This is a cool subject Stressed Out!
So everyone, what makes a guy happy? Do tell!
I found this link I thought would interest everyone
[URL]http://generalstrikeusa.wordpress.com/2014/03/08/how-to-beat-backpage-prostitution-police-stings-for-dummies/[/URL]
I was wondering about something
If a lawyer who's also a hobbyist would possibly take on the legalization or decriminalization of sex work. What would that involve exactly?
Actually now that I think of it
I wonder how many hobbyists and / or escorts would donate for such a cause and is it feasible?
Legalizing prostitution or sex for a fee
[QUOTE=Deb4512;2136792]If a lawyer who's also a hobbyist would possibly take on the legalization or decriminalization of sex work. What would that involve exactly?[/QUOTE]You would need to change the laws that we have to legalize it.
I Ottawa Ontario Canada three sex worker's took the law to the Supreme court
It's not possible to do it that way? I was just curious. I think that the law infringes on our civil liberties.
[URL]myredbook.com[/URL] shutdown by FBI
I went there this morning as they index and have search capability second to none. Navigating to the root of the domain, there is an ominous FBI / IRS warning of seizure. You may not want to go there lest your address is logged in this 1984 police state. This article screenshots their new homepage.
[URL]http://www.sfgate.com/crime/article/Shutdown-of-MyRedbook-com-sparks-legal-debate-5588516.php[/URL]
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Another interesting topic. I want some input from you guys
An escort friend of mine. Practically the only one I've met that seems to be emotionally stable LOL. Anyway she called me yesterday. This is her question and dilemma. She has a client who she likes and he likes her as well. She is considering dating him! What do all of you think about this. Do you think it can work? Also have any of you dated an escort, where you met them as a client? What are your experiences?
What the three escorts did was take their argument for legalization
To the Canadian supreme court using the constitution I suppose. It's our right to use our bodies as we see fit, I'm pretty sure which is supported by the constitution. Is the government allowed to take ownership of our bodies? If a woman can have an abortion she should be able to sell her body as well, right? Isn't it the same thing? Also there is no victim. Prostitution is a victimless crime if it's between consenting adults. How could the supreme court argue. Don't they have to back up the criminalizing of prostitution with the constitution as a guide? What argument could they use? Obviously there's a difference between human trafficking and sex between consenting adults. After all it's not illegal to be a **** right? What's the difference when there's money involved? What argument could they use to keep sex work criminalized? I'd like your thoughts and opinions please. Isn't this what gay people did to gain the right to be able to marry and to be treated equally and fairly? Isn't it the same thing? It's a lame law and it doesn't make one bit of sense.
The right to own our bodies
WHAT ABOUT THE PRIVACY OF MY BODY?
What you do or don't do with your body is your personal business. If you need to have a pregnancy test, or if you're pregnant, you should go to the family planning clinic nearest you. Your local ACLU can help you find one. Some schools provide birth control supplies; find out if yours does. If you go to the doctor, find out what the doctor's policy is on telling your parents.
It's your constitutional right to have an abortion. You don't even have to tell your boyfriend about it if you don't want to. However, some states require women under the age of 18 to get their parents' permission, or at least tell them about the abortion. But if you can't tell your parents, you have a right to go to court and ask the judge to drop the parental notification requirement in your particular case.
Reproductive rights is a very serious issue, and groups like the ACLU are working hard to make sure no woman or girl loses her rights to a safe and legal abortion if she decides to have one.
The government owns our bodies if someone is in the military
I understand that. And I'd understand if it were illegal to be a ****, then there's no case for the legalization of prostitution. But it's not illegal to sleep around, right? Money changing hands for service rendered isn't illegal either. What argument can anyone use that would support criminalizing sex work?
Read this and tell me what you think?
[URL]http://www.buildfreedom.com/tl/wua2.shtml[/URL]
Sorry for over posting, but this is important
The right to privacy:
Have your civil liberties been violated?
