the like. The college chicks in this area are unreal, but likely a bit more on the conservative end. Appreciate both of you.[/QUOTE]I agree with HGuy, you'll need to shoot out a bunch of offers before you find a couple of good deals. Also yes, 400-500 is about the going rate on a sugar baby platform. Most of these girls sign up there under the misconception that the guys there are all wealthy businessmen who have nothing better to do than spoil them with gold and diamonds. That's why I said mentally prepare yourself to get some nasty replies when you hit them with 300 and under rates, ignore / block those GPS brats and move on. I have to be honest, I gave up on the SB scene personally because it was too hard to find what I wanted at the rate I wanted, so yea you'll have to be diligent.

[QUOTE=GoodBoy88;5191359]I agree with HGuy, you'll need to shoot out a bunch of offers before you find a couple of good deals. Also yes, 400-500 is about the going rate on a sugar baby platform. Most of these girls sign up there under the misconception that the guys there are all wealthy businessmen who have nothing better to do than spoil them with gold and diamonds. That's why I said mentally prepare yourself to get some nasty replies when you hit them with 300 and under rates, ignore / block those GPS brats and move on. I have to be honest, I gave up on the SB scene personally because it was too hard to find what I wanted at the rate I wanted, so yea you'll have to be diligent.[/QUOTE]Another thing I would like to know is whether or not LE is anything to worry about on this site? I assume the girls have to pay for their membership and get verified. I've been discussing sex explicitly over text and realized that might have been a naive slip-up.

[QUOTE=BubbaLove;5192110]Another thing I would like to know is whether or not LE is anything to worry about on this site? I assume the girls have to pay for their membership and get verified. I've been discussing sex explicitly over text and realized that might have been a naive slip-up.[/QUOTE]No, there's zero LE involved with that platform or any platform like it. Never has been, never will be. The reason is obvious, it's too long winded (aka costly) of an endeavor to try to net one guy or girl at a time in that way and the case wouldn't hold water anyway because at it's core it's still a dating platform so even the worst attorney would get a the case dismissed on the basis that you were just giving a gift to your girlfriend and that you also happen to be sexual partners. The only time to think about LE is when trying to pick up SW's right off the street, where cops can watch you do it from a distance make a quick bust on the spot. Also on rare occasion they might run an escort ad on some cheap escort directory, showing a girl that looks ridiculously hot at some stupidly low price with a full BBFS menu, available 24 hrs and always an incall to a motel and always only available for meet one a specific date between some specific hours (of course they aren't open to scheduling other days because they have to have an entire sting squad prepared and are only setup for 1 night). The intention there is net several knuckleheads in a single sting using the same motel room, it's so obvious that you could smell it a mile away and again that's VERY rare. Despite what TV says, there isn't a huge budget or interest in vice operations.

[QUOTE=GoodBoy88;5192903]No, there's zero LE involved with that platform or any platform like it. Never has been, never will be. The reason is obvious, it's too long winded (aka costly) of an endeavor to try to net one guy or girl at a time in that way and the case wouldn't hold water anyway because at it's core it's still a dating platform so even the worst attorney would get a the case dismissed on the basis that you were just giving a gift to your girlfriend and that you also happen to be sexual partners. The only time to think about LE is when trying to pick up SW's right off the street, where cops can watch you do it from a distance make a quick bust on the spot. Also on rare occasion they might run an escort ad on some cheap escort directory, showing a girl that looks ridiculously hot at some stupidly low price with a full BBFS menu, available 24 hrs and always an incall to a motel and always only available for meet one a specific date between some specific hours (of course they aren't open to scheduling other days because they have to have an entire sting squad prepared and are only setup for 1 night). The intention there is net several knuckleheads in a single sting using the same motel room, it's so obvious that you could smell it a mile away and again that's VERY rare. Despite what TV says, there isn't a huge budget or interest in vice operations.[/QUOTE]That makes sense. I've never been paranoid about cops when I go to see chicks from PD, but it has crossed my mind at times that seem kinda seedy. It feels great that now there's absolutely nothing to worry about. Also, after just a few days I have 4 chicks who are DTF right off the bat. I'm in my mid-twenties and attractive, and I wasn't sure if that would play to my advantage or have the opposite effect. Not sure if it has much to do with the response, but regardless it's working. Thanks for the guidance, I really appreciate it.

[QUOTE=GoodBoy88;5192903]No, there's zero LE involved with that platform or any platform like it. Never has been, never will be. The reason is obvious, it's too long winded (aka costly) of an endeavor to try to net one guy or girl at a time in that way and the case wouldn't hold water anyway because at it's core it's still a dating platform so even the worst attorney would get a the case dismissed on the basis that you were just giving a gift to your girlfriend and that you also happen to be sexual partners. The only time to think about LE is when trying to pick up SW's right off the street, where cops can watch you do it from a distance make a quick bust on the spot. Also on rare occasion they might run an escort ad on some cheap escort directory, showing a girl that looks ridiculously hot at some stupidly low price with a full BBFS menu, available 24 hrs and always an incall to a motel and always only available for meet one a specific date between some specific hours (of course they aren't open to scheduling other days because they have to have an entire sting squad prepared and are only setup for 1 night). The intention there is net several knuckleheads in a single sting using the same motel room, it's so obvious that you could smell it a mile away and again that's VERY rare. Despite what TV says, there isn't a huge budget or interest in vice operations.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BubbaLove;5195065]That makes sense. I've never been paranoid about cops when I go to see chicks from PD, but it has crossed my mind at times that seem kinda seedy. It feels great that now there's absolutely nothing to worry about. Also, after just a few days I have 4 chicks who are DTF right off the bat. I'm in my mid-twenties and attractive, and I wasn't sure if that would play to my advantage or have the opposite effect. Not sure if it has much to do with the response, but regardless it's working. Thanks for the guidance, I really appreciate it.[/QUOTE]I would take any legal advice or thoughts about LE involvement you get on a hooker board with a grain of salt. I've seen reports on this very forum about a guy getting pinned by a police chick when they went back to the car to complete the transaction after an M&G.

I've seen other reports outside of this site of guys enticed by girls who start out saying they are 18 or 19, then declaring they are 17 just before the meet. Good chance that's LEO trying to snatch molesters.

Safer than straight-up mongering, but I wouldn't run headlong into it as if there are zero risks of being arrested. Good luck.

[QUOTE=RogerOver;5195659]I would take any legal advice or thoughts about LE involvement you get on a hooker board with a grain of salt. I've seen reports on this very forum about a guy getting pinned by a police chick when they went back to the car to complete the transaction after an M&G.

I've seen other reports outside of this site of guys enticed by girls who start out saying they are 18 or 19, then declaring they are 17 just before the meet. Good chance that's LEO trying to snatch molesters.

Safer than straight-up mongering, but I wouldn't run headlong into it as if there are zero risks of being arrested. Good luck.[/QUOTE]How can a police chick do anything to a guy for simply meeting someone? I assume she didn't fuck him. That sounds like bullshit.

[QUOTE=BubbaLove;5196563]How can a police chick do anything to a guy for simply meeting someone? I assume she didn't fuck him. That sounds like bullshit.[/QUOTE]I'm not a lawyer or the person that posted the event. But go tell a policewoman that you'll give her $200 bucks for some pussy and see what happens. In fact, be extra clever and call it "sugar" or something like that. Head to the car or FC to do the deed. Let us know if it's bullshit.

[QUOTE=RogerOver;5196649]I'm not a lawyer or the person that posted the event. But go tell a policewoman that you'll give her $200 bucks for some pussy and see what happens. In fact, be extra clever and call it "sugar" or something like that. Head to the car or FC to do the deed. Let us know if it's bullshit.[/QUOTE]I'd like to believe cops have much better things to do than arrest an adult paying for legal age pussy. Make it legal already.

[QUOTE=BubbaLove;5196563]How can a police chick do anything to a guy for simply meeting someone? I assume she didn't fuck him. That sounds like bullshit.[/QUOTE]It absolutely is true that communicating with someone you know to be underage for the purpose of meeting them is illegal. There have been comments on this thread in the past about this by the guru, HG. I *always* ask that a girl promise me that she is at least 18 very very early in the messaging phase, that's even before I exchange contact info and try to get them to message off the site. Sometimes they volunteer the social media to prove themselves, or say I can see their license. IF they go poof, well, that's a good indicator there wasn't something right. IK one dynamic on this site is older / younger, and many guys here have done the half to one-third their age girls, but heck, 19 is plenty young for me (and YK she may have said that but really been 23 - I can't judge age too well anymore), I have no need to dip dangerously close to jail. Anyway, there's plenty of quality young puss on SA, there's no need to tread even slightly onto anything suspect.

Hot as blazes. . . [url]https://www.seeking.com/member/7f180af6-ad05-4698-b374-cdad644e5c23[/url]

But, wants to bring a friend. I've tried this several times, every time thinking "It will be different this time" . . . NEVER works out. Dealing with two is beyond my capability. Even tried charming the friend more than the SB, just seems to be a dead end.

Thoughts?

[QUOTE=RanManCan;5200368]Hot as blazes. . . [url]https://www.seeking.com/member/7f180af6-ad05-4698-b374-cdad644e5c23[/url]

But, wants to bring a friend. I've tried this several times, every time thinking "It will be different this time" . . . NEVER works out. Dealing with two is beyond my capability. Even tried charming the friend more than the SB, just seems to be a dead end.

Thoughts?[/QUOTE]So the 3 of you are going to have an online arrangement? Because this is what her profile says:

"I am seeking a preferably online based relationship, where we can fill one another's expectations"!

[QUOTE=RanManCan;5200368]Hot as blazes. . . [url]https://www.seeking.com/member/7f180af6-ad05-4698-b374-cdad644e5c23[/url]

But, wants to bring a friend. I've tried this several times, every time thinking "It will be different this time" . . . NEVER works out. Dealing with two is beyond my capability. Even tried charming the friend more than the SB, just seems to be a dead end.

Thoughts?[/QUOTE]The only time two at a time has worked out for me is if they were in separate rooms.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;5200595]The only time two at a time has worked out for me is if they were in separate rooms.[/QUOTE]I should clarify. . .

1. They are asking if their friend is coming as more of a chaperone "for safety reasons", not to participate. . . But still wants them to participate in the convo.

2. I'm being a little hard on myself with "beyond my capability" . . . I've done this just fine in civvy life (meet two women at a bar, take one home). It just seems to me that POTs who insist on bringing a chaperone who does anything more than sit in the car is just too scared to actually be an SB.