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Why Everyone Should be Concerned By the Seizure of [URL]MyRedBook.Com[/URL]
[URL]https://www.eff.org/deeplinks/2014/07/whose-redbook-why-everyone-should-be-concerned-seizure-myredbookcom[/URL]
Only if you saw calif providers mostly
[QUOTE=VictoryRecord;2139681][URL]https://www.eff.org/deeplinks/2014/07/whose-redbook-why-everyone-should-be-concerned-seizure-myredbookcom[/URL][/QUOTE]If you did then you might change your email and phone, but them having your contact info is not against anything. But just not to be contact by them you might want to change.
Re: Another interesting topic. I want some input from you guys
[QUOTE=Deb4512;2138814]An escort friend of mine. Practically the only one I've met that seems to be emotionally stable LOL. Anyway she called me yesterday. This is her question and dilemma. She has a client who she likes and he likes her as well. She is considering dating him! What do all of you think about this. Do you think it can work? Also have any of you dated an escort, where you met them as a client? What are your experiences?[/QUOTE]It works on some level. But! It seldom works as what most people would consider a normal man, woman or husband, wife relationship.
[INDENT] 1. Often an older gentleman will meet and girl, on the down side of her prime. They will form a relationship where she can get out of her former business. However, if she has no real skills, cannot cook and clean house and has no means of supporting herself the relationship slides down a slippery slope to its doom. Often the relationship works where the girl is actually acting as care giver to a gentleman of slight means.[/INDENT]
[INDENT]2. Then there is the worse. Guy meets girl, she is the bomb. She is beautiful, everything he has ever wanted in a women and the sex is mind blowing. She likes him. He has the means and desire to take her to that respectable level all young girls dream able.
The problem is; what he fell in love with was her GFE, the mind blowing blow job, her willingness to satisfy his every sexual need. Since she has been working out of hotels and bedrooms most of her young life. She has no idea how to run a home. Her diet of fast foods and takeout means he can forget breakfast, lunch and dinners cook at home. Love does not survive well on fried eggs and cold cereal.
Away from the fast life, a couple of months down the road, she gains a little weight, maybe there is a new baby, baby fat and birthing marks. Add to all of this negativity the fact that she no longer has to give him the good GFE sex to make a living or survive. The sex is normal. The hardest part of any relationship is living pass the honeymoon.
Suddenly, that good guy starts to wish he could exchange his wife and get the escort back.
Usually after a few months, maybe a year the illusion dissipates and the relationship dissolves.[/INDENT]
[INDENT] 3. There are cases where the girl comes with her own set of real skills. Maybe she is a college graduate. Maybe she owns a home. Perhaps he is mature enough to know that its whats inside a person that really matters and not pass events. In cases where the man and provider are truly aware of who and what they are and what they want to achieve and what it will take to reach their goals; they tend to make it.[/INDENT]
It all depends on the two individuals. Some relationships make it, some don't. Job descriptions don't mean a lot.
I think what you are really meaning to ask is whether a man can live with the fact that his mate once sold her body for money? Does it matter? No! It's no different than the guy who marries the lady with 6 kids and 6 baby daddies. It happens, and works. It's no different that the lady who marries the guy fresh out or a 20 year jail sentence. It happens and works. It depends on the people.
CookyJar.
P.S.: I'd marry you in a heartbeat. Can you cook? Not to worry, I can.
New topic and a suggestion
[QUOTE=Deb4512;2135526]So everyone, what makes a guy happy? Do tell![/QUOTE]I wonder how many other mongers share my desire for a table shower or even just a shower that either the escort provides or a mutual shower. I enjoy being washed by a nice sexy woman, and having spent time with Deb, I can't think of a woman I would rather receive a shower from.
What do you think about providing this service, Deb?
What do you other guys out there think about it, would you want a shower either before or after your visit? Prefer mutual shower or the girl washing you?
Deb, I am certain you could do a fantastic job providing a shower. It's a nice start to a visit, insures the guy is nice and clean and provides him with a nice sensuous beginning, so it should be a win-win all around.
OP